As of lately whenever I've been going out I've been successful in terms of k-closing rather quickly and even f-closing here and there. But something that's happend to me around 4-5 times in the past 4 months is the following:
I open up a HB7 and we hit it off rather good. My method is rather outgoing and forward in the sense that I take the initiative, spark up an interesting (i.e. unusual) conversation on which I get good feedback, kino escalate pretty much immediately and hi-five her, hug her, whisper in her ear etc....
Within about 3-5 mins after we kiss, I get the following line: "Just so you know, I won't be going home with you tonight..."
I usually respond by acting offended that she would even think I'm "that kinda guy", always keeping it funny though. Something along the lines of "whoa, you think I'm that easy? No ma'm! You've gotta at least take me out for dinner before we get frisky" or "whoa, you've got a dirty mind...."
Anyway, point is that I've gotten that reaction several times already, so I've got to assume that some part of my game signals strongly that that's what I'm about. Now, while that may or may not be true..... who am kidding, let me rephrase that; while that's true most of the time, I don't think it's a good thing that I'm sending those signals so strongly. So I figure my game has leaks in that area.
Also, what's your opinion on why a woman would say that in such an outright manner? Am I missing some code here or what?
Any insight from seddit would be helpful! Thanks!
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