Wife filed and hasn’t told me…

Fyfel · 2024-11-25T07:03:27+00:00

My ex waited near 90 days from when she filed to when she served me so don’t think it’s not coming, it is. She’s clearly trying to get all her ducks in a row first as should you.

MR-Ozmidnight · 2024-11-24T16:54:37+00:00

Listen, you must secure a lawyer immediately. Recognising that some women meticulously plan their moves and may catch you off guard is essential, so be prepared. It would help if you had clarity on your situation, so getting a good lawyer should be your top priority right now while you also start setting aside some confidential cash. You don’t want to come home one day to find your access to your house or bank accounts cut off—this situation happens more often than you think.

Consider installing security cameras around your home and document all interactions with her. There’s an alarming trend where spouses are hit with restraining orders and false allegations of physical assault. I know someone who was facing 10 to 15 years in prison, but he managed to prove his estranged wife was lying. It may sound unbelievable, but remember, your spouse may have deceived you in the past, so it’s wise not to underestimate what she might do for her benefit.

I recommend reading the following books: "Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life," "No More, Mr. Nice Guy," "Doing the 180," and "Grey Rocking." These resources can offer essential insights and guidance.

Ensure that you prioritise being the best father possible for your kids. They’re likely feeling scared, so keep them informed in an age-appropriate manner. It’s easy to forget their emotional needs when tensions rise; they are far more perceptive than we often realise. Avoid speaking negatively about their mother in front of them—those memories stick with kids.

I wish you strength during this challenging time. While you may not have wanted to be in this situation, remember that this community on Reddit can provide support. Trust in the collective wisdom of those who have experienced similar struggles; it can be invaluable for your future.

koboboba · 2024-11-24T14:00:33+00:00

Why u keep wasting money on therapy when you need to see a divorce lawyer?

Trip_2 · 2024-11-24T11:35:07+00:00

Divorce filing is public information, Google both your names and you will get at least the filing date and location.

FreonMuskOfficial · 2024-11-24T11:14:32+00:00

To women, it's about winning. To men, it's about freedom.

LionAR1999 · 2024-11-24T09:29:00+00:00

So just found out that there are temp orders associated with this. Not sure what they are

warwww · 2024-11-24T03:48:38+00:00

You’ve established that she lied straight to your eyeballs. What are you going to do now? Let her demean you further? Wait and pretend that your wife still wants to remain married to you? Pretend it will all go away?

Ask her for a copy of the filing she submitted or that you’ll simply get a copy from the courthouse. Once then you can begin separating yourself from this person.

Title	Wife filed and hasn’t told me…
Author	LionAR1999
Upvotes	27
Comments	21
Date	November 24, 2024 12:37 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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