EDIT: Just to be clear, I am NOT saying to not text at all. I understand how big texting is as a form of communication. You can text all day if you want to and have the time to, just remember that you're not going to make real progress until you make that connection physically.


I'm baffled with how many posts I see asking about "how should I text this girl back" or why "she's not responding to my texts. Does that mean she's not interested?" This is what /u/SandbagsSteve said in his post and this is EXACTLY how you should be when it comes to "text game":

I don't sweat whether or not the girl will respond. I just continue on with my life as planned after I send the text.

That. is. IT. That is EVERYTHING you need to know about "text game".

You're being needy if you care that much about how she hasn't responded to your text from an hour ago. There's no one universal reason to why a girl might take a long time to respond. "Maybe I should text her again and ask her if she's mad at me." Oh sweet lord. Sweet sweet lord. Sweet Baby Ray's sweet lord.

"Your an idiot ThatSpecialPlace, I score mad nudez with my text game. #playerstatus"

You can score nudes left and right, but how much is that going to help YOUR skill when it comes to actual female interaction? Do what you do to get nudes from her in person and you'll be making real improvement. Also it's "you're". :)

Now I'm not saying texting is useless. Obviously it is a great source to establish dates and make sure one another is still alive, but relying on it to "carry" your game is just a waste of time.

SO REMEMBER: Any real progress you make with a girl will be made in person. Spend your time improving and ENJOYING your self. Her texting you back is about 0.0069% of what it takes to be good at seduction. I've said it countless times, but you can't make love to a phone. And if you can, then you bring a whole new meaning to the term "phone sex".