I find you cute - doesn't work anymore

Extreme-Bid-5989 · 2026-07-29T21:54:26+00:00

If you approach direct it's better to make a comment to her that's personal. One that you cannot say to anyone. Try to make it feel like the most personal thing you've ever said to anyone.

Discopotatoz · 2026-07-29T22:36:11+00:00

It's not the words you're saying that matters most. It's your overall presentation, tone of voice, body language, delivery, attractivenes, etc.

I wouldn't get too caught up on the actual words. Being unique is good but for most guys keeping it simple is probably the best advice

saryiahan · 2026-07-29T22:32:50+00:00

I’m attracted to you. I find you cute sounds like you’re addressing a kid

Special_Rice9539 · 2026-07-29T22:40:09+00:00

It’s more the underlying frame is weird, because why do you feel compelled to tell her that? Are you lower status than her?

If you’re genuinely higher value than her, then the line will work great. But so would just having a normal conversation.

Tactically, it’s bad because it puts pressure on the girl to have to accept your approach right away with no info when she might have actually started to like you after getting to know you a bit

rocksos · 2026-07-29T22:05:45+00:00

Saw a few vids today from coach kyle adn soemone else where they used that opener (i guess they still teach it) and it worked for them. I don't really think there's any rules tbh.

Going forward after giving the models of a few coaches a good go now and implementing the game they teach, i'm going to try a mix of 'natural game' and also maybe waiting for choosing signals and see how that goes

beatkiller2077 · 2026-07-30T00:22:01+00:00

"Hey, thought you seemed nice. I'm _____" Easy as that.

haftzabaa · 2026-07-30T06:40:08+00:00

Direct works.

Does every girl the intent right away and have heard this line a million time already

No.

Is doing indirect approaches a better strategy during the daygame nowadays

It also works but most of the time guys end up approaching too little when they go indirect.

Total_Obligation_371 · 2026-07-30T13:37:44+00:00

You're probably coming across unconfident or weird if it hasn't worked for you. Direct approaches are still totally fine. It's what all my clients use and they get dates and lays.

Accomplished_Egg_928 · 2026-07-29T22:02:04+00:00

Get to know them as a person (indirect) is more effective.

Direct only really works when you already know she is super into you and knows of you through others (pre selection).

Being more sociable is the better way.

Broad-Cranberry-9050 · 2026-07-29T23:55:44+00:00

it could work but i dont think it's every worked the way you are thinking it no longer works.

Like going up to a girl and saying "hey i think your cute" doesnt work. But if it's like "hey what's a cute girl like yourself doing in a place like this?" or some BS like that then it coudl work.

Title	I find you cute - doesn't work anymore
Author	Fast-surfin-9191
Upvotes	0
Comments	27
Date	July 29, 2026 9:51 PM UTC (1 day ago)
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