this shit is getting old

Volksy99 · 2026-04-18T17:42:41+00:00

Part of the whole agenda is to discourage men and tear down masculinity. Your life is yours. No matter what labels they want to put on you, you know who you are.

SarcasticallyCandour · 2026-04-18T17:45:16+00:00

Ive seen the racist stuff on X while the anti male bile on reddit is Olympic sport level.

I guess men need to be vocal. When do activism it often works. I remember the "boys are stupid throw rocks at them" tshirts were pulled from amazon when Glenn Sacks campaigned against it.

It jusr universities, schools, media and government cheer on anti male bile. Imo its rarely challenged.

A_Vinegar_Taster · 2026-04-18T17:37:09+00:00

You should not feel bad for anything you didn't do. I'm sorry this is weighing on you. The only thing I can say is that you need to treat it like someone said you started the Great Fire of London in 1666. If someone accused you of that, you'd just look at them with an "are you fn serious right now?" expression and just move on with your day. Same thing.

Keep your distance from anyone trying to make you feel bad for who you are just because some other person who looks like you did something awful. Keep your head up high. Keep being a good man. Be proud of your accomplishments. Do not let lesser people bring you down.

RJF_420 · 2026-04-18T19:03:01+00:00

I agree man as a black man from Gary Indiana all we have is us. Black, White, Yellow, we are all men 💯! Let's stop the division 🙏🏾!

Longjumping_Boat_107 · 2026-04-18T21:20:03+00:00

I’m a happily married father of two outstanding adult children, yet my own sister has frequently barked this nonsense to me about “all” men constantly. I don’t even communicate with her anymore, because of this. Hang in there my friend!

denvercaniac · 2026-04-19T14:17:30+00:00

Now I'm hearing "good men should protect women." Why? They trended killallmen. They want us dead. I'm not being kind to someone who wants me dead.

Cindylynn43 · 2026-04-18T23:31:12+00:00

I cannot begin to understand what you go through. I'd like you to know that women, like myself, appreciate your efforts to continue trying to do what is right. Especially, given the misandry and racism you face. It takes immense character to do the right thing when you have been harshly judged, criticized, and made to feel inferior. Men have every reason to mistrust us. The only voices you hear are the ones tearing you down and vilifying you. Many of us are realizing that feminism isn't what we were led to believe. We see through the lies and manipulations and we're trying to find ways to support men's rights.

calmly86 · 2026-04-18T18:16:25+00:00

We all feel you. The thing to remember is that while women fear the ugly man in the dark alley so much, the irony is that they have the most to fear from the charismatic men they gravitate towards and let their guard down with. The best thing we can do is hold the men who do harm women accountable but remind women that we cannot do that if women continuously keep choosing those very men and giving them the opportunity to hurt them.

kootenayboy501st · 2026-04-18T18:36:06+00:00

I'm noticing for the first time we as a society are drawing a line between black and those in that community who break laws and act out I can't use the term being used it comes from that community so..... but that's encouraging it shows self policing and a More universal recognition kind of like we do labeling our assholes we have no cool terms lol i find it encouraging moving from the blanket racism to this select few are the problem

Aexaus · 2026-04-19T06:26:34+00:00

Oof. Healthcare in general is very anti-male. You're going to run into a lot of misandry, and they're allowed to do it.

Significant_Koala_61 · 2026-04-18T21:51:07+00:00

I’m not black but I hear you bro, I’m a white man, so all the entitlements that come with that, or so we were told and now going through custody battle in a system that was designed for me to be a compliant cuck basically

Phasitron · 2026-04-18T23:58:55+00:00

Please excuse my ignorance but what rape website?

admins_R_r0b0ts · 2026-04-19T00:26:11+00:00

The point is to prevail against evil, and you are doing it! Take heart, soldier. You are a good person, and that is a magnificent accomplishment. Don't despair but instead continue on your mission. If you do not have a spiritual life, consider looking into it. All my strength in the face of adversity as a man comes from God.

NoMortgage2156 · 2026-04-19T01:16:05+00:00

Me too brother

itsakon · 2026-04-19T04:00:02+00:00

It's so ridiculous.

For one, CNN basically made it up. They used the total number of people going to a complete porn site, 62 million, as "men" going to a supposed "rape academy".

Wonder how many millions of women go to the totally true step-sibling academies online.

We're in the midst of a "romantasy" fiction boom for women with all kinds of violence and bestiality. You can go on reddit's kink subs and easily find tons of women into crazy dark things, let alone online in general.

I've even talked to women with this exact kink online years ago. I thought it was super weird. That is... I'm just as sure they were women as CNN is sure they're talking about men.

On the heels that psychotic Pelicot tragedy in France along these lines, they found an anomymous global Telegram group of nearly a thousand ...people discussing this sick idea. Trading pics that claim to be the act. Some guy in Poland who says he does it.

An estimated six billion people use the internet.

cheezeter · 2026-04-20T01:08:38+00:00

I understand your frustration. Nobody admits that women rape husbands as they sleep to get pregnant. An uncle told me that he was groped by 2 female nurses at different times repeatedly when he was hospitalized after an accident. When he complained to his doctor, the physician wanted him to see a psychiatrist because he "should have enjoyed it." Almost daily, I read about a woman committing statutory rape with a male child, yet they barely get a punishment. As all of this is going on, society keeps telling us that we are the only predators. Fuck that shit. I'm sick of this gynarchy and all the bull shit that goes with it.

ColorMonochrome · 2026-04-18T19:46:32+00:00

I cannot control others. I can only control what I do and do not do. I choose to do the right things because I do not want to be like those who don’t.

I’m not a religious person, I’ve been to a church service maybe a dozen times in my life, but I believe in much of what religion teaches us. For whatever reason, it probably has more to do with my parents and the culture they instilled in me than anything else, this is the way I live my life regardless of how others act, regardless of how evil they are. I honestly couldn’t live any other way because I would never want to be like those who harm others.

I feel fortunate to be a man and to have this tribulation forced upon me. The world is lucky in that respect because we are men and we can take it. I’d much rather it be me who is forced to deal with it than children or the elderly. I’ll gladly accept being the focus of their hate and attacks because I am a man and not only can I take it, I will thrive in the face of it. Challenges and attacks don’t weaken me, they toughen me and make me far stronger.

They know not what they do.

Working_Parsley_2364 · 2026-04-18T19:03:03+00:00

I'm a white European man and I'm sorry for what you have been through. I can definitely relate to all the stuff we have to deal with for being male, However I still understand that I would have it much worse if I were a racial minority and I try to do my best to fight against racism any chance I get.

Ironically it has been the feminists who have taught me to pay more attention to racsim and white supremacy with them arrogantly denying that female privilige is real it made me realise how I'm still priviliged for being white and have started to pay more attention to these issues.

Jaded-Intention8457 · 2026-04-19T07:48:52+00:00

Have hope, and don’t underestimate the power of not giving a care in the world and ignoring the mindless words of these people. You should be proud of yourself, you did all the right things most people don’t do. Took responsibility and protected our country. I think young men like myself are realizing that many men before me have fought for this country so valiantly but now the country is cucked out by awful politicians and an ungrateful populous. We’re definitely going to move the needle back to normalcy, but it’s gonna take a few years or decades. Your sacrifices won’t be for nothing, because there’s a growing group of young American men who are sick of the bs

DankuTwo · 2026-04-20T07:34:35+00:00

This is basic intersectionality. You’re getting hit twice: once for being black, the other for being a man. Richard Reeves talk about this a fair bit (he’s white, but I think his kids are biracial/black-presenting? I don’t recall exactly).

There’s no real solution sadly. Even being better than all that still puts the burden of being a “model X” on your shoulders.

It just sucks. All there is to it. All you can do is carry on and make the best of it. It’s all any of us can do.

SidewaysGiraffe · 2026-04-20T16:49:21+00:00

Violating rule #3? Yeah, I agree.

Contranovae · 2026-04-18T18:48:47+00:00

You are obviously a good man, self aware and as a single father have been in the trenches with us. You are the kind of man that I would be happy to have as a next door neighbor, no bullshit.

However the fact is that race does matter a huge amount in America.

I am an immigrant and the most racist shit I ever encountered was from black people and especially my MIL.

They (in laws) moved out of the ghetto and right out to the white suburbs as soon as they could afford to because of what my FIL who was sometimes friendly to me described as the crabs in a bucket mentality. When we briefly lived in a black area because of divorce my little boys were threatened for looking white and I was told to GTFO or else.

When you have one group whose average - not all - but average IQ and violent behavior diverges from the other by so much then you are obviously going to have serious fucking problems.

There are statistically zero white on black rapes in this country and at minimum the murder rate of black on white is 23x that of white on black and I am aware that ironically that much of this is caused by black fatherlessness caused by welfare incentives to destroy the black nuclear family thanks to LBJ.

I do not see any easy solution to this and would welcome a conversation about this.

DecrepitAbacus · 2026-04-18T22:14:54+00:00

Black men were the canaries in the mine.

Terrible-Mind2633 · 2026-04-19T03:16:48+00:00

The wild thing is that a person can be accused of rape if alcohol is involved and coercion. Tbh by this definition many of us have had sex under the influence of alcohol or have been coerced into having sex therefore could have the legal technical grounds to say I’ve been raped. Not gonna lie personally Ive had a couple women that weren’t going to take no for an answer. With men its just seen differently because where physically stronger in most cases, naturally aggressive, usually horn dogs, and across all races/ethnicities were the patriarchy in our respective cultures and that role comes with an increased level of criticism from those we lead.

RADsupernova · 2026-04-19T11:40:54+00:00

First of all, thank you for your service. Secondly, death is too easy for rapists. I think they need to have their balls chopped off and fed to them before they get buried alive. But naturally, for the rest of us non rapists, I am absolutely disgusted to get lumped in with those abominable people. But I'm a man, so I must be a natural rapist of course... Being blamed for that sort of shit while having not committed it is unforgivable.

Spiritual-Visual-112 · 2026-04-19T16:49:52+00:00

Y’all are violent though, I’m just saying 😳

Rare-Discipline3774 · 2026-04-18T20:07:03+00:00

It's always been all men

Smacktardius · 2026-04-19T07:22:01+00:00

man would you have hated the 1960's

ShabbyJerking · 2026-04-18T22:48:36+00:00

How about you don't bust your ass for the right thing?

Title	this shit is getting old
Author	Key_Candidate7773
Upvotes	240
Comments	41
Date	April 18, 2026 5:30 PM UTC (3 months ago)
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