I was having conversation with my friend and she said the best revenge/avenge you could do to someone is let him continue to live like how he used to. For example, if he has excessive porn usage, let him continue to do that. Let him drown in his own uncontrollable desires and waste his time away on his own before he realizes.

Whenever a guy I meet for a date mentions his LVM habit, I just smirk and say “good”. Because self destruction is the worst thing. Because you’re not interfering in his life and giving advice, until he realizes on his own, he’ll continue to live like that. One of my ex and problematic lying habit to all his ex gf so when we broke up, I didn’t say anything. I’m not going to scold him or correct him. I’ll let him continue to live like that until he encounter bigger problems resulting from his own lies.

Always remember opposite of interest and love isn’t hate, it’s apathy and indifference.

Whenever I stop having feelings for a guy, I don’t say anything. I smile and act polite but he’s just a by-passer like you see on the streets. So whatever he does is none of my issues. So if he replies late, I don’t say anything. If he contacts his ex or female friend, I don’t say anything but slowly I drift away and meet other guys without saying anything. Once he realized what he has done wrong, it’s too late since by that time, I already blocked him on every media.