Less charming, more Sexy

Notairburner · 2021-01-11T11:30:24+00:00

I am sexy

__purity · 2021-01-11T14:23:48+00:00

ok i get his point but if some guy said to me "don't waste my time having clothes on" ...

nearedge · 2021-01-11T14:45:31+00:00

Lmao this guy's post history is literally porn and this pile of garbage he wrote is ripped of one of it. What's next "your panties aren't gonna sniff themselves"?

vansterdam90 · 2021-01-11T14:37:56+00:00

You can interpret inspiring or influencing as manipulation. Manipulation is just a something that has reward factor in the end. Your gym trainer can suggest you to take before photos and then months later an after photo to keep you going, you can interpret that as manipulation. But that term has negative connotation to it, so you want to maybe use the term inspire.

Ik the comments say seduction is manipulation, but let’s just step back for a sec. If an individual is self aware with their thoughts inside and out, and aware of environmental situations and self posture and proper tonality, if they can judge timing right is that manipulation? Timing is everything, you can blurt out rub a dub dub let’s grab some grub at the right time with proper posture, tonality and execution and still land a #. The rest is just filler strategies.

(I think most nice guys are nice but some try just way to hard, just relax. No need for them magic tricks you read in the game. Sometimes it’s just shit energy, hands in pocket, stuttering, talking too fast, don’t know what to say, that gets ppl to fuck up approaches right?)

When I learnt being good at manipulation isn’t a great flex, yes Ik it’s used plenty in retail as a selling strategy. But when I found out inspiring or influencing is essentially the same, they all have a common denominator, and that’s timing.

Timing situations and picking up on body language, and actually being able to absorb what’s happening and to calibrate yourself and align yourself to the approach is how you genuinely succeed imo.

CH705-807 · 2021-01-11T13:09:02+00:00

Tbh this post sounds like it was written by a nice guy

i_never_get_mad · 2021-01-11T17:32:36+00:00

Wait, what it what I want to say is “you are so beautiful”? Am I not being honest?

2021-01-12T02:10:40+00:00

Lines like that only work if you're physically attractive.

jamieboy17 · 2021-01-11T15:46:31+00:00

Charming be a problem, adderall makes me charm less and then guess who be staring ant me all day

ld20r · 2021-01-11T12:08:09+00:00

Your not being honest. You’re just using sexual terms and tactics to manipulate a girl into bed with you. It’s manipulation not honesty.

2021-01-22T23:03:19+00:00

I think there is some marginal value in this post. Namely, proclaiming that this girl fulfills some need of yours. Catch is - you have to be savvy a) know you've found a girl insecure enough for this and b) know what need she wants to fulfill for you - what makes her feel good about herself and c) having the social/language skills to pull this off.

Kind of a niche scenario. Yet I've seen it happen. Women who like addicts/guys with history of substance abuse, e.g.

Title	Less charming, more Sexy
Author	nuboy6969
Upvotes	220
Comments	42
Date	January 11, 2021 5:40 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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