AWALT

AWALT

What does this mean? Most of us know that it means All Women Are Like That, but all too often we all assume we are in the same page with what that actually means or implies.

AWALT means that there are certain scenarios and ways of thinking where women behave basically the same… all women. WITHOUT EXCEPTION - It doesn’t mean that almost all women are like that except the one snowflake you found. It also doesn’t mean that all women act the same way in every situation. It just means all women act basically the same in certain situations.

Think of it like a continuum

For each AWALT, every woman will fall somewhere on the continuum. On a scale of 1-10, some women will be a 10 for that behavior, meaning they have an extremely strong propensity towards that particular AWALT. Another woman might be a level 5 for example. But, on true AWALT behaviors, ALL women will be 5 or greater. Of course, in practice, there can be a big difference between a 5 and a 10 on the continuum.

Hypergamy is an example of an AWALT. All women are hypergamous. A women who is a 10 in hypergamy will basically always be looking to upgrade and will take those opportunities to upgrade whereas a woman who is a 5 on this trait won’t be so quick to act on that nature - reasons may vary.

Solipsism is another example of an AWALT.
sol·ip·sism: the view or theory that the self is all that can be known to exist. They are unconsciously solipsistic - in other words, they don’t think about it consciously, but they behave like it and think like with without knowing it.

Have you ever been just sitting with a woman in silence, and suddenly she says something out loud about something she has been thinking about in her head? It makes no sense to you because you don’t know the context of her comment because before she said something out loud it only existed in her head and it was part of a long chain of thoughts in her head. This is an example of solipsism. She says it out loud assuming you will understand that thought, but you can’t because you don’t know the context. To her, since she is the only thing that exists, she assumes you are part of that world in her head.

If a man is trying to get a woman who can fully love him the way he wants to be loved, he will always end up disappointed. She may fake like she can do it for quite some time, but eventually her solipsistic and hypergamous nature will be revealed. It’s not that she doesn’t care… she’s just incapable of fully appreciating a man and loving him the way he wants to be loved. AWALT

Because of strong evolutionary experiences, she will always default to putting herself and kids first. So, evolution combined with solipsism prevents her from fully appreciating a man unless he is offering her something… it’s a what have you done for me lately type situation. It’s not bad or good. It just is. It’s AWALT

Just like a dog is not bad for not acting like a cat. A dog is just a dog. It’s best that you as a man understands this in order for you to effectively deal with it.

At first glance , AWALTS may appear very negative towards women, but they are not. They are realistic, and they are truthful. And they also have a positive side to them, depending on the context.

Not that having a great relationship with a woman is the end goal, But in order to have a great relationship with a woman, a man needs to not only understand the various AWALTS like this, but he also needs to ACCEPT Them.

Then, he needs to apply effective ways of dealing with AWALTs. Just saying, “oh well, it’s AWALT,” or just pointing an AWALT is meaningless and tends to make men bitter if they only focus on the negativity of an AWALT without going to the next step and figuring out ways to deal with AWALTs, and better yet capitalizing on the positive of those AWALTs.

Here is the good news … you as a man almost always have an AMALT (all men are like that) that will naturally help you deal with any given AWALT. The problem the media, films, tv, society… etc are very effective at befuddling men and making them forget their AMALTs. So, instead, men often become prone to ONEitis and talking about deep feelings with women.

The problem with talking about deep feelings with women is one of their AWALTs is they need a man they can look up to. If the man is constantly whining and talking about feelings, women view this as weakness in men. Sorry, not sorry - that’s just how it is, and the sooner you accept that and start talking about your feelings with men friends, the better off you are.

The other thing to remember is ultimately women will encourage a man to talk about feelings as part of the betaization process. Ultimately they want the man to become domesticated but not too much. However, their nature is to continue testing the man , and if he fails to see he is being betaized, she will eventually become disgusted with him and lose attraction to him. This is the nature of the testing - through evolution she is subconsciously trained to make sure the man she is with will be strong enough to protect her, so the testing never ends. It’s a survival of the fittest mechanism for her to always be testing. A strong man is mostly indifferent to shit testing

The good news is if you become a strong man, you will easily pass such tests and avoid total betaization.

It is, in fact, a paradox… seemingly counterintuitive that in order to have a great relationship you need to accept AWALTS. But, at the end of the day, a quality man can take or leave a relationship with a woman, and the stay plan is the same as the go plan**

Coming to acceptance with the nature of women yet remaining bitter and resentful falls short of the ideal. Many men are currently falling into this trap.

The ideal is to move past acceptance to indifference, to DNGAF. Ironically, coming to indifference actually gives you the upper hand in a relationship. This doesn’t mean that you are indifferent towards the person you are with. You can still love them immensely. It just means you become unattached to the outcome and can be happy with whatever happens.

You become a man with a mission, and that mission is always number one to you.

It doesn’t mean you let her walk all over you or abuse you. It means that by understanding and accepting AWALTS you are able to deal with them much more effectively if you also understand your own nature as a man.

But, at the same time, it needs to be stressed that you always need to remain your own center of reference. This is true frame. A woman should complement your life, not be on a pedestal.

THIS IS IMPORTANT You are not doing all of this for a woman.

Essentially, the fact women are like children because they get caught up in the emotion of the situation is also AWALT. We tend to present AWALTS on RP pages as negative, but it just as important to point out that there are also many positive AWALTS.

In fact, almost every negative AWALT has a positive flip side. For example, In the case of women being like children because they can get caught up in the moment, women’s ability to fully feel things in the moment can be viewed as a positive in some ways and in some situations.

For example, this trait can enable them to really let loose and have fun. Ever notice most women like to dance? Often, one of the biggest reasons is dancing is very expressive and enables them to get caught up in the joy of the moment.

So, it can be seen that you can use the flip side of almost any AWALT to bring out the positive in women. This doesn’t mean you become a dancing monkey, always trying to please her. It means you’re just a quality man who understands the nature of women and can have fun with that knowledge while staying in your frame.

When you play with a dog, you can throw a stick and the dog might chase it and joyfully bring it back to you. If you try to play with a cat like it’s a dog, you most likely won’t get good results!

You will like some things about dogs’ nature, and not like other things. The same is true with women. We can learn a lot from women just as they can learn a lot from us, and in such learning you can make your life more enjoyable as well as hers. But, I stress that you don’t need it to live your best life. It just falls in place like that.

Women tend to not be nearly as direct as men, AWALT, but if you pay attention they will tell you everything you need to know. The question is are you paying attention to the message. I see guys on here constantly listening to mouth noises instead of paying attention to women’s actions. That is a big mistake that you will pay for

Again, this doesn’t mean you live to make her happy, because only she can do that… but it means you can use her nature and yours to make your lives better. Or you can just choose to not have a woman in your life and still be happy. Either way, you and only you are responsible for your own happiness.

At first glance, discussing AWALTs may appear very negative towards women but it’s not. It’s realistic, and it’s truthful.

It you put in the work, you will find effective ways of dealing with AWALTs.

You will be able to deal with AWALTs appropriately without becoming resentful.

One more time, it needs to be stressed that you always need to remain your own center of reference - this is true frame. A woman should complement your life, not be put on a pedestal

Two more things

• If you think you found a snowflake, and you are early into the relationship (first year or two), always remember that she is on her best behavior trying to land you. All the the AWALTs will apply to her. Just because you don’t see them currently doesn’t mean she is exempt from AWALTs. It just means she’s on her best behavior trying to lock you in.

• and 2… listen up, this is vital…. You might even feel like this one is different because you feel like you can talk to her about your feelz. I have bad news for you, if you are talking about your feels with her, you are actually in stage 2 of the betaization process, where her goal is to get you to open up so that she can find ways where you can be useful to her later on.

If you are always looking up to a woman, that means she will be looking down on you

How do you get there?

Mission

Lift

Sidebar

STFU