Transitioning from college student to full time employee: Where are the women?

nittutt · 2013-01-29T00:38:54+00:00

Clubs / Bars every weekday. Seriously. There are ALWAYS someone out (unless you live in a REAL shitty town).

I usually go out between 21:00 - 24:00 on weekdays.

You can also find girls at malls, the street, wherever.

And i don't suggest gaming at the gym.

salem2474 · 2013-01-29T01:48:49+00:00

For gym game, I'd talk to lots of people there, including guys. Get to know people, and raise your status within the gym. Then:

You'll already have social status when you approach
It won't be out of your usual routine when you approach.

Be careful with gym game, if you like that gym. Don't shit where you eat is a pretty good rule to follow. Treat it as higher risk than normal approaches.

As for the rest, I'm not sure. I work from home, so I can just game on the street when I feel like it.

Lunch hour is a pretty good time - women are out on break. So one tactic would be going out for coffee/food, strolling around, and doing day game.

edit: ysef95 mentioned parties. Totally forgot about that. Go to as many as you can, and get on good terms with people who host/connect so that you'll keep getting invited. I need to work on this, and expand my social circle.

jgunit · 2013-01-29T05:20:39+00:00

The first thought that comes to mind for me is that you'll need to learn to use your lunch breaks and improve your day game. Go get food or coffee at Starbucks or Panera bread or some cafe place. Learn those cold approach moves. Definitely will expose you to a different crowd than the usual late 20s bar goer. Definitely a much more challenging technique.

gabriot · 2013-01-29T02:09:32+00:00

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Sword11 · 2013-01-29T09:41:14+00:00

hmm nobody has mentioned okcupid and match

ace_bandit · 2013-01-29T17:08:52+00:00

I'm at the same point and I've found online dating to be a goldmine. If you don't live in a big city then the typical 'hanging out in coffee shops' and 'stop people on the street/bus stops' is useless. There's tons of girls who are recent college grads online dating because they just went from having unlimited choices on campus to being stuck in the office with 40 year olds. If you have any game, you'll have a better chance than 95% of the guys on there too.

ysef95 · 2013-01-29T00:54:56+00:00

yeah theres a lot of people who dont believe in gym gaming i think you just gotta treat it as like a hard mode of day game because the target is usually gonna be busy or stressed or sweaty. In my mind its best to use a pivot or preselection at least for example ill go to the gym with a girl i know and then she might open a two set and ill go and join them. This works reasonably well but i think its still pretty difficult. as for the other parts to your question id say you should consider volunteering or joining a running club if you like fitness. Small extra curricular clubs like that can be a good way to not only meet women but make friends with girls leading to more party invites etc. Good luck!

DevuSM · 2013-01-29T18:57:43+00:00

Join whatever professional networking/ young professionals groups that are in your area and field. The broader ones are usually packed with hot girls who have good jobs who want to meet guys with good jobs.

dre_day4 · 2013-01-29T05:41:27+00:00

I actually got a phone number today from the gym. My first phone number ever in years. I kept seeing her look at me through the mirror and at one point she started working out next to me. I made a comment about her form (she was doing it wrong) and we started talking. It was busy so I made the convo brief, but I asked for her number and let her know I can help her train since she was confused, being a newbie.

Social pubs on weekdays are great. I avoid dance clubs because they are too loud and expensive.

Do_you_even_thrift · 2013-01-29T03:40:30+00:00

Get involved in stuff outside of your work so that you expand your social circle. If you're a gym go-er... maybe you can get yourself into a yoga class? Make friends with the people in it... even older women... they would love to set you up with friend's daughters, haha.

But seriously, expand your social circle. Learn how to do something cool, while meeting cool people that share that interest.

PeekaBooAhhhh · 2013-01-29T04:12:22+00:00

I'm in the same boat as you. I'm still trying right now. I have meet a lot of new people by going to beer fest and other events. But none of them lead to anything serious.

Also, i completely agree with everyone else on the gym game. I had to learned it the hard way. Good thing I was straight forward with her. Now, when I see her at the gym, we talk.

villain91 · 2013-01-29T17:38:16+00:00

I was wondering the same thing about where the ladies were as well then remembered I work late nights and need to sleep duringthe day. Makes it difficult.

Title	Transitioning from college student to full time employee: Where are the women?
Author	jimmyjohn555
Upvotes	44
Comments	30
Date	January 29, 2013 12:06 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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