Here is the exact text messages i exchanged with my father:

Him - Did you meet up with your girl? Him - Tell me you did so i can open a beer

Me - Yes i did. Why the celebration? Its not like i won lottery

Him - She is so pretty that it is like you won a lottery ticket

Me - You mean it is like she won a lottery ticket haha

Him - Thats my boy :D Him - Thats what i like to hear

Dislcaimer: it is just an example, i didnt lecture my dad on game, or i didnt answer because i am overtly cocky and asshole that puts women under him like they arent human beings. It was just a joke i made that i later thought could become a post about self worth and an elemnt in game.

This convo later triggered what someone on this sub coined as “the prize mindset”. This is an example of having the prize mindset. It is putting yourself on pedestal instead of the girl. And that is big part of my game and it should be yours too. I would like to assume the same value with the girl but i always end up thinking about myself highly.

Now you cant just think this, you need to showcase it. For example i will use myself. In highshool i was shy and i thought everyone is better than me. Which is not truth. But i started to work on myself in order to reverse that mindset. So i became an athlete, traveled in many places with my team. Started to learn fashion. Bought some nice clothes. Got a haircut at pricey barber. Started reading books, started learning about game and social interactions. And so on, i dont want to write out my life story here.

Once i did that for prolonged time i started to realize how much i changed and i realized that not everyone is trying to become better self. Once i built mu character up my confidence skyrocketed. I deliberately did things that i was scared of. After some time i saw that i grew so much that someone would think that puberty hit me pretty hard.

So now i am not perfect by any sense. I still have insecurities and things i dont like about myself but i am doing my best every day to accept them and become okay with myself.

Once you start doing this you will realize how much time you put in yourself. So when you are approaching a women you are approaching with hours of work behind the scenes that make you a man worth having and spending time with.
You dont seek for approval anymore, you dont need validation. Instead you test the girl, you see if she deserves you, if she is living up to your standards. You look for how many hours does she have behind the scenes. You worked thousands of hours to become the man you always aspired to be. Did she work that much to become the women she aspires to be?

Now you cant have this mindset if you are sitting at home all day watching Kardashians or whatever the fuck you are doing. You need to get off your ass and work. Work on yourself, work on your passions. Build your value as a man. Not because of women but because of yourself. We live this one life and it would be a shame to not use all of it. Like every second counts, which it does. Use up this time while quarantined. Wake up early, strech, drink coffee eat some fruit, workout, eat, relax a bit, learn an instrument, work if you have a job or work on your passions, meditate, drink lots of water, do skincare, read a book (not fiction, read philosophy, psychology, self help books, classics from the greats).
Tell yourself that for a week, only 7 days, you will do this without skiping anything. See how you feel after those 7 days.

Now tell me, isnt that feeling worth all the work you put into it? I think it is.

Stay safe, love you all :)