Start your game BEFORE your date arrives

cutthechatter_red2 · 2025-06-07T21:13:27+00:00

Agree. File this under, Always Be Charming.

Ur_X · 2025-06-07T22:16:57+00:00

Another piece of advice is talk to the FIRST person you see when you arrive. If this is a hostess great, a bartender perfect but even if it’s someone else in line waiting to get it, it’s a great warm up exercise

Certain_Process_7657 · 2025-06-07T22:33:10+00:00

Good point. If anything it shows you're likeable, can strike up a conversation and not a creep.

basafo · 2025-06-07T21:18:23+00:00

Cool post and idea

NChSh · 2025-06-08T00:08:59+00:00

I always thought of this as like Groundhogs Daying

rallaqueso · 2025-06-07T23:53:29+00:00

getting ready the environment gives you confidence too, nice advice

VelvetSinclair · 2025-06-08T11:24:03+00:00

The easiest way to practice being confident and charming around pretty women is to be confident and charming around everyone

Even when not on a date

gagafashion · 2025-06-08T07:32:40+00:00

Absolutely agree. Check out the book "Dating essentials for men" by Robert Glover. One of the key principles is to always talk to everyone - miracles happen around people.

6107Kentucky · 2025-06-07T21:33:58+00:00

Good but simple idea

Squali_squal · 2025-06-08T04:02:41+00:00

Simple and not cringe being passed off as "harsh truth" advice. W post.

SuperPoop · 2025-06-08T14:52:48+00:00

The worst thing you can do before a date? Play video games or doom scroll. Get into a talkative state

gldhnchn · 2025-06-08T17:17:01+00:00

"it made me look really lovable and gregarious person"

Either you are a lovable person or you are not and just pretend to be one. I think you are one, because what you did was kind, warm and communicative. I just want to encourage you to step into this identity and stop thinking you have to imitate some behavior that is not you.

front_torch · 2025-06-08T09:29:54+00:00

It sounds like you're at nice and charismatic person. I've heard people like that.

Kylearean · 2025-06-08T18:07:04+00:00

When the staff is comfortable with you, it makes things less awkward.

Sandvicheater · 2025-06-08T20:32:35+00:00

Instructions unclear, resumed my Claire Obscure Expedition 33 save file before my date arrived and now she's pissed we can't leave until I finish this long boss battle.

Royal-Extension-1312 · 2025-06-08T21:17:01+00:00

Solid advice.

Mr_Serotonin_ · 2025-06-09T07:04:23+00:00

Taking notes 📝

Sudden-Air3941 · 2025-06-08T13:19:40+00:00

OK, I am going to sound a dick here. If you turn up early for your date and don't do this, what are you guys actually doing?

I agree if you don't do this, this is gold advice, but surely going to a bar and even just talking to people whilst waiting is the normal thing to do.

My mind is blown.

throwaway990214 · 2025-06-11T03:42:56+00:00

I wouldn’t even call it “game” I feel like if done with manipulative intention it kinda makes you a weirdo. You simply shower your date your a likable person and capable of normal human interaction. It shouldn’t be game it should come natural.

If it doesn’t come naturally then that’s when you know you need to work on yourself and your anxieties more.

SoggyApplePit · 2025-06-13T21:09:36+00:00

The bottom line of seduction is figuring out how to better yourself to be more attractive to others. The main thing that game teaches is that you have to be confident to be attractive.

When you get into a ltr, you still have to be attractive if you want to have a sex life and keep her from having a sex life with someone else.

Think of it this way, women get into relationships and sometimes let them selves go physically by getting fat, not wearing makeup, being a slob...

LuxandraDT · 2025-06-20T15:28:14+00:00

Love this! That natural confidence and warmth goes a long way. Curious do you think it would’ve felt the same if it was a more formal dinner spot vs. a casual coffee shop?

Head-Water-6370 · 2025-06-26T12:31:55+00:00

Holy fuck are you people robots

Title	Start your game BEFORE your date arrives
Author	Sudden-Air3941
Upvotes	1064
Comments	31
Date	June 7, 2025 9:01 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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