How to initiate touch?

Thraawaybcn · 2022-08-12T11:59:13+00:00

Here's some practical advice cos I don't know what these guys are talking about lol.

When you meet: 2x cheek kiss, hug, handshake and lightly touch the top of her arm (obviously choose one)

Going inside: let her go first and lightly touch the small of her back.

Inside: when getting up to order or go toilet touch the arm, make funny jokes and touch hand/arm when accentuating a point.

Leaving: let her go first and lightly touch the small of her back.

Saying goodbye: hug, kiss.

Sitting down on a bench: manspread. If she's into you, she'll lean in. Stroke her arm or whatever. If you feel like kissing is on the cards, lightly turn her head with a finger towards you and lean in.

Don't listen to anyone who says you must ask for permission to do any of this. The key is to not be a creep. Don't linger. Don't cop a feel. Don't touch her ass. I said small of the back lol.

You have to take charge, that's what the vast majority of women want. So escalate and make her feel wanted (and horny)

MayhemReignsTV · 2022-08-12T03:01:02+00:00

Excuse not to escalate? Why are you looking for an excuse not to? I want you to really ask yourself that because that statement is very telling. What are you afraid of? Rejection? Well, that’s a given if she starts thinking you’re chicken shit and loses respect for you. Read her eyes. When she looks at yours, get clumsy and accidentally brush her body or arms and see how she responds. If she doesn’t pull away or even prolongs the contact, you have your opening. Stroke her hand or rub her wrist. If she has you back off, do so very casually and calmly and just be patient. There will be plenty of opportunity for another opening. The only way it starts to feel natural is to do it, to answer your question.

Cookies993 · 2022-08-12T09:19:15+00:00

When you meet for the date, go for a hug to break the touch-barrier. After that just walk comfortably close to her to wherever you’re having the date, don’t force any touch here, but some might happen naturally. At the date location I usually do anything that involves natural touching, like checking out tattoos on her arm, giving compliments on her rings, allowing her to read my hand if she’s spiritual, and so on. When we’re already sitting close to each other and having fun, I can put my arm on her back when talking or showing her things. If the date is going good, you can then hold her hands, move hair away from her face, and other typical romantically touches, NOTHING directly sexual yet. After this, just do what feels natural to you.

incognito3107 · 2022-08-12T08:48:06+00:00

Touch her in a friendly way in the first place. High-fives, patting on shoulder, taking dust from her clothes, briefly taking her hand, leaning gently towards her, play some "touchy" game etc.

atomant88 · 2022-08-12T01:44:07+00:00

Ask for consent

Temporary_Pair_5829 · 2022-08-12T12:40:50+00:00

fist her vagine

sinhaanip · 2022-08-12T12:54:30+00:00

The key is calibration. Adjust to the situation. ( Variables : Duration, Touch intensity, and the place where you touch )

Gradually escalate. Made it look so mechanical.

bogues04 · 2022-08-12T21:44:22+00:00

I always try and sit beside the girl on dates way easier to initiate than sitting across from them. I usually start with letting our legs touch if she is fine with this than I escalate further.

Title	How to initiate touch?
Author	kristoll1
Upvotes	21
Comments	28
Date	August 12, 2022 1:42 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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