Talked to 4 chicks no success?

Papa_Musk · 2021-07-17T10:06:32+00:00

lose the McLovin t-shirt and dress better

earsurgery9 · 2021-07-17T09:50:27+00:00

be this guy -

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ok99o5/nightgame_approaches_eventually_found_the_girl/

just keep approaching. 4 approaches is nothing!! Most normal looking pro PUA's need about 30-100 approaches before they find a cute girl who is into them. Handsome PUA like James Tusk would of course only need a handful of approaches

I'ts not your 'game' - you just need to find the girls who are into you

That's all 'pro PUA's do too. I promise

Bj0rnstorm · 2021-07-17T06:47:11+00:00

If your conversation smells even the tiniest bit that you harbour interest then you have already lost half the battle.

Be natural, be neutral, seem as if you are way above her standards.

Did you "disqualify" her early enough?

She will be much more eager to get to know you if she thinks you are cool and not talking with her to get her pants on the floor.

The secret in doing the above is to GENUINELY be as I described. The thought of hooking up should be far out of your mind. And outcomes should not even be an idea. Only then will you be natural in not engaging with a result in mind because if you have any it will slip out somewhere and she will think you have been playing her.

Don't be a "player" ... Just be "that guy who gets her"

rmbarnes · 2021-07-18T19:19:52+00:00

A whole 4 women and no success?!

I first joined this sub over a decade ago. Since then I've been rejected by I'd guess over 1,000 women, and slept with over 100 women (been more focused on relationships rather then sleeping about for the past few years).

Moral of the story, you're gonna need to get rejected a lot to get a lot of success.

Welcome to the club.

kpopdj1999 · 2021-07-17T18:26:34+00:00

Me: Hey, I like your outfit Her: Thank you Me: Want to play some cup pong?

Why would she want to play cup pong with you, dude? What makes you better than the other 90 dudes who want to play with her? In her view, nothing, cuz you said nothing. You need to DHV, build up the vibe, sexualize the conversation, and build compliance momentum in small steps.

Instead of immediately asking her to play, you might have tried something along the lines of,

You: "So what flavor Asian are you, anyways?"

Her: "Japanese."

You: "Oh, that's cool. I had a great time hiking Mt. Fuji last time I was there visiting my friend, before the apocalypse. Such a beautiful country, but the women can be a little reserved. haha, fortunately you seem Americanized and adventurous, yeah?"

(doesn't matter if you've never been to Japan. Research shit about the countries of the kinds of women you like, so you have bs to say about it).

Her: "Blah blah w/e bullshit"

You: "The sun is in my eyes here, step this way." (Then put your hand on her and move her literally 2 or 3 steps - building compliance).

You: "mmm, that cute little giggle is really makin me feel some kind of way. Btw what's your name?"

Her: Jessica

You: Cool, I'm Sunlitstream264. Good to meet you. (put out your hand, palm up, when she takes it, you can pull her toward you if she's complying). So what've you got going on today after this? (Find out her logistics)

etc. etc. You have to actually run game, not just stand around not saying anything hoping she'll play pong with you. You have to be willing/able to "carry the burden" in pickup terminology.

thelambofdeth · 2021-07-17T06:47:11+00:00

B,b,b, but this sub says as long as you're confident that's all it takes, and women will magically like you and open on or whatever...

You're probably just not good-looking enough. Also why are you going to a club in a McLovin shirt? Lol

gigolobob · 2021-07-17T06:36:37+00:00

You’re not attractive enough.

marielief · 2021-07-17T08:10:21+00:00

hey maybe just don’t call us chicks

Healthy-Outcome-3837 · 2021-07-17T06:43:35+00:00

26 words into reading this and. This is how you don’t pull chicks. *How I know their not your type

Therocksays2020 · 2021-07-17T06:30:33+00:00

With the first woman. While you guys were waiting for a table were you actively talking to her?

Bj0rnstorm · 2021-07-17T06:48:56+00:00

Omg you told her you like something... Her hair. NOnONoNoooooo!

Don't give any compliments until she deserves one.

gigolobob · 2021-07-17T06:53:05+00:00

Do you really think a sample size of 4 is big enough to draw meaningful conclusions?

1812323 · 2021-07-17T14:56:55+00:00

Yeah don’t ask women what thier major is we as men need to stop this cornball shit . She’s at a club to cut lose and have fun with her girls , not the place for that conversation , It’s like having a PTA meeting in strip club , her academic aspirations are talks you need to be having after you’ve gotten to know her ; if you haven’t made any serious report yet a simple intro example of a pretty safe intro . « excuse me , but you look really familiar , do I know you from somewhere? » then pause slightly, she might start mentioning possible places she believes you’ve met , even if you 100% know you don’t know her your still subliminaly gathering intel, on the type of woman she is .You can learn a lot about people by where they spend majority of thier time then use these thing you’ve learned to strike conversation where you’ve identified common ground also it might be time to give up the Mclovin shirt and most graphic tees in general just wear plain tees , quality jeans and a pair of vans all black it’s the most casual shit you can wear without spending an arm and a leg so no excuse to say you can’t afford cool cloths

Title	Talked to 4 chicks no success?
Author	Sunlitstream264
Upvotes	15
Comments	81
Date	July 17, 2021 6:26 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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