Thread where we can be brutally honest about our standards without being shamed for having standards.

For me:

• Has a job

• Decent education

• Well groomed and hygienic (No unwashed ass, skid marks, yellow teeth, bushy eyebrows, bad skin, greasy hair, neckbeard, bad smell, dirty fingernails)

• Dresses well (I can't do a dude who wears sweatpants everyday)

• 5'8"+

• Fit (No skinnyfats either)

• Reads

• Enjoys deep discussions and doesn't pretend like he does. Can actually keep a conversation about a deep topic, whether it is politics, the environment, robots, philosophy, psychology, the universe or whatever.

• Not ugly, not balding

• Somewhat healthy lifestyle (No drugs, preferably no smoker, doesn't drink too much, not heavily into fast food)

• Willing to leave the house (No gaming 24/7)

• Respects his mother (unless she's abusive/etc.)

• Doesn't believe in slut shaming

• Doesn't watch a lot of porn

• If a virgin, he isn't bitter about it

• Generally, not desperate/needy/pushy

• Willing to pay on a date/for a Valentine's gift/etc

• Is willing to learn how to please a woman sexually or knows it already

• Doesn't project his insecurities onto women

• No "muhhh friendzone" expecting female friends to settle for him

• No shallow ass who rates women or constantly judges their appearance

• Doesn't call women high maintence and shames them for wearing makeup and using cosmetics