How do you make conversation more fun?

CometAzur42069 · 2022-09-20T08:34:23+00:00

Dont be obligated to make it “fun”. Because if someone is interested in you, even basic chitchat is fun for them in the early stages.

gillmanblacklagooner · 2022-09-20T00:14:19+00:00

Don’t try too hard to be a joker.

That said, I’m not a big fan of long gym conversations… people are there to workout. Be funny but be smart and sharp. Know when to leave in good terms while your team is winning with a taste of “want more”. Make sure to don’t be long till make your point and scalate your move inviting to another day in a proper place.

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bill0124 · 2022-09-19T20:58:35+00:00

Talk about something interesting. And by something interesting, I mean something interesting to her. Safe bet if something about her life. Like what's her major / work.

Then, pay attention to what she says. If she says anything weird or anything that stands out: Try to tease her about it OR make a joke if the conversation allows it OR If it's a serious thing, restate it in a different way so that she knows you understand. This can buy you time. Maybe even bring up an analogous event in your life that reflects what she's saying so she knows you get it. This stuff can go a long way to build a connection. People fucking love being understood.

If nothing comes to mind, ask a follow up question. Doesn't even have to be an interesting question. Just keep her talking to give yourself more material to work off. Most people love talking about themselves or whatever shit they care about. You just got to find that.

This is the basic strategy I use and plenty of women tell me I'm a great conversationalist. They laugh, they feel good, they feel understood.

I'm a massive introvert too. I like learning about people and their story, but I hate talking to them lol.

Majestic_Meal_5655 · 2022-09-20T01:50:53+00:00

It's funny how many dudes don't understand that all you have to do is ask questions and if they are interested they do all the talking. Ask them what they did on the weekend, or for fun, etc.

zapadz · 2022-09-19T20:34:40+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H2CTy504FSA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wESfjbfaNyA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OI4sCSsyS4s

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=85jQpsxhMCc

DanniManniDJT · 2022-09-20T09:56:05+00:00

Humor is key. Humor raises the whole vibe.

And setting the vibe you want from the beginning. Start with a certain energy (you can do this by remembering a vive/energy you once experienced in the past and worked well and call on that vibe). Get in the mood before you meet. Once you start with a certain vibe it is easier to maintain it.

ilikepizza2004 · 2022-09-20T16:34:06+00:00

Talk about what’s on your mind and focus on them and what’s happening around you rather than yourself

Professional_Ad_78 · 2022-09-19T22:48:10+00:00

In the context of a gym - I might be more self-deprecating, rather than teasing them. Women might be more sensitive & self-conscious of themselves at the gym, they might not enjoy being teased in that context.

Also, might be a good place for “creative interpretations”. Tell one of them that “you love their body building videos, you’re a huge fan, and they should teach you proper technique, and you’ll start a TikTok page that specializes in something random like tongue lifting”…obviously make it your own, but they might respond to your self amusement…also have an end goal in mind - are you trying to get a phone number, or a date?

Matt_guyver · 2022-09-20T01:55:41+00:00

Check out “Comedy Writing Secrets” by Mel Helitzer

Samuraibeb0p · 2022-09-20T08:20:36+00:00

Excitement, pitch, tone, relation, context, interest, story telling

CRL_- · 2022-09-20T18:47:34+00:00

it's not a big deal just be yourself and listen more than you talk

more important focus on your gym session not women

darkhoe_ · 2022-09-19T20:32:36+00:00

Go on a date

curisax · 2022-09-20T07:26:32+00:00

I think a lot of the time it's just not your fault

I approached this really cute girl on Saturday with confidence and used an obserfvational opener, and then went into some cold reads about her, and I even transitioned into some lines that I got that evening from a freind who sent me Todd Valentine new course so I know what I was saying was good game (flirting/teasing/assumptions etc) but she couldn't have cared less lol. The whole time it was just me gaming a girl who seemingly had no attraction or interest in me

I find that pua tactics only really help with girls that are into you, and the irony is that with those girls, you're probably better off not using any of these techniques and stuff at all since it can just kind of put you in your head a bit and some of the lines and techniques come out as fairly cringe etc.

Subject-Craft5870 · 2022-09-20T07:45:30+00:00

Find new women.

No seriously. If you’re with a woman talking to her and you’re getting bored, it’s time to find some new women to talk to!

Significant-Chip7907 · 2022-09-20T08:51:49+00:00

Find something you have in common, if she’s wearing like a tshirt with a band on it that you even remotely like you could talk about it. Or if they bring up school or any hobby at all, ask what they’re in school for or what the hobbie is, almost play dumb and ask a lot of questions about it. And be like woooow

Chicagoj1563 · 2022-09-20T09:45:25+00:00

Free association is a conversational tool you can use to generate conversation. Basically, you hear an idea, a word, or sentence and twist it into something else. Just look it up.

Combine that with self amusing humor and you can spike up your conversations. Learn to be unfiltered with it. Use it to replace boring and logical conversation. Having fun and being unfiltered with it will almost always work.

Zealousideal6669 · 2022-09-20T10:57:56+00:00

A golden rule in pickup. If you want her to feel something you have to feel it first. Works the Best if you're already ina fun mode then she's gonna catch your vibe as well

EntertainerMaximum79 · 2022-09-20T11:27:01+00:00

1

How do you make conversation more fun?

Well, the first thing is that it's not your job to make it fun.

It will be fun if you're getting along but there are ways to increase your chances of getting along with someone.

2

Hello I have a few women I make sure to talk to when I see them at the gym but I feel like the conversation are a bit boring.

Why do you feel this way about the conversations?

How do they typically go? How did the conversations typically start? Like what's the opener? What do you usually talk about with these people? How do the conversations usually end?

Expelleddux · 2022-09-20T12:17:18+00:00

Get her number and ask her out. The gym usually isn’t a great place to chit chat.

Future_Shop_384 · 2022-09-19T23:54:43+00:00

There's some websites that list conversation starters for friends and romantic interests. Try memorizing a dozen or so.

inline6throwaway · 2022-09-20T16:33:24+00:00

Don't take it seriously, just talk shit for the fuck of it. Bullshit her lol. No outcome dependence. You don't care. Fuck it

Nominay · 2022-09-20T11:55:05+00:00

This only works if they're interested in you

jmpagrey · 2022-09-20T13:03:27+00:00

Flirt subtly

tittyfacejenkins · 2022-09-20T15:53:34+00:00

I Bret Favre em... Sorts em out real quick

UglyFromBirfff91 · 2022-09-20T00:18:14+00:00

Have a hot face

Title	How do you make conversation more fun?
Author	EntertainerMaximum79
Upvotes	148
Comments	89
Date	September 19, 2022 7:48 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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