OK, I've never really been to this subreddit... but I guess it's time.

First of all, from looking at the glossary, I admit I am an AFC. I'm usually quite funny though, and don't suffer from AA, although I used to be quite shy. Not technically a virgin, but it's been over two years now since the last time... I'm 28, by the way.

Met a girl in a bar last Saturday night. She seemed cool, we had lots of laughs together, then I got her number and we kissed a bit (lips, tongue). She had work the next day. Anyway, asked her out for pizza a couple of days later. She arrives, is just gorgeous, much hotter than I actually noticed in my intoxicated state. Talked and had fun for a good three hours, didn't eat much... but it was somewhat harder to flirt physically in this situation. At the end of the night I walked her home and kissed her goodnight (again, a bit of tongue). Perhaps I could have tried to take it further, but nevermind. Next evening, she sends me a text saying it was nice to be with me the night before, and after a bit of texting I ask her to come to my place for some food and wine on Saturday night (tomorrow). She accepts :)

So there we are. I have planned and tried out the food I am going to cook. I've gotten a nice bottle of white wine and some sparkly too. Freshened up my wardrobe, and my apartment. I'm sort of ready. But I guess what I'm thinking about now is that I won't be able to take it from dinner in my own apartment to sex.

A little background could help perhaps? I'm a 28 year old engineer with a well-paying job and a nice, central apartment in a European city. She's a 21 year old studying to become a nurse in the same city, and I guess most normal people would say she's out of my league looks-wise. I don't really believe in that shit though. She seems down-to-earth, yet elegant... dresses very nicely. I'm about 6" taller than her, and though I have a tiny bit of extra flesh, I have been working out for a while, so I am fairly muscular (but not toned). Ok, I don't know if all this helps in any way.

I guess I would appreciate advice :)