So I decided to go out on a monday night. Started on one bar but no one was there. I basically choded on that first spot so I figured its my pregame venue. Then I decided to head out to madrone to meet-up with jackiechan.
There was a line. Ok, sweet time to sober up. There was a 4 set in my front. 3 girls and one clingy guy. Figured I won't join that mix but I still opened them anyway when one of the girl made a comment about the apartments on top of the bar. After about 5 minutes, another 4 set arrived. 2 guys and 2 girls. Their body language was kinda called as far as their interactions are concerned. So I thought that they're free targets free targets. I opened and fluff talked the group. They're all Germans. One was a quiet 8 and the one next to me is a short, buzzing, and highly sociable blonde 7. Why not. I opened her then eventually opened the whole group. It was just situational fluff talk. I engage them then went back to dicking around with my phone. I kept on doing that until we got closer to the door. Then blonde7 took out her ID just like what me and the rest of her group did. Then her friend noticed she has a vertical ID and I jumped on the opportunity of teasing her about it. I gave her quite a hard time with it but she was loving it. She playfully hit my arm when I said "Oh sweetie did you take a nap before this? Did you bring your pacifier to suck on?" She laughed and hit me again. Then when we were at the door she was playfully cutting on my spot so I called her out on it. I pretended to be serious then gave her a big smile and offered her my arm. She grabbed it right away (2nd ping!)
So we got in the venue and went straight to the bar. Met up with Jackie and said what's up to each other. Fluff talk and a little catching up. Then I saw blonde7 having a hard time getting a spot on the bar. So I called her name, extended my arm. She grabbed my hand excitedly, I spun her and locked her right in front of me. She was facing the bar and her ass was directly on my crotch so I just transitioned to moving my hands to her waist which she complied right away by stepping back closer to me. Then I put my mouth close to her ear and whispered, "use your boobs to gain a spot in the bar". She held my hand and we squeezed and push our way in the bar. I told her good job and now she should get the male bartender's attention because the girl will just ignore her. Sure enough the male bartender went to her. I told her to order me a sierra. I offered to get her drink too because by this time I was pretty much locked in. She got her one, did the clinky thing then one of her guy friends showed up. She basically just got pulled away to dance with her group. I whispered to her ear I'll see her later on the night.
Went back to Jackie and met his friends. We opened another set a bunch of 7s and low 8s. Fluff talk and what not. TBH I was merely just doing it so blonde7 would see me talking to other girls. Don't get me wrong I was kinoing (hand holding, hand on her waist, then small of her back, it was loud so I was directly whispering to her ear) the hell out of the brunette polsci chick. She was receptive. I think I could've gotten a number close when I wanted to but one of my goals that night was to not number close unless I made out with them or I'm sure I built enough rapport (been getting a lot of flakes lately). Then of course they had to move to the dance floor. I figured they saw right through that I wasn't really feeling their group that much. Oh wells. It was a good warm up/move to maintain momentum. Then I looked around and my buddies were gone. So I went outside to smoke. When I went in, I saw blonde7 sitting down by herself in the couch. So I sat next to her and asked her why she was alone. I noticed she was getting tired and a little drunk so I grabbed her hand and told her to come with me to smoke outside.
We were outside smoking and just minor fluff talk. Then I made a comment about her smelling good. I proceeded to come close to take a sniff again then when our cheeks brushed I turned my head a little bit and kissed her. BOOM k-close!
After we pulled away, I noticed her yawn. I asked her if she wants to get out of here, I have a car and I can drive her. She agreed.
I grabbed her hand and started walking towards my car. It was a few blocks away so whenever I see a dark spot/alleyway I point it to her and say "look at that"
her: "what about it" I respond with a smile and pull her in to the dark corner to make out while we wait for the crosswalk to let us know when to cross.
When we got to the car, she started showing signs that she might be drunk. So that was a little off but I rolled right through. This is the part where I felt like a rookie since it hasn't happened to me a lot yet. I was holding her hand while we were driving. I would let go then come back to holding it again. Sometimes I would rest her hand on my leg.
We got to her place. I parked my car and after she opened the gate to her building, I sat on the stairs and pulled her close to me. We started making out on the stairs. Then she started to straddle me. I kissed her neck and she pulled out and said "Ok let's go home"
Yes! I'm in.
We climbed the stairs. Then when we got to her apartment, there were 2 stoners there. I think one of them was her roommate. She went straight to the couch and sat down. I started to introduce myself and started talking to them about music. He has a dj set on and they were playing glitch mob. Me and the roomie started talking about music and what not. I looked at her and her face is all pink, she was sitting on the couch looking somewhat annoyed, I figured she might be a little drunk. Then she said "fuck you both" to me and her roomie. Well that was weird. So I just ignored it and continued our conversation. My mistake was I was waiting for her to give me a hint if she wants to move to her bedroom. Then she stood up annoyed and went straight to her room and looked the door. I tried knocking for a little bit then I went back and hung out with the roomies.
After a minute, she went out and started to try to make some food in the kitchen. I went to her and ask her if everything was alright? She said yeah and we made out again. Then she started to push me away after a few seconds. I figured it was LMR so I tried freezing out for a bit. I honestly was in a state of confusion since I don't know how to deal with that situation. When I come back to reengage her and make out she is open to it then she'll push me away after a few seconds. I did the same approach a couple more times. I really didn't know how to turn that around and all I can think of was the "no means no" rule.
So I said my good byes and left...
and of course I fapped at home. Are you kidding me? lol
edit: it felt like I didn't do a lot of gaming on this girl. I think she already considered whether she thinks I'm fuckable or not. I just kept on pushing and trying to find out where she will shoot me down. Yes I did get her number... for some reason I feel like its gonna be a flake. I could use some tips on how to turn it around the next day via text.
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