I've been actively looking for girls for the past 6-7 months, had a couple of flings,went on a couple of dates,did some club approaches. Nothing really stuck with me. I did not have that big of an impact on girls. Then one day I decided fuck it,I'm putting me first. I organised my life and just in a matter of two weeks I had built myself an awesome self sufficient life.Hell, the minute I started really enjoying my life and putting myself first,girls just started flowing and falling for me,something that hasnt happened to me in a long time. I thought I had lost it,but it seems all I needed to do is build myself a life. I even have a girlfriend now which I had to put 0 effort into "winning over". There was even this girl I havent talked to for 2 months who suddenly started texting me asking to go out.

The way I see it,the best thing you can do for your dating life is building yourself an awesome self sufficient life. Girls can simply sense you dont need them and that makes them want to be part of your life even more.