Non-RP men

Landry86 · 2017-06-07T18:34:57+00:00

I don't think actual red pill truth is even the same thing as the "red pill theory" because not everything every person who calls themselves "red pill" posts is true or accurate. In fact, many of them are as blue pill as it gets.

I interpret a TRUE "red pill" man as someone who is unafraid of hard truths and continually seeks truth. They don't have to identify as "Red Pill" to do this. Some people are just like that naturally and don't need a theory to tell them what to do or how to behave.

I am 31 years old and have been in a few long-term relationships. Only one (my most recent) identified as "red pill". We broke up for unfortunate reasons and it was devastating for me because I enjoyed being involved with a RPM. My previous relationships were not as honest and therefore not as fulfilling. So, to answer your question, yes, I seek red pill men, but again, they do not have to identify as "red pill". All they have to do is be masculine, intelligent, and unafraid of truth.

teaandtalk · 2017-06-07T23:49:25+00:00

What do you mean by a RP man? One who's aware of TRP? Or one who's naturally alpha? RP isn't a philosophy, it's a description of the world as it is. Do I want a man who reads /r/theredpill? Probably not: too many of them are stuck in an anger phase & willing to blame feminism for everything without taking any responsibility for their own actions.

My husband is a smart, strong, protective, kind, motivated, gentle, loyal, sexy, witty, wonderful man. I wouldn't say he's a RP man, he's just a good man. Which is perfectly fine by me.

V1SoR · 2017-06-07T18:20:03+00:00

Pretty sure most women on here don't date redpilled men. In fact, I think an RP man is absolutely incompatible with an RP woman, because each side is (usually) after different things (sex and commitment, respectively). The general consensus among local ladies, from what I can tell, is that their "captain" should be a mix of alpha and beta traits (so neither truly RP nor pure beta).

mrsdazed · 2017-06-08T00:42:48+00:00

The more I read RPW, the more I understand what do I really look for in a man. It's not exactly an RP guy, but a Captain.

I have dated both. Those who are not aware of RP, and those who don't have Captain quality. Most of them are not exactly a bad man. They are nice loving men and all, but the main quality I think they lack of is the leadership skill. So the relationship is not going to the direction that is planned and thought through.

I wasn't aware of RP at that time, but I knew that I wanted to look for someone who can guide me. And yes, I was actively looking for that kind of guy.

My Husband is a very great man and he has the Captain quality. But yes, he is aware of the RP and sometimes I think it makes him... for the lack of better word, angry all the time. Does it bother me? Yes. Does it make me want to leave and find another Captain? No.

soviette- · 2017-06-08T04:07:17+00:00

I would rather date a non-RP man. I know what creates attraction and what upholds passion in a relationship or marriage.

Speaking from experience: I find that there is a lack of security in dating a RP man - which is what most women are looking for here.

saffronbelle · 2017-06-08T04:21:09+00:00

I don't think my boyfriend even knows what "red pill" means, save for the Matrix or something. I've been on the RP subreddit before and I probably wouldn't date 99% of the guys on there. Way too much vitriol for my taste and you can only read the words 'cum dumpster' so many times.

Anyways, I sought out for a strong, masculine man who encourages me to be my best and cares for me... and got one :) Our relationship is pretty traditional as well.

RainbowKitty77 · 2017-06-08T14:07:30+00:00

My boyfriend isn't aware of the red pill to my knowledge. Never dated anyone who was. However my man's pretty traditional.

mymonster8u · 2017-06-10T23:06:56+00:00

I was with a beta man. We were in highschool together. He was 3 years older than me and quite tall and strong. He was atractive enough i guess. I was not interested in dating him but he whined and begged and bullied and wore me down. He tried for a while to redpill it. He lost weight got fit got a job. He was fat unkept and was kinda a bitch though. The kind of guy that mansplains and throws a tantrum when he dosent get his way. Now i say that because its really important as to why we are not still together. Its the reason even after I had kids with him we lived together and both were financially stable it didnt work out. These problems translated into serious issues when we were living together as adults. He became a main child. He leached off of me to no end. He put in 0 work on our kids and didnt share his income. He became fatter. The tantrums turned into holes in the walls and he did not reapect my sexual boundaries or treat me well during sex. I can tell you i.tried really hard to take care of myself and be a good wife but he sucked. I chose the wrong partner. This sub make such an emphasis on choosing the right man and its so important. It has especially made dating after kids as a single mom more difficult.

notthatjennydeath · 2017-06-18T12:41:43+00:00

Depends on the kind. Red Pill is such a vague term and could easily apply to a /r/TRP subscriber which is practically like /r/incels now and really not the kind of person I want to date. I wouldn't worry about labelling it too much.

But definitely not a feminist; male feminists just reek of being a pushover and out to pick up nice guy points in the hope of getting laid.

Title	Non-RP men
Author	fairydust91
Upvotes	29
Comments	23
Date	June 7, 2017 4:59 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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