How do I create attraction with someone who everyone hits on from my hometown?

rocksos · 2026-07-05T13:28:29+00:00

To 'create' attraction, technically you'd use game techniques like teasing, negs, and pushpull lines. Although tbh, in my experience it doesn't actually work like how the teachers say it does.

I don't think the girls attraction is really in ones control - Mark Manson is the most recommended coach on seddit, and even he says you can't make a girl attracted

But you can certainly flirt and give compliments and break rapport and stuff. It's just that she won't flirt back if she's not into you.

United-Implement-382 · 2026-07-05T14:22:14+00:00

You can’t create attraction. Either it’s there or it’s not….

okyagotpuns · 2026-07-05T13:27:59+00:00

Some of the hottest girls ive been with were from staying in touch alot of its timing. Try to build a genuine connection and treat her like a person. Im sire shes getting hit on a bunch so try not to be mr 20 questions. I like to joke around alot and make puns while being positive. Also befriend all of these dude too. Also dont be afarid to shoot your shot.. but dont be weird if they say no. Stay friends cause shes got more friends. 1 try to be positive and fun to be around. 2 be able to talk about yourself and have some kind of passion of goals. 3 smile and dont be weird or sexual. Good luck

Key-Proud · 2026-07-05T14:44:30+00:00

Work the room and draw the attention of everyone.

- I call it "be the hot girl" game.

PrinceDestin · 2026-07-06T03:03:43+00:00

Everyone may hit on her but you will talk to her get to know her as an individual, figure out her passions and opinions on things
And try to find something in common. The more you talk and get interested as her as person she will become
More attracted to you granted you are a decent looking guy in her eyes

Attraction is built in conversation too, each conversation try to go a lil deeper and figure her out

She will gain familiarity with you and you can eventually just ask her out but I’d go for her number first and have some phone calls

GhostofTomJoadRATM · 2026-07-06T04:23:12+00:00

You need to erase the concept of “creating attraction”. This is literally the worst thing to come out of pickup.

vertascend · 2026-07-06T11:24:05+00:00

For people that are saying you can’t “create attraction”, maybe you can and maybe you can’t but you have to think of it somewhat like a sculpture; you have to chip away at the pebbles to reveal the sculpture beneath; attraction works similarly; some say that she decides that she likes you within the first 2 minutes; how do you explain the ugly guys who get with the girl; attraction may not be created but it is possible to be brought forth if there’s factors in common between people; speaking from experience…but I’m not here to argue…. Find common ground… and go from there is my advice to you buddy

ImpossibleWaiting · 2026-07-07T15:02:11+00:00

That's the wrong attitude. You have to force it. You have to be unafraid to shoot your shot and move on if it doesn't work. If you can't do that, how are you expecting to have success? You need female abundance, not a single girl's attention.

messias94 · 2026-07-05T15:26:21+00:00

Push pull, Kino

Title	How do I create attraction with someone who everyone hits on from my hometown?
Author	Best_Marzipan_7774
Upvotes	7
Comments	17
Date	July 5, 2026 1:05 PM UTC (1 month ago)
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