How to increase volume naturally?(without cold approach)

norwegiandoggo · 2026-01-10T13:48:31+00:00

Do you go to social events? You need to meet new people - which means going to social things alone sometimes.

confused_8357 · 2026-01-10T12:55:59+00:00

Whats wrong in cold approach?

FearInoculumTool · 2026-01-10T15:21:17+00:00

Unfortunately for you, no women live in Italy and haven’t been seen in those lands for decades.

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2026-01-11T04:24:58+00:00

Do a lot of cool stuff and aggressively expand your comfort zone. This will give you a high surface area with the general public and will increase your volume naturally.

Ok_Bandicoot3050 · 2026-01-11T13:23:49+00:00

I noticed I went on WAY more dates on dating apps when I started pitching a date early on in the first few messages. A lot of women want to just get off the app and spend time with a real life person.

I'd offer days I'm free. I'd suggest a location; or I'd offer 2 and let them pick. I try to be proactive. I wouldn't just say "hey want to do something some time".

And also improving the photos on the dating app. People are far more likely to go on a date with you if they love your profile rather than just like it.

Rude_Turnover568 · 2026-01-11T01:47:03+00:00

Get a better dating profile. That's the easiest way to get dates with little effort. If you want to increase the volume of interactions you have with girls naturally without having to walk up to them then you need to be part of something that naturally puts you into interactions with strangers. Like, if you were a bartender or DJ.

Happyseducer · 2026-01-11T21:17:25+00:00

Speed dating - if you can find it. It's very underrated - especially for building momentum

Doctor__Finance · 2026-01-10T16:29:11+00:00

You have to improve your game, and maybe focus on yourself more. That is, if cannot pull high-quality women, or women in higher quantities, there would be a couple of errs on your game. And don't forget, game is a general concept, that includes your behaviors and overall life style. Moreover, you are still young, give it a time. Meanwhile you can do online game and get good results tho, and social game is okay too if you have a large circle, but cold approach is the best one amongst them. That is the nature of life, you have to hunt.

Vegetable_Anty · 2026-01-10T16:57:20+00:00

Expand your social circle through clubs, events, or classes.

diggrecluse · 2026-01-11T17:37:00+00:00

Cold approach, hobbies, social events. I don't know why you want to ignore cold approach; even though it doesn't have the highest success rate, it's far and away the best way to get better at attracting women. The skills you learn from cold approaching will you make you a killer in easier environments, like parties, bars, social events.

Title	How to increase volume naturally?(without cold approach)
Author	G0dZylla
Upvotes	16
Comments	21
Date	January 10, 2026 12:48 PM UTC (6 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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