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Red Pill Example40Watts/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 03:53 PM
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Red Pill Theory40Watts/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 06:29 AM
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Getting Started40Watts/r/Divorce_Men19/06/25 07:55 PM
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Red Pill Theory40Watts/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 08:17 PM
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Red Pill Theory40Watts/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 10:09 PM
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40Watts/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 04:09 PM
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40Watts/r/askTRP22/12/13 10:31 PM
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CMV40Watts/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 02:40 AM
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Red Pill Theory40Watts/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 02:05 AM
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Red Pill Theory40Watts/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 04:50 PM
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40Watts/r/askTRP23/01/15 06:08 AM
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Field Report40Watts/r/seduction30/08/13 11:38 PM
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40Watts/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 04:39 PM
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40Watts/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 11:18 PM
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Red Pill Example40Watts/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 11:07 PM
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40Watts/r/askTRP17/03/14 10:00 PM
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40Watts/r/askTRP20/10/13 04:22 AM
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Discussion40Watts/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 10:27 PM
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40Watts/r/askTRP02/10/14 04:46 PM
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40Watts/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 04:41 PM
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40Watts/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 06:34 PM
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40Watts/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 02:08 AM
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40Watts/r/askTRP28/09/14 07:18 PM
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40Watts/r/askTRP09/07/14 04:15 AM
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40Watts/r/askTRP03/02/15 03:25 AM
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40Watts/r/askTRP04/11/14 06:37 AM
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40Watts/r/seduction02/10/12 10:13 PM
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40Watts/r/askTRP21/06/18 10:26 PM
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Discussion40Watts/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 10:36 PM
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40Watts/r/askTRP28/07/16 01:40 AM
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40Watts/r/seduction31/03/14 09:13 PM
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You gotta spend money man especially if you say your situation is that bad.. invest in yourself. What is there to lose? You will only learn something.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 03:52 AM
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Hey man I am not disagreeing and you know your circumstances better than me. Have you ever tried a dating coach? Might be worth looking into.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 03:51 AM
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Why do you think that is if you don't mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:57 PM
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Same thing happened to me man..
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/25 12:27 AM
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The girl who is into you has to be hot man..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 11:12 PM
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I get that, but what is stopping us from building one? Let’s change the narrative
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/25 09:18 PM
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Dude we already did two mediations.. we are in settlement negotiations now. My lawyer had the offer ready in the first mediation and my wife and her lawyer keep stalling and nit picking. Literally our offer is better than what my wife would get in court, but she is just trying to punish me.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/25 12:57 AM
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Yeah I dabbled in it during my marriage, but I wrote about masculinity, dating and self-improvement. My wife didn’t really enjoy that side of me so I hid it. She discovered my old blog and outed me to all our friends and family. To be fair I was also cheating too. So I decided I would be a better father and writer by accepting the divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/25 12:55 AM
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Dude I am jealous!! How long did the whole process take?
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/25 12:49 AM
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Yeah I am using another free coparenting app called AppClose and it is mentioned in our parenting plan.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/25 09:45 PM
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What is OFW?
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/25 09:10 PM
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I said I'd only pay for 50% for up to one extracurricular as I know more activities means more money and more pick ups / drop offs.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/25 07:59 PM
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I might be going to court too man. Hope I can get an outcome as good as yours.
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/25 10:29 PM
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Yeah I completely agree with what you're saying. I feel like she is trying to gradually lock him down. He likes to bring girls around who he isn't necessarily exclusive with so didn't know how to play it. I feel like he is starting to like her more so I might be in the same room with them more often.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 02:50 AM
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I was born here so I'm assimilated. I hang out with both. My girlfriend is white and is going to grad school. I'm a software engineer making $85K at 26 years old. My parents studied electrical engineering and accounting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 12:59 AM
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I'm Indian American and my parents studied electrical engineering and accounting. I'm making at around $85K at 26 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 12:58 AM
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Yes! What is SES? I would classify my parents as UMC.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 10:52 PM
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AKA how Trump handles it? LOL
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 03:43 PM
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Read the book Sex God Method
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 01:59 AM
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PUA is improving salesmanship while TRP is improving the quality of the product.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 10:44 PM
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If she isn't meeting up with you then you should consider her defective. Get new prospects.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:45 AM
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You didn't fuck it up because she was never interested. Get some actual prospects.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 04:59 AM
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Hahaha yeah I'm not about that poly life. Yeah there definitely is such a thing as too much dread.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 11:08 PM
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What triggers are there for immediate sexual attraction in women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 11:56 PM
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You couldn't have done anything because the logistics weren't in your favor. Try to set up your bedroom where chicks get wet when they enter it (Get a box spring). Also try to pick up girls closer to your place.
/r/askTRP19/12/16 04:57 AM
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Keep spinning plates while fucking her. Don't commit to anything with her.
/r/askTRP18/09/16 05:44 PM
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You're completely right, thanks.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 02:17 AM
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I understand what you're saying. No, what I meant is that due to having sex with multiple plates it gives me abundance mentality. This mentality enables me to get new girls' phone numbers easily. I think my problem was whether it was worth even meeting up with these new girls when I could just call over a reliable plate. Yeah I will take a shot at these new girls and see what happens. Thanks.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 02:14 AM
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This was in 2015. I admit I wasn't pulling sorority girls, but there are plenty of hot women not in sororities. I've never been in a city with that concentration of beautiful 18 - 22 year old women.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 04:38 AM
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Are you kidding me? When I did my undergrad at UGA, getting women was like shooting fish in a barrel. I wasn't in a fraternity either. Just get on tinder, meet your matches at a bar downtown then take her back to your place.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 03:55 AM
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I'd keep her as a plate, but not promote her to LTR.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 03:43 PM
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Damn I was watching these on YouTube already. Didn't know you were a fellow red piller. Keep up the good work.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 01:21 AM
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Cause the low quality people are the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 04:22 AM
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Yeah I have, but after I read TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 03:26 AM
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Sell it and get friends who go out.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 02:58 AM
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So you admit TRP works?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 02:23 AM
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Have you ever read the book Models? I feel like that might change your outlook on things as well. I credit my success with women to the red pill and that book.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 05:09 AM
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Some men are highly emotional and cannot control anger. I agree, but does the red pill encourage that behavior? Let's let the upvotes decide on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 08:41 AM
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Can you give me an example of someone in your life who is an avid reader of TRP and has done this? Or any proof? Or all of these wild assumptions on your part?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 07:50 AM
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If it were so easy, none of you would be in trp for long. It's mostly a lot of beat up stories. Never said it was easy. And even if he does have another woman, he's still going to feel slighted by the woman he's with right now, especially if he's alone with her. Especially if he feels like a prize and thinks women are shit. (as trp teaches him) Wow you don't understand TRP at all. If he knows he can get sex elsewhere then he will care less about one particular woman not giving him sex. No where …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 07:46 AM
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When a woman refuses point blank to "suck the dick" of a red pill acolyte who's acting like the asshole he thinks he needs to be, and he slams her with his fists for making him feel less than a man, will you take responsibility? LOL why would he take responsibility? He just claimed: They then go forward in their lives not caring whether any particular woman stays or goes, because none of them are special or worth a shit, and they're badass men who always have more women to pick from. If a man ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 06:39 AM
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You say the views and advice are damaging, but can your provide some real life examples of men damaged by the red pill? Women find the views damaging because they put men's concerns first while disregarding women's concerns. This is how men talk when women aren't present. As soon as a woman enters the room, the unfiltered, harsh language will cease. On the internet it's a different case since users are anonymous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/15 04:11 AM
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That's because you don't experience sexual attraction. Men who treat women like "people" don't get laid because that's a meaningless statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/15 03:59 AM
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Wow thanks for this. I chuckled.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/15 02:24 AM
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It should be called "being a woman".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 02:15 PM
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Proof that negs result in pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 05:30 PM
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The red pill is about sexual strategy. Learning sexual strategy is a form of self-improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 04:02 AM
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As a brown man I can attest to this valid and actionable advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 10:25 PM
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Yeah that's because the women we want to fuck are pushing, pedestalizing cave man, unsophisticated, anti-culture behavior. So we just follow the trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 10:07 PM
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You'll never get it because you're a woman. You're not supposed to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 07:19 PM
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If she doesn't put in the effort then go silent.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 09:47 PM
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He shoves so much unnecessary vocabulary into his articles.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 02:13 AM
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It's uncommon for a woman who isn't Asian.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 10:34 PM
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I guess that depends on the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 01:33 AM
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Men are designed to fuck as many women as possible. Deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 12:00 AM
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Yeah, but after we get our fill then women become less of an emphasis.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 12:00 AM
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+/u/user_simulator /u/40watts
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 05:53 PM
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Men think a physical affair is worse because it means less sex. Women think an emotional affair is worse because it means less provisioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/15 05:06 AM
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Men don't work that way. A better question would be: "Were there any romantic gestures or acts of commitments for previous sexual partners that you are not comfortable with now?".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 02:02 PM
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White women in the US generally do not view Indian men as attractive. I believe this is because Indian men are generally unattractive with beta tendencies. Based off my experience, it is fairly easy to stick out as an attractive Indian male if you raise your SMV and cultivate alpha qualities. I believe if a western white woman started living in India she would become accustomed to Indian men in a heartbeat. I'm currently dating an American white girl, but I'm pretty sure she has a brown fetish s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 07:07 PM
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Yeah that's why TRP says women are children. You're learning.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 07:10 PM
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She hasn't swallowed the female red 💊.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/15 03:29 AM
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Well you dated him... so PUA tactics work regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 01:50 PM
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It doesn't matter if a PUA can recognize other PUAs. It matters if girls can recognize them, but obviously you didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 01:41 PM
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Yeah that's why women are a depreciating asset. As they lose their youth and beauty, they demand more from a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 01:42 AM
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Just curious, why are you Ex-TRP? Cause it seems like you understand TRP quite well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 12:54 PM
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The red pill is simply a set of observations, beliefs and strategies that help men get the upper-hand in sexual relationships with women. It puts men on the path to getting and maintaining a sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 02:50 AM
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The red pill is a mentality that helps men take back and maintain power in their sexual relationships with women. You probably have the naive, idealistic notion that relationships can exist where both partners want each other equally. That is not true. One partner always has more power than the other. All of the red pill's theories may not be true, but they always assist with the man having the upper-hand. You've made numerous posts on PPD asking about the red pill, but you still can't seem to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 02:33 AM
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You should just give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 02:00 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/15 02:41 AM
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Your question was what age (in girls) do you think men generally find most attractive. Not that one creepy dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/15 01:58 AM
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Cause their breasts are fully developed at 15-16.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/15 01:50 AM
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A feminist who wants me to pick up the tab. Exactly the type of girl I want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 11:04 PM
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Basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 04:24 AM
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It's based on people seeing improvement in their sexual strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 04:16 AM
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Women usually go into relationships with men who are more beta than the men they hook up with. This isn't necessarily a bad thing. LTR material usually has to be the right blend of alpha and beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 03:39 AM
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When a high SMV male is fucking an average to below average woman, he isn't proud of it. So what makes you think he'll show her off to the public? High SMV men aren't taking these women out on dates. They're making these girls come straight to their apartment for sex then kicking them out. When I'm banging unattractive women, I make sure other females aren't around. This is because my SMV drops in their eyes and I won't be able to bang them later. My closer male friends understand that I'm just …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 03:06 AM
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Very fascinating analysis and I agree completely. After developing a red pill lifestyle there's little incentive in becoming friends with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 04:49 AM
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The study seems to agree with you. Found later in the abstract: Although additional research is needed before firm conclusions can be drawn, we find that the mate-choice hypothesis receives more support. Specifically, female orgasm appears to have evolved to increase the probability of fertilization from males whose genes would improve offspring fitness.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 04:37 AM
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PUA is more focused on tactics and hacks that can help you pick up women. PUA gets into the nitty gritty details such as how frequently you should text a woman, what you should text, how to hold a conversation, how to bring her back to your place, how do I touch her etc. TRP is more focused on developing the general lifestyle/mentality of someone who would be attractive to women ("alpha male") and understanding the underlying reasons why women behave the way they do in interactions with men (Or …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 03:24 AM
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That's a great question. In my last year of college I helped one of my younger roommates out by teaching him TRP strategy without all the TRP terminology. He was a socially savvy beta male with tons of female friends, but he wasn't getting laid. As he progressed, we ended up competing over the same women. It felt good to watch him get better with women and reinforce that TRP strategy works, but I did not like the fact that I eventually had to compete with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 03:01 AM
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PUA is improving salesmanship while TRP is improving the quality of the product.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 02:44 AM
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There are two broad competing explanations for the evolution of orgasm in women: (1) the mate-choice hypothesis, which states that female orgasm has evolved to function in mate selection and (2) the byproduct hypothesis, which states that female orgasm has no evolutionary function, existing only because women share some early ontogeny with men, in whom orgasm is an adaptation. Source: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/22733154
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/15 02:38 AM
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It sounds like you're using amused mastery on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/15 04:55 AM
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The point is; dread game is supposed to prevent your partner from running off to jump on a cock carousel after divorce-raping you. I don't see why you would care about a woman who divorced you jumping on the cock carousel. Here's the definition straight out of TRP subreddit: Purposefully inciting jealousy in an LTR by openly getting attention from other women. Soft Dread is similar, but less open. With Soft Dread, the attention doesn't even need to be real. Creating the possibilty for female att…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 01:33 AM
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Coming from someone who has never tried it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 01:17 AM
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Well I don't have as much fun doing those activities with female friends because generally they suck at them. Also, I'd rather be having sex with them. Maybe it's different for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 07:40 PM
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Men are more likely to have similar interests than a man and a woman. Men can participate in activities related to these interests. Men are generally interested in action-oriented hobbies. Examples include: drinking, playing basketball, fishing, gaming and hiking. I'm sure you participate in similar activities with your male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 04:46 PM
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TRP's definition came from the actual definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 04:32 PM
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Your logic is thinking that men and women are the same which is far from the truth. Women value men's resources such as commitment, time, transportation, money and physical labor more than sex and offspring. As a woman, it's much easier to get a male to provide these resources than to get the female to provide the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 04:27 PM
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Yeah my point is that men derive less benefit from being friends with a woman than vice versa. Women may value their male friends, but their male friends get the shittier deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 04:22 PM
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That's great that you value your friends, but TRP is about what women value in men they want to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 04:15 AM
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It does translate to sex is easier to get for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 04:11 AM
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His assertion was that girls do more favors/nice things for guys they're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 04:08 AM
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Congratulations. A man can bake an apple pie himself. His dick isn't going to suck itself though. Which is exactly why men equate sex with higher value.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 03:54 AM
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To me, the extent to which I find a man sexually attractive does not reflect my impression of his value. It reflects his SMV, his sexual marketplace value. This means the extent to which you find a man sexually attractive reflects his value as a sexual being. Sex and offspring are the only resources a woman can provide that a man cannot provide for himself. Being friends with a woman as a man does not result in directly acquiring these resources. Being friends with a woman as a man probably mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 03:47 AM
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If you feel that society was misleading you in some way, adjust your viewpoint. You don't need to take the complete opposite stance. We adopt whatever mindset gets us laid. You're not being skeptical of everybody, you're singling out one gender. Yeah because we are trying to fuck people that fall under one gender. TRP is sexual strategy for heterosexual men which is probably why it doesn't suit you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 12:15 AM
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I completely agree with you. I'm going to assume that you wouldn't want your man to treat you completely like a child. TRP does not encourage men to treat women literally like children, because then TRP users would not have sex with women. TRP's message is that women are like children in some aspects. For men who are not successful with women, this comparison can be useful. The reason "women are children" or "treat women like children" resonates well with men is because it is a simple yet effect…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/15 03:26 AM
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Be a bit like a dad sometimes. Another way of saying treat women like children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/15 03:49 PM
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No because they aren't men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/15 06:04 AM
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No, I just know that's an outdated picture of him. Here's a more updated picture: http://cdn0.theawl.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/roosh2.jpg Here's his wikipedia picture: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Roosh_V#/media/File:Roosh-daryush-valizadeh.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 05:35 PM
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Roosh isn't fat or a neckbeard...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 05:28 PM
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Quit the porn, but masturbate when you need to.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 03:32 AM
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I agree with you. Dread game can work on males if done correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 03:30 AM
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That's how it worked for me. Once you start getting laid, getting laid becomes less of an obsession.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 03:17 AM
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I highly recommend Cold Turkey. It's better than the various browser extensions because you can simply disable or uninstall the extensions. Cold Turkey works across all browsers and there is no way to uninstall/disable it when it is enabled.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/15 12:51 AM
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All women have the potential to fuck you over. That's what it means. I already know you will argue all people can fuck you over. However, the redpill specializes in sexual strategy for heterosexual men so we apply it to just women. This saying puts you in a cautionary mindset and takes women off the pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/15 11:33 PM
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Accept that there is a possibility that your attitude might change in the future. I thought I would never do drugs in high school, but ended up experimenting with psychedelics in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 07:21 PM
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Lol you guys still banged. More evidence for preselection.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 07:11 PM
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I don't give a shit if it has feminist themes; I'm definitely still gonna see it. It got a 99% on rottentomatoes. Also it has explosions, fire tornadoes and desert raiders.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 04:17 AM
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An easy way to describe AWALT is that all women have the potential to fuck you over. Believing in AWALT results in you staying on top of your game so you don't get fucked over. Yes, you can apply that to all people as well, but the red pill subreddit focuses on women since it's sexual strategy for heterosexual men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/15 10:52 PM
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Yeah they're in relationships, but they're whipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/15 01:33 AM
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Rough.
/r/askTRP29/04/15 05:12 PM
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The hierarchy is God -> Man -> Woman -> Children. Love flows down and respect flows up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/15 06:18 PM
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I've made out with two black women, but that was it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/15 02:31 AM
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I think it has to do with the fact that over 1/2 of black women in the U.S. are overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/15 02:29 AM
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Everyone builds their lives around achieving validation. You made this post to validate yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/15 02:22 AM
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If you think TRP coddles men then you must be mistaken.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/15 03:43 AM
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What they say they want isn't always the same as what they fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 10:15 PM
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It's kind of like when a friend wrongs you, sometimes when you're venting it feels good to say "fuck that friend". It doesn't necessarily mean you hate him/her forever or the long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 04:27 PM
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Like any red pill woman would say passion isn't important....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 04:22 PM
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I mean men would prefer banging multiple models rather than one model.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 06:04 AM
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Yup cause that's exactly what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 05:48 AM
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Being caring and nurturing toward her offspring. Having the ability to produce offspring. Women rely on being selfish and manipulative to procure resources for their children since they can not rely on brute strength like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 01:57 AM
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Hey at least he's happy with his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 01:52 AM
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Work on creating a social network and start dating to get a feel for it. Maybe you should get in touch with your old friends. Read the book Models by Mark Manson, it helped improve my skills vastly with women.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 01:23 AM
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They would prefer to be with younger models rather than a younger model. Men don't necessarily want to have sex with the best looking woman, they just want to have sex with a variety of women that meet the bare minimum requirements. Take a look at the women Tiger Woods cheated on his wife with (they're not all hotter than his ex-wife): http://assets.nydailynews.com/polopoly_fs/1.102162!/img/httpImage/image.jpg_gen/derivatives/gallery_1200/gal-women-jpg.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 11:23 PM
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Wanting to be with multiple women at the same time doesn't imply that they would want to sleep with a 350 lb obese, land-whale. They want to be with multiple women who meet their physical standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 11:16 PM
3

Women know what women want and why they do what they do. Maybe, but they don't know how to explain it in a way that men will understand it. Or men have trouble understanding the way women explain it. This is why subreddits like TRP exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 10:29 PM
3

There's no subreddit helping women to get laid because that's not a problem for them. Can you tell your friend a step-by-step process on how to get a boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 09:46 PM
4

You're asking the wrong question. Women seek commitment not no strings attached sex with a guy. I don't know how to advise a woman on how to get a boyfriend other than stay in shape and go to social events. This is why /r/redpillwomen exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 09:30 PM
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You don't ask a fish how to catch fish; you ask a fisherman. A woman can't tell me the process on how to have sex with a woman if she's never done it herself. This is the same way I can't give advice to a woman on how to get a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 09:20 PM
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It's kind of like we hate the fact that we want to bang women just like we hate the fact that we have to pee after drinking a lot. Peeing sure feels good though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 09:12 PM
6

She's probably actually an unhappy single woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 09:10 PM
5

Because some women have good qualities that complement mine. These qualities combined with mine also make me feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 09:07 PM
6

Because having sex with women makes me feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 09:05 PM
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That's good to hear, so maybe I'm wrong. The reason TRPers denigrate women to lift themselves up is because it works and is efficient. After they lift themselves up then they don't denigrate women anymore (Getting passed the anger phase). At least that's how it worked for me. Now the issue is how many TRPers get out of the anger phase? I have no clue. They may have a "toxic" mentality, but this is only on the internet. I've never run into TRPer expressing his "toxic" views in real life so I don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 08:55 PM
5

If you're not a man who is struggling with women or has struggled with women then you won't sympathize with RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 08:41 PM
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It's a large very large community/group hug of men who have been hurt and confused by women for confused men who have been hurt by women. That may apply to a lot of men on RP, but RP is mainly a community focused on getting laid. They define themselves as a sexual strategy sub. The problem is, that hug has become a huddle where these men discuss and are taught about women and how to get them. Instead, RP needs to add a step where it lets women into that hug. Yeah they discuss and are taught how …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 08:37 PM
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Yeah that's the issue. People who aren't RP can't empathize with people who are RP. That's totally fine because they either don't need RP or haven't experienced the turning point to make them RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/15 05:49 PM
2

Because we're trying to fuck women....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 11:38 PM
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Yeah if you're a homosexual man it's likely. Depends on which country. My point is that (sex + kissing) > just kissing. This applies especially to men who have already gotten laid. That's great that your guy might be faithful (if he even is) to you now, but given his promiscuous past you may want to be careful (unless he's lying). You're competing with girls who can offer the same things you offer and sex. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/15 09:37 PM
9

Oh so you offer the same thing as a guy friend. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/15 11:17 PM
9

SMV stands for sexual marketplace value not relationship marketplace value.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/15 11:09 PM
4

You must be blowing him then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/15 10:53 PM
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So he went from having no girlfriend and getting laid to having a girlfriend and not getting laid. Sounds like a pretty shitty deal. By the way you can be monogamous without being celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/15 10:19 PM
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Or they just prefer having sex with a variety of women without any commitment....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/15 10:13 PM
3

Girls who like dick pics don't get turned on by the dick; they get turned on by what's attached to the dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 09:23 PM
0

Men are more likely to be artistically creative because men take more risks than women. There are a number women who are artistically creative, but nowhere near the number of men who are artistically creative.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 06:21 PM
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I think there are women who are artistically creative, but it will never be at the same level of men. Men are more likely to be retarded or super geniuses while for women it's less likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 06:14 PM
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One of the most reasonable answers here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 06:10 PM
2

Would you say men are more likely to be artistically creative because they are more prone to taking risks than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 06:07 PM
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Yeah I don't give a fuck about women being an executive at that company. I'm talking women actually creating an app by writing code. Wow, one woman creating one top 10 paid app compared to nine men? I don't think that's really helping your case. There's a reason there's a gender gap in computer science. Because women don't like computer science. There are many programs encouraging women to be in the field yet I'm not seeing any results. Women may become an executive of the company after the app …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 05:59 PM
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Yeah that's so idealistic. I'm trying to think of any apps I use on my smartphone that were created by women. The people who created Facebook, Yik Yak, Snapchat, Twitter and Instagram are all men. Women just use social media apps; they don't create social media apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/15 04:40 PM
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I believe in multiple soulmates. I call them soulplates.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/15 04:19 AM
1

The funny thing is that after you get sex handled then you focus on other shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 10:50 PM
1

There's a difference between trying to become a well endowed, muscular Casanova and trying to fuck a well endowed, muscular Casanova. TRP identifies with the former; don't be a dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 09:24 PM
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TRP is about getting laid and it got me laid. I'm trying to see how it is doomed to fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/15 02:14 AM
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A girl who doesn't drink sounds boring as fuck though. If my LTR cheats then it's just time to start assembling an army of plates.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 01:04 AM
1

It's practical to use the belief for women that we consider fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/15 05:06 AM
3

The Headspace app is a great way to start for beginners.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 05:37 PM
2

Who is Maya? She needs to get laid big time. Her voice is quivering with sexual frustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/15 06:49 AM
1

Can you point out where I implied that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/15 02:54 PM
1

Dan Bilzerian projects an over-the-top, exaggerated Alpha male image on Instagram. I'd say Steve McQueen or James Bond is more in line with what I'm going for.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 07:23 PM
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Being monogamous is better for society. Men will always prefer fucking a variety of women. Some men will give up that dream and settle for a monogamous relationship (while jacking off to a variety of women on the internet) and some men won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 06:39 PM
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A deeper level of companionship and emotional connection. Most men aren't exactly going to try connecting to you emotionally. Women like doing that. People in committed relationships live with their partners for years, possibly for life if it works out properly. That doesn't happen with male friends. People share day to day burdens with their partners to make their lives nicer. They don't really do that with male friends. Wow so you believe that people must have a deep emotional connection for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 06:36 PM
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taiboworks have you gotten laid before? Also are you a guy or a girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 04:48 PM
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The vast majority believe they want a relationship because a relationship implies sex. Most men settle for relationships because that's the only way they can get sex. If men were able to have casual sex with a variety of women or have sex with one woman for the rest of their lives then most would choose the former. However, most men settle for relationships because they do not have the skills required to maintain casual sex with a variety of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 04:44 PM
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What do women provide in a relationship besides sex that a male friend can not?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 04:36 PM
3

Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 04:36 PM
2

TL;DR: TRP thinks all men are desperate horny teenagers. That's cool, but TRP gets me laid so I can stop being so horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 04:33 PM
2

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 04:30 PM
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At the end of the day most people want more than sex, they also want companionship. Human beings overall do not want to be lonely. I can get companionship from my male friends. Women provide me what my male friends can't: sex. Before you say that you can have sex with males, keep in mind that TRP is for heterosexual males.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 04:29 PM
1

Are you implying that not all men are interested in sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 04:11 PM
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Sure, I agree with that. Most of the readers on TRP are trying to improve their chances of getting laid. You can go ahead and call them horny teenagers. I'm not going to go to /r/personalfinance and call every user on there a greedy Jew.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 04:00 PM
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What's your point? It depends on the reader and what he's going for.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 03:52 PM
6

It doesn't matter; the LTR stuff on RP still exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 03:48 PM
5

Wow you clearly don't read TRP enough... There are numerous posts on the subreddit about maintaining a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 03:37 PM
1

Not sure what the big deal is. Hollywood has movies where the shy, awkward nerd lands the hot chick. They also have movies where a common slut can land a doctor.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 08:32 PM
2

Use a situational opener. If she latches onto it then you know you may have something.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 07:41 PM
1

Some rocks have multiple women grasping them.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 11:18 PM
1

Is it just me or does this apply to all people?
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 10:57 PM
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Yeah because it's easier for women to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 05:27 PM
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I'd be totally fine with it because I accept women's sexual strategy. However, women will never make a subreddit like that because they don't work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 07:21 AM
1

Can we just have /r/TRPmedia sub? The posts on there should require analysis.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 08:49 PM
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He's trying to say that slutty women will not be able to get a high value man to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 02:40 AM
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Women claim it's a fantasy even when they take the opportunity to make it a reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 02:20 AM
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I think status does matter, but there are more opportunities to attain status as you get older. For example, there are more opportunities to get status in college than in high school. In high school the jocks are getting laid. In college the athletes, frat stars and drug dealers are getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 11:20 PM
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Most of his advice is watered down, and half-hearted. Applying most of his advice without most of the same qualifiers he has would result in your being viewed as unattractive, not attractive, and the first like 40% of his book is him reiterating "be attractive. Don't be unattractive.". Are you sure? He has a whole chapter in Models about how to be handsome which includes sections on fashion, fitness, body language, vocal tonality and how to be fascinating. All of it is actionable advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/15 10:56 PM
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Yeah, that's bullshit. You can't fake respect for others and personal integrity. Those two things are the basis of any lasting success, and you need to develop them genuinely. When did I say that? Except you're not emulating me, because I don't use the tactics that you advocate. I don't neg, shame, dread, or whatever. I compliment, flatter, do nice things, and when I stand up for myself it's to protect my interests and needs. It's not some made-up tantrum to throw my SO off balance to keep her g…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/15 12:44 AM
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Thanks for the lengthy, well thought out response. In general, I don't think the alpha-beta dichotomy is very useful. i think people are complex, and will be both 'alpha' and 'beta' in reaction to different situations, and will shift from one to the other as they wish. For instance, sometimes I defer to my boss and let him do all the talking and decision making, and sometimes I take over a work meeting or conversation when I deem it appropriate. I completely agree with you, but I'm talking about…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 10:40 PM
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Well good luck. Just make sure you're getting an arranged marriage to a woman from India because she shares your values not just your parents' values. You can still reduce risk of finding a high quality American girl if you improve your game. It's just that you'll have to work for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 10:16 PM
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Are you from the US? Are you trying to get an arranged marriage to a girl from the US or India?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 10:10 PM
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You guys get to fuck before you get married? You should so you can test sexual compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 10:06 PM
2

Lol it's so bad they have an acronym now?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 10:05 PM
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The Book of Pook is purely internal game. Models is comprised of all the fundamentals and contains actionable advice which is better for a beginner. The pdf can easily be found online for free. I'd recommend he read Models first then Pook. The reason Manson sold out is because he could.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 07:53 PM
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Sometimes it works out that way. If you're aware that people are motivated by their self-interests then you just let them choose and enjoy the ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 09:28 AM
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Yeah who gets to choose the TV show? Who gets to decide where you're walking? Who gets to choose what you chat about? Everyone is motivated by their self-interests and they will push them on others.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 09:23 AM
6

Unfortunately I'm straight and I prefer sex to masturbation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 09:17 AM
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Yup!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 09:12 AM
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Yeah. Besides sex and making more people, I can do everything myself or with a male friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 09:04 AM
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In a sense yes. TRP validates its existence by the results users get after reading it. So you are telling me that TRP validates their existence through having sex with females? No surprise there, since that's a needy attitude (and all RP'ers are insecure, needy keyboard warriors so yeah). Hey that's really cool, let me try! So are you telling me that /r/TheBluePill validates their existence through TRP? No surprise there, since that's a needy attitude (an all people on BPers are insecure, needy …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 08:50 AM
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They're good for sex and making more people. They're good for other things too, but those are their specialties.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 08:10 AM
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But why would you need to push for sex with every female you come across? Hmm when did I say that? I'm just saying that in a sub that is dedicated to sexual strategy every male-female interaction mentioned is going to be about getting laid. Isn't that putting the pussy on the pedestal? Putting a pussy on a pedestal is treating a woman like a special princess to get laid.. so no. What happened to the "self improvement"? It is one route to get laid that is mentioned in TRP, however it is a long te…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 08:06 AM
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I agree that it is pseudoscientific nonsense, but it is just a way for guys unlucky in the dating world to actually understand it. I don't believe anyone who disagrees with me is ignorant. I just believe that they haven't had the same life circumstances to agree with me. This isn't necessarily good or bad. If you are happy with your dating and sex life without the red pill then that's awesome. However, some of us aren't so fortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 07:56 AM
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Of course, TRP twists this and makes every male-female interaction outcome dependent on sex. That's kinda the point of the sub....it's for sexual strategy. If you want sex and the interaction isn't leading to sex then stop interacting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 07:43 AM
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I'm operating under the red pill's definition of the blue pill. But I do agree with your scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 07:31 AM
13

But for some reason after visiting TRP I got laid more?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 07:19 AM
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I thought blue pill's identity was anybody who wasn't red pill? If blue pill's only position is to ridicule TRP then my point still stands. BP males can still be beta or alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 07:18 AM
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Nothing is casual or 'relaxed', and if it is, it's really only feigned. It may be feigned for a newcomer, but the point is to make it a habit. The point is that it eventually becomes casual and relaxed. Amused mastery is literally acting like you've seen all of a woman's shit tests before. Eventually, you will get to the point that you've actually seen it all before and naturally exude amused mastery. What does amused mastery imply? It implies fun. You've seen all it before. It's fun and enterta…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 07:05 AM
1

One might also say a temper tantrum is an emotional outbreak and genuine emotional outbreaks are in the moment and not planned.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/15 06:59 AM
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It gets me laid more often and more consistently than any other pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/15 12:18 AM
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Women have sex with me more when I throw "tantrums" so I guess they like it? Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 04:29 AM
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I don't need to. You literally quoted one word out of an entire definition. You deserve a round of applause.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 04:19 AM
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A tantrum or temper tantrum is an emotional outbreak, usually associated with children or those in emotional distress, typically characterized by stubbornness, crying, screaming, defiance, angry ranting, a resistance to attempts at pacification and, in some cases, hitting. Hmmm, wrong again. Dread game is a calculated maneuver. Try better next time you twist a meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 04:15 AM
2

Wow, you definitely understand these concepts. Good job!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 04:11 AM
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Nah, you're still being a manipulative little child throwing a temper tantrum because he didn't get his way. No because then you'd actually have to throw a temper tantrum. Good try though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 04:10 AM
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And he is really trying to figure out how to make her "like him the way he likes her." This is blue pill thinking so I already know it's not going to end well. Just wait to see how distraught he is when she breaks it off. I don't think TRP can save you from falling for someone. If anything it will help you get over them. But the heart wants what it wants. TRP helps you in both cases. After becoming becoming red pill aware you see attraction as something that must be constantly maintained which r…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 01:09 AM
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If it's a drive that is easy to ignore then why do strip clubs, prostitutes and porn exist? I definitely agree that the drive doesn't need to run your life, but it can not be simply ignored. I believe it can be managed in different ways depending on the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 08:39 PM
1

If he swallowed the red pill then that wouldn't have happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 06:38 PM
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Yeah. If it wasn't then men would be going to strip clubs, visiting prostitutes and watching porn. Oh wait...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 06:11 PM
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That's interesting and I've noticed that most women who identify as blue pill on this subreddit take this approach as well. That's a smart approach and if I was a woman then I would probably want to take the same route. Obviously blue pill women are going to have issues with a male sexual strategy sub that suggests men should have sex with a woman before considering becoming exclusive with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 06:00 PM
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Sounds like the strategy of a red pill woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 02:57 AM
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As stated in Models: Just know this: the correct answer to the “no sex” objection is always an affirmative while continuing to escalate physically. After applying that step if the woman seems uninterested or scared or gives you a verbal "No" or "Stop" then stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 09:39 PM
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Hey I am in complete agreement. I believe a man should stop if a woman has body language that conveys that she is uninterested or scared or she gives a verbal "No" or "Stop". I think the issue is that there is a misunderstanding of LMR's defintion. When someone mentions LMR, I think of women's objections such as "We're not having sex tonight", "I'm not that kind of girl", "I just met you" etc, but her body language suggests otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 09:25 PM
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Yeah cause he didn't want to bang her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 05:28 PM
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From Models by Mark Manson: The general principle at work here is that you want to gently push things towards sex until she says stop. If she doesn’t say stop, keep going. Also: Just know this: the correct answer to the “no sex” objection is always an affirmative while continuing to escalate physically. I agree with both of those statements because they are in line with red pill beliefs/methods. As /u/autoNFA mentioned before, do you think a lot of Blue Pills would give the book, and particularl…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 05:24 PM
3

This is a good start.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 05:15 PM
3

In my experience PUA is not as efficient as red pill methods.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 04:53 PM
4

What if your goal is to consistently have sex with a variety of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 04:19 AM
3

As a fellow Indian male there isn't any specific dating advice I would give you that would differ from the dating advice I would give any low SMV male. You'll notice that the advice on this thread can also be given to any guy looking to improve his dating life. Just keep reading /r/TheRedPill. It's really easy to stick out as an attractive male within our race so we have that going for us. I've recently become aware that I do really well with Filipino women though so maybe they have a thing for …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 01:46 AM
5

I'd suggest /r/AsianMasculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 01:23 AM
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I'm curious what you mean by this. The way a man attracts a woman is different than the way a woman attracts a man. This is why I am skeptical of your reply. You say that you understand that women are people, but belief in something like "the female sexual strategy" suggests otherwise. When I suggest women have their own sexual strategy you jump to the conclusion that I don't think women are people. They have vaginas which means they have a different sexual strategy. Women tend to have sex with …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/15 03:20 PM
5

I want to ask him if he knows what capitalization is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 10:52 PM
5

Yeah I agree with that too. I find it fishy that she throws her own sex under the bus while being quick to men's defense. It doesn't make sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 10:50 PM
5

Me too. I find it awkward that a woman can be so pro-male.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 10:37 PM
1

Yeah the goal of TRP is not to be an empathetic human being. It's about getting laid. Many men who come to the red pill are too empathetic to women and don't care about their own sexual needs. My point is that it is not an exclusive strategy for doing so and also requires that you lose all sort of empathy and respect for 50% of the human population. Hey you're right it is not an exclusive strategy. Not everyone uses the red pill strategy and not everyone needs it. Such as the male celebrities yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 10:09 PM
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My whole point is that these male celebrities already have their sex situation handled. They can afford to follow through with the feminist cause and still be swimming in vagina. They are physically attractive, famous and rich. They do not need TRP because they are already alpha. A guy who does not know how to get laid and relinquishes his power when it comes to sex to a woman is just reducing his chances of getting laid. This is where TRP comes into play. How does giving up some of the power, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 07:12 PM
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They are successful, attractive, "lusted after" men who happen to say they're feminists, but they aren't betas. Alphas are successful, attractive and "lusted after". Just because someone is not feminist does not mean you can conclude that they don't respect women. Also, I never said that they don't respect women. TRP's definition of alpha is: Leader. Somebody who displays high value, or traits that are valued by women. Alpha can refer to a man who exhibits alpha behaviors (more alpha tendencies …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 08:40 AM
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No, what I'm saying is is that it's one thing to say you're a feminist and it's a completely different thing to actually follow through with the feminist cause. The men you mentioned are celebrities who obviously have high SMV. It's a good move for them to claim that they are feminists because it appeases their already existing female fan base. However, if an average Joe claims he's a feminist then there will be no women roaring in applause.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 06:57 AM
1

TRP philosophy doesn't say anyone who claims to be a feminist is beta. You can claim you're feminist, but still use RP techniques successfully. I believe that men and women should have equal opportunities and it does not conflict with my sexual strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 06:01 AM
2

They're lusted after regardless of them being feminists or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 04:47 AM
4

PUA is improving salesmanship while TRP is improving the quality of the product.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 02:34 AM
3

It's great for them to change themselves. It is not so great to discard who they are and try to adopt a completely new personality. People change all the time because life happens. You won't be the same person in 10 years. I'm not going to accuse you of being disingenuous in 10 years though. You seem to have an issue with people consciously changing themselves. The change does not happen overnight, it takes time. Not only does it come off as disingenuous to anybody who is half-decent at reading …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/15 07:46 AM
3

I don't see anything wrong with an insecure person changing themselves so they can stop being insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/15 06:36 AM
3

So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/15 05:38 AM
7

If 1 in 4 women really got raped on college campuses then women would stop going to college.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 05:33 AM
3

Unfortunately, you're probably right.
/r/askTRP03/02/15 03:50 AM
1

Thank you. I read a similar analogy somewhere on this sub.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 06:00 AM
17

PUA is improving salesmanship while the red pill is improving the quality of the product.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 11:00 PM
1

Swingers is another great movie on Netflix. It shows the difference between an alpha and beta man as well as how to get over oneitis.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 06:18 AM
1

You should be slightly higher in SMV for a relationship. If your SMV is too high then you wouldn't even consider her for an LTR.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 06:12 AM
1

Have you asked her to hang out again? You should start spinning new plates anyways.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 05:58 PM
13

She was the rare red pill slut.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 04:02 AM
2

They aren't all like that actually, but believing AWALT makes it easier to sleep with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 03:21 AM
6

Another Indian guy here who also did not receive the memo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/15 10:25 PM
4

Yeah I agree. I highly doubt most red pillers who feel angry actually express that view in public because they know they will be judged. That's why the red pill subreddit is a great place to vent while being free from judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/15 08:49 AM
2

Well it depends on how you define status. I would agree with Mark Manson definition in his book Models: As a man, you don’t have to actually be rich and famous, you just have to show a lot of potential for being rich and famous to be considered extremely attractive. I put forth that women judge social status by behavior. Social status is determined by how you behave around other people, how other people behave around you, and how you treat yourself. So women are not necessarily attracted to mone…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/15 05:24 PM
1

Perfect example is Dennis Wilson of the Beach Boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/15 05:34 AM
6

taibo fails yet again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/15 11:36 AM
6

It's called a gentleman caller.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/14 02:29 AM
1

Make sure you have sex as soon as possible. Texting is only to meet up.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 03:04 PM
1

Yeah if you guys aren't having sex it's probably too late for you, but you might as well try. Make sure you're seeing other girls as well.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 02:37 PM
-1

The only reason you should text her is to try to set up a meeting and fuck her. Stop making conversation over text. Try to see if you can make her a plate and if not then just drop her.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 02:20 PM
3

The comedy of this is that you're putting words into my mouth to make yourself feel morally superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/14 02:09 PM
11

More like "I'm not obsessed with money, just economics". The way you twisted my words was so subtle I barely noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/14 01:54 PM
2

It's not because if you successfully conceal your intentions then your actions would not be transparent. I can define conceal and transparent if you need me to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/14 01:52 PM
5

If your actions are transparent and unlikable then you're using the 48 laws of power incorrectly. Law #3 is "Conceal your intentions": Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. If they have no clue what you are up to, they cannot prepare a defense. Guide them far enough down the wrong path, envelope them in enough smoke, and by the time they realize your intentions, it will be too late. The 48 laws of power cunt you mention unfortunately does not…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/14 12:55 PM
8

I wouldn't say I'm obsessed with sex, but I might be obsessed with the strategy and theory used to obtain it. You should probably read this to get a better perspective: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2qsyqa/so_youre_not_interested_in_women_and_only_want_to/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/14 12:47 PM
1

Nope, the guys who would LTR a 5 or below are a 5 or below themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/14 11:15 AM
2

Hmm can you show me a quote of him bashing the red pill definition of hypergamy? Manson literally says: That’s why I believe that women don’t distinguish social status or being an “alpha male” through material possessions -- otherwise every guy flashing his expensive watch at the bar would be getting laid (and trust me, they’re not) -- but rather women judge it by behavior, as behavior is all they had to go on in the caveman days. But red pill defines alpha as someone who exhibits the same behav…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/14 10:01 AM
2

What red pill beliefs did he actually bash? I've read Models before, but I can't remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/14 08:31 AM
12

TRPers care more about getting sex and maintaining it. Is there any information from the Mankind Project on how to get laid? No? Then people from TRP would probably not be interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/14 03:58 AM
4

Sometimes game playing gets shit done.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/14 03:51 AM
2

BP may have some general advice, but they definitely can't give you a step by step guide in getting laid or conveying sexual interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/14 01:32 PM
1

And how many guys were involved in this orgy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/14 10:45 AM
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Think of it as learning something new. It feels unnatural at first, but eventually it becomes natural. I'd suggest reading the book Models by Mark Manson, you can easily find a free pdf online.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/14 10:40 AM
7

Sounds like you were insulting their gender without making fun of feminism. You were being an asshole and deserve the black eye. Part of being red pill means keeping this shit to yourself.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 10:24 AM
0

I had a pretty hard time picking up women before TRP. I was 22 and still a virgin. I was taking only two classes over the summer in a college town so I planned to devote myself to TRP strategy and lose my virginity. I had sex with 3 girls that summer. I developed my tinder game and became really efficient. My tinder experiences gave me the confidence to pursue random girls and girls in my social circle which I have had some success with as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/14 06:58 AM
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It helped me. TRP is a sexual strategy subreddit so believing women are below you can actually help you get laid. However, after you start getting laid with TRP strategy you realize women are just women and accept it. You don't see women as below you anymore, you just see them as women now. You understand that women have different priorities and expectations than you. They're just different than some men were brought up to believe. Men need to be aware of what women are capable of rather than he…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/14 06:09 AM
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Set up multiple dates with different girls at the same time. If they all show up then flake on the ones you're least interested in. Use women's game against them.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 02:39 AM
2

Maybe because you were taught from day one that men only want one thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/14 01:41 AM
7

Unfortunately many men don't have this approach when it comes to women. This is where TRP comes into play.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/14 04:44 PM
1

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/14 04:40 PM
1

plating/short term game (less reliable but more variety of supply, easier when you are young, prefer quantity to quality) gf/married/long term game (more reliable supply, less variety, better option as you get older, better option if you prefer quality to quanitity) mgtow cold turkey game (rise above the need for women/sex, focus on self development/satisfaction/happiness) Sounds like the strategy for all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/14 04:28 AM
3

At this point I feel like you're actively looking for something to disagree with. I please my partner with the necessary amount to maintain attraction. Sometimes it may not be as much as she pleases me. For example on the island with the 6, 7 and 8, I will have to expend less effort pleasing them than pleasing just the one 9. I will get sex with three women for less effort so it's clearly more rewarding for me. This is because I will be in demand as the only man and I will have preselection.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/14 08:29 AM
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The desert island with the 6, 7 and 8. They would have to compete for commitment unlike the 9. Therefore, they will be more eager to please me. Plus I get to have sex with three different women rather than be stuck with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/14 07:33 AM
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Yeah I said I'd rather have sex with the 6, 7 and 8. I like spinning plates and LTRs, but it really depends on the circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/14 07:26 AM
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Women are attracted to men of higher SMV. So naturally the woman who sleeps with a man has to be of lower SMV. Some men prefer variety when it comes to sex. That's why men will cheat on a higher SMV woman with a lower SMV woman in some instances.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/14 06:22 AM
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Well it's relative. A woman can get certain men to commit and other men she will tolerate being a plate for. A man with an SMV much higher than the woman's may plate her. A man with an SMV closer to her range might commit or plate. A man with a lower SMV will definitely commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/14 06:17 AM
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The study you linked to never mentions anything about "low quality" women. This is a conclusion you just jumped to. However, I see the point you're trying to make. All women eventually want to secure commitment. I agree with that. However, there is a man out there that every woman would become a plate for. I think you're trying to argue that a woman will never be a plate to a man permanently. I acknowledge that and that's why when you're spinning plates you acquire new plates when your other pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/14 06:07 AM
4

There's no point in countering your argument if the study you provided doesn't even support your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/14 05:26 AM
1

seems like women that can't secure a man for a committed relationship tend to be basketcases (which is consistent with my theory that plated/platable women are low quality) Could not find that in your source. Perhaps this is a personal belief. is there are a reason other than red pillers can't get high quality women that a red piller would plate? Yes, because some men would prefer to have sex with a variety of women rather than having sex with the same woman over and over. Not all red pillers ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/14 05:16 AM
1

This is quite a stretch. Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/14 03:20 PM
1

It's just what I believe due to my experiences. Some examples include Arnold Schwarzenegger, Tiger Woods and Bill Clinton. These are all high SMV men with wives who were caught spinning plates. A woman will become a plate for the right man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/14 02:29 PM
4

Yeah it's called r/relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/14 01:53 PM
1

If I'm just trying to get laid then I'd prefer the 6, 7 and 8 versus the 9 three times. Let me guess you're a woman so this does not come to you naturally. A high SMV woman is a woman who has many options when it comes to men. Just because a woman is high SMV does not mean it prevents her from becoming a plate. A woman will become a plate for the right man just like how a man will commit to the right woman. It seems like you argue for the sake of arguing. I don't know what point you're trying to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/14 01:02 PM
0

You're completely right. There are some BPers who are open to debate, but taibo is definitely not one. If taibo thinks we're insane then there really is no point debating insane people right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/14 05:05 AM
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Not all red pillers are high SMV. Some are working on improving their SMV. Plus men will bang a low quality woman just to bust a nut because men prefer variety when it comes to sex. Are you saying Tiger Woods is low SMV? He cheated on his wife with women of low quality. You should read about the Coolidge effect. Show me the quote where I said the most attractive and confident women are often plates. They just don't talk about being plates because they either are not plates or talking about being…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/14 05:00 AM
0

Red pillers admit to hooking up with low quality women all the time. We just try to avoid them for LTRs. The most attractive and confident women don't talk about being plates because it lowers SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/14 04:01 AM
-4

They continue to stay in abusive relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/14 06:42 AM
2

It's not taking advantage of women if it's consensual.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/14 03:14 AM
1

Not exactly sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/14 01:47 AM
1

I'm sure you have a clue about what women find attractive, but can you give me a step by step process to have sex with multiple women? This is a process some men have fine tuned. I wouldn't be able to tell you how to get and keep a boyfriend, but I'm sure some women know the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/14 08:58 PM
1

I can tell just by your advice that you're a woman. Therefore, your advice won't get me laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/14 06:24 PM
2

You're an expert in being in a LTR with one man. You're not an expert in being in a LTR with a woman. So you're not really more of an expert than the teenagers and divorcees of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/14 06:18 PM
2

How does what you said disprove that physically attractive women have the most options with men? You're just one guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/14 03:17 AM
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No, TRP justifies its existence by experience. Many men have taken women's advice and got results that were opposite to what they wanted. Women do not know how to give proper advice to men on how to get laid just like how men will not know how to give proper advice to women on how to get a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 07:14 PM
3

Of course you don't feel comfortable disclosing what a man would have to do for you to fuck him. What sane woman would reveal that information? That's why the red pill exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 07:00 PM
2

Ahh ok so you're saying you will date ugly girls if they have other things going for them. Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 06:49 PM
2

I'm not saying any of those things are bad. Is she physically attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 06:42 PM
4

Having a strategy is always better than having no strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 06:40 PM
2

Whatever works for you. So you consider other factors before a woman's beauty and sex appeal?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 06:33 PM
2

A simplified version of the point I'm trying to make is that men's reproductive value mainly lies in non-physical traits (social status, dominance, wealth) while women's reproductive value mainly lies in physical traits (beauty and sex appeal). Men who have the most options with women are not necessarily the most attractive physically. Women who have the most options with men must be attractive physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 05:27 PM
3

Not necessarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 04:53 PM
2

A woman who never went to college and is physically attractive will have more options with men than a woman who graduated college and is not physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 07:15 AM
0

Looks like /u/M_rafay caught you off guard with a well written and thought out response.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 07:10 AM
2

I'm in complete agreement. Many red pill theories and concepts may not be true or ever be scientifically proven, but believing them improves your odds with women dramatically. For example a woman who believes that all men who talk to her are interested in sex may prevent herself from getting used by an alpha man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/14 02:12 AM
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I don't disagree with you and that information does not contradict the red pill. You can use the information in the red pill to snatch a high quality woman if you want. However, if you're just looking for endless sex with a lot of women, I can agree that you won't be having sex with women of the highest quality (under your definition). Would you agree that the highest quality man would be able to get both women of short term and long term qualities? The red pill is just sexual strategy for men. …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/14 09:20 PM
0

What's your point? I don't necessarily disagree with these studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/14 09:00 PM
0

How would you know that? I've swallowed the red pill and you haven't. Whatever makes you sleep at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/14 08:56 PM
1

Hey if that belief makes you happy then keep believing it. It doesn't change the fact that guys have a happier existence with women after swallowing the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/14 08:53 PM
1

It's not evil. It is hypergamous and there's nothing wrong with that, that's just how it is. We combat women's game by playing it better than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/14 08:48 PM
3

Just the fact that red pill concepts were spoken about so overtly. I believe it's better to be at a point where you convey these concepts through action rather than words. Hey it seemed like everything worked out though so I can't criticize!
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 07:16 PM
7

This is great and all, but am I the only one who finds the fact that your daughter calling you an alpha and you pulling up a Rational Male video cringeworthy?
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 06:49 PM
16

What about the bride-burning rate?
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 06:43 PM
6

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/14 08:50 PM
8

You want me to pay for dinner? I will when you cook it.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 10:04 PM
2

You're completely right because he has oneitis. He can't even imagine fucking other women. In his case, he should definitely cut her off.
/r/askTRP12/12/14 07:05 PM
2

Personally, I'd reduce her to plate status. If she wants to fuck other men then I can fuck other women. However, if you can fuck other women then she wouldn't have left you in the first place.
/r/askTRP12/12/14 05:25 PM
7

There's a reason asking for a woman's age is rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/14 06:04 AM
2

Do you come out to people claiming you argue with red pillers in a debate subreddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/14 11:08 PM
2

Make sure she's not your first choice.
/r/askTRP08/12/14 07:20 PM
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The guys who made that video also made a second part. They show that women think it's acceptable to have guy friends while in a relationship, but would be uncomfortable if their boyfriend had female friends: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FYQmqxQgEBY
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 06:17 PM
1

Just possessing game does save money, time and energy in the long term based off my experience. A high SMV guy who knows game would be unstoppable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/14 11:02 PM
2

I think you need to understand that there is a point when you become so successful that your time is more valuable than money. Why would a busy, successful man who wants to have no strings attached sex spend time learning game when he can just buy hookers? It saves a lot of time. Plus Dan Bilzerian's SMV is very high.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/14 09:53 PM
1

I'll stop being "shitty" when women stop liking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/14 07:30 PM
1

Unfortunately that kind of advice does not make a man the most attractive as he can to women. There are certain measures that men can take to come off as more attractive to women. I thought women had agency? I thought grown women can make their own decisions? If women have sex with manipulative and creepy men then it is their choice. The men women have consensual sex with who are manipulative and creepy won't be seen as manipulative and creepy by said women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/14 08:23 AM
2

I'm serious. You treat someone you're romantically interested in differently than just people. Treating them like people is a vague method that does not help guys get laid. TRP exists because people like you spout meaningless nonsense such as "treat them like people". What the fuck does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/14 10:49 PM
2

If you treat a girl like everyone else then how will that get you laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/14 07:32 PM
3

Just keep inviting her over and having sex with her. Don't expect it to last forever though. Plates come and go just like employees.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 01:18 AM
3

Hmm I just said reality is misogynistic and somehow you understood that as the world coddles women. Good job! Not sure what you're getting at. I can't completely control my environment, but I can control how I respond to it. Same goes for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/14 12:31 AM
4

I'm not fighting it. I just accept it and adjust my strategy so I can have more power in the sexual marketplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 11:51 PM
1

Never said that. Just stating the facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 07:11 PM
1

I have the weirdest boner right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 07:11 PM
1

Cause there would be less women for us to bang? But seriously if all women kill themselves then the human population will eventually cease to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 06:02 PM
3

Most guys that visit the red pill have an idealized image of women. The red pill blatantly views women as trash to give men the other side of the coin. Some men become angry when their idealized image of women shatters and eventually come to terms with reality. They now have a holistic perspective of women: they know that women are capable of both sides. This is when men realize women are just people. The misogynistic quotes are entirely beneficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 06:14 AM
5

The red pill will shut down when men stop wanting to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 06:09 AM
12

You know what else is racist and misogynistic? Reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/14 06:07 AM
1

Wow, I thought my tinder game was efficient. When you mentioned not wasting time on girls that list their instagram/snapchat I just smiled.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 10:56 PM
1

This guy knows what he's talking about ^
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/14 10:22 PM
1

Only kidding ;) Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/14 10:18 PM
1

Hey man, this may seem stupid, but how does downvoting work on this sub? I'm trying to downvote /u/InfoSponger, but it seems like you can only upvote here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/14 10:14 PM
1

Just because you're insecure in the past doesn't meant you would be insecure in the present. A successful red piller may reveal that he wasn't always great with women, but he won't mention the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/14 07:41 PM
1

That's great, but can you truly know your partner isn't actively hiding something from you? If a girl got raped, I don't expect her to tell me she got raped when we are dating. It's up to her discretion to tell me. If she feels comfortable enough to tell me that, that's fine. I'm secure enough in myself to not require my partner to share everything with me (Possibly cause I can empathize due to me hiding my red pill views). A successful red piller who has assimilated back into the community is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/14 05:58 PM
1

You're probably right, but not too many girls are familiar with red pill philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/14 06:12 AM
1

I agree. I meant in real life by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/14 06:04 AM
1

I think they can and I wouldn't be able to tell. This actually is a good way to reinforce my view, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/14 06:01 AM
1

Yeah no man is 100% alpha or beta, that would be unhealthy. I can definitely see it as a spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 11:13 PM
1

I've never heard that perspective before, but very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 11:12 PM
1

It took me about a year and a half of practice to get to where I am now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 11:10 PM
2

I completely disagree. So you're basically saying if you are true to yourself and admit your flaws then people will find you attractive? That only works if you're already attractive enough to be able to pull that off. So if I'm homeless, jack off five times a day and don't shower and admit it I should be able to still pull really attractive women? C'mon stop with the be yourself bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 10:59 PM
2

Hmm you can maintain a long term relationship without revealing every little detail about yourself. I hope you understand that. I'm sure you haven't revealed every detail about yourself to your partner. Maybe that's a requirement for you. The thing you're failing to understand is that it no longer becomes a facade. I'm not maintaining frame anymore. It's just the way I am at this point. It's become a part of who I am now. Let's say you start working out and you realize you are pleased with the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 10:55 PM
1

I read the subreddit sidebar first then I got hooked. I started reading the subreddit daily for about a year and a half. My changes were definitely not overnight. I also read books such as The Book of Pook and Models by Mark Manson.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 10:50 PM
3

If you think a guy who reads books is unattractive then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 10:25 PM
1

Very good point. If you use the dynamic that women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of commitment, a needy guy gives away his commitment too easily. You could call a needy guy the equivalent of a slut. I read somewhere that women prefer the selfish man because he is more cautious about giving his time, resources and commitment away. How can a woman trust a man who gives away these things for any woman who pays attention to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 08:51 PM
0

It's depressing at first, but eventually you just accept it man. If you still have the desire to find "the one" you haven't completely swallowed the pill. You seem to be going in the right direction. I would highly recommend reading a book called The Book of Pook, it will help you. Especially read the fifteen lessons.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 08:48 PM
0

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 08:02 PM
2

Well you might not like the solution, but you should express less emotional intimacy. Girls want to be desired, but they don't want a guy who is clingy. It's a paradox to desire a woman and be non-needy simultaneously. To solve this paradox, you have to show that you're interested, but you don't care if they are not interested. So the mentality described in a blunt way would be "Hey I want to fuck you, but if you don't want to then I got other girls to fuck". Basically, you have to open yourself…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 08:00 PM
3

I completely agree with this. I would argue that the red pill teaches you how to become charismatic to women. It teaches you to emulate the charismatic man with options until you actually become it. I think a lot of people can't seem to fathom that these things can be learned.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 07:48 PM
1

Yeah, I have a friend who just got in a relationship and this describes him completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 07:43 PM
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Ahh ok. My point is that a successful red piller wouldn't come out with his views. People and leadership skills can be learned just like any other skill. I'm much better with people now than I was before reading the red pill. I have less insecurities now than before I was red pill. I'm not sure where you got the idea that red pillers are insecure and think women have nothing to contribute to society. It seems as if you think a guy can't remove his insecurities by reading the red pill? I have fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 07:38 PM
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I'm totally fine with hiding my red pill beliefs and I don't think it hinders me in anyway. Revealing my red pill beliefs is a social faux pas just like a girl revealing that she's slept with 50 different guys. I think you fail to understand that one can be confident and comfortable without mentioning how they got so confident and comfortable. Understanding this fact makes me more socially savvy than a red piller who proudly claims he reads a subreddit to get better with women. Who has a better …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 07:25 PM
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I agree with your definition of TRP. I guess I meant that in real life we don't openly proclaim that we read a subreddit to get better with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 05:34 PM
1

Punctuality and attendance are good indicators of a good lover as well. If your girlfriend shows up on time that means she values your time and wants to show up on time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 06:03 AM
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Yes, that's the whole point. Women having loyalty beyond their own narcissism teaches you that you can't depend on women. You can only depend on yourself. The red pill teaches men how to get laid so they have to phrase it in such a manner in order to make sense to men who can't get laid. Don't be loyal to women who don't show loyalty to you. This is why I sometimes invite three women on the same date. This weeds out women who do not value my time and is a future indicator on which woman will be …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 05:33 AM
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You misunderstand. I'm trying to say that I can't fall in love with a woman when I understand women's nature when it comes to sex and relationships. I have to operate at a higher level than the woman in order to maintain her attraction to me which really kills emotional intimacy for me. She might be under the impression that emotional intimacy exists though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 05:25 AM
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Hmm it's definitely an extreme statement. I mean when you internalize these beliefs, your mentality shifts and women start paying attention to you because you don't give out your attention freely anymore. Once you start having the success with women you want, you can dial the behaviors back a bit and become comfortable. You eventually do put yourself in women's shoes and realize they are just people. They're just as manipulative as you are. These extreme statements are not completely true, but I…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 11:32 PM
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I would argue that the bluntness of the red pill speak makes it easier to digest for men. We need to make generalizations about women if we want to be more attractive to women. How can you learn to be more attractive to women if you don't generalize them? I wouldn't be opposed to women generalizing men if they are trying to be more attractive to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 10:50 PM
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The biggest indication of the difference between men and women is the hormonal levels. Can you say that about race? Men have more testosterone than women which causes the two sexes to behave differently. Exactly, I don't treat women I don't want to fuck differently. The red pill teaches you the behavior that women you want to fuck will respond to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 10:01 PM
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You would agree that you have to treat a woman you're interested in romantically differently than a woman you are not interested in right? The red pill suggests that women are attracted to men with certain qualities. For example, they are attracted to men older, taller, richer, smarter and stronger than them. The red pill helps you emulate that man and eventually become that man. Ahh the race argument. See the problem with that is that women and men are proven to be biologically different. If yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 09:48 PM
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I wouldn't say TRPers are misogynists, but I will say they are sexist. When it comes to attraction you have to treat women like women not people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 09:32 PM
2

Spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 04:05 PM
7

Exactly! I think there was a post on the red pill called "slutty flings, virginal rings".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 03:58 PM
2

Yeah if you're a red piller who is angry at women then you're still in the early phase. Some take longer than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 03:58 PM
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Yeah, getting angry at women is part of the red pill process. This might help you understand it better: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1x0gln/the_five_stages_of_red_pill_and_how_to_read_rtrp/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 03:51 PM
5

Simply put, emotional intimacy can't exist when you understand women's nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 03:27 PM
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Good job, you took part of my sentence and twisted it to take on a different meaning! I'm not denying that red pillers get angry at women. I'm just saying red pillers have certain standards when it comes to LTRs. I will gladly bang a girl with tattoos and piercings, but I wouldn't be proud to call her my wife or mother of my children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 03:18 PM
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Red pillers do not get angry at women who have tattoos and piercings. We just avoid them for LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 03:04 PM
5

Yeah I'm waiting on the subreddit that gives advice to women on how to get laid...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 01:32 AM
1

You just said men who approach women have just as easy a time as women. The difference is that men have to approach women and women don't have to approach men. Approaching requires effort which means it is harder for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 12:58 AM
4

So you're basically saying women have an easier time getting laid...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 12:17 AM
3

The real reason white guys lust after Asian girls is because there is less effort required to pursue and manage them (especially for white guys).
/r/askTRP20/11/14 03:48 PM
1

Yeah, there are less men working on self-improvement than you think. And there are even less men who know about TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/14 07:09 PM
4

This is a realistic view on sexual strategies for a man who is lazy as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/14 06:42 PM
2

Those men you're talking about wouldn't want a relationship if they were getting laid by multiple women. Not having options results in oneitis.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/14 10:06 PM
2

I think /u/Archwinger won this one to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/14 05:19 PM
5

A book on meditation that I would highly recommend is Mindfulness in Plain English.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 06:39 PM
6

Does your girlfriend know about the escort and 2 plates? Not judging you, but how did you pull that off? I might be heading to that territory soon.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 04:44 AM
3

You should ask her to workout with you.
/r/askTRP07/11/14 06:53 PM
6

The whole point is that it's a win-win situation. If you're already banging another girl then you won't care about the girl who friendzoned you. If she hears that you're with another girl then this might peak her interest. Then you might be banging two girls.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 06:39 AM
1

It's called Kill News Feed.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 01:04 AM
0

Fffffffffffuuuuuu. Alright thanks man.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 04:37 AM
1

I do not actually want to do wrong to my LTR. It's just I have thoughts of cheating because I could get away with it. This is mainly because of the red pill principles I've internalized. Spinning plates while having an LTR is the best of both worlds. It's just like a girl having her alpha fucks and beta bucks I guess. But I realized having the best of both worlds usually never lasts. I've decided to honor my LTR and not cheat. I just need to jack off more.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 01:52 AM
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Yeah I've hooked up with girls through facebook before. I would advise not to be active on facebook and use a chrome extension to block your news feed. Use facebook just for the messaging feature.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 11:47 PM
7

Just leave it blank no matter what your actual relationship status is.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 06:35 PM
1

Yeah I guess I need to let my plates "break". I have a habit of watching porn and contacting old plates when being high off weed. I decided to quit weed for No Nothing November so hopefully that is the root of my problem.
/r/askTRP04/11/14 06:23 PM
2

I've had the same thought about turning her into a plate. I just have no idea how to go about it though. How would one turn an LTR into a plate?
/r/askTRP04/11/14 07:03 AM
2

You're right.. I guess I'll enjoy it while it lasts. I enjoy her company too much so maybe I'll just wait until she breaks it off. I definitely do not see the relationship as sustainable, but it would be great if it was.
/r/askTRP04/11/14 06:53 AM
2

Keep in mind that you are definitely reducing your dating pool. You will probably attract men with tattoos, but will repel men without tattoos. Men without tattoos will fuck you, but will be more cautious about dating you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/14 02:36 AM
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You're completely right. A lot of red pill concepts can be explained in a rational way that comes off as common sense. However, the red pill subreddit is made for men by men. The way red pillers talk about things is in a politically incorrect fashion which is easier to digest for men. If talked about in a rational, sane way the concepts are harder to internalize for men. To women it comes off as misogynistic bullshit. My point is that men aren't internalizing these concepts unless they are getti…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/14 02:30 AM
1

Always act like you have higher SMV than the woman in question.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 08:52 PM
1

I would agree. I mean I don't really think it advocates any blue pill behavior. I think it touches on some red pill concepts without being offensive.
/r/askTRP02/11/14 06:29 AM
2

Lol how does this conversation improve your odds of banging this chick at all?
/r/trpGAME02/11/14 06:25 AM
1

You should read Models by Mark Manson before anything else.
/r/askTRP02/11/14 02:51 AM
1

If you actually swallowed the red pill then you should be wondering if she's good enough. You find out by approaching. Sounds like normal approach anxiety to me.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 08:30 PM
1

The equivalent of street harassment for guys would be asking for commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 06:59 AM
1

Glad to see that I was already following these rules!
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 01:36 AM
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Haha that is the likely scenario, but I don't think it applies to my case because I know what I'm doing. Her becoming my girlfriend is a recent thing. I've had sex with her at least three times each time we've met up after the second date. She goes to a small, private university where hook up culture isn't really prevalent. She's reliable, submissive and even will pay for me. It only developed into an LTR after the 9th date. If she slips though, I've got plates in my reserve ;)
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 05:45 PM
1

So my girlfriend meets all this criteria, but I met her on Tinder... We got bubble tea for our first date though (Didn't hook up until the third date). I guess she's the exception.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 03:15 PM
1

Patriarchy is a gender dynamic. I would even go so far as to say patriarchy is caused by biology. There is a reason matriarchal societies die out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 08:27 PM
4

You should consider living off campus next year. Once you have your own room, a car and alcohol/weed, these things become less of a problem.
/r/seduction03/10/14 06:36 PM
1

Didn't get laid until 22. After that the red pill clicked with me. Had sex with 3 more girls. I'm still 22.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 04:14 PM
1

Very true.
/r/askTRP02/10/14 05:35 PM
1

No... when did I say that? I'm saying that if everything else is equal (such as game, money and social status) between guy A and guy B, but guy B is better looking then guy B can get more girls than guy A.
/r/seduction28/09/14 08:21 PM
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Well it depends on the girl. If your wingman has the same amount of game as you and the girl thinks he's better looking then she will go for him. There are plenty of factors that we're ignoring as well such as money and social status.
/r/seduction28/09/14 06:13 AM
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Haha I think he would do very well in that sub. Spot on with the tips, I already do some of the things he mentioned.
/r/seduction28/09/14 06:07 AM
1

Sure. I wouldn't say I'm good looking but I can still pick up girls. But if there is guy with an equal amount of game as me and he's also better looking then he'll have a larger dating pool than me. You just have to do the best with what you've got.
/r/seduction28/09/14 05:48 AM
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Yes you can, but you won't be able to pick up as many women as a good looking and confident guy.
/r/seduction28/09/14 05:06 AM
1

One of the main ideas I've absorbed from this subreddit is that you should always act like you're better than the girl in question.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 04:32 AM
7

They're desperate for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/14 03:07 PM
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Yeah, totally agree. In the context of this sub, alpha means "top sexually attractive man".
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 08:24 PM
1

I'm not giving you shit or anything, I just thought the way you described it was funny.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 04:16 PM
0

Lol so when she shoots you a comfort test you hug her?
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 04:00 AM
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I mean in this scenario, I don't think there was anything else you could do. She wasn't going to put out no matter what LMR technique you used. She doesn't want you to see her as just another plate.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 07:31 PM
1

If you get rejected then you should just hit on other girls. There's no magic line that will save you after a rejection.
/r/seduction12/09/14 04:15 PM
1

Get laid.
/r/seduction12/09/14 04:10 PM
3

Getting the first girl in your stable is like getting your first million dollars. It's always the hardest to get.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 03:34 AM
3

As an Indian, taking the red pill resulted in tremendous success. I hit the gym and started weeding out girls in an efficient manner. I'm still a skinny dude but my shift in attitude made a huge difference. If a girl doesn't want to meet up then she isn't worth my time. Currently, I'm seeing a white girl and an Indian girl. I have two potential plates in my "reserve" as well. Former blue pill me would never have imagined being with more than one girl at a time.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 08:40 PM
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Just say "I want to be in your mouth". It has never failed me. Do not under any circumstances put your hand on the girls head and pull her down. You can give her oral first but I tend to do that only with girls I really like. Usually they will return the favor.
/r/seduction06/09/14 05:33 PM
2

"What's your schedule like this week?" Then pick the day she's free.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 12:34 AM
2

The best way to become relaxed and confident is to have women you're already talking to. If you have other options, women will pick up on this through your behavior.
/r/seduction28/08/14 04:20 PM
1

Dennis Wilson, drummer and sex symbol of The Beach Boys
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 03:39 PM
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It sure is. This would be the equivalent to a hot chick wearing a fat suit getting rejected then removing the fat suit.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 12:05 AM
4

These things happen. Do not dwell on why she's doing these things because it ultimately won't help. When girls aren't treating you the way you want to be treated then find other girls who will.
/r/seduction27/08/14 09:43 PM
6

What if you put it in the My Story section?
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 09:26 PM
7

I had the same thought as well. However, they do not know how many people you directly sent the snap to. I agree, putting it up in the my story section may work better in most scenarios.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 09:05 PM
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Yup I definitely agree as an Indian guy. I have a friend who is a tall, very good looking, white dude with little game. He is so good looking that he barely needs game. I, on the other hand, have to keep my game airtight if I even want to come close to him. However, this is strictly in the bar scene.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 05:08 AM
1

I would suggest using "agree and amplify". If she mentions another dude then respond by saying "you should!" or "go for it!".
/r/askTRP27/08/14 03:33 AM
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She does not necessarily have to be exclusive with you. If she's a plate then don't be surprised if she has plates of her own.
/r/askTRP27/08/14 02:35 AM
3

The worst rejection I've gotten from a woman is shooing me off like I'm a homeless person begging for change. Sometimes I'll get a shitty facial expression.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 12:23 AM
17

Dude he complimented and negged her. He said it was impressive and that she lost a few points for not including the mike drop. I wouldn't be surprised if he got this chick's number.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 06:24 PM
1

Yeah what I'm saying is that looks do matter. We're both on the same page. Game is literally just knowing how to interact with girls. Suppose guy A and guy B have the same amount of game. If guy A is better looking then guy A will have better results. Even race matters. I'm not saying you should be depressed by these things. You should make the best of what you have.
/r/seduction14/08/14 04:30 AM
1

All this article is saying is that game helps to a certain extent. I've experienced this first hand. I have a tall, white friend who outshines me every night we're out and women will flock to him no matter what he says. The difference is that I need game and he doesn't. He has an easier time getting pussy because he's good looking. I have to work harder because I'm not as good looking. This is something the seduction community ignores. It says looks don't matter when they actually play an import…
/r/seduction14/08/14 04:17 AM
1

Yeah show me the video where that guy gets laid.
/r/seduction14/08/14 02:58 AM
5

If you had a 10 before then you can get another 10.
/r/seduction12/08/14 06:19 AM
1

Yeah I would agree with you. I think the redpill mods would say something that this is a male space where men can express their frustration. However, I think that women riding the cock carousel is not the same as men spinning plates. As you said, women having multiple beta orbiters would be the equivalent to a man spinning plates. Multiple beta orbiters does not equal having sex with a bunch of men. Women's riding of the cock carousel tends to decrease their value for a LTR. You have truly swall…
/r/askTRP04/08/14 05:20 PM
0

The difference is that as women accumulate more sexual partners, their SMV decreases. As men accumulate more sexual partners, their SMV increases up to a certain point.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 05:11 PM
3

Damn, I've noticed the same thing as well. I wish someone made a post about this on /r/TheRedPill.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 04:07 PM
4

You could say the same thing about a dog training forum. If dogs are inferior to humans then how come you need a whole community and a strategy to deal with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 05:58 AM
9

Hitting on other girls may get her attention but you'll be too busy hitting on other girls.
/r/askTRP02/08/14 10:29 PM
0

Focus more on personal interests and hobbies. Women should not be your first priority.
/r/seduction31/07/14 01:23 AM
2

I use Cold Turkey. It blocks user specified websites and programs for free: http://getcoldturkey.com/
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 04:02 PM
3

Set up another meeting and pull the trigger.
/r/seduction27/07/14 05:52 PM
2

Yeah I definitely agree with this. The weird thing is that when a girl says one of these token last minute resistance phrases I kind of lose a little respect for them. Maybe it's because I know what they're doing. It's almost as if they believe they're separating themselves from other girls but the thing is that I've heard so many other girls say similar things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/14 05:21 PM
1

Yeah.. I remember my days of hitting on girls on facebook trying to be a PUA. I cringe at that now hahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/14 05:05 PM
1

PUA has ruined a few of my relationships with women but it was when I was just getting into PUA. For example, I would try out PUA techniques on female acquaintances and girls on Facebook but it would ultimately fail because I would be using these techniques in the wrong context. In the long term, PUA has helped me because it gave me an optimistic outlook on women. I was able to crash and burn with a bunch of women in a short period of time and I actually found it fun. TRP has made me feel like e…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/14 05:03 PM
1

Men value women for their youth and beauty; both of those fade over time. Women have to adjust their expectations for a partner accordingly as she loses her youth and beauty. However, women value non-physical traits in a man such as wealth, dominance and social status. Men always have the potential to gain such non-physical traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/14 06:29 AM
1

Very keen observation. I don't think I'd be able to advise a girl on how to obtain commitment from a man. However, I could definitely tell her what not to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/14 06:08 AM
0

I do think it puts you on the path to becoming a productive, pussy magnet. It's a start and nothing can be accomplished without applying yourself. I would argue that PMO is an extreme though. Cavemen weren't jacking off to porn but they were probably jacking off.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 08:48 PM
1

Hey man I wasn't trying to be mean. I just disagree completely. Women want men to protect and provide for them. When men start complaining, crying and expressing every little detail they appreciate about a woman it actually turns that woman off. It's good to be vulnerable to an extent but your woman is not a shoulder to lean on. You are her shoulder to lean on. You have to be the unwavering flag pole while she is a waving flag. Express your true feelings and ideas to your male friends, you'll be…
/r/seduction24/07/14 02:43 PM
-6

Sure if you want the girl's pussy to become the Sahara.
/r/seduction22/07/14 10:51 PM
0

I only start paying after she starts having sex with me. Women are taking your money, time and effort in exchange for sex so you better make them work for it.
/r/seduction22/07/14 10:48 PM
1

I would recommend this advice if you are very inexperienced or in an eternal dry spell. Getting a couple fucks under your belt will give you the attitude needed to land hotter chicks. Having a couple girls who you know will fuck you at any time will do wonders for your game; it's essentially plate theory in action. I'm not advocating dating these girls, just keep them strictly for sex. Make the plain looking girls your plates and push them down the queue as you upgrade.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 05:53 AM
5

Dude just use tinder.
/r/askTRP20/07/14 12:27 AM
1

Well there's a chance you might have not ruined your shot. Take the lead, invite her out and you'll be able to see how interested she is by gauging her response.
/r/askTRP20/07/14 12:16 AM
1

Lol dude you shouldn't have said "hook-up" in your text.... Just invite her out for some drinks then go back to your place next time.
/r/askTRP20/07/14 12:10 AM
7

Yeah I think you're on the right track. I think it really depends on the girl's sexual experience. I've escalated with a girl in my bed but she wouldn't let me do more than take her shirt off. Then she said she was tired and passed out. I'm pretty sure this girl was a virgin so it probably wasn't a bad thing that I slept beside her in my bed. I had to drop that cause I wasn't about to put in the time and effort required to have sex with her. On the other hand, if you're on a bed or couch with a …
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 10:34 PM
1

Yeah definitely don't see an LTR with this girl. I'm dropping her.
/r/askTRP13/07/14 10:22 PM
1

I agree. All I needed was some sex to realize I needed to drop her.
/r/askTRP13/07/14 10:22 PM
1

You're completely right, I'm dropping her.
/r/askTRP13/07/14 10:21 PM
1

Thanks man. I had sex with my other plate for the first time and that definitely cleared my head. I'm gonna drop her.
/r/askTRP13/07/14 10:21 PM
1

Your gender definitely has an effect on your sex drive. Men have more testosterone than women therefore they tend to have stronger sex drives.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/14 05:43 PM
1

You will be better in aspects that are common to day game and night game. If you've improved your day game then your overall game should be better.
/r/seduction10/07/14 06:43 PM
1

Well I lost my virginity to a girl who was taller than me.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 05:28 AM
0

Yeah you're right but the problem is that you could do the same thing with red pill posts. Switch "women" with "blacks" and see what happens. I'm a red piller and I'm wondering what differentiates the sexism?
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 08:42 PM
1

Say that you took your mom out to dinner and decided to stick around after.
/r/seduction06/07/14 05:36 AM
9

If you don't believe in biological truths then I can't argue on that point further. TRP is not trying to change things the way are, it's adjusting yourself to benefit from the way things are. You're right, change does happen and it is more acceptable for women to have more sexual partners than in 1914. Because it's acceptable for women to have more than one sexual partner now, men have to adjust their expectations. It's harder to find a girl with lower partner count but men will always prefer a …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/14 06:07 AM
3

Sure that's a great ideal to have. Unfortunately, not everyone can or will end up with someone attractive and who isn't an asshole. I believe assholes aren't seen as attractive because they're assholes, it's because they have other attractive qualities going for them. You don't have to be an asshole to be attractive, you just need to have a spine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/14 05:07 AM
10

It's naive to think you can "fix" your biological nature. It's like trying to "fix" a gay person. Men will always be less willing to commit to a woman who has had a lot of partners. When they find out a woman has been pumped and dumped multiple times without ever receiving commitment, then they question why they should commit to her if the other men didn't have to. The woman has made herself look easy. If a woman wants to sleep around she should understand that it will be detrimental to her valu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/14 05:02 AM
4

We can change the way we think and how we judge but it doesn't mean it will be desirable in the long run. If I convince myself to start pursuing physically unattractive women with pleasant personalities then I would not enjoy myself. I wouldn't enjoy myself because it would be going against my biological nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/14 04:14 AM
8

Yeah it's great that you feel the way but unfortunately that's not how the world works. Assholes like Christian and Edward are glorified because women find them sexy. Asshole characters like Christian and Edward work because they appeal to women. Women having multiple partners will always be looked down upon. That will not change anytime soon. Women having multiple partners and being looked down upon is not a societal issue because it is a global and universal phenomenon. It is an issue of biolo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/14 11:22 PM
2

I just came here to vouch for Models. It's really the only book on this stuff that you need.
/r/seduction02/07/14 08:26 PM
2

I mainly listen to the Beach Boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/14 06:28 AM
1

True.
/r/askTRP25/06/14 02:38 PM
12

Get new friends that do respond to your texts.
/r/askTRP24/06/14 11:35 PM
12

Don't mention the past and treat it as a normal date.
/r/seduction24/06/14 06:17 PM
1

Sounds like you graduated from seddit. I would suggest /r/TheRedPill, seems like that is the path you're on. And no, I'm not a misogynist.
/r/seduction24/06/14 03:52 AM
0

Much respect, it's all uphill from here.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/14 07:57 AM
1

Of course looks matter! If guy A and guy B have the same amount of game, but guy A has better looks then guy A will get better results than guy B. If you can't improve your looks even further then the only thing you can work on is game. You should be staying in shape, having good posture, grooming well, dressing well and smelling good while simultaneously working on game.
/r/seduction12/06/14 12:44 AM
-2

Well I wasn't trying to write a high school essay. According to you I provided a "starting point" for people who want to learn about female circumcision which I consider better than taking /u/SasomSpegel's word. Here are the reliable sources that back up my points:http://whqlibdoc.who.int/publications/2008/9789241596442_eng.pdf http://www.who.int/reproductivehealth/topics/fgm/overview/en/ If this is going to be a battle of who has more references, where are /u/SasomSpegel's references?
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 05:36 AM
-1

Are you sure? I just read the Wikipedia article on female circumcision and it explains that the procedures involve "removal of all or part of the clitoris and clitoral hood; all or part of the clitoris and inner labia; and in its most severe form (infibulation) all or part of the inner and outer labia and the closure of the vagina". Male circumcision is literally just the removal of the foreskin. If female circumcision was equivalent to male circumcision it would just be limited to the removal o…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 03:45 AM
-1

There's a difference between removing the foreskin and removing an entire clitoris. The female circumcision in Africa would be the equivalent to getting the head of your penis chopped off. I still agree that keeping your foreskin provides some benefits but male and female circumcision are not the same.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 05:58 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/14 10:43 PM
2

Yeah but you can control how many people you sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/14 05:00 PM
1

I used to have the same problem. You just have to start hanging out with people outside of your race. Eventually, it will come naturally.
/r/seduction31/05/14 07:03 AM
1

Just start talking to more white girls.
/r/seduction31/05/14 06:44 AM
1

Your uncle and other cousin-in-law's bf were right. They just smile and nod even though they probably know your female cousin in law is dead wrong. There is no point in arguing with a feminist, it gets you nowhere just like in your story.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 07:25 PM
2

Yeah for sure. I'm only subscribed here just to keep myself in check at this point. But I think Models covers all the bases including self improvement.
/r/seduction08/05/14 06:11 PM
2

If you read that book you won't need to be on seddit.
/r/seduction07/05/14 05:20 PM
-2

Talk to everyone but her. Usually she'll eventually introduce herself.
/r/seduction27/04/14 07:31 PM
3

Just provided the link!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/14 07:27 PM
14

Here's the link to that documentary.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/14 07:26 PM
1

Can you link me to HappyJerk's advice? I've done something very similar before. Although you should remember it's always easier to get a new girl than trying to reignite an old flame.
/r/seduction15/04/14 10:48 PM
1

I think you're over analyzing this. This is most likely a publicity stunt and if it isn't, James Franco is so high status that he doesn't need game. Christian McQueen agrees.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 04:42 AM
1

"Excuse" does not necessarily have a negative connotation here. I guess I should've rephrased this question to "what terrible/smooth ways have you used to invite a girl back to your place during a date?". And I find that telling a girl straight up to come back to your place backfires because she doesn't want to feel like a slut. Often times a girl wants to go to your place under the guise that she's doing some other activity with you and the sex "just happens".
/r/seduction31/03/14 10:39 PM
1

It you want to be smooth then turn it back on her. "Should I not like you?", "What's not to like?" or "Why shouldn't I?".
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 04:07 AM
4

"I'm sure they would love your modesty"
/r/seduction23/03/14 08:30 PM
2

Text her saying something reminded you of her. Ask how she's been doing, tell her that you guys should catch up sometime and then set up the meetup from there.
/r/seduction23/03/14 03:48 AM
-1

/r/TheRedPill may have some controversial views but I would be lying if I said that mindset has not helped me women. I started with /r/seduction but it didn't do it for me anymore so then I graduated to that subreddit.
/r/seduction23/03/14 03:45 AM
1

I did something similar. Went on 2 dates with a girl then she broke it off with me. I remained unfazed. Waited a few weeks, told her we should catch up and she agreed. We'll see how it goes.
/r/seduction20/03/14 09:19 PM
1

Ok thanks, this was along the line of thinking I had. I just feel like you shouldn't be so vulnerable that your girl becomes a shoulder to cry on.
/r/askTRP19/03/14 04:03 AM
14

That conversation threading.
/r/seduction17/03/14 02:03 PM
1

I don't think you realize that it's possible to change your core identity. If a skinny guy thinks his skinniness is part of his self-identity, he might get decent results with women. However, what if he starts working out and gains muscle? He sees even better results with women so he makes his new body a part of core identity. Your problem is that you're too scared to actively change your values, you just want it to happen naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/14 11:10 PM
1

You realize you're delving into red pill philosophy right? So many people claim they're against it when they don't realize they actually agree with some red pill truths. PM me if you want a proper explanation to this problem. (Keep in mind that I could've said that this post was misandry, that you should treat men like human beings, you're stereotyping and not all men are like that but I did not because I looked at your post logically. If you reversed the roles that would have been you in our pr…
/r/seduction14/03/14 08:08 PM
1

I think the guy is just saying most women lie about break ups to be polite. It's easier for them to let you down easy. It's a trend that he has noticed, as have as I. I do respect women as fellow humans but they use logic differently than men do. Women and men are held to different standards. It's not as simple as saying "treat women as humans". Keep in mind that you're in a subreddit that claims that you should never take dating advice from a woman. There are reasons behind this as well.
/r/seduction14/03/14 05:46 PM
1

I mentioned that because you said his reasoning was petty. Of course it is, he's out for himself. Yeah it is a red pill blog so I take it you don't agree with that philosophy. Honestly, I assumed that the post was a very tame in comparison to other red pill material and it agreed with this subreddit's take on break ups: Cut off contact and do better things with your life. Also, the red pill has helped my life tremendously and I still value women. Some of their posts come off as insensitive but y…
/r/seduction14/03/14 05:30 PM
0

If you guys figured out that friendship is the better route then that's awesome. But that means the advice in the article was not applicable to your scenario. It's for guys who do not want to remain friends with an ex-girlfriend. It's aimed at guys who want to move on and get more women. Closure gives a woman a certain satisfaction because she knows you have trouble coping. If you don't give in to closure she will sense that you have other better things going on your life. This is why many women…
/r/seduction14/03/14 01:35 PM
18

Correction to #8: Women at an instinctual level want a guy to be equal or BETTER than them.
/r/seduction14/03/14 01:21 PM
1

I love women and I do treat women like fellow humans. I just don't treat them as fellow men. That wouldn't really make sense when it comes to topics such as seduction. Just because I think women and men work differently does not equate to me viewing women as subhuman.
/r/seduction14/03/14 01:09 PM
1

Are you sure about that? You should read other articles in his blog before you make that assumption. Not everything you do in your life will be for virtuous reasons. As a matter fact, oh no, we're in a subreddit that helps guys seduce AKA get laid! Everyone is out there for themselves buddy.
/r/seduction14/03/14 12:29 PM
0

Not every girl is like that. I'm sure there are a few exceptions. MOST girls are like this. Stereotypes exist for a reason. Oh you're a girl? Why am I not surprised? The only way girls serve on /r/seduction is by trying to make it politically correct. Keep in mind that most of this advice is aimed at men for seducing women so your feelings don't matter. Saying I can't use logic with a certain set of retarded people would be considered offensive as well. This whole subreddit employs ideas and tec…
/r/seduction14/03/14 12:23 PM
0

I don't understand the reason to express your emotions after your girlfriend breaks up with you. She isn't your girlfriend anymore so she isn't the person to talk about it with. The relationship is over and you should move on. This whole article is reinforcing what you're talking about. Your boyfriend is sticking around and getting closure and you like that you "continue to support each other". That's not necessarily better for him. He would've been better off if he moved on. The reason women ge…
/r/seduction14/03/14 12:10 PM
1

Don't use smiley faces. Be direct and terse with your texts. The main reason to text is to set up the date.
/r/seduction14/03/14 05:45 AM
1

How is that misogynistic? I've experienced this with every girl I've been with. No girl will admit that she's breaking up with you because she knows she can do better. It's called being cordial.
/r/seduction14/03/14 04:51 AM
5

I think TRP endorses treating women like children in certain scenarios. Such as when she is shit testing you or throwing a tantrum. Women should treat men like children in certain scenarios as well. Treating women/men like puppies is an equivalent analogy that can be used.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/14 11:02 PM
1

If two guys have equal game then the guy with more status, money and looks wins.
/r/seduction13/03/14 04:34 PM
2

The longer a woman's hair the more attention she will get from men, the shorter a woman's hair the more attention she will get from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/14 03:52 PM
8

I have a feeling this documentary is focused more on men's rights than the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 12:24 AM
7

Yeah self-improvement is part of the strategy. It seems like we're in agreement here?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/14 10:33 PM
4

Without a strategy you will not improve and you will get the same results as before.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/14 08:59 PM
1

/r/malefashionadvice
/r/askTRP12/03/14 08:42 PM
1

Endorsement, I read both of these subs and this is one of the many times they intersect.
/r/seduction12/03/14 07:01 PM
1

The red pill would agree with you.
/r/seduction12/03/14 06:26 PM
1

You should find out.
/r/seduction12/03/14 12:09 AM
3

That quote is what girls want you to think. That app revolutionized the game. You can get girls for free without even leaving your own home.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 06:06 AM
1

Don't take shots. Do not chug your drinks. Take your time and enjoy your drink while gaming women.
/r/seduction06/03/14 02:46 AM
1

It was awkward because you didn't make any moves on her.
/r/askTRP01/03/14 07:42 PM
1

Honestly, you'll have a higher success rate if you go for shorter women. This shouldn't stop you from approaching tall women though. You just need to take them off a pedestal. Think about this way: tall women don't have it as easy either because they like even taller men. This means their dating pool is limited.
/r/seduction26/02/14 06:17 PM
2

Yeah I think that's what he's going for.
/r/seduction25/02/14 03:50 AM
16

Dude just invite her over to watch a movie...
/r/seduction25/02/14 02:31 AM
1

Just take her on a date where neither you have to spend money.
/r/seduction24/02/14 06:39 PM
4

You realize hip-hop has more red pill values in it than any other genre right?
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 05:22 AM
1

Also a fairly dumpy girl can get laid with guys she's attracted to but that doesn't mean she can get into relationships with them.
/r/seduction17/02/14 07:27 AM
1

Women who are looking to settle down often go for more reliable, stable men instead of bad boys.
/r/seduction13/02/14 12:49 AM
0

I agree with everything you said. Spot on.
/r/seduction12/02/14 06:31 PM
1

Hmmm you're attracted to IT guys now that you want to settle down. How convenient.
/r/seduction12/02/14 06:30 PM
3

That we are primarily attracted to youth and beauty in women.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 12:22 AM
1

Probably one of the only redpill songs by the Beach Boys.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 05:31 PM
7

Yup just like how only dumb ass men go for hot women!
/r/seduction28/01/14 12:23 AM
20

Bad idea
/r/askTRP25/01/14 02:06 AM
46

I know it's cheesy but I've had an extremely high response rate with "Should we tell our kids we met on Tinder?".
/r/seduction12/01/14 06:12 AM
4

You can never be 100% secure and you just have to come to terms with it.
/r/seduction12/01/14 06:11 AM
1

If you're not white you will tend to get a more polarizing response from white women and women of other races. Indian women will treat you as the default. This is not a bad thing though. Women of other races that are into you will be really into you. Just shatter negative stereotypes and you find yourself having more success.
/r/seduction11/01/14 10:27 PM
8

I don't think he wants to so I really don't see the problem. If he wants to sleep with a 100 chicks, more power to him.
/r/seduction11/01/14 04:23 PM
3

I respect that you acknowledge this. Most of the seduction community do not have enough experience to notice these trends. Sleeping with 100 women will definitely make you aware of certain patterns.
/r/seduction11/01/14 04:17 PM
7

It will be false when people stop having sex. I know for a fact that I wouldn't want my girlfriend to be the town whore.
/r/seduction11/01/14 04:13 PM
2

LOL dude you're not a loser until you get laid. Don't worry I haven't gotten laid either.
/r/seduction09/01/14 02:33 AM
3

A unicorn has to have a kid?
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 06:00 AM
0

I just said it's not ridiculous because men and women are held accountable for different things. When have women not been the "keepers of sex"? I'm all for women being able to express their sexuality but they should not expect to land a long term partner when they've spent their youth sleeping around. Just as women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of commitment. Just as women are viewed as sex objects, men are viewed as success objects. It has always been this way. Let me rewr…
/r/seduction30/12/13 02:19 PM
1

That is the goal of the red pill, to improve oneself. MRA is the sub that complains about the unfairness of life. The red pill subreddit accepts reality and uses it to their advantage.
/r/seduction30/12/13 04:32 AM
1

It's not though. One is a man and the other is a woman. Men and women are judged based on a different set of attributes. Men tend to prefer not to get into long term relationships with women who have had many previous sexual partners. Men have no problem fucking them though.
/r/seduction30/12/13 04:31 AM
6

Don't
/r/seduction30/12/13 04:23 AM
9

I do this all the time. Also if I've met a girl once before, I act like I do not remember that occurrence leading her to qualify herself to me.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/13 08:25 PM
0

She is because you're out of her league.
/r/seduction23/11/13 08:15 PM
15

Dude she's not even hot.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 05:24 AM
2

Like I said the earlier the better. So when she comes over hug her. Put your arm around her when you guys sit down and start the movie. It's really up to you when to do everything just make sure she's understanding your intentions. Go for the kiss when you look at her and she looks back.
/r/seduction28/10/13 05:19 AM
2

You gotta ramp up that kino. Touch her early, put your arm around her. Keep escalating and get that kiss.
/r/seduction28/10/13 04:10 AM
2

The best time is to start now. If you start now, when you're older your game will be even better than if you started later. You don't have to go to clubs or bars. You can literally approach girls wherever you are.
/r/seduction24/10/13 05:49 AM
1

I think you can pull it off if the girl knows that you're already a confident guy who is not afraid to make fun of himself. You should do it very sparingly though otherwise she will question your self-esteem.
/r/seduction23/10/13 08:15 PM
11

Wow I want to beat the shit out of the guy with Adam Carolla.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/13 06:36 AM
3

Yeah I checked out all of your comments and your responses are the red pill take I was looking for. Don't worry man, I'm not going to consider a LTR until I have sex with her. I will use the LMR tactics and give you guys an update.
/r/askTRP21/10/13 05:02 PM
5

Definitely read Models, it's the only book you need.
/r/seduction20/10/13 10:58 PM
2

Yeah this is what I suspected. I guess it's not always as simple as "alpha fucks, beta bucks".
/r/askTRP20/10/13 04:55 PM
2

Yeah I've actually been following DiCarlo's escalation ladder and I have been noticing results. It's not like I'm stuck at the same barrier every time I hook up with her. I notice I make slight progress every time. The thing is that I feel like I'm pleasuring her more than she's pleasuring me (I'm licking, sucking her breasts, I just get to make out with her). I definitely think I need to connect with her more, most of our dates consist of watching a movie so I guess I'll change that. Thank you …
/r/askTRP20/10/13 04:54 PM
3

Dude FWB benefits never lasts. Just enjoy it while it does.
/r/seduction16/10/13 04:43 PM
0

Dude isn't a 1 or 2 someone with Down Syndrome? Who would have sex with that?
/r/TheRedPill11/10/13 12:50 AM
1

Can you link me to the subreddit? I just want to see how crazy it gets in there.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/13 11:02 PM
1

What the hell is the purple pill?
/r/TheRedPill09/10/13 08:14 PM
1

Don't go on a first date that you have to pay for.
/r/seduction07/10/13 12:09 AM
1

Dude HB5!? Don't spend money or time on her, just fuck her.
/r/seduction06/10/13 12:51 AM
0

Don't
/r/seduction06/10/13 12:18 AM
3

Part 3/3 might not turn out well.
/r/seduction05/10/13 03:32 PM
64

Damn, I've got so much respect for you cause you pulled that off while her friend was there. I can approach girls in public when they're by themselves but when the girl is with a group I don't even think it's worth it.
/r/seduction01/10/13 04:01 AM
1

I think by doing this, you just come off as super humble.
/r/seduction01/10/13 03:25 AM
12

Dating Tips for the Male Who Doesn't Want to Get Laid
/r/TheRedPill29/09/13 06:24 AM
1

You're completely correct. Now keep approaching and prove to yourself that you can be outcome independent.
/r/seduction22/09/13 07:19 AM
2

Yeah, I understand your intention but this seems like trying too hard. Simply putting your arm around your girl and introducing yourself to the guy should suffice.
/r/seduction22/09/13 07:14 AM
3

Holy shit!??!?!?!? Making eye contact with the bar tender gets them to notice you!?!?!? Fuck I've been doing it wrong the entire time.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/13 09:31 PM
1

I mean I guess they're easier lays because they're not used to attention but isn't seduction about getting higher quality women?
/r/seduction16/09/13 08:32 AM
1

Why would you want to pick up chicks with self-esteem/body issues?
/r/seduction16/09/13 08:09 AM
3

Look up the Brad Pitt rule
/r/seduction31/08/13 08:25 PM
4

All you had to tell him was that you found a better deal and he'll have to try to match the price. If he doesn't he knows he's wasting his time.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/13 08:23 PM
3

If she's putting up a shield you shouldn't even bother talking to her.
/r/seduction31/08/13 01:36 PM
2

Yeah it's because I overheard my roommate hinting to one of the hosts that he wanted to be introduced to her.
/r/seduction31/08/13 02:05 AM
1

This is a classic approach.
/r/seduction29/07/13 02:41 PM
3

Wow, this comment shows how stupid some people are. The caste system is illegal in India and only some villagers still adhere to it.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 08:17 PM
36

Bill Burr and Patrice O'Neal are some great red-pill comedians.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 07:04 PM
8

Because girls don't want to seem like sluts.
/r/seduction24/07/13 06:49 PM
2

To polarize quickly you should quickly make your intentions clearly. This will make your target either reject you or she'll keep talking with you. If she keeps talking with you you've got the green light. Accomplishing quick polarization is done through direct approaches. Using an opener where you tell her you approached her because she's cute removes any doubt of why you are talking to her. Also physical escalation is the next step in polarization.
/r/seduction24/07/13 06:43 PM
30

A girl told me that once. I said "I will rip your heart out".
/r/seduction13/07/13 06:39 PM
2

Best way is to go up to a girl and tell her you find her cute and ask her to dance. Be clear with your intentions. NEVER just slowly inch yourself up to a girl and start grinding with her without her permission. These are the guys girls try to avoid.
/r/seduction07/07/13 10:07 AM
6

I cringed reading some of the top posts.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 08:26 AM
2

"Who said anything about sex?" or "Yeah I promised myself I wouldn't have sex tonight".
/r/seduction15/06/13 07:25 PM
1

Yeah I found that when friends dare each other to hit on other people, it's really effective because it's simply fun. You also build a lot of momentum.
/r/seduction14/06/13 05:14 PM
1

Being positive about yourself and others is confidence.
/r/seduction30/05/13 05:43 AM
7

I think the "I wonder what she's like" mindset is very efficient because you can see if she meets your needs and if you get rejected you know she just isn't the right girl for you. It definitely expedites the process of becoming a fun and spontaneous guy.
/r/seduction30/04/13 09:00 PM
1

He means that he should buy something from the snack bar as an excuse to talk to her.
/r/seduction17/04/13 08:12 PM
4

A simple "thank you" will suffice.
/r/seduction21/03/13 04:54 AM
1

Never mention the time lapse... Just act like nothing happened. You should not be concerned when a girl responds, just go about your thing.
/r/seduction19/03/13 12:01 AM
15

Best way is to ask "Is this seat taken?". She will think you need an extra chair at a separate table when in reality you are going to join her.
/r/seduction21/02/13 12:25 PM
1

Is there a good written guide on kino in this subreddit? I'm very awkward when it comes to transitioning from a handshake to putting your arm around or hugging a girl. Basically, I have no clue on how to progress in those first few steps of physical escalation.
/r/seduction15/01/13 03:56 AM
1

When a girl is touching your foot with her foot under a table you can reciprocate and gauge her reaction. This is straight forward way to move up the kino ladder. If she keeps touching your feet you know she's interested.
/r/seduction03/10/12 05:19 PM
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