[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/18/15

AMDB9S · 2015-03-18T18:42:08+00:00

Should I date or focus on finishing my education?

throwawaythelaway · 2015-03-18T19:34:25+00:00

I love my girlfriend (thanks Seddit) but I miss being single. I feel as though when I started the relationship I lost focus on "me" things (diet/nutrition, physical self-improvement, mental self-improvement, confidence) and became complacent. Anyone experience this?

Can I go back in to "me mode" without breaking up with her or is it easier to focus on yourself outside of a relationship?

FatalsGhost · 2015-03-18T20:32:47+00:00

Girl I like has broken up with her boyfriend. She said we could date but give her some time. How do I approach this without losing the opportunity?

diggingme · 2015-03-18T18:26:50+00:00

Do girls really just readily give away their numbers, or is it based on an initial attraction/ rush of the moment type thing?

So far I haven't had many probs getting numbers, but replies from the girls are always hit or miss.....

thrizzlepizzle · 2015-03-18T20:54:41+00:00

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thrizzlepizzle · 2015-03-18T22:07:35+00:00

Where does real confidence stem from? Ive heard the term fake it till you make it and I've mastered it. But over the summer my friend threw a bunch of parties and a lot of girls were attracted to me(i didn't make a move because I'm a virgin and a nervous wreck) but at that time talking just became so natural to me, i could talk to anyone about anything.

CynicClinic1 · 2015-03-18T19:37:02+00:00

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thrizzlepizzle · 2015-03-18T19:18:55+00:00

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NeighborhoodNeckBear · 2015-03-18T19:29:37+00:00

How do I convince a girl I'm talking to through tinder -> text, that I'm not a creep and she can hook up with me safely?

I've had women text dirty and then flake by saying they're nervous... How do you get them to let go of that last minute resistance?

Onikiri · 2015-03-18T19:36:46+00:00

What are some common red flags that you should notice in women before you invest more into them?

By this I mean identifying if they're emotionally unstable, have past baggage, playing multiple guys, etc.

CynicClinic1 · 2015-03-18T19:47:25+00:00

Simple but specific q here: Been seeing a girl for a few weeks... she asked me what I was doing today a few days ago. Do you think she wants to hang out? The only reason I ask is because the last time we chilled I got the vibe she wasn't feeling it. Previous date was dinner with friends, Sunday. I have other girls I'm less interested in I could chill with today too. For the record they've all(4) been laid already.

wifestealer19 · 2015-03-18T20:43:32+00:00

I met a girl some few weeks ago. I got her number and since then we have been talking a lot through fb/wpp/texts.

She always initiates conversations, but when i would tell her that i want to date, she just said: ''well see :)''

I didnt push it too hard, because i didnt want to seem needy or something like that.

I tried to ask her out in another way: We were talking about our first impressions when we met.

She said that she remembers me as a very educated and tall guy. After that i told her how beautiful here eyes were when i saw her for the first time.

Inmidiately after that, i said that i wanted to see those eyes again and she accepted by saying: '' Yea, lets do it :)''

I wanted to take her to some starbucks so we can talk and know eachother a little bit more. But she told me first that she wanted to go to the movies.

Does she want to go for the make out that quickly? Im no expert (thats why im asking this) but this reminded me of a similiar situation when i wen to the movies on the first date.

That day i ended up making out hard with the girl and sucking her tits while she maturbated me. The thought of something similar happening again really makes me interested on going to the movies with her.

Do you guys think its a good idea? At first i told her that we were going to watch 50 shades of grey and she accepted. I dont want to make assumptions here, but does this means that she wants to ''go for it'' ?

Sarrum · 2015-03-18T21:00:33+00:00

How do I hit on that cute girl in my class? Edit: It's a drawing fundamentals class in college.

Airborne786 · 2015-03-18T22:20:21+00:00

So there is this girl at work who is totally rad, we get along great, but I am not interested in anything other than being friends with her. How do I go about this without myself sounding like a total creep? Such as getting her number and hanging out on occasionally on our days off

thrizzlepizzle · 2015-03-19T00:24:46+00:00

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thrizzlepizzle · 2015-03-19T01:12:41+00:00

Virginity, should I lie or not? Just saying a number low enough to signal that I am inexperienced but not a virgin to avoid the stigma?

I know it's not usual to ask numbers, but in case...

OgaBump · 2015-03-19T01:21:13+00:00

Hi, How can I approach a girl on my campus who,I think, is attracted to me but talk only a few times ( les than 10). She is always with friends and specially with a friendzoned guy what should I do ?

thrizzlepizzle · 2015-03-19T05:02:20+00:00

How can I find an excuse to a cute girl that I see around campus?

Auzymundius · 2015-03-19T05:45:59+00:00

If I sleep with a girl's best friend does that ruin my chances with the original girl?

Armanos1 · 2015-03-20T04:05:34+00:00

I've been taking notice of this girl at school. Today I was standing right next to her at my locker and she walked past me and rubbed her arm on my arm pretty heavily and no there was only a few people around us. Secondly, she started small talk at the lockers (her's is right net to mine). And thirdly, as class was ending my friends trapped me in a corner as a joke and the teacher asked what they were doing and she said (trapping (my name) in the corner. I made a little joke as I walked out of the room and she had a big toothy, smile as she looked away. Am I looking into this too much or am I on to something?

puaCurveBall · 2015-03-20T06:24:10+00:00

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Alpha-Turtle · 2015-03-20T08:09:42+00:00

So, I talked with this girl last night who's 9th grade (I'm 10th grade) over facebook.
Short backstory: when I passed by her at school, we used to give strong eye contact every time, and then she added me on facebook and next time she saw me, I smiled and she waved to me

So, we talked, she seemed pretty interested, it was casual texting as it was the first time, and now I might meet her in school tomorrow. What should I do? Hug her, or is that too much? When should I start flirting without making it too creepy?
I know, I'm asking a lot of questions, because I'm a VERY curious guy and I like to know everything that can be known, so even if, maybe, I heard the answers to my questions before, I want to make sure there's nothing I missed

puaCurveBall · 2015-03-20T10:08:13+00:00

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puaCurveBall · 2015-03-20T13:27:09+00:00

if i ask a girl for a date and she says she already has plans, should i ask for another day inmediately? Or wait some time?

zasnowman · 2015-03-20T16:46:48+00:00

I'm a big white guy in Japan.

Most people never deal with foreigners on a day to day basis, and are utterly shocked if you talk to them.

How can I soften the blow of an approach in these circumstances?

inspirose · 2015-03-20T17:55:11+00:00

Was sleeping (cuddling, no sex) with this chick in the Fall frequently after she broke up with her long-distance BF.

Ended it afterwards, fast-forward to now. We're basically best friends. We argue frequently enough that it doesn't mean anything because we know each other so well. Everything either thought we were dating or that I should ask her out ASAP. So I went ahead and tried to break the friend zone with about 10 days of doing things I wouldn't do for a friend and making it obvious how well I know her. I asked her out, she basically rejected saying that she isn't ready for an emotional connection right now (after her 2 long-time relationships imploding). I believe her, she's told others that too, and we're still close. She mentioned that she might be ready in the Spring. Lately we've gotten so close that we both feel like we have obligations to the other and know each other's personalities and life crazy well, especially considering it's only been since September on-and-off communicating.

I'm glad I just asked her out because I wouldn't want to regret it later. Now, I'm more interested in continuing onto other women. My question is, however, how do I do so without closing her out of the picture? Out of all the chicks I've met, she's been the only one I've wanted to date but I know that's just falling into Oneitis. I'm fine with exploring other women, just want to do so without throwing any chance I had with her away.

Persistencex10 · 2015-03-21T18:25:59+00:00

I approached a girl in a shop who I told her she is cute. I asked her about plans for mother's day. After this nothing was coming up so I said nice to meet you and left. On a different day similar thing happened with another girl. How can I improve so that I able to carry a conversation?

Title	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/18/15
Author	SedditModTeam
Upvotes	49
Comments	144
Date	March 18, 2015 5:42 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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