what are some skills you could learn?

RubenAndJavi · 2025-07-11T13:56:14+00:00

Dancing bachata was a before and after in my life. Now, when I meet a girl at a club, I always invite her to dance.

It's kind of crazy because, while dancing bachata (or salsa, for that matter) is a learnable skill like any other, non-dancers or beginners tend to think that "I'm just great at dancing". While I don't try to suggest that this is the case, I know that this bias helps me with women.

And honestly they tend to love it. There's a reason women go to dancing classes, even if pretty much all the dudes there only want to have sex with them: women love dancing. And if you can take a woman who's never danced, say, bachata, and teach her a bunch of moves, honestly her reaction is that of someone who's watching fireworks for the first time in their life.

I could go on for a few thousand words about the benefits of bachata in my dating life, it's been crazy. And I started learning seriously 5 months ago.

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-07-11T15:54:05+00:00

This is an odd premise of a thread. You shouldn't be learning new hobbies or skills with the goal of impressing others. Learn them because you are genuinely interested or have a passion for it.

LimbBisquet · 2025-07-11T16:57:25+00:00

Magic tricks for sure. Also knowing how to suck a dick. For real! You should learn. It’s a big hit with women. Maybe the two of you can suck her boyfriend’s dick at the same time.

Substantial-Bad-4508 · 2025-07-11T16:47:06+00:00

something like flicking cards,magic tricks and stuff like that,

Where/who did you get this idea from?

nighthunterrrr · 2025-07-11T17:56:14+00:00

dance

Affectionate-Ant4888 · 2025-07-13T23:47:50+00:00

there is a huge rabbit hole of this stuff the old gurus used to call it value demostration, its goes beyond what mystery used to do which was magic tricks and shit, Style was the one that pushed that shit further, cold readings, mind games, there are millions of stuff out there about that LOL, some of that stuff is actually chick crack.

Vox_Dissidens · 2025-07-16T04:33:45+00:00

Partner dancing. No other skills even come close.

FinanceMedical3408 · 2025-07-13T13:40:00+00:00

Be yourself—women can sense when you're being genuine. If you’re interested in picking up a new hobby or learning a new skill, go for it. Just make sure it’s something you actually enjoy, not something you're doing just to try and meet women. Authenticity always stands out. Also, when you meet someone who’s into the same things, the chemistry’s already lit—now it’s just about seeing how far the spark goes.

Title	what are some skills you could learn?
Author	Opposite0_0Banana
Upvotes	13
Comments	21
Date	July 11, 2025 1:44 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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