Thankfully Due To Seddit, I Will Never Fall Victim To This

leftajar · 2011-12-02T23:05:16+00:00

If prostitution was legal in America, that crappy site wouldn't exist.

puaCurveBall · 2011-12-02T20:29:47+00:00

At this this site is honest about it: http://www.seekingarrangement.com/

happywaffle · 2011-12-02T22:07:05+00:00

Thanks to not being a pushover I will never have to do this...

It is 50/50, I pay for something, she pays for something.

the_kitten · 2011-12-03T00:13:30+00:00

I know this girl. I picked her up at an event in NYC a couple of years ago. First, she's not super-sexy as this article states. After I saw her facebook photos, I realized she is a 6, at best. But she is fun and that makes up for it. Second, she doesn't live in NYC anymore so you aren't going to see her around for a revenge play.

Anyway, people who fall for this shit, should have figured it out by the second date. Besides, if you know your shit, you will have her home by that second date.

happywaffle · 2011-12-02T22:29:04+00:00

Serious question: what lessons from Seddit would help you not to fall victim?

Also a serious question: how is her behavior any different than what a lot of Sedditors seem to be going for?

wristcontrol · 2011-12-03T02:12:45+00:00

Minerva McGonagall, from the Harry Potter movies

ಠ_ಠ

HumanSockPuppet · 2011-12-02T23:06:00+00:00

I didn't like this quote in the Q&A portion towards the bottom:

Let's face it, many men who are serial online daters want to meet as many women as possible to get laid with little or no intention of getting involved in any serious relationship with any of them. Yet, no one ever says they are unethical for not spelling out their true intent in their quest for sex. And while men use the lure and promise of "love" to get sex from women, what Jessica did is no different: She was merely using the bait of "sex" or "love" for free dinners or gifts from men.

It's subtle, but you can hear the disdain for the male sex drive.

Women don't lose anything tangible by having sex with a man who later bails on having a LTR. Men, on the other hand, lose money if they end up paying for a woman's night out and she doesn't reciprocate.

I understand that women feel like their self-confidence, pride, and image is tangible enough to them to be considered a loss, but it's disappointing that many of them don't have the mind to consider the reverse.

AegisSC · 2011-12-03T02:28:15+00:00

So what happens when the date occurs and the guy laughs when she asks if he can pay the full tab?

jakdak · 2011-12-02T21:24:17+00:00

Cunt.

itsokaytryagain212 · 2011-12-03T05:29:39+00:00

I find the whole "wine and dine" idea to be too cliche and outdated. If your older and looking for something much more serious, then I could understand, but if you're young and looking for a girlfriend of some kind, make the date fun and creative! Even if you go for a walk in the park, at least you can spice it up, and on the bright side, you're not spending a lot of money to basically get exercise.

2011-12-11T22:20:46+00:00

damnit my workplace is blocking that site. can someone do a copy paste?? :(

_valtiel_ · 2011-12-03T02:06:27+00:00

I'll pay if she doesn't offer 50/50.

But honestly that's just a smash and pass, nothing long-term, not gonna spend the rest of my life with her.. I understand reality for what it is, you pay regardless. Sometimes you're better off with a prostitute.

baudehlo · 2011-12-02T22:25:34+00:00

Hahah, what's the matter here? You guys play for sex; she plays for food. :-D

Epoh · 2011-12-03T05:58:31+00:00

Honestly now that i am aware of who she is and her intentions, if i lived in NYC i would ask her out and play the same game she is(obviously not mention i know of her intentions). I would show up on a date trying to look like the richest mother fucker on the upper east side, borrow a friends car thats hot, find the fanciest clothes i could find without looking ridiculously overdressed and not suffer a dent in my wallet, wear a folex the whole shi-bang and brag about financial success in conversation as if its no big deal. But id meet her somewhere that is a cheap eat at a common place like a hot dog stand beside central park. Once i got the sex, id take her out on a second date and take her for a nice seafood dinner and leave halfway through claiming i need to go to the washroom.

Dont get me wrong, im not pissed about the action just her dishonesty with it. Which is why id have the waiter deliver a message explaining my actual intentions to her just so im being honest, as i left the building. I wonder what she would say if the guy was direct and said you pay this time because i paid last. Prob didnt happen

Title	Thankfully Due To Seddit, I Will Never Fall Victim To This
Author	nycprowl
Upvotes	111
Comments	37
Date	December 2, 2011 7:26 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/mxuhr/thankfully_due_to_seddit_i_will_never_fall_victim/
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