It's been over 1.5 years. Recently a friend brought me back from a negative ideological mindset. I feel like myself again. I feel like I can let go and start building my life. But there's something that lingers... I feel like I've been conditioned to find my ex wife extremely hot. The women I see displayed on dating apps don't evoke lustful desire in the same way. Did you have this issue? Maybe it will improve after connecting with them?