Reading this sub makes me over-think everything

Special_Rice9539 · 2026-07-12T00:11:30+00:00

They say five hours of in field experience for every one hour of content you consume.

A lot of stuff doesn’t even make sense unless you actually go and interact with women in real life anyways.

MyUsername0_0 · 2026-07-12T00:33:47+00:00

Well no shit, you don't have experience. It's like reading about playing an instrument. Does that mean you can play the instrument? No. Go take action first.

ManaDeus · 2026-07-12T03:45:56+00:00

Stop blaming this sub, you got in here for a reason: you weren’t doing good with women, if you’re undconfident it’s ON YOU. Not on the sub, have the balls to go and play

pdx-Psych · 2026-07-11T23:56:18+00:00

Ok. Have fun and remember to wash your hands

Western-Month-3877 · 2026-07-12T01:13:37+00:00

Common problems dealt by guys who have STEM or hard science background. They treat it like an engineering problem, something that’s exact or rigid like a log of wood. Turned out human behavior is pretty much like water, it’s fluid.

Zen seduction: be like water, don’t be like wood. Regardless in the end you’re getting hard like a wood and spurting it out like spring water.

Affectionate_Delay35 · 2026-07-12T02:38:36+00:00

You understand what a creepy is... So my best advice for you is dont be a creepy

Kebab521 · 2026-07-12T03:47:00+00:00

The majority of info on this subreddit are middleconcepts and outer techniques (push pull signs of interest etc) that are so much it’s too much to keep track of. What this sub tries to make a big point of but people miss are the core principles at the engine of all these concepts/techniques. For me I think it comes down to 2 things:

Be full in life. Have your own things to do and feel content with yourself and the things you do and your goals. This is what “inner game” tries to say. This extends to middle things to allow you to be outcome detached to be playful and present, confident, etc.
Turn outward from your own self image. Self preoccupation with anxiety, worrying if you’re enough, etc. hinders your ability to be present and connect outward with another person. Turning outward allows and not focusing on your image helps the outer principles of being present, flirty, empathetic, escalation, calibrated to the other person, etc.

epimpstyle · 2026-07-12T11:09:18+00:00

Interesting idea ignoring everything others already know just to go out and discover it all on your own... in other words, you want to reinvent the wheel.

BurnItDownSR · 2026-07-12T13:59:07+00:00

That's on you.

This sub isn't arranged by experience level nor is it supposed to be. If someone is discussing something more advanced than you need then its on you if you jump the gun and start focusing on that.

Your post is like being on a fitness sub complaining that you now worry about microloading or the length-tension relationship when you're only on your first week in the gym.

It's not the sub's responsibility to only teach you what's relevant to you. It's your responsibility to focus on information that's relevant to you.

it_aint_that_deep- · 2026-07-12T20:47:54+00:00

Over think everything up until she’s in front of you from here you should just go on auto pilot mode

Nervous-Arrogance · 2026-07-13T20:45:15+00:00

Best way, I did not find the "technical" side of these things until I had a lot of time being unsuccessful and sometimes sucessful.

The technical stuff and theory, just made a few things click into place.

Just go out and approach. And be willing to fail. And be willing to try new things.

jackthehat6 · 2026-07-12T08:01:52+00:00

It's a numbers game. The stuff you read here and elsewhere isn't that relevant. When you approach a girl who likes you, you likely already have enough 'game' to seal the deal

When you approach a girl who doesn't like you, having all of us in your ear through an earpiece feeding you lines wouldn't help with 'that' girl

I'ts not uncommon for guys to read a tonne of stuff, go out everynight using the lines and concepts they are taught to 'create attraction' - realise it doesn't actually work...throw everything they learnt in the bin and just 'be yourself', and start doing a bit better.

This isn't a maths problem. These girls aren't robots. They have preferences just like you. You don't use a 'technique' (that comes out in the form of a sentence because we are verbal creatures) and magically that makes her want you. No more than a girl you weren't at all attracted too, saying them same words to you

Title	Reading this sub makes me over-think everything
Author	Secure-Ear-6185
Upvotes	17
Comments	17
Date	July 11, 2026 11:47 PM UTC (1 week ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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