Realizing You Are Enough -- And How Your Need For Validation Obscures Your Natural Good Mood - Youtube

UnapologeticalyAlive · 2012-06-19T19:05:03+00:00

I think that's why Mystery fell off the deep end in The Game. He was using pickup as a means of getting validation, and when he wasn't getting it, he felt empty. For anyone who doesn't know, the guy speaking is Owen Cook, aka Tyler Durdon from The Game. He came out looking like a jackass in the book, but when he progressed on to make The Blueprint Decoded, he learned a lot about inner game and overcame that one fatal obstacle that kept holding Mystery back. Does anyone know if Mystery ever learned to be internally validated?

puaCurveBall · 2012-06-19T20:55:30+00:00

Just finished entire thing.

I don't know what all the fuck went down in "The Game" or the first couple years of RSD... but fuck Tyler knows his stuff and is 100% on point.

nycprowl · 2012-06-19T18:45:26+00:00

Best quote of the video:

"It's fucking lame, to see guys need that validation... need that approval from women. And I always ask guys 'why do you give a fuck? Why do you fucking care?'"

And if I seriously sit down and think about it, I honestly can't think of a single good reason as to why I give a fuck.

budguy68 · 2012-06-19T22:49:29+00:00

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IAmTheOmNom · 2012-06-20T04:01:32+00:00

Damn. I just came back from going out.

... I definitely had a "dirty high" .... Actually the police pulled up in front of me to see if I'm crazy or on drugs. ಠ_ಠ

Edit: I think what I wanna say is: Validation makes me feel like I'm high on drugs. But you can't be high on drugs always or it won't be fun any more. When I'm back to my normal state it feels like a Zen like state.

Which at the same time makes me look at the people in the night like they are crazy ... until some interactions later ... I'm the same and don't even realize that myself from 15 minutes ago would probably wanna slap me.

galactic_fury · 2012-06-20T04:54:24+00:00

tl;dr please?

MinecraftHardon · 2012-06-20T15:17:42+00:00

I would strongly suggest in "acquiring" The Blueprint Decoded. The DVD set is something like $600. It's easily found elsewhere for free..

MockingDead · 2012-06-20T16:55:20+00:00

This was highly relevant to me. I think it could also be posted on /r/nofap, and /r/decidingtobetter.

46xy · 2012-06-20T22:05:18+00:00

potato chips have no nutrients... I really respect these guys for being great at picking up girls.. but man do they talk a lot of shit

Title	Realizing You Are Enough -- And How Your Need For Validation Obscures Your Natural Good Mood - Youtube
Author	nycprowl
Upvotes	40
Comments	23
Date	June 19, 2012 6:28 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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