Game changers

ThrowRA_fajsdklfas · 2026-01-02T16:12:06+00:00

Age.

Being 37 recently single, best shape of my life, and finally matured looks wise. I always looked young. People regularly think I’m early 30’s.

random-nerd17 · 2026-01-02T16:16:24+00:00

Not chasing, merely inviting

zebekias · 2026-01-02T19:07:43+00:00

My game changer was results with a few hot girls. It was not a clear single turning point, but eventually after years of blood sweat and tears I was confident to go after what I really wanted. Such a simple thing, yet complicated when you start.

Routine-Sky-5529 · 2026-01-02T18:27:35+00:00

Find a type
Haircuts and skincare
Weight lost

appmanga · 2026-01-02T16:58:24+00:00

"What was the biggest game changer for you in your life with seduction?"

Realizing that women want to get laid as much as men do.

"The thing that led to the most results?"

Learning how to build connection. There are people, especially these days, who don't believe this is possible, or think it's some kind of trickery. I love how my life is, but I wouldn't mind being 25 again for a couple of weeks in today's world since the competition appears to be much, much, thinner.

Relevant_Occasion_33 · 2026-01-02T16:20:37+00:00

Besides practicing a lot with talking to women, dressing well will really help you. When I started putting more effort into fashion, I would get women come up to me at bars more often.

cloutier85 · 2026-01-02T22:34:59+00:00

Casual sex is fun until its not.

ThatDarnSmell · 2026-01-02T18:42:33+00:00

For me it was probably marriage and divorce. I realized more what I value in a partner and what things i just with no longer tolerate with people. Like now I wouldn't have sex or go on additional dates with anyone if I sense a toxic mental state such as NPD/BPD.

Distinct_Bluebird_93 · 2026-01-03T18:34:43+00:00

What was the biggest game changer for you in your life with seduction?

The thing that led to the most results?

literally preservering and keeping going out, its a marathon, lots of nights out are shit, but overall you gradually improve and get better through experience,

most people give up too easily.

NamelesInternetDude · 2026-01-04T04:04:03+00:00

Having platonic female friends and family helps you humanize and understand women much better and leads to better game. They can be gross, horny, funny, goofy, mean, unsure of what they want, frustrated, ambitious... they are just people like you and me.

I feel like many men get caught up on the trap of treating women like a prize or something to attain and seek their aproval at all cost. The real change comes when you switch the frame from seeking them to just meeting them for fun.

Socializing with people in general, getting confortable with throwing random genuine compliments at people helps a lot.

RandomBlokeFromMars · 2026-01-03T18:54:53+00:00

not caring about it.

when i realized that, i stopped being a simp, and girls started to be attracted. i was 22 at that time.

i started being myself, unapologetic, improving myself for MYSELF, and not doing things i dont want just to be with a girl. and started saying NO.

Title	Game changers
Author	TheKingHairy
Upvotes	22
Comments	23
Date	January 2, 2026 4:03 PM UTC (6 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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