Girls wanting commitment

Icy_Rub1839 · 2022-09-11T23:11:38+00:00

Asked be your gf on the first date!? That's Hella quick...

Will she be talking about marriage after a month?

kriegmonster · 2022-09-11T20:20:24+00:00

I'd be conemcerned and raise questions of why she is comfortable moving so fast. If we have a prior friendship and shaved values, then it makes sense to move into a serious relationship, but if you're first date is also meeting for the first time, then that is too fast.

labuschin · 2022-09-12T13:12:04+00:00

Unfortunately, it went no further than me touching her through her clothes.

Well, here's your answer. It seems all you want is her body. Tell her that.

Kennymacdougall · 2022-09-12T15:04:42+00:00

Very simple. Be honest. This way nobody gets hurt.

incognito3107 · 2022-09-12T07:00:57+00:00

She is afraid that you will dump here, once you will get your physical satisfaction with her. She will get emotionally involved, and you will move on.

I guess you can sincerely say something like "I don't know yet. Do you see me as your boyfriend already?" Or just don't say anything in particular like you did. But if you really just want to smash and she clearly wants something meaningful, maybe don't break her heart for some meaningless pounding?

Cookies993 · 2022-09-12T08:32:00+00:00

She’s either afraid of being used, or a psycho. Proceed with caution. Also just be honest with her, if you’re open for the idea, but unsure about it, just let her know that you want to date her and get to know her more before being official.

Just saying that if you see her just for a fun time, and you’re not open about that, it might backfire hard.

Think_History_5682 · 2022-09-12T13:10:02+00:00

As you grow up your going to find that women expect long term relationships in exchange for thier time and especially vagina. Like it's some kind of commodity..... Which unfortunately it is.

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-09-12T14:43:27+00:00

I would run lol. A girl who asks that on a first date where you guys didn't even fuck is a red flag haha. Even if you guys did fuck, that'd be a red flag. Next!

ftdrain · 2022-09-12T16:31:19+00:00

Quite a few girls do that to me, some say they love me the very first date during sex, but I look like a greek god naked, Id wager thats the reason, anyway, I give exactly 0 weight to it, women change their minds like the wind changes directions. I would never say that I love someone the first time I meet her, no matter how attractive. Women have a fickle mind.

D3vi1b0y · 2022-09-12T14:11:23+00:00

Depends on how long I've known her. Is this my first date with a person I just met? Or is this my first date with a person I've known for a long time?

I've had a FWB tell me they love me while having sex with them on the third date we had, during sex, on the first week we met. It was pretty awkward to say the least I never finished and we only lasted about two weeks after the incident a total of 8-10 more times of meeting up. It gets awkward depending on certain factors.

If I've known the person for a long time and I wanted them to be my gf I'd either agree or explain I don't want to rush but I do want to remain exclusive. If it's a first date with someone I just met I'd probably wonder if they have issues.

Title	Girls wanting commitment
Author	Molteni-
Upvotes	7
Comments	30
Date	September 11, 2022 8:15 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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