Has anyone here done vocal or speaking lessons?

CrushHazard · 2016-03-16T15:06:54+00:00

Yes, yes and yes. It helps more than you could ever imagine.

NinjaOfTheSea · 2016-03-16T15:38:38+00:00

Toastmasters. Look up your local chapter.

AldoTheeApache · 2016-03-17T01:14:34+00:00

Haven't done either, but I have taken improv classes. As someone whose had speaking issues in the past, improv really taught me to not only vocalise better, but to think on my toes and develop rapport. Highly reccomend.

crz650 · 2016-03-16T18:19:29+00:00

TOASTMASTERS! TOASTMASTERS! TOASTMASTERS!!!!

nick_storm · 2016-03-16T19:52:20+00:00

Yes! You should hear my folkin around by Panic! at the Disco. Worth it.

Emine_Always · 2016-03-16T16:34:00+00:00

As a guy that doesn't have the money for that, I'll lend my tips:

I started getting more comfortable talking to people after I picked a friend I had a lot in common with, so we have a lot to talk about. Get on a conversation topic you know, something to get you started (try an pick a friend with with a no judge zone). I went from there, started hanging out with him a lot, then once I got me comfortable, I started hanging out with a female friend of mine and started talking about things we had in common, world events, ect. Just to give my honest thoughts on them. Fast forward 2 years after all this, and I feel completely comfortable starting a conversation with just about anyone. I work as a barista and my coworkers actually make jokes about how social I've become and how easy it is for me to talk to people.

I'm not saying this will work for everyone, but the average decent looking Joe such as myself might find this helpful.

Best of luck out there guys, I've got a date tonight.

CaptainHowdyPants · 2016-03-16T19:52:00+00:00

Reason I ask is cuz I've been a singer since I was 16 years old and taken pro lessons etc... but I always spoke kinda softly and it finally clicked that I should be using this skillset to meet women. I've been having a TON of success with it. I was ordering a sandwich and out of the corner of my eye, every woman (there were about 6) kinda perked up and looked.

I was curious if this was a fluke, phenomenon or if anyone else had similar experiences.

HellhoundsOnMyTrail · 2016-03-16T20:09:56+00:00

Does speech therapy count? Because yes. And it's helped. 10/10 would recommend.

goranstoja · 2016-03-16T20:28:15+00:00

You dont want singing lessons but actor or speaker lessons that you can see and modulate, have critic of what are you doing wrong. Take student of acting buy him a drink/pizza and pratice. Dont go with books... Record your self and listen. Best set i finde was Vocing it 2DVD set. Good luck!

Title	Has anyone here done vocal or speaking lessons?
Author	CaptainHowdyPants
Upvotes	45
Comments	37
Date	March 16, 2016 2:46 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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