The 3 dates game

So here i am again with the second great advice my friend gave me if you are interested in the first read THIS.

The 3 dates game: This as you may have guessed is a "slow" attraction building and its also great to get to know the girl you are interested with in a "safe way". Since you let the tension pretty much to built itself and i find it as a great technique for people that are struggling with AA, but PUAs may find it useful to depending in the situation. I will Also use an example of a HB9.5 i got using this method.

I have been using this with girls i have already know, but did not know how to open them doe to various circumstances (but pretty much because i had no much game at the time).

Also this "game" works well for places that are not naturally picking up places like clubs/bars, like work, supermarkets, the street literally anyway you want.

THE BUILD UP: You meet this girl, she is gorgeous you like her, you chat her up, and what my friend and i always do is being funny not flirty but funny, learn a few silly jokes, bitches love silly jokes, i for one hated this silly jokes thing i'm a more of a cynic dark humor joker, but unless the girl is the exact same as you in your humor 9 of every 10 times they will be put off by this dark sense of humor.

So back to the build up, you chat her up make her laugh, ask about what she does what she like, but just that don't inquire more about her, and she will ask you what you do/like in return, just to make small chat too, if she does not ask, just state what you do and 1 thing you like, but just that, and again do it in a funny way, and then after a few minutes (not more than 30), you very casually tell her "hey xxx you are pretty fun i have to go, but i want to see you again, giver me your number", she will give it to you, WHY? because you are a fun interesting guy, this few minutes you made her laugh and have a good time, so she obviously wants to repeat that. Later that same day you text her something simple, "hey lets go tomorrow to X place, meet me there at Y hour", just This something simple, don't tell her you liked her, or had a good time, just arrange the date, preferably for the next day or the day after, don't let her cool down. And invite her too a place YOU like, a place that is not a club/bar, a fun place, like an arkadia, circus, street circus, literally a place you go just to have fun. I recommend against going to the movies, because you can't talk or do anything but KINO, but you don't want to do that just yet.

EXTRA NOTE: This is also a very good way of asking people you already know, to go out with you workmates/classmates etc.

THE FIRST DATE:So what happened? you just got yourself a date, with a HB to a place you like. You meet her there, and here comes the part you need to do, JUST HAVE FUN that's right you are the place you like and don't focus on making the moment for her of even build up attraction, you just have fun and invite her to be part of YOUR fun, you keep Kino to a minimun, don't complement her if she looks good, not even if she really dressed up really nicely to the date, tease her in a jokingly way, grab her hand to move her to a place or another, but don't hold her hand, guide her by the small of her back, this is just to make her feel more comfortable with you, and show dominance, because you are deciding what are you doing and in result you are having a lot of fun. After a point you will start to do some RAPORT not much, keep things light. Then after what you planned its over, you just finish the night, no going after to a bar, or a caffe, state that you had a fun time, and you will call her/text her to see her again. This is important don't make plans at the same day, if she ask you when will she will be seeing you again just say you are a little busy and you will call her/text her when you have an opening in your agenda.

• What happens here, when she first met you, you asked her out at the next day pretty quickly, but what will you do now?, you will wait at least 4 days to ask her out again. And this is because you will remain in her head for all those days, why did ALOSS invited me to a date (because believe, you did not said it was a date, but it was a date in her eyes), why did he not said i was pretty, does he likes me as a friend or something more? you are an enigma for her, and the more a girl thinks of you, the more she will like you. SON the attraction pretty much build it self right there BOOM!. This is extremely more effective with hotter girls, because they are used to the guys to take her where she wants, to complement her a lot, to try to get into her pants, but not you, you are different you are a guy that in a couple of days made her life more fun and interesting, and she wants a guy like that in her life.

• Some people will say, "but Aloss, this will get me friend-zoned", no no no, FUCK THAT, a friend-zoned guy is an AFC who from the start did things to please her, that puts her needs as a priority instead of his, a chump whom constantly qualifies her, just to try to keep her around, a sad excuse of a man, who does not stand up from himself.

After the first date and in between the days before you ask her out, there is bound to be some texting from her or maybe even calls, avoid this as much as possible, don't be a dick, just if she calls let her make the conversation, because if she is calling you is a pretty strong IOI, so let her qualify herself making her keep the chat going, but not more than 5-10 minutes at the time, remember you are busy, and in the most likely case when she text you, use this rule wait at least 15 minutes after the first text to respond, and wait at least the double of time that she takes to reply to you, for you to reply back, ( she takes 1 hour to reply, you take 2), but at least always wait 15 minutes.

THE SECOND DATE: You are doing pretty fine so far, you let attraction build itself, you became a great value giver in her life, and for the past couple of days, the only thing she thinks about is you. So after at least 4 days, you call her or text her "hey HB, meet me at X at Y hour, i want to see you".

You invite her now to a "date place" restaurant, a caffe. You meet her and now you can start with a complement qualify how well she dressed or how her shoes match her outfit not just her looks, but the effort she put in her outfit. Now in this date you do start to put use the things you have learned in seddit, take space a more in depth RAPORT, kino building, you done with the first place, take her to a walk, hold her hand or put your arm for her, you are taking the attraction she already has for you and create now sexual/romantic attraction for you. You could go later to a bar, but don't drink or let her drink more than 2 drinks, don't want the alcohol blind you, because this date it's also important for you to find out what you really want of this girl. If she is really worth been a GF, just a casual fling, or a FB.

• This is where my friend and i differ a little bit, he likes to wait to the 3rd date to make things physical, i like to end the date with a kiss, not make out just a romantic perfect kiss, to end a perfect night in her eyes.

• Also at this point you could also skip to date 3, and take her home to f-close, but i would recommend this only if you look for a fling or a FB. If you want her to be something more, end the night with just the kiss, make that night a perfect romantic night in her memory, believe me she will be telling that story to everyone, the perfect romantic night with the most awesome guy she ever met.

THE THIRD DATE: The set up for the third date is fairly simple, just ask her to your place, for what ever reason, this is not really a date, she will come to your place, and immediately jump you, the three times I've done this literally they jumped the moment i closed the door, i tell them we are eating and watching a movie at my place, but we never get to that. If you don't live alone, see if she does, or arrange something, what the third date is all about is intimacy, been alone, just you and her.

And my brothers, this i say from me heart "fuck her good, fuck her hard" Because if you can make a girl have a good time in and out of the bed, mate she will be yours.

Later today i'll try to post a [FR] of the HB9.5 i mentioned earlier, since this little post was way bigger than i expected.

Have a good day mates.

EDITED: Added and subtracted a few things, i think i will re-read this later and try to improve the prose, and clean up a bit this little guide.