Text Game

seduction-ModTeam · 2022-08-29T23:10:52+00:00

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CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-08-29T15:25:21+00:00

Better to say you have to cancel because someone invited you to do something super cool (like a bad bunny concert, or anything super exciting) that you couldn’t say no to.

At least that way you show her that you had something better/cooler than meeting her which is high value and shows you don’t need her.

Because asking “are we still on?” after she basically ignored you, just sounds weak and lame as fuck.

MetaphysicPhilosophy · 2022-08-29T16:47:03+00:00

How about you stop giving your time to women who don’t respect it. Move on my man

No_Intention_8878 · 2022-08-29T14:06:41+00:00

Therocksays2020 · 2022-08-29T16:56:34+00:00

DO NOT show up without a response

MermaidOfScandinavia · 2022-08-29T15:08:20+00:00

Ask her and if if she doesn't answer then it's her loss. Move on.

rusty344 · 2022-08-29T18:29:27+00:00

Don’t text her man, she’s being flaky as fuck and disrespecting your time

Nullroute127 · 2022-08-29T19:33:49+00:00

Always remember, women that are into you make themselves easy to communicate with and setup dates with. It sounds like she lost interest.

You may have made some errors. When you have a date (firm time and place), assume she's going to show up. You can send an informative text the day of, "I'll be 10 minutes late tonight due to a work thing, see you at [place]" If she's planning on flaking on you, she'll 'correct' you. When you confirm the date directly, you're sabotaging yourself. It gives her an 'out' if there's any hesitancy because you're opening a window for her to cancel. It also makes her think, "do women not show up for dates with this guy?" which makes her feel like she should as well.

Generally, the closer to the day you want to actually go on the date you make the plans, the more solid they will be.

tudor3325 · 2022-08-29T19:48:46+00:00

This is what overtexting can do. Girls like fun and mystery and if you just go all out and open yourself before having the first date there is no more reason for a date. Try to stay mysterious all the time. Show 10% before the first date, 10% more after that and then stop. After you have sex show 30% more, and after the second time you have sex show yourself completely.

Optimal_Butterfly_97 · 2022-08-29T14:46:38+00:00

Don't text her again, if it flows it flows in this cause it doesnt

bcool_returns · 2022-08-29T15:03:49+00:00

We talk for a bit and eventually I suggest we get coffee

Why coffee and not drinks?

Late the day of she responds she was swamped with work.

I wouldn't have allowed her to keep me in limbo for that long. You need to have a healthy entitlement. I would've double texted "or not lol" or something like that by noon the day of. I need to know if I'm going out with her or making plans with someone else. But I'm not just sitting there. Guys sometimes get too neurotic about being needy, and lean their entire hat on it, when there are many other tools you need in your toolbox to succeed too. This is not needy.

Agrees to make plans next week I suggest the day she agrees.

Fair enough. But I might've given her a bit of playful shit about it. "First round on you now" etc.

A day later day before again I text her the plan this time no response at all. Today is the day of.

What was the plan? Another coffee?! If I've been flaked once before, I often pick a different venue/kind of venue the next time. To eliminate the possibility that it's the activity that she didn't like, and not me. Anyway, I might double text something now like "sigh" and if nothing still, I'd move the hell on.

FranciscotheBull · 2022-08-29T19:57:00+00:00

At first, it shows she was possibly interested, but after ghosting, she is not worth it. Move on. If she was trying ro reschedule for another day and follow through, then that is okay; life stuff happens and we all go through it. This instance, she rescheduled and then ignored you. She had an opportunity and didn't even have enough decency to say she wasn't interested. We all have a right to say that, but can't complain about the consequences. Find someone else. Their are plenty of people.

Title	Text Game
Author	Sad_Farm
Upvotes	5
Comments	21
Date	August 29, 2022 2:00 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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