Game is a battle of frames. You cant win if she doesn't enter your frame and she won't enter your frame if she doesn't shit test you.

You need inner game to pass the barrage of shit tests that are gonna happen so if you don't have that you are gonna crash hard.

But if you think your approaches are fizzling out early on, you are not emotionally stimulated enough, you are not polarising enough.

Your approach doesn't need to be anything special, it can we awkward or cringe or weird. It doesn't matter, once she shit tests you, she is laying trap for herself.

You pass the shit test and it will trigger attraction, and it obviously will lead to a frame battle where the harder she shit tests you, the more easily she will enter your frame.

Once she enters your frame, and logistics are there, you are gonna succeed.

Don't wait for shit tests, force the issue.