Sliding into Instagram DMs how to ?

Son_of_Eros03 · 2022-10-06T16:36:39+00:00

I have the perfect tip for when to slide into a girls DMs. I'm probably going to regret sharing this but here it goes... this only works for a specific situation and if the timing is right.

I met this girl at a party 4 years ago! Absolute bombshell! At the time I wasn't able to talk to her except for a few words. A year later I slide in to her DMs but the timing wasn't right because she had a BF. Which should have been obvious based on her post and stories.

3 year go by: I noticed she shared a story that was utterly boring. The story was her sipping wine, while watching TV and reading a book! My first thought was, this girl must be bored out of her mind! My second thought, I should add some excitement in to her life!

I started off the conversation by asking "what book she was reading" from there we talked about what was new in each other's lives, she bought a new car and recently got a promotion at work. We talked all night and the next day and then I asked her out to dinner for the following day.

After our date when went back to my place and we messed around for a bit. When we were done she asked "Where I did come from?" she said "I was bored with nothing to do and you appeared from nowhere" 😉 I'm an honest person so I told her the true and she agreed that was smart and thank me for doing that.

I've repeated this with others girls with some relative success on different platforms.

Lessons: Slide into DMs of ladies who are bored You can find them by looking at their stories If you see a girl with a story of herself sitting at beach watching the sunset, reading a book with a glass of wine, painting, driving in her car listening to music anything that seems like there bored go for it

Stay away from thirst trap pictures! Most girls are posting those with a specific guy in mind

nalik95 · 2022-10-06T11:50:44+00:00

But why?

Just think about it, if she's attractive, she'll have a hundred guys every hour trying to "slide" into her DMs. It takes less effort yeah, but that pro is balanced by the con that it's very competitive.

The best way to slide into her DMs is to meet her physically.

You instantly jump to the top of the "chat"
She has your full attention and isn't talking to another 50 dudes simultaneously

I've seen it a hundred times before. A girl busy on her phone chatting to 10 different people in the space of 5 mins. But the moment you talk to them, the phone goes down and she's chatting to you and only you for 5 mins.

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-10-06T11:53:48+00:00

You need to have a good profile and just follow them + comment on their stories. If they respond with more than just liking your comments, then you know there's interest.

DM_TIDDIES_TO_ME · 2022-10-06T08:24:19+00:00

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Cosmicslayer1 · 2022-10-06T11:40:53+00:00

don’t do it

joelpe · 2022-10-06T13:26:26+00:00

What has worked for me so far is just commenting a storie with some clever thing,then get the convo rolling to create more bonding and finally ask to meet But of course It wont work on Girls that have like 30 unopen DM everyday

CometAzur42069 · 2022-10-06T16:55:50+00:00

it works alot more if you actually have met someone and haven't established some platonic friendship already.

LZoSoFR · 2022-10-06T12:30:22+00:00

Make sure you have good photos. Me and my friends did a photo session with a professional photographer, and it was worth it. Without it, your chances are against you.
Comment a 🔥 or 😍 on a story accordingly, up to 2 times.
Repeat step 1 until a girl answers back and you just start a casual and friendly conversation. Don't be pushy and keep you messages as short as you can. Answer 30 minutes after her message to you, and as you progress shorten the wait time

deep2021 · 2022-10-06T14:24:28+00:00

Good profile and something not typical or related to her story

Flairtor · 2022-10-06T18:13:35+00:00

Imma be honest, to start with you need to recognize that if she finds you attractive anything you say will be genius and if she finds you unattractive she will act as if she didn't see it,so try not to stress too much about what you say as even a simple hi, "state intentions here" will work.

That said it doesn't hurt to put some effort in. The first thing you should always try to do and go to is use observational openers. Look at her profile for hints at her personality and open with that. Her about and description, her photos for any possible interests, even her name can be a good conversation starter if it's something unique.

However let's be honest, most girls do not have such on their profile, often times it'll be just pictures of them (which is fine, you can use your Instagram however) in which case you go for their stories, watch any stories they may post and comment on anything that catches your interest or could be used for attention and if she's the slightest bit interested, she'll reply and hopefully a conversation will get started there.

Finally, it's impractical to always be looking out for stories, chances are a lot of the time you'll miss them or it'll contain stuff you can't use. In these situations which is the vast majority where there is nothing on their profile or stories to open up, using a pick up line can actually be extremely useful. I know what you're thinking, but delete everything you've ever heard about pick up lines. Yes they can be cheesy and cringe, but remember what I told you earlier, if she finds you attractive then anything you say will be attractive so a good pick up line will make her stop, smile, think and reply to you. Note the keyword good pick up line. Go online and search for about 10 pickup lines that you've never in your life heard before that you yourself would use, spend some time because you want something that will make her say "wow, I've never heard that before" Do that or come up with some on your own, now just rotate through those pick up lines based on the person and situation and if it's appropriate, it'll work.

Now of course none of this is guaranteed to work, but if you happen to be your type or she happens to like you it'll definitely work and you for sure will stand out. When she replies there's two ways to go about it. 1.Create casual conversation for a bit and after about a day, ask for her number but definitely no more than 3 days. 2. Ask for her number to set up a date within 5 messages, depending on what type of girl she is, she'll take better to either the first or second method, it's up to you to discern which to use. The rest is up to you.

Goodluck and I hope things go well, sorry for the long paragraphs. Also don't listen to those fatalists who say not to try because 100s of guys are in her dms, for the girls that is the case, you could be the one she chooses and for those who it doesn't apply to, she might just be ecstatic because no one ever dms her.

Godspeed brother.

rickyfranchise · 2022-10-06T22:50:33+00:00

Don’t be a loser. Meet real women in real life. Unless you got a blue check next to your name you’ll get ignored 10/10 times.

Benjaminnewcomb · 2022-10-07T04:36:43+00:00

A girl you do not know is quite complicated to get into her DM's. Probably not even worth the effort since most girls phots are so photoshopped that they don't actually look like that in real life.

However, if you really want to make the effort and have it work the best way tis through networking with the people she follows. Make friends with them and get shout outs from the influencers that she follows.

This will give you social proof and you can start making comments on her posts that are not a pic of her butt. You do not want to come off thirsty.

Adam Lyons has a whole course on it and it requires setting up your own profile right, networking the right way, knowing exactly the type of woman you want to attract and probably 3 to 6 months worth of work to make it really happen without coming off as a weird creeper.

Ok-Independent008 · 2022-10-06T13:47:53+00:00

How is it people finding love on Instagram and I'm not

TinyBrownTriceps · 2022-10-06T21:37:52+00:00

This works on ugly girls

marshall_strud · 2022-10-06T22:03:22+00:00

Go to YouTube and watch playing with fire

EntertainerMaximum79 · 2022-10-06T17:06:27+00:00

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Majestic_Meal_5655 · 2022-10-06T20:09:40+00:00

Simpin ain't easy 🤣

bobyd · 2022-10-06T14:40:24+00:00

how do you find girls to add is qthe questuion, bxc if the profile is private how do u even know what she looks like

Kennymacdougall · 2022-10-06T18:31:33+00:00

HUGE waste of time and your life. Forget about it and focus on better things.

Successful-Try7035 · 2022-10-06T22:34:31+00:00

Stand out

inline6throwaway · 2022-10-06T23:44:44+00:00

Blue check mark Look good

sdottfoolie · 2022-10-07T01:02:47+00:00

Like her ig story

Title	Sliding into Instagram DMs how to ?
Author	EntertainerMaximum79
Upvotes	27
Comments	59
Date	October 6, 2022 7:28 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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