Finally Told Her

red-sfpplus · 2018-02-20T17:27:10+00:00

We text often on the weekends and a few during the weeknights. She often initiates this because she knows my situation and is horny as fuck.

You are a dick, and I guarantee this woman is not a 10. You are a beta bitch to both your wife and this woman. No man, complains to another woman about the BS in his home. No real man anyway. A real man doesnt need pity from another woman to try and get in her pants. You are a cry baby.

Your wife sounds like she is OK, and even picked up slack to allow you to go to school. She sounds supportive and seems to be behind you.

She is slacking in sex, because you are failing to lead. You are intrigued by the grass is green 10, and probably neglecting the wife as a result.

You have night classes, which I am sure cuts into the time you can game, kino, etc. What have you done to try and keep things spiced up under the new workload - both hers and yours? All I see is you crying on here.

How would you feel if she was texting some guy in her class? I bet your post would be totally different.

Were you a big tough guy and show her the texts you and your girl you wish you were fucking were sending to each other? That is some awesome beta dread let me tell you.

Her crying was not a shit test, it was you being a fucking prick of a man.

Fuck off. Go be a man and fix your shit, you are the definition of an autistic Rambo.

zingy654 · 2018-02-20T17:23:08+00:00

Sorry, not impressed.

Won the battle, lost the war. Now you are in a relationship based on fear, go give your self a pat on the back. Not everything is justifiable for sex, sometimes you have to respect other peoples (your wife!) needs. This is not red pill behaviour, this is just being small.

yesbuthereswhy · 2018-02-20T17:39:13+00:00

I’m married and a subscriber of married red pill. You need to get on there and get yourself together. None of this “give me sex or else nonsense.” You’re cheating on your wife by flirting with other women. That’s your business if you choose to do that but you went from 0-100. You need to learn the levels of dread and be patient.

2ndal · 2018-02-20T18:01:47+00:00

You are a weak, validation seeking cunt bag. I really hope you don't delete this post. It's a great example to point to when other guys ask how not to act.

Here are a few of the problems:

-- Covert contracts everywhere. "This has barely worked to change the wife's behaviour." You are doing shit not to make yourself a better man but because you think your wife will respond accordingly.

-- Can't negotiate desire. "I will update you guys when I get the anal she promised me on my birthday, which she hasn't given me yet." First, please don't update us. We honestly don't give a shit. Second, do you want obligation anal sex (which she hasn't even given you) because it's your special day, birthday boy, or do you want it because your wife is willing to do whatever a high quality man wants her to?

-- Watch what she does, not what she says. "She tells me her body is tired from working all day, coming home to cook and pick up, but I know that's bullshit because she is always telling me how happy she is to do it." You're dropping the ball. You're a drunk captain. Lead your household. Your wife needs you to, but she knows subconsciously your fragile ego can't handle her saying outright that you're not pulling your weight.

-- Validation seeking. This entire post is one big public jerk off.

ReddJive · 2018-02-20T18:04:36+00:00

Look at the ego on you.

Dude comes in HERE posting how he told his woman what to do and straighten up.

BUT if you look at his post history he posts an awful lot in Femdom sub.

Yeah I have no idea what the issue is. GTFO.

Crossed_the_Rubicon · 2018-02-20T18:08:28+00:00

According to your post history, you have described yourself as a white cis male hetero and you are into femdom. That lifestyle is not congruent with MRP. How can your wife submit to your leadership when, if even covertly, you want her to dominate you?

ConsciousPI · 2018-02-20T19:37:12+00:00

This is either a troll, you have no clue or both.

cholomite · 2018-02-20T19:39:56+00:00

Your wife doesn't find you sexually attractive. That's the bottom line. It's either your personality or your appearance, or both, but whatever it is, you are unable to get her sexually aroused to the point where she wants to have sex with you.

Your ultimatum was a weak move. She only fucked you so she wouldn't lose her wallet. You know that, right?

Here is what she heard when you "stated your rights"...

"I know I'm not able to seduce or arouse you, but if you don't pretend to be aroused by me, I'm going to leave, and I'm taking my resources, aka the only value I have, with me."

You're so fucked I'm starting to agree with everyone who thinks you're a troll.

FoxShitNasty83 · 2018-02-20T19:46:33+00:00

damn it got deleted

donedreadpirate · 2018-02-20T18:41:53+00:00

I know you guys mean well but writing paragraphs worth of analysis for these shit posts isn't helping anyone. Let this guy think he's got it figured out. If he's real, he can't even get his dick wet. "The Anal"? Jesus. There's aspie troll retard written all over this post and he didn't come for help, he came to brag about his PhD in ultimatums.

Big_Daddy_PDX · 2018-02-20T17:48:15+00:00

You are lost. Orbiting some skirt that you’ve pedestalized as a “10” and all the beta texting only makes you look like you’re having an emotional affair. You’re getting starfish sex from a tired First Officer because you aren’t taking care of business. You were off in your own world passing shit tests when your wife was throwing comfort tests at you.

ReddJive · 2018-02-20T19:25:10+00:00

Yeah. One time interest.

Femdom Red Pill

xfactor90 · 2018-02-20T19:38:42+00:00

You're a total dork. Next

Corleone84 · 2018-02-20T19:46:41+00:00

Obvious troll

Turbotec · 2018-02-20T19:51:11+00:00

First off, From TWOTSM: “A man's capacity to receive another man's direct criticism is a measure of his capacity to receive masculine energy. If he doesn't have a good rela- tionship to masculine energy, then he will act like a woman and be hurt or defensive rather than make use of other men's criticism.”

Why are you here? You have rejected every single piece of advice given to you!

Second, MRP is about making the man better! What are you doing currently to make yourself better? Because it seems all you are talking about is HER!

And from what I’ve read from your comments in this thread, it’s no wonder she doesn’t want to fuck you. Do you kino? Are you fun to be around? Do you plan and lead date nights. Laugh. Have a good time? You should be doing all this for yourself and she as a byproduct will come around. But to me it sounds like your focus is all her. Give less fucks. Recheck your frame. And start reading the sidebar and suggested reading material. Oh and LOSE your ego!

Reach180 · 2018-02-20T18:51:57+00:00

She just starfishes now. I work out, tease her, kino, AA and all that, yet she still doesn't take any initiative. She tells me her body is tired from working all day, coming home to cook and pick up, but I know that's bullshit because she is always telling me how happy she is to do it.

Why is this written in present tense if you've figured things out?

Westernhagen · 2018-02-20T19:00:33+00:00

You make $120k after taxes and you're going for a PhD? What a stupid plan.

Title	Finally Told Her
Author	ich_bin_doch_geil
Upvotes	0
Comments	61
Date	February 20, 2018 4:59 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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