1. Be yourself, love yourself. This is the most important rule. If you don't love yourself, then get some hobbies, and be passionate about something and improve yourself. Girls love some fiery passion. Also it wouldn't hurt to try to get yolked, maybe learn how to solve a rubix cube, and learn some magic tricks. Be passionate about SOMETHING. Trust me, something tingles in a girl when you successfully pull their card out of the deck. Hotties will wanna join in on your cool life because you're so alpha

2. Be respectful. No means no. Being respectful shows her that you care more about her than just the way she looks. Girls are more emotional beings and just because you didn't hook up on the first date doesn't means she's not still testing the waters. Call her out if she's wrong, and also make sure there is clear communication before further preceding. "If my touching is making you uncomfortable you can tell me." This will definitely separate you from 90% of other guys

3. Be flirty with other girls around her. Women love a competition just like us dudes. This also shows her that you are sexually comfortable around women. This includes heavy eye contact, physical touch, and making them laugh however you can. Look up some jokes, or watch Bo Burnham; get her laughing. Also, don't give her all your attention or she will become bored easily and you'll end up friend zoned..or even worse.. dad zoned.

4. Keep her guessing. Show disinterest just as much as you show interest. This doesn't mean completely ignoring her but it means that you have other important things going on in your life therefore making you interesting. This also gives her time to think about why you aren't texting her/ giving her all your interest. More of you on her mind = her thinking "wow I can't stop thinking about him I must like him."

5. Think quantity. "If this girl doesn't like my vibe then that's fine because there are so many other girls who want to join in on my awesomely fun and successful life." Even if you don't have quantity- fake it. Be confident, keep your chest open, and be happy with who you are because you're special!!!!! Kinda.

Most importantly, understand how women think about men. Women are emotional beings. Women want somebody who is respectful and alpha (leads with confidence), and also somebody that will listen and call her out WITHOUT passing judgement. Go be awesome people.

Edit: lots of grammar things and stuff