I always fail this shit test

rich_god · 2024-09-15T05:14:37+00:00

You realize it’s not a shit test, right ? It’s just someone filtering you and you trying to pretend you’re someone you’re not. You both want different things, why would you try to lie ?

The only way to « pass » this is to genuinely and authentically be looking for something serious. Then you can say « I’m not playing actually, and I’m truly looking to build something solid with the right person. It may be a bit early to know if it’s with you but we’ll see. »

But if you are playing, no matter what you say your vibe will give you away. Honesty is always the best medicine, I assure you that even if you manage to manipulate and lie to her effectively, you’re only creating situations you will regret and feel guilty about. If you are clear and transparent about your intentions, you will attract people that match them and it will be much easier and much more joyful.

Jironasaurus · 2024-09-15T05:44:16+00:00

"I didn't realize a little flirting means nothing serious will ever happen..."

Throw in a smile, and don't let it faze you.

Also, you're likely getting this because the both of you only connected on the surface, so you want your connection to go a little deeper.

CrazyRepulsive8244 · 2024-09-15T04:49:02+00:00

Some responses

Life is a game

Youve gotta earn it

I'm looking for someone special

I'm not an easy girl (said very jokingly obviously)

You have to wine and dine me first

Basically, use the opportunity to force her to validate herself or display higher value. Or indifference, which would be the first one. These responses will likely result in her qualifying you and you can then turn it into a joke or have higher value

OkProfessional9405 · 2024-09-15T06:30:34+00:00

I think you turn it around and say 'For the right woman I am definitely ready to be serious, do you think you're someone I should be serious about?'

It basically doesn't commit to anything and puts her in a position of selling herself.

Ancient-Position-696 · 2024-09-15T05:35:36+00:00

Tell her "whether it's casual or serious, I'm not looking to play games"

Affectionate-Ant4888 · 2024-09-15T05:11:25+00:00

you are just playing, you are player, would it work if you tell her, if I'm not in a serious relation I can date as much women as I want lol, I remember that one from david d angelo, if the girl ask you if you are player, seems similar, remember it doesn't matter the meaning, it's all about tonality and body language!

videogames_ · 2024-09-15T05:38:23+00:00

You did fine. Sometimes if it just hits wrong for the girl then it's her own issue or lack of compatibility too.

lubwn · 2024-09-15T04:52:04+00:00

All of them should work in theory. But I think girls are testing you whether you do this regularly or not with other girls. Deep down they want something serious and not to be another plaything or at least know it is something special even for you.

So I would try laughing it off and say something like "Of course I am just playing, I do this everytime I meet a new person randomly" (implying that it is stupid to even ask that question).

But my approach to this might be wrong as well.

Title	I always fail this shit test
Author	only05ling
Upvotes	101
Comments	14
Date	September 15, 2024 4:12 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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