No Stories about myself?

Back2theCouture · 2026-05-06T15:15:37+00:00

The story telling is not to “tell me more about yourself” like in an interview. But as a gateway to let her open up, invest, and bond (her emotion) in you.

So it’s not necessarily about “story about you”. But basically anything. You can tell her about what you saw, what you heard, what someone told you, or anyone that reminds you of her ie you watched a movie where its character resembles her, or your friend that looks like her. The sky is the limit.

becomesharp · 2026-05-06T09:50:12+00:00

What youre seeing is old school stuff back in the day when we believed the way to attract women is to tell long, elaborate stories about how our exgf was a stripper and we defended her with a crowbar.

That theory has long been debunked.

Storytelling is a useful skill to have for sure, but it's a very secondary skill in terms of importance. Leading, conversation, humor, flirting, escalation are all primary skills and MUCH more important, so i wouldnt worry about stories much until you can get those down first.

FunkmasterJoe · 2026-05-06T12:20:56+00:00

Probably like, one or two funny things have happened you during the course of your life, lol.

Railbearingmaster · 2026-05-06T12:52:28+00:00

Think about the posititves about everything you have done,
And to be fair your mind usually only remembers the good (at least mine when i look back at previous experiences. It dont have to be somtehing extravagant, it can be that you are trying to cook new types of food, or a new sport, se the positive in things.

Sorry-Place6291 · 2026-05-06T13:48:29+00:00

Telling stories is usually good for the boys. For women they generally don’t give a fuck. Now telling the stories in front of a crowd and making everyone laugh in your circle while a girl notices how people react to your stories that’s usually a big win for how attractive you are.

That being said degeneracy, war stories of life, any kind of life experience is worth it and I would 100 percent start living outside of your norm

norwegiandoggo · 2026-05-06T14:23:20+00:00

Like "becomesharp" said, you don't need to tell stories to be attractive.

But look at the underlying problem and solve that. Because that makes you less attractive. You said you don't have stories, why? Because you're a loner that doesn't have many social outings... Solve that underlying problem and you will have stories.

Seducing women is much easier if you're actually attractive. And being attractive means living an attractive life. And being a loner is inherently unattractive to most women, so stop being a loner and get out there and build a good social life. Seducing women becomes much easier if you have that attractive, social lifestyle.

Very few women want to date a loner or someone with antisocial tendencies. I think you already know that.

ChicoBrillo · 2026-05-06T18:49:31+00:00

It's not what happens in the story, it's how you tell it.

burncushlikewood · 2026-05-06T21:38:28+00:00

Just work on your communication skills, learn how to effectively communicate, storytelling is important I think you give yourself less credit than you think, I'm sure you have some interesting or exciting stories to tell

Total_Obligation_371 · 2026-05-08T01:19:05+00:00

Hey dude, I made a video answering your question in this post. If you go to my profile you can see my most recent post where the video is.

ArkansasDood · 2026-05-06T14:28:12+00:00

Make one up. Ask chat gpt

Title	No Stories about myself?
Author	Punch-SideIron
Upvotes	5
Comments	22
Date	May 6, 2026 9:44 AM UTC (2 months ago)
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