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[–]CornEnt 44 points45 points46 points 12 years ago (23 children) | Copy Link
Take notes from tyrion lanister
[–]Wheelchairkid[S] 17 points18 points19 points 12 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link
Who is that?
[–]FADmonkey 10 points11 points12 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Game of thrones character played by peter dinklage.
[–][deleted] 12 points13 points14 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Game of Thrones bro. First of all, watch the show(read the book too, if that's your fancy). Secondly, the dude's got nasty swagger and confidence.
[–]Make3 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
a truly sexy and complex character played by a little person in mainstream american tv show Game of Thrones
[–]jamescameronisokay 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Those trolls north of the wall wouldn't know the Lannisters from the Tyrells, the buggers!
[+]lawrnk -23 points-22 points-21 points 12 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
You're a little person. Midget isn't a nice word, and you shouldn't use it.
Listen, I can't imagine how tough dating is. I hope you get laid more than Ron Jeremy.
[–]punisher1005 15 points16 points17 points 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Fuck off dude. He can self identify however he wants. Thanks for your lesson in political correctness today.
[–][deleted] 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
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[–]punisher1005 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That's certainly your opinion, one I'm sure he doesn't share if he's using the term.
[–]JAKEBRADLEY 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm native and identify as a prairie nigger. It's all what you make of it.
[–]laccro[🍰] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My favorite term of the night
[–]nobody2000 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I get what you're saying. "don't sell yourself short because of your unfortunate disposition." And I agree with you. OP doesn't need to be "a midget" or even "a regular guy." He needs to be "The fucking shit."
However, as an aside, I have a buddy with crazy inner game. With great inner game, I believe, comes great outer game. He gets laid all the time and self-deprecates way too much. He talks about how small his penis is.
Small or not, it gets used a lot.
[–]lawrnk 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My point wasn't to be politically correct, but midget is highly offensive to little people. You hit the nail. He had to overcome the hand he has been dealt, and be that dude everyone wants to be around. People stare at little people. He will get attention. If he can harness that attention, he could do anything.
[–]Vaginuh 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Mate, little person sounds much worse. Let the man call himself what he wants.
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I don't even follow this subreddit but I ready do feel like Your discovery of Tyrian Lannister will be a major changing point in you life.
I'm not knowledgable about pick up at all, but I think Tyrian may illustrate how men & women perceive eachother, women seem to be more forgiving about your physical apperience. Many of my colleges who are women have noted how attractive the dwarf who portrays Tryian is to them.
You have no excuse but to become Lord Tyrian in the flesh, you should post your progress on this sub too!
[–]CornEnt 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yes but at the same time he is in a unique position. It's the ultimate form of not giving a fuck. Tyrion says it plainly; everyone else can see that you're a bastard or a dwarf or whatever it is that you think is holding you back, so OWN it! BE the bastard! Be who you are!! Don't let people stand in your way of you doing you.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, take him with a grain of salt for sure but the character has it all figured out: be dead fucking comfortable with who you are, the series highlighted this axiom perfectly in season one when Tyrian is traveling to the wall with Jon Snow, Tyrian the happy dwarf schools Jon the prickly Bastard.
[–]covertwalrus 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well, (book) Tyrion also didn't get a lot of action without paying for it. Perhaps not the best role model.
But where do whores go?
[–]itspellsyoudidit 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wondered when I'd see this.
[–]MADBARZ 17 points18 points19 points 12 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
"Ever kissed a midget before?"
That's all you need. Kino initiated and intimacy established.
[–]Wheelchairkid[S] 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
What do I do when she says no?
[–]pumapua 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Well, what are you waiting for?"
[–]mattylee 14 points15 points16 points 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Further develop your sense of self worth so you're not thinking her default response will be no.
[–]rathat 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
So you're saying he should assume she has kissed a midget before?
Lucky gal to get a Round 2.
[–]mattylee 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No, just in general. Automatically assuming that they won't want you is going to hinder you a lot.
[–]Supercyndro 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
he mean her response being no, not her rejecting his kiss
[–]laccro[🍰] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"No," add in hasn't kissed a midget....
[–]nobody2000 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Her loss. Imagine if you tried to sell someone a brand new car for $50 and they said no. They'd be passing up a great deal.
Any girl that says no to you is passing up a great deal. If any girl says "no" then give the deal of a lifetime to someone else.
[–]Graphitetshirt 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"What are you scared of? " ;)
[–]jesseholmz 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
*if she says no
[–]kingerthethird 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"So then tonights the night?"
[–]MADBARZ -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You move on. Find another girl to talk to. Just like when I (5'9") or anyone else gets rejected, you keep going. It's a numbers game.
[–]randombozo 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Better say this only after some rapport has been established, not something to spring on women with.
[–]nobody2000 11 points12 points13 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Question - Are you in a wheelchair too (relevant username)? I only ask regarding the tactics of kino, frankly, it doesn't matter if you're in a chair, or if you're vertically challenged, with the right inner game, there's no reason you can't be a giant in any room you walk into.
With that out of the way...your strengths are your points of differentiation. You can get creative with kino, but your major obstacle is not becoming too self-deprecating. Little people are unfortunately quite ripe for ridicule. You want to preserve high value as much as possible.
So, the first thing is to know the kino escalation ladder. Look it up, read it, know it. It's your strategy. It won't give you the exact tactics (i.e. what to do), but it'll shape your plan.
So all the little people I've known who have been quite popular are energetic. This means dancing. If you're on your feet, moving around, you can just grab any girl (confidence, dominance) and have a great time. Who doesn't like a fun guy?
Now, if you're in a wheelchair, one move, depending on your size, is to have her sit on your lap. You don't want her to dwarf you, but it's a great way to have her close to you. Remember - one portion of kino is "reverse" kino, where you get her to touch you.
If you're not too weirded out, if you're very energetic, piggybacks?
Aside from that, I would simply search "kino" and look at what others have done and try to apply it to you if possible. Forgive me if anything I said is insensitive. I just genuinely think that if you have your inner game down, you can use your height as an advantage if you're creative and fun.
[–]Wheelchairkid[S] 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yes bro! How would you suggest I ask them to st on my lap?
[–]nobody2000 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well if you're already hitting it off conversationally, and you're the fun guy in the room, ask them if they want a ride. It definitely helps to slip in innuendos too.
Rock back and forth, maybe pull a trick, and tell her to hop and and the two of you can go for a ride all night long. Don't be the guy that gives everyone rides all night - just the lucky girl - remember...YOU are the prize. You're the award. No one likes the award that EVERYONE gets, so give that lucky lady a ride around.
Even better - tell her something like "well...tickets are the price of one beer...but I'm sure we can work something out" wink.
It's not so much about what you say, but how you say it. If you're the life of the party, walking taller than all the other bros in the room, then you could say something like "can I pee in your butt?" (thank you Mark Manson), and you'll be able to close (but yeah - don't use that line. It's just an example of how inner game is so important).
Most of all - you're doing this to have fun. Nothing will happen with any girls if you're not having fun. If you build it (fun), they will come!
[–]Wheelchairkid[S] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Got that wheelchair
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
A high five when something cool happens, or a hug followed by a fun marriage roleplay.
[–]Wheelchairkid[S] 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What's a marriage foreplay?
[–]daphish12 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Role play. I'm guessing its when you pretend that she's your wife.
[–]notevenfinalform 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Can you guys not recognize a troll?
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Whoa man, phrasing!
[–]covertwalrus 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Have your bodyguard steal her from another lord's tent?
[–]asad16 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
First thing that popped to my mind
Seriously though, whats holding you back? your height or the feeling about your height?
[–]Wheelchairkid[S] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Height. I am only able to touch their hips
[–]asad16 -2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If anyone else can chime in, or provide a good argument against my point, please do. I personally don't think kino is 100% necessary, sometimes it's hard to incorporate in scenarios but I try to when I can. I've had really successful dates where I didn't get a chance to kino her at all, but we had some really solid conversation and connected on an emotional level.
If you're stubborn and don't agree with me, try to do some kino while sitting beside each other. even if your bodies are just close together, it's good enough.
[–]treefrog24 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I have a good friend of mine that is a small person. He gets away with things I could never do. He is the biggest ass and boob grabber I know and girls never even get mad, in fact I swear they are into it. I'm betting you can do whatever you want and not even worry about it.
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[–]Lanai 15 points16 points17 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
As funny as this may be. I don't feel it is appropriate to answer the question nor the kind of commentary we should support in helping build each others confidence and self-esteem.
[–]punisher1005 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I hope a mod deletes this and bans you.
[–]guitartablelamp 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Read about and begin kino
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