I’ve been speaking to this girl I met on Bumble for about a month now. Within the first 3 days she gave me her number (without me asking) and we got chatting and because of work, etc, we didn’t have our first date until about two weeks ago.

Our first date went really well, we have a lot in common, a lot of the same views on life/life goals and just had great chemistry.

Our second date was last weekend and again, it went really well and we both seemed to have a great time. We kissed on both dates and I really felt a connection that I haven’t particularly felt before.

She’s invited me to her friend’s engagement party in another months time and has told all her friends about me and close family.

I am meeting her again this weekend and wanted to bring up the exclusivity talk. However, one, she told me she has never had a boyfriend before (she’s 23) so I don’t want to come on too strong if she’s not as experienced as me (25). Two, I also don’t want to appear as “needy” and even though I feel I know her relatively well and have a lot in common with her, she might perceive this as a rush. On the other hand, if two people click and really like each other I don’t think there’s as big a need to wait as long before becoming exclusive. Maybe that’s just me.

I appreciate any helpful advice. Thanks :)