How to Keep a Conversation Going After a Compliment or Opener?

epimpstyle · 2025-04-29T19:32:44+00:00

It’s called TRANSITION. In most cases, it starts with a simple assumption like: "You look like an accountant because you have such long fingers, always typing at a PC / working with tons of money…."

She’ll correct you and say she’s not an accountant, and now you’ve got a subject to talk about!

"What? You’re a teacher/cashier/(whatever job)? No way! I have a friend who told me about his ex, she was also a [her job], and he said ....[insert a funny story]."

michaelangelo_12 · 2025-04-29T19:21:06+00:00

After you compliment them, introduce yourself and then ask for their name.
Say “nice to meet you,” and then have something you want to talk about with them. It could be about their day, their plans for the night, or the weekend.

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When a person is interested, they don’t care what you say. They just want you to keep talking to them.

You’ll figure out how you want your convos to flow after more reps.

For now, it’s good that you’re breaking the ice. Keep it up.

PM_Teeny_Titties · 2025-04-29T19:11:01+00:00

I forget where I learned this trick, but I went through the alphabet and assigned a topic to most letters.

A - Animals, B - Beach, C - College, etc.

If I ever felt there was a lag in conversation, I would look around the room and take the first letter from the first thing that caught my attention.

Lamp = L, Table = T, Chair = C, etc.

Then ask a question about that topic that let's you share a high-value story.

Western-Month-3877 · 2025-04-29T22:45:37+00:00

Google “branching out conversation” or you can search it in this sub.

PrinceDestin · 2025-04-29T23:07:29+00:00

Bro your meeting with a stranger, try to learn about the stranger your talking to

Most times you just need one good topic and good ear and the conversation will carry itself

Chicagoj1563 · 2025-04-30T01:12:40+00:00

Say something fun, self amusing, non serious, sarcastic, or anything along those lines. Make it playful. You will loosen up and so will she. You won’t need to think about what to say, because you will be having fun. That’s the kind of conversation you want. It will set the tone. Nothing is serious or logical.

Be normal and relatable to the girl. But take a few social risks and see what you can do.

Equivalent_Energy585 · 2025-04-30T01:22:07+00:00

the best advice I heard is make educated assumptions "you look like you are very creative, are you an artist?", "i really like your style, do you work in fashion", "havent seen you around here before, are you from here?", "you accent sounds kinda french btw, where are you from", she will either correct you or say you are right, then you can follow up with related questions

burncushlikewood · 2025-04-30T02:06:52+00:00

Yea umm have you ever heard of improv comedy? It's hilarious and difficult to do, you have to come up with a conversation on the fly, I'm not sure exactly how to convey to you the exact words to say to her to generate a relationship, if you knew how to do that you'd already hav better game than most men on this planet. I like to ask questions and steer the conversation, make her laugh, maybe tease her a bit, be sarcastic, charming, and memorable. I think speech is a complex and important topic, if you can communicate well it will lead to success, marriages and relationships require proper communication from both sides to be successful

jackthehat6 · 2025-04-29T21:41:35+00:00

the PUA answer for this (the 'transition') is usually 'cold reads', but in my time, I just found them no better than just asking whatever else came to your brain! Plus they can sometimes seem so weird and contrived and makes girls think yuo're odd lol ('I like your style. you look like you do something creative' would be a classic, but I tend to think it can make you sound a bit weird tbh. Or when PUA start trying to guess girls jobs like they're psychic or something.)

really, you can just ask her questions and say whatever comes to your head. I don't think there's any magic verbals that are gonna make her open up and ask you stuff etc. It comes down too attraction and you really can't force that upon her. If you are her type and she's naturally friendly and social too, then it will all be quite effortless and you wouldn't need to ask here. If she's not sociable and/or you're not her type, then she'll just be closed off, will give the bare minimum to your questions/statements and it will fizzle out fast for NO fault of your own

KoleSekor · 2025-04-29T22:56:50+00:00

Ask if she's from around the area... How long she's lived there... What brought her to the area... How she likes the area... What she likes about the area... Uncover and get into talking about her interests and passions ASAP.

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-04-30T04:54:29+00:00

You do the same thing as what you did in the opener. You want to stack cold reads to countinue the conversation. When you notice that she reaches hook point, you want to do a round of Q/DQ. See my post "never run out of things to say every again - list of verbal skills."

You mostly have a verbal skills problem. It's common after people learn approaching. It's just logical right, now you've figured out how to not get blown out you need to figure out what to say. Combine the verbal skills post with the flirting post, the flirting post focuses more on the principles of good flirting rather than a big list of outer game skills.

Apply the outer game techniques within the the principles.

DetoxUpside · 2025-04-30T07:27:43+00:00

i thought i was the only one that can never think of things to say. all my wings can just ramble to girls for 10-20 minutes on the spot when they approach.

Pinhead-Larry27 · 2025-04-30T12:50:59+00:00

Introduce yourself, you can also continue to pad the conversation with compliments BUT more than anything you have to ask them questions about themselves. EVERYONES fav topic is themselves, ask questions and soon hopefully she’ll say something that you guys have in common and you can lean into that

hot_ellaa · 2025-04-29T19:47:10+00:00

don’t overthink the situation, just relax.. right words will just flow

Title	How to Keep a Conversation Going After a Compliment or Opener?
Author	Mobile_Fisherman117
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Date	April 29, 2025 7:02 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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