This goes BOTH ways

Battleship1239 · 2020-08-24T14:13:08+00:00

The sad reality we live in.

At this point a woman could shoot your leg, you smack her film her shooting you first and you defending second, and the guy stills gets in trouble because she is no matter what the victim.

Lot's of women are the spoiled brats of society (including my own mother, whom I have plenty of stories about), they think they can get away with anything, then when they can't, play victim and get the blame on someone else.

And this needs to change, we need people to learn the actual stories. Not the fairy tales. Because I thought at young age we were taught the difference between the two, obviously some weren't.

mtg-nerd-alert · 2020-08-24T12:59:25+00:00

Jesus. This is so wrong. How are we even supposed to fix this

RockmanXX · 2020-08-24T15:15:31+00:00

I don't advocate violence but how can you get beat as much as the second picture and NOT retaliate?

Apple_OfThe_Earth · 2020-08-24T14:36:09+00:00

If it gets to a point of the second picture, that's not an abusive relationship, it's law abiding torture. When you get to that point you go and buy a shovel, and start digging a hole, either for yourself or her.

trickster55 · 2020-08-24T17:26:38+00:00

That's fucking horrifying. I can't imagine the psyche damage she did to him, if his body was roughed up that badly. Goddamn I hope he fully recovers.

jpowell180 · 2020-08-24T20:23:36+00:00

Crazy thing is, had she broken a finger punching him, she could actually press charges!

Kirrawynne · 2020-08-24T21:43:30+00:00

Short story: A very long while ago, my brother started dating this woman. My mom and I both commented that we felt something was off about her when we met her but couldn’t explain why. Fast forward to her blatant lying about having been married and having children, my brother caught her trying to open credit cards in his name with his private information that she stole. Her way of retaliation was to file a request for a restraining order because she said she feared for her safety. She drug my brother through the court system for years by failure to show up, changing counsel at the last minute, etc. my brother showed up at every date and complied with everything he was supposed to. In the end, it got dismissed and a warrant for her arrest was made because of her playing the court system. Not much satisfaction for a mid 20s guy scared about repercussions due to a false report. I offered more than once to beat the shit out of her and he asked me not to so I didn’t get in trouble.

Years later, we discovered she has spent the last 20 years of her life in and out of jail and being homeless. I take satisfaction in that.

Fuck cunts that try and do succeed in abusing men and try to hide their bad behavior by framing men as the perpetrators. I hope they die lonely and painfully.

Privateaccount84 · 2020-08-24T18:08:45+00:00

Haven’t had to do this often, but my solution is a sturdy push. They land on their ass, and it seems much less violent than hitting back.

Kirrawynne · 2020-08-24T21:31:32+00:00

Oh my god. I’m beyond disturbed and disgusted by this. I can’t think of words to properly describe what I’m feeling.

These abusers need to be locked up and have the key thrown away.

Stand up for our brothers, fathers, male friends and loved ones. This is never okay unless it’s a literal fight for your life.

Expose these worthless excuses for women and let them feel the backlash for their actions.

I hope they rot.

tachanka82 · 2020-08-24T22:13:25+00:00

Was married for a couple of years and my then wife would become a monster whenever she would drink. I did love her and did what I thought a good spouse would do and get her some help. She went to therapy and had a good run at kicking the alcohol for a couple of months.

I was getting ready to go back to work overseas for 90 days, I was contracting at the time, and took a small vacation with her. We both decided to lighten up and have ONE beer together. I left for the restroom for 10 min and by the time I came back she had snook in several shots. She was tiny and her tolerance was low enough to get her drunk at that point. I could sense the shit storm coming so I talked her into going back to our suite.

Soon as we got in there she went apeshit. Started cussing me and trying to hit me, I just told her to lay the hell down and get some rest and I took a shower while contemplating my next course of action. I decided I would talk to her about it whenever she were sober.

Behold- when I was stepping out of the shower I heard allot of ruckus. So I turned the audio recorder on with my phone and left it in the counter.

She was trying to destroy the hotel room, removed all her clothes, and upon seeing me, tried to leave the room...naked. I just blocked the door and tried to talk her down, she continued to try to hit me. She then screamed for help and told me that someone would call the cops, I’d get arrested (even though I never touched her), and I’d lose my security clearance.

Somehow nobody ever came and at about 3AM she just got in the shower and fell asleep in there with it running. I just left her there and waited until the morning.

That morning, I contacted my employer, arranged to fly straight to work from there, and sent her ass home alone. Then contacted a lawyer, had her served divorce papers; and sent the audio recording to her, her mother, and her sister (whom I’m still friends with today).

I got messages and phone calls from her entire family offering apologies and according to her sister, nobody talks to her much anymore.

She’s now with some dude that she lives a drinking lifestyle with now and they hate him.

I feel like I won. Oh and she didn’t get a damn thing out of the divorce except having to take over the payments on the Jeep we had in our name that she demanded. Good riddance.

That was three years ago- I’ve since quit working overseas and now I am a happy man being single, working on motorcycles, and riding old choppers.

The only girl I need now

Arrogant_with_cause · 2020-08-24T15:26:01+00:00

Do you mind marking this as nsfw? No offence, I totally feel you, but I just didn't need to see this in my morning

jer487 · 2020-08-24T20:22:01+00:00

"She knew damn well i wouldn't hit her back..."

Why though? Just hit her back.

420tacoo · 2020-08-25T04:37:15+00:00

🙋

I was a male victim of physical abuse by a female partner. Called the police. They told me to stay somewhere else for the night?!

It was my apartment??????????

DJ_GalaxyTwilight · 2020-08-24T15:58:22+00:00

What objects she used to hit you like that.

Jasons-revenge · 2020-08-25T07:39:25+00:00

I’ll say what I heard from another user.

If a man hits a women he’s an abusive asshole. When a women hits a man he must’ve said something for her to hit him therefore he’s an abusive asshole

Title	This goes BOTH ways
Author	DaddyNihel
Upvotes	1064
Comments	61
Date	August 24, 2020 9:07 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/iflksh/this_goes_both_ways/
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