First, let me say I've bitched and moaned on way more forums than this about how its so unfair and blamed everyone and everything for my own misfortunes. 1. It gained me nothing, after years of crying and complaining not one time did any post complaining or blaming anyone lead to any relationship.

  1. You likely won't receive a warm response, infact, it may send you deeper into feelings of doubt and fear. You'll get so much conflicting advice or negative responses that it won't be productive or rather your ego will not allow it to be.

  2. The very idea that you "can't" do anything makes it more real than you know. Have the attitude that every woman wants you but you're deciding that she's not good enough for you, some delusion is healthy, just don't get carried away.

  3. Realize that you have no control over anyone, if someone is going to hurt your feelings, you can't stop that. But you can choose how you react to it. Instead of "why didn't she call" how about "I was doing her a favor, I've turned down prettier girls than her". Don't let it phase you. We are all amazing men.

  4. Accept the truth. Yes its true, women have all the power, they run the world, yes, its true all guys will sleep with 90 percent of women but all women will sleep with 1 percent of guys. Someone posted elsewhere that if a woman is getting laid well so isa guy, but they forgot one part, its the same guy. Be that guy, be that one percent.

  5. Yes its true that they mostly want you when you're with someone only cause they can't have you, accept it. Be that 1 guy. I'm not saying run around and cheat, but be that guy every woman wants.

  6. Yes its true, women are too picky, accept it. You have to learn to adapt. Complaining about it is not going to change any of these truths. You have to accept that it is difficult, but aren't all things worth having?

  7. I'm not going to say anything about being a man and cleaning up cause I get way better results unkept, so decide for yourself and don't believe a lot of the bs guys here give you.

  8. You don't want to complain, you want to understand. The most important thing to understand is that you will never understand it completely. They are complicated creatures and sure most have similar things they react to, but just like us they are all unique and different and you have to accept that sometimes it might not have been you're fault. You could have done everything perfect and she might have a boyfriend or whatever, accept it.

  9. Don't over analyze things, trying to figure out all the specifics when you could accept that she must be.crazy. just be very polite and smile.

  10. Instead of sitting here reading of how to get laid or learn pua tricks how about you get out and go pick up some trash around your neighborhood. Women love volunteers, they love guys out and about, your doing something to benefit humanity, that's hot in her eyes.

  11. Yes its true, she knows why you're talking to her. But play along anyway, it is an illusion all guys want the same thing in the end, its how we go about getting it. Women know this and if they don't well you should probably steer clear.
    For the most part yes, some dashing guy could come and swoop your woman away in a heartbeat , accept it, again you can't stop anyone from hurting you.

There are two things I've noticed that have always been great for attracting women, ignore them, don't be mean, be kind, be very polite, but be busy and talking to everyone but your target. If you went into a club and hit on every single girl but your target, she would be all over you, if not, she should be.

Always be smiling and laughing, this goes for all your relationships, you look fun, she could have fun with you, not really a mystery.

You can say this is horrible advice and whatever, Igive two fucks, its my experience I'm here to share it and Iam hoping it helps. A lot better than being like"stop crying" the fact that you would devalue another human being speaks volumes for your manhood anyway. players stay up haters stay down. Be that guy.