So take all this stuff you know now back to yourself in high-school. What would you do different and how would you do it?

nittutt · 2013-04-29T12:08:13+00:00

if i had the knowledge i have now back then i'd fuck everyone

ImJustAMan · 2013-04-29T14:31:17+00:00

I'd sit at a different lunch table every day. Fuck the system.

bl1y · 2013-04-29T14:58:18+00:00

I know this is an unpopular position in the PUA community, but I really don't think people in high school should be trying to learn this stuff.

First make a real effort to see if you can be happy on your own instincts before trying to fix yourself. Plus, people can get really weird socially when they start reading PUA stuff early on.

goofproofacorn · 2013-04-29T13:07:17+00:00

I wouldn't change anything from high school. My HS gf broke my heart 3 times when she would date me then run off with some chode, then come back and date me for 2 months. Rinse repeat. But if that never happened I would've never read seduction stuff and I would've never met my gf who is in love with me and I with her. So yea I wouldn't change a thing. It sucked going through it at the time but I am me because of it

InfiniteBlink · 2013-04-29T15:34:31+00:00

To not think about what others think of your or what you're doing. Own yourself, enjoy moving to the beat of your own drummer. Its funny how as children, we do what we want impulsivley, but as we grow into our teens we want to conform to groupthink and cliques. Its terrible becuase it makes you become a sheep to the group and value group social standing over your own self interest. be selfish.

the_brick_attack · 2013-04-29T20:21:32+00:00

If I had this knowledge, I would have had so many girls, I would have gone to a few parties, I would have helped my friends get laid, etc.

Also, I would have socially engineered the shit out of that school. I would have gotten people to do all kinds stuff for me. I also would have banged this dean who was always way too nice to me. That awkward cougar nice. I would have also tried harder at academics as a result of this stuff. Man, I would have been a bad ass.

I would not have cared about certain girls so much either. No more one-itis. I wish I could go back and bitch slap the young me.

kdelamont · 2013-04-29T18:36:44+00:00

I would have worked on my inner game, and probably learned how to convey my interest through my actions, which was a totally foreign concept to me.

I look back at all the situations where I could have stepped up and probably gotten the girl, and some confidence would have really helped me.

sormenkynsi · 2013-04-29T19:11:25+00:00

I would simply be the person I am now, rather than the person I was. High school me was introverted, shy, socially awkward and prone to one-itis and friendzoning. Present me is outgoing, socially adept and deeply satisfied with who I am.

If I could teach a younger version of me how to feel this way, I would do it in a heartbeat.

Title	So take all this stuff you know now back to yourself in high-school. What would you do different and how would you do it?
Author	SingAlong_Original
Upvotes	7
Comments	21
Date	April 29, 2013 12:06 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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