Remember: hell yes or no

Ketchup571 · 2025-11-04T03:29:54+00:00

Ya, the best advice I’ve heard about telling if a girl is into you is that they will make it easy if they are. If you feel like you have to work for it, you’re probably wasting your time.

Ok-Orange7146 · 2025-11-04T03:51:15+00:00

this is the only advise you will ever need. A lot of people don't want to follow it though because they value all and any pussy above themselves

Comprehensive-War-34 · 2025-11-04T05:21:49+00:00

If She’s Not Smiling At Hey, Just Walk Away!!!

Sandvicheater · 2025-11-04T22:13:48+00:00

Mark Manson said it best: you force the prospect into a yes or no decision the faster she gets to an answer the faster you get into her bed or onto the next chick if she says no. You spending months in the "maybe" zone is a giant time waste for both you and the girl.

jackthehat6 · 2025-11-04T17:49:50+00:00

everyone who actually approaches and doesn't just write seduction books or keyboard jockey knows you can't literally force any girl you want to be attracted to you and change a clear 'no' into a 'yes'

Game is about screening and finding the girls who want to be seduced by you

it's literally impossible to turn a legit/hard 'no' into a 'yes'. It's funny because not only is it the most obvious thing in the world, but infield from PRO'S proves it! yet you get completely unknown annonymous morons on sedddit telling you they do it all the time lol. ('just pushpull, bro')

it's like someone online telling you he can run the 100m sub 9.5 seconds :)

just ignore them. Better yet, TEST it! Go up too a girl who is like 'Eww, you're not my type. Go away'. and then run the attraction material that you are supposed to do (which is easy) and see if it 'works' lol

burgerr933 · 2025-11-04T05:04:34+00:00

I agree with you. I tried giving this same advice before on this thread, and too many people were telling me your suppose to turn a no into a yes.... Or that no means yes or yes means no BS. I have no time for stupid game, fuck them all. They were all idiots.

innergamedude · 2025-11-04T13:56:16+00:00

So in my earlier phase, I would just never make the move and/or be a wash dishrag of an overpleasing persistent personality, thinking that would work, maybe that the fawning would appeal to her. Then I just got very persistent up front, just to make sure I wouldn't time out, become too available, and let the moment for the move pass. The side effect here is I was pushy and didn't really take in the woman's experience or interest level. I never did anything that rose to being more than annoying but in hindsight, I cringe and feel bad for the women I put through this.

"When she wants you, it'll be easy. Don't waste your time otherwise," is the final wisdom. It sounds radical that a woman has her own interest level and that you should pay attention to it and respect it, but it really shouldn't.

The problem is so many men start off underreading possible interest level as an excuse to avoid putting themselves out there and taking risk. E.g.

"Dude, she's into you. You should make a move. Ask her out. For for that kiss."

-"Oh... you know I don't want to be a pushy That Guy and bother her. I respect women."

Decades of this shit has come down to:

make yourself available. Get yourself noticed. Make plays that give interested women a chance to interact with you when you're not shoving your dick in their face.
Have the balls to show some interest when it's shown in you. Don't press for interest when it's not there. Don't hide away because you're afraid of saying the wrong thing.
Don't internalize the lack of interest in you as your not being the Ideal Brad Pitt/Jason Momoa manly man or the right height. Whatever you are, there will be women out there whose type you are, so long as you have your own healthy life, personality, and interests.

bezbrains_chedconga · 2025-11-04T09:53:44+00:00

I say guys should lower their standards a couple times so they can experience a woman’s genuine, burning desire for you. IE, that’s the easiest way to experience being somebody’s “fuck yes!” And if you want wifely and motherly material she might even be a better partner for you than the hotter women you’ve hooked up with, if that’s what you’re really after ultimately. A hot wife who’s not onboard your mission is just a pretty pain in the ass.

InternationalPlum11 · 2025-11-05T01:32:17+00:00

Bro exactly this, unfortunately. I learned this lesson last saturday night... I think I'm going to post about it.

Osiris_Raphious · 2025-11-05T02:03:30+00:00

TLDR: Have self respect.

das427troll · 2025-11-04T07:28:06+00:00

I went to a girl's place this week and asked if we could put something on the TV, but she was already ready to make out and go at it. Hell yes.

Smazher95 · 2025-11-06T02:05:03+00:00

Yeah I've really taken this in for the last few years, if I get anything flaky I say what you wrote or "ah sht *embarrassed sorry, I totally read you wrong" and move on, it's not because I'm trying to get them to change their mind either, I just want them to want me as much as I want them (brazenly honest) or I don't want them at all. It saves me time and hopefully they're more comfortable and have a relatively positive experience

throwaway824694 · 2025-11-07T05:47:04+00:00

This may be true, but games purpose is to also push girls on the fence towards a stronger yes. Let’s not forget that only filtering for “hell yeah” girl will limit your dating pool.

Puzzleheaded_Gas1985 · 2025-11-26T02:45:54+00:00

just dont chase pussy guys these females want it more then we do they just know how to manipulate emotionally excessively better than men and sex is a tool we give them to control is with until we know our true el

Joy_Boy_12 · 2025-11-04T08:14:32+00:00

You are absolutely right.
Tiny tip with huge affect

ntkwwwm · 2025-11-10T13:13:48+00:00

Hell yes, or even a confident yes. Just never a middle of the road.

Puzzleheaded_Gas1985 · 2025-11-26T02:43:34+00:00

couldn’t agree more

FlameToadDoctorPhil · 2025-11-26T11:46:18+00:00

Good advice but one thing: it's okay and understandable if a woman doesn't want to give her number yet. Respect her privacy and safety.

EvieSaidYes · 2025-11-29T12:35:55+00:00

I 100% agree with you

mariokart33 · 2025-12-03T04:28:25+00:00

People might disagree with me, but I feel like ALL women make it hard, because its female nature and in 2025 today most women state "they don't need men".

MaKl345 · 2025-11-04T10:07:33+00:00

Yes this is very true!

lemon31314 · 2025-11-05T19:59:19+00:00

Breaking news: respecting people makes you more respectable.

Title	Remember: hell yes or no
Author	RogueSpaghetti
Upvotes	597
Comments	39
Date	November 4, 2025 3:28 AM UTC (8 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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