This sub is full of 'do this behaviour' but 'don't do this behaviour' and 'women like that behaviour' but 'women don't like this other behaviour'. There's also a lot of gotcha-type comments along the lines of 'ah, but only if he's attractive, amirite?'

Well, yes, obviously. I don't understand the tone of a lot of this, as if some kind of point has been scored if you can get a woman to admit she only likes X thing in attractive men. Dudes, you're exactly the same. Megan Fox coming up behind you, licking your neck and grabbing your junk? Yay! Obese 50-something with missing teeth and greasy hair doing the same? Uuuurgh.

There's a thread on here right now with a bunch of RPers talking about the guy who asks "are you OK?" and how pathetic and panty-dehydrating that it. Have any of you considered that the reaction to a question like this - or the reaction to literally any behaviour or phrase or act or whatever - is almost entirely dependent on the person doing it? I.e. that none of these 'tips' are meaningful because the person implementing them is the important part?

"Are you OK?" from someone one finds unattractive isn't good. Imagine a whiny tone, an overly-concerned expression, a physically unattractive person. Now imagine that same question from a man the woman is REALLY into. Suddenly, the whole situation is hot af. Instead of wanting to run away, she wants to rip off her now-hydrated undergarments and throw herself at his feet.

I'm not convinced game matters, not when it comes to hitting on strangers or looking for ONS. Approaching matters, because even if she thinks you're hot, you're not going to go home with her unless she does the approaching, which isn't likely (most women want to be pursued, most women feel awkward doing the pursuing). But after the approach, there's nothing else you can do. Either she's attracted or she's not. If she is, all you have to do is avoid having a foul enough personality to put her off. If she isn't, there's nothing you can do or say to get her to go home with you.

Attraction is the only thing that matters. It is not entirely about looks but in stranger situations it's mostly about looks. Also other surface-level things like body language, voice, the way people handle themselves with others etc.

Agree? Disagree?