how to leave the friendzone?

collegegreens · 2015-05-21T09:37:57+00:00

Leaving the friendzone is incredibly easy. Stop being their friend. Someone you are sexually attracted to is not a friend. If you see them you try to have sex with them. If they don't want to have sex with you then you don't see them any more. Simple as that. It's when you keep on seeing them after this stage and treat them like friends that you end up in the friendzone. Usually guys who do this start trying to delude themselves into thinking that they actually want to be friends with this girl and don't just want to fuck her. You have to realise that 99% of women make shitty friends, the only reason you have anything to do with them is sex. This is nothing to be ashamed of.

FakeSafeWord · 2015-05-20T23:47:40+00:00

Uhm, if you're friend-zoning someone...

Think of all the things you don't do with friends of yours. Like sex, kissing, making out, flirting, rimjobs etc

Got that list in your head? Good, now don't do those things with someone you want to friend zone....

jayhovaasmywitness · 2015-05-21T01:30:27+00:00

Fuck other women

caesarfecit · 2015-05-21T02:24:48+00:00

It's actually kind of simple - stop caring about whether or not you get with her. That's it.

I've been in the friend zone and put girls in the friend zone (incompatibility, unwilling to cheat/be an accessory, bad timing etc.) and there's one common thread running through all of it, and that's how much I wanted to get with these girls. And it ran the gamut from in love with one, to getting weirded out by how needy they could get.

DaygameCoach · 2015-05-21T03:06:39+00:00

No. If you are friend zoned, move on now, before you get oneitis. And learn to run solid attraction (for future women).

johnnyboyfart · 2015-05-21T13:46:40+00:00

the best way is to treat them like a friend, but also flirt here and there in a subtle way (never be apologetic about it either no matter how the girl responds). you'll see soon enough your subliminal teasing will compound into a blowjob. goodluck.

dirk_e_diggler · 2015-05-21T07:21:46+00:00

Todd Valentine has a perfect, short video on this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Eu3PHIWOiFw

CaliBboy · 2015-05-20T23:49:59+00:00

Me thinks, the newbie is confusing "friendzone" with push-pull tactics.

bandoftheredhand17 · 2015-05-21T00:13:28+00:00

I actually love the friend-zone. become friends with a girl, then represent everything she doesn't get but wants in her other relationships with guys. There you have a ready-made opportunity to leave the friend-zone.

Title	how to leave the friendzone?
Author	wartorle
Upvotes	2
Comments	14
Date	May 20, 2015 11:03 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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