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| -4 | Why do they say men are logical and women are emotional? What does it really mean?“When faced with a claim…….. women place emphasis on how that claim affects people.” Right, so say an unattractive ass person asks advice from a woman…….. the woman says, you’re attractive as fuck queen, don’t change anything! So the unattractive woman feels good NOW. When a man is asked for advice he says, you’re gross as fuck for x,y,z reasons, here is solution x,y,z. He is still trying to make her feel good, except in the future, when she takes the advice to fix the issues and then gets whate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 08:21 PM |
| -6 | Why do they say men are logical and women are emotional? What does it really mean?But logic is based on emotion. A logical person is just incredibly efficient at fulfilling emotional needs. Logic is emotions servant. That is what I’m trying to say in this post. The most “logical” / “cold” man is that way for the sole purpose of staying clear headed so he can better eliminate bad emotion and maximize good emotion. So what does it really mean to say women are more emotional? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 08:05 PM |
| 0 | Whats with all the buzz around confidenceSo who would you rather pick. A high functioning CEO, like REALLY successful guy. Rich, muscular as hell. All around “catch”….. but he is an nervous wreck because his father was even more successful, and would always shit on his son and make him feel like a loser. Or a kind of successful guy who did much better than his father. Someone who gained his fathers approval, someone who’s parents where always proud and supportive. So he is now “confident”. But still not as actually successful or “compe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 09:46 PM |
| 10 | Whats with all the buzz around confidenceA high achiever walks into an exam scared, he wants a 90%, always gets a 90%, but this time he doesn’t think he can do it. He is walking in nervous and scared and unconfident. He is afraid he will only get an 80%, and his parents will disown him, and as fate has it he ends up only getting an 80%. A low achiever walks in confident, he always gets a 50% and barely passes, but for this exam he is sure he will get 60%, he is confident and excited and happy because he knows his parents will he impres… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 09:42 PM |
| 3 | Whats with all the buzz around confidenceYou miss the whole point. Whether you’re confident or not in your abilities doesn’t change how you’ll actually perform when the time comes. You can be confident you’ll pass a test and fail when the time comes, or you can be unconfident and get an amazing score. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 09:35 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck is masculinityThey’re famous come on, not a fair comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 06:33 AM |
| 2 | What the fuck is masculinityOk, so if it is not masculinity that is sexual appeal than what is. What is the difference between the guy that majority of women want and the guy that majority of the women want to friendzone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 04:05 AM |
| 1 | What the fuck is masculinityBut you have to give a fuck what other people think. I can’t go around farting everywhere and wearing black metal makeup, I’ll get ridiculed, ostracized, avoided, get 0% pussy ever. It has real consequences. As much as I want all your money I can’t just take it, I have to give a fuck about what the government thinks and the 20 years I’ll get for stealing it because I went against what they think I can do or not do. You have to give a fuck. And what is logical thinking anyway, because we all do t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:52 AM |
| 1 | What the fuck is masculinityMasculine men get laid, unmasculine men don’t…. So not quiet true. You can’t say that whatever a man chooses to do is masculine just because he is male. Then every man would get laid the same. Or they would all be “alphas”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:29 AM |
| 4 | What the fuck is masculinityEve that can be used against you, how do you know what your working for is worth it. Maybe you’re the strongest slave. Grindset 100%? How do you know its right, maybe sitting in a circle with the monks doing fuck all is the way to happiness. How can you have that unrelentingness to stick to a way and do it the hardest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:14 AM |
| 2 | What the fuck is masculinitySo if I turbo 100% simp I’ll be masculine and get laid? As long as I don’t give it 90%. How can you even be so confident in doing anything with that much conviction. Everything is questionable down to our very core. How do we know gym and cash grindset is the way why not join the monks and sit on our ass singing kumbaya all day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:12 AM |
| 0 | What the fuck is masculinitySounds like a good way to end up unwaveringly, turbo hard headedly wrong. Does the most committed simp get pussy? The one who truly to the core believes simping is the way to get a woman wet? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:09 AM |
| 3 | What the fuck is masculinityAnd what exactly attracts women? I still can’t figure that one out. I see strong muscular gym bros curved for skinny dweebs all the time. Hot girls with anime nerds. Good successful men for the drug dealers. Its total chaos. Idk wtf attracts a woman. Sometimes its what you think, sometimes what you don’t. Sometimes it makes sense sometimes you have no idea what she sees in him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:06 AM |
| 2 | What the fuck is masculinitySo I can get laid a lot, be a good partner if I choose an LTR, and generally be a successful man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:04 AM |
| 8 | What the fuck is masculinity“Be confident and unashamedly do”…. “Can still be a shitty person” Sounds like, just do whatever but be hard headed and unmoving about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Why are emotions what attract us to peopleBut we still eat McDonald’s instead of a nice broccoli, even though it will kill us our evolution is STILL kicking in even if we are in the modern century. And yea maybe a beta can get laid but at the same intensity and desire and amount as an alpha. I don’t want to just get laid by luck because a girl was bored and maybe pity fucked the loser. | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Why are emotions what attract us to peopleSo its wrong that they are attracted to the “alpha” male of the tribe, ie highest status, muscle, intelligence etc. How can that be, its survival of the fittest not the funnest. Even as men we select women based on their “fitness” (looks) to give us strong healthy babies, not based on who is most fun. Why would evolution make them want to reproduce with whoever is most fun how does that make sense. It should be whoever is strongest no? They should be attracted to wealth muscle intelligence statu… | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Why are emotions what attract us to peopleI know they aren’t I’m just asking why not? Stressed men typically are working more so more external strength. The most stressed people are the ones doing their college finals not the ones partying in their basement. Logically which would make a better partner. I’m asking how did we evolutionarily adapt to this. Or I’d feel a lot better if I didn’t do overtime today then hit the gym, if I just went home and watched a movie instead…. Who is better to survive with. To take care of you and your kid… | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Where can I learn the social skills to be an attractive manThat doesn’t really make sense, how can you have people like you or want to have sex with you for example if you act like they are unimportant and their feelings and shit don’t matter. And how do you even get to the point where you feel like people ain’t shit. How do you get to think so highly of yourself that you feel others don’t matter, how do you feel so important. | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 09:45 PM |
| 0 | Finally understanding alpha, dominance, and holding frame. But just finding more questions.Ok sure, elaborate on the walk the walk and talk the talk. I use the term bitch a lot, my friends constantly call each other a bitch. To me it really means nothing, zero, nada. Buddy beat my ass in a video game? I call him a bitch. Shit like that. Even female friends, damn bitch you look good. I meet a girl, maybe even dating her. I say bitch for whatever reason. Damn bitch you got a lot of perfumes. Damn bitch you run fast. Etc.... She gets super butthurt, in her worldview the word bitch is ext… | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 10:02 PM |
| 8 | Do I have to play the game to win?So what would you say is the percent importance of Just being pure fun, always flirty, always playful, gaming. “Talking shit”. Actually who you are as in, job, money, work ethic, status etc. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 04:30 AM |
| 9 | Do I have to play the game to win?So I have to keep up this game for ever. How…… how can I not develop feelings for her. So I can always see myself as the prize to be chased. And what if something does happen. Does that mean if I get disabled or something game over she’s gone? The woman I’ve been with so long and built so many memories and shit? None of that matters? | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 03:57 AM |
| 30 | Do I have to play the game to win?How is it fun when someone you share all that intimacy with, memories, oxytocin, everything with to be playing games. What if after 5 years I or her become disabled somehow. What then. One of us just gets left and fucking die inside because the relationship was always based on a fun game of chase the prize. And there is no more prize or game. Does she not want someone she knows 100% for certain will be there for her if something happens to her. Why does she want the guy who is playing here not h… | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 03:47 AM |
| 2 | How to succeed with women. The complete guide.Doesn’t matter. Even if you aren’t alpha top chad that she is absolutely pining for. If you’re semi attractive and have balls you can hit. Girls spin plates too, they fuck multiple dudes at once. Don’t let hypergamy fool you. Hypergamy this hypergamy that but you still have hoes getting railed by a new dude every day of the week. Explain that. Its also male nature to want to spread your seed everywhere yet we end up getting oneitis and shit don’t we. And now a days men want to cut off their dick… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/22 09:54 PM |
| 1 | How to succeed with women. The complete guide.You’re a fucking moron because not following his idea is exactly what I’m advocating to do if you’re alpha. Maybe reading is illegal where you’re from. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/22 06:59 PM |
| 2 | How to succeed with women. The complete guide.They are not authentic. Authentic is being the same guy as you are around your male friends that you’ve known for 10 years. Authentic is your deepest emotional desires, your fantasies of telling your boss to fuck himself. You miss the point. When we are faced with CONSEQUENCE, ie a boss firing us, social rejection, losing the girl because she is our oneitis. That is when we become entirely unauthentic. We say, think, and do things that aren’t REALLY us or what we want. We are strong-armed by con… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/22 04:08 PM |
| 1 | How to succeed with women. The complete guide.Nope, you don’t have to have anything. If you’re semi-presentable and its last call at a bar and you approach with balls you don’t think she’ll fuck you. Does your money matter that much. Do you think in the moment she’ll thing I wonder how popular he is? All you need is to have balls in the fucking moment. That is all you need and all you ever will need. And balls are when you act your most truest authentic self. When you act UNINHIBITED. When you treat her the same exact way you treat your hom… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/22 03:56 PM |
| 0 | Confused on principals of attracting womenBullshit. A genuine complete psycho asshole does what he wants and will never get laid. On the other hand a man raised by Disney fairy tales will WANT to buy the woman flowers and win her heart with romance and where will that get him. There are behaviours that work and that don’t, its not a matter of just doing what you want. What if I want to throw bricks at women because I’m a misogynist (I’m not but example). Doing what you want only works for you because you found the way to be that gets yo… | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Confused on principals of attracting womenYea well I was just “me” for the longest period of my life, that got me nowhere because “me” was conditioned by romance tails that flowers and lavish gifts won the heart of girls. Just being you only works if you’re already attractive, if you’re not you have to find the persona and fake it till you make it and eventually become it. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 05:33 AM |
| 8 | Confused on principals of attracting womenBecause doing what I want isn’t getting me laid and I want to get laid | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 04:01 AM |
| 1 | How do you see true reality?So how do you attract women if you don’t care about what they think. If any conflict you just go “nope not gonna think about it I didn’t do anything wrong she must be sensitive”. “Nope not gonna think about it, she is just being a bitch that comment was rude I’m not just butthurt”. How can you become a more attractive person if you’re NOT thinking about whether you are or not. Are you saying not being self reflective and analyzing in and of itself is attractive. Not wondering about these things … | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 03:09 AM |
| 2 | How do you see true reality?But what others think of you matters. If you never consider what others think of you, thats how you end up being absolutely socially challenged. Thats how you end up catcalling women at 2 am in the dark and scaring the shit out of them. Thats how you get in shit at work for talking too bluntly. Not caring what others think have social repercussions. If you never care what others think how you gonna analyze yourself and say maybe I’m being too aggressive with girls. Maybe I’m always saying the ot… | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 11:55 PM |
| 4 | The alpha and beta illusionUntrue, did you read my post. Will smith? Kanye west? Jeff bezos? Floyd fucking MAYWEATHER? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/22 07:32 PM |
| 28 | The alpha and beta illusionDisprove I’m not the shit though. Perhaps I’m not as buff as you, but perhaps you spend your whole life in the gym jobless while I work. Perhaps I’m not as smart as you, but perhaps you have no social skills because all you do is read books. Perhaps you have more money, but I work harder for what I have while you got a small loan of a million dollars from daddy. Perhaps we both have amazing senses of humour but are completely different. I.e. deadpan vs dark. Never mind the fact that value is all… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/22 08:01 AM |
| 21 | My complete guide to seduction and alphaTbh I discovered redpill YEARS ago but RARELY read it. I just kind of came up with all this shit by analyzing my own life and noticing patterns and shit. I sort of redpilled myself the hard and through the mud way 😂 Like I always understood shit like women are emotional but I didn’t really UNDERSTAND. I didn’t understand what that really meant or how to use it to my advantage. Or even frame, I’ve been aware of the “its who adopts who’s worldview” but I never really understood what the fuck that … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/22 09:04 AM |
| 2 | I think I finally understand relationships with women.That is what the whole post is about, I just realized I have to stop being the same person 100% of the time and kind of give a woman a different experience based on her mood. I shouldn’t be Mr. funny or Mr. hardass 100% of the time, I got to use better judgement to feel what she is currently needing. That was the point of this post, we don’t know what women want because what they want is always changing. | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 04:56 AM |
| 3 | I think I finally understand relationships with women.I’m literally the same mood every day. Happy day, sad day, whatever day. I apply the same logic and act the same exact way regardless how I feel. | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 04:22 AM |
| 55 | I think I finally understand relationships with women.Yea until they’re too secure and valued then they get bored. Or “they just want to have fun” except when they’re being an asshole throwing a tantrum over some dumb shit and they need you to say hey cut it out now | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 03:13 AM |
| 1 | What if I’m not even given a chanceIsn’t the whole point of the date to build the deeper connection. I didn’t ask her straight into my bed | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 11:21 PM |
| 1 | What if I’m not even given a chanceI remember my last approach fairly well, it might not be 100% but fairly damn close. I see her on her phone playing a game Me: Whatcha playing? Her: Some game about farming Me: grin gross Her: Ahahaha Me: You’re a big gamer? Her: aha not really I just play mobile sometimes Me: I see, what do you like to do in your free time then? Her: Not much I honestly have no hobbies Me: hahaha at least you have time for your education then, what do you study? Her: agriculture, you? Me: What the hell, you’re … | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 10:14 PM |
| 1 | What if I’m not even given a chanceI do and they seem to enjoy it and have fun but never goes beyond. I get the number and then they never want to go out regardless if I do the its a date or lets hangout approach | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 09:22 PM |
| 23 | Changing the frame of what Alpha is. For discussion.Financial freedom can be achieved by working harder, or by wanting less. I’m arguing that everyone works harder for shit they just THINK they want. Diamonds, shit like that. So ultimately they don’t have the extra money in their bank to be free, nor do they have the time to enjoy life. I mean I have to rewatch the movie not gonna lie its been a minute. But Tyler Durden didn’t need shit, I mean they lived in that dusty ass place for a while and he blew up the other guys apartment. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/22 02:08 AM |
| 7 | Changing the frame of what Alpha is. For discussion.The feeling of not working 12 hour shifts and having some time to spend with your loved ones is much bigger than any luxury suit or cologne can get you. Perhaps if you where already born rich, if you where born in a position where money makes you money. If an extra hour of your time got you $10,000 dollars, sure. But for the average person a luxury suit is worth more than an hour. Its several days working overtime, its a month of going home stressed and not being able to play with your daughter. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/22 02:04 AM |
| 27 | Changing the frame of what Alpha is. For discussion.Look at fight club man, Tyler Durdun is considered to be alpha as fuck. Alpha is just uncontrollable. No one has power over you. If you can get fired from work and flip your middle finger you’re alpha. If a girl wants to leave you and you couldn’t give a fuck you’re alpha. Doesn’t matter if that is achieved by having 10 other jobs lined up versus being content without a job. Same case with women. Alpha is just boss energy. Boss energy comes from needlessness, outcome independence, not giving a f… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/22 01:56 AM |
| 9 | Changing the frame of what Alpha is. For discussion.Get better how, that is the question. The better I get at working, optimizing my work, optimizing gains, waking up exactly at x,y,z time because that is optimal productivity time. The worse my mental health gets. And vice versa. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/22 01:42 AM |
| 20 | Changing the frame of what Alpha is. For discussion.Ask yourself why you want the nice car, why you want the big house, why you want the diamonds and the J’s. You’re working yourself to death so you can sleep in a bed the same regardless of your house, so you can drive a car that takes you from A to B the same as any other, so you can impress people with your flashy shit who you shouldn’t even be caring about impressing nor are you really impressing them anyway; at most building envy. As long as you’re not obese you can get laid. As long as you h… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/22 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Failure with women hurting my mental healthCan you elaborate on self-actualization, I tried watching a video but I don’t really get it | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 06:41 AM |
| 2 | Failure with women hurting my mental healthIdk how a girl can sense I’m desperate from a 10 minute approach where we bullshit about the game on her phone she is playing or what each other are studying. Or from some banter flirting back and forth for a while. I don’t blow anyones phone up, don’t even put in more energy than the other person….. I still have the logical capacity to not do desperate things even though I guess I am. I literally just match a girl / approach….. banter a bit flirt about trivial stuff, make fun of her in a friend… | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Whats the point of talking to someone so long and then not going outShe didn’t say she wanted sex just didn’t mind talking sexual topics | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Whats the point of talking to someone so long and then not going outWell what was I supposed to do keep asking for the address when she isn’t giving it when I first asked. Makes me feel like I’m playing played and she is there laughing at me at how hard I’ll try | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Whats the point of talking to someone so long and then not going outWdym blew her off, I asked her out and told her to send me location. She blew me off. | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Whats the inner game of passing shit testsWhat about other forms of shit test, for example. I went to a bar with some colleagues and one of the girls kept going “hey I love you” and then 2 minutes later “Hey I hate you”. I knew she was just trying to bug me and I said I love you too, I hate you too. But after like an hour or so it became so fucking annoying and I had no idea how to respond and get it to stop without looking like a sperg. | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Whats the inner game of passing shit testsSo its not really even a test of your mental inner strength but rather of your social verbal sparring skills. Essentially. | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Whats the inner game of passing shit testsIf you’re ego should be broken and you should just become humble how can you have the confidence to say approach a woman. Or be assertive and dominant if you don’t have a mental image of you as such. | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 01:02 AM |
| 3 | How do you deal with negative energy girlsLmao what am I supposed to do body slam her and say quit being negative. I can only ignore her or turn her into a joke when she’s being this way. I’m asking whats the better action to cause her to stop being this way. Its obviously annoying long term to deal with moodiness so I want to correct this behaviour. | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Dare vs Deer, my counter argumentsAlpha means the dominant. Frame means worldview. Alpha frame means you have the dominant worldview. If you take advice, you lose the alpha frame, you concede you aren’t dominant in a area. Your worldview on that area is not dominant. If you refuse to take advice and you’re wrong, you maintain the alpha frame but you’re a fucking idiot. You maintain that your worldview is dominant, but its not fact. Now, if you take the advice in such a way like “Thanks for teaching me in 3 months I’ll be the squ… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/22 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Dare vs Deer, my counter argumentsExactly, that was my point in the main post. Sometimes its best to accept you lose frame and take the advice. Sometimes losing your “alpha” frame when you truly aren’t alpha in a topic is the right choice. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/22 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Dare vs Deer, my counter argumentsSee this is where we completely disagree. When you accept advice from a girl, you do lose frame. Your frame is "I am the alpha of the relationship, the dominant force, the boss, I am the captain, the leader, the superior". When you accept advice, doesn't matter how you do it, this frame cracks. You show that you are not the superior. If you accept advice you've lost your frame. Sure you're method adds humour and that is great, humour makes people feel better, but you still lost your frame non-th… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/22 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Dare vs Deer, my counter argumentsWhat is exactly the definition of frame for you? Continue your example, She will say "Do it in x,y,z fashion its better for your joints" You can say back whatever smart ass thing you want to say, but at the end of the day if she was right you're going to start doing squats like she told you that you should. In my definition of frame, you lose. She came at you that she is the authority in something and you accepted that she is. She has the dominant frame and that is that. She imposed that she is … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/22 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Dare vs Deer, my counter argumentsHow are you going to establish dominance if you're not dominant in that subject. If she says you're squatting wrong and you are, you lose, you're not dominant period. In this case you either become a smart man who can concede that someone knows better than him or you can be an ignoramus and keep doing it your way. Its not alpha to just put your fingers in your ears and go "LUEHUEHUEHUE I KNOW BEST I'M ALWAYS RIGHT YOU'RE SO BELOW ME I WON'T EVEN LISTEN". You ever got in a argument with your pare… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/22 10:03 PM |
| 3 | Frame as I understand it [Discussion]Well the shit I want to do is the shit that is going to get me pussy and have women submit to me easily. But I don’t know what that shit is. So I don’t know what I want to do. Thats the dilemma | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/22 04:07 PM |
| 3 | Frame as I understand it [Discussion]So as long as I’m a cool calm collected guy who never loses his shit and rages I can keep buying women as many drinks as I like, kissing her ass if I want to with free compliments and it will get me laid? Not gonna work. There has to be something else to “strong” than just cool calm and collected. And how does that explain why so many abusive guys who lose their shit and beat their wives, why can they seem to get laid all over the place. Like murderers, why do serial killers have fan girls. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/22 07:42 AM |
| 2 | Frame as I understand it [Discussion]That doesn’t really make sense. Are simps strong men? They do what they want to do (spend all their money on twitch streamers) and are damn congruent and loyal to their ways but it never gets them anything. I want to be a winner who slays mad goals and fucks mad bitches. Clearly I don’t know how to do that. If I continue to act congruent as someone who clearly doesn’t know how to do that won’t help. Continuing to do what I want (which is what I’m doing) clearly isn’t working. Being the free guy … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/22 07:32 AM |
| 7 | Frame as I understand it [Discussion]Right, I get it. Become a strong man, feel like a strong man, think like a strong man, and then act like a strong man. And as long as you're a strong man you will naturally hold frame and continue acting congruently as that person. In that case, what exactly is a strong man. How does a strong man act, personality wise? Is it the cool suave James Bond? Is it the Tupac screaming at bitches "get the fuck out the car ya scant ass hoe"? Is it the humble "quiet but deadly" Khabib Nurmagomedov, or the … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/22 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Frame as I understand it [Discussion]If frame is just congruency, how can you lose frame when you get really pissed and emotionally reactive? Why is it losing frame when you argue with a woman. Why is it losing frame when she does some fuck shit and you talk to her about not doing that fuck shit anymore, why are you "entering her frame". | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/22 06:54 AM |
| 2 | I don't get shit testsIf you’re playing games to get girls because girls want games, are you not already in their frame. Did you not already lose? | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 06:07 AM |
| -13 | How to pass these serious shit testsWe're both cashiers and I have hell-a seniority on her. She has no authority over me. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Can porn actually be useful?Nah, not for me. When I watched porn back years ago each orgasm was amazing 3-4 times a day, I’d be completely satisfied. Now I get a miniscule craving to masturbate every couple days. Even though I quit porn FOOOOREVER ago. Like years ago. I don’t have the great orgasms I desire without real sex. In the past couple years I watched porn maybe a handful of times, great orgasms again. | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Can porn actually be useful?Yea but it was like, the real thing would be a cherry on top of my life. Not something I’d seek out, crave, fantasize about and basically get emotionally addicted to a woman because there was a tiny hope that she could live out my fantasy | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Can porn actually be useful?I’d still want it, I just had basically the same thing at my finger tips as substitute and at the time my mind saw it as basically the same quality as real sex. So I wouldn’t be upset | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Can porn actually be useful?Nah its not the same, I jerk off daily even with a flashlight but its not the same. I still have the craving for the real woman, I still pedastalize the woman and fantasize about the pussy before I even know a thing about her. I mean in the real real porn days, like 3-4 times a day, naaaah nothing. Woman could literally fuck me half way, get off and stop it, say no more sex. I’d be like 🤷🏻♂️ | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 07:37 AM |
| 1 | I don’t know what to doImagine a man you wanted to be in a relationship with, you guys fuck and he hints that a relationship is possible. After fucking he says he only wants to be fuck buddies. Do you continue being fuck buddies in the hopes things turn around? I feel like the situation is the same, she let me cuddle her, basically giving me a hint that if we have a relationship then intimacy is going to be there. Then after a little bit of it she says she just wants to be friends. Feels like a good way to get toyed a… | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 04:22 PM |
| 1 | I don’t know what to doWhat do you recommend I should have said instead then? Just leave it as no, I don’t want friends I want to date you? | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 08:19 AM |
| 1 | I don’t know what to doWdym, I told her I want to get to know her, if she is cool I want to fuck, and if feelings develop I’m open to a relationship. What part about that seems like I just want fwb. I’m not trying to be defensive, I’m asking genuinely. | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 05:33 AM |
| -1 | I’m so tired of immature women’s bullshit. Someone please give me advice or a mind set change.Do you believe in free will, why or why not? | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 04:49 AM |
| 3 | I’m so tired of immature women’s bullshit. Someone please give me advice or a mind set change.Exactly my point again! Women saying goofy things, completely illogical bullshit to make me look like a dick fuck, and then when I call it out and say cut the bullshit then I’m the asshole. Women expect a man to be able to get fucked in the ass and smile about it. And if they say hey dickhead stop fucking me in the ass they’re the rude ones. Just look at the post below “boo hoo boy mad at women”, look at the thumbs up. Its ok for women to shit on men and its given the you go girl. But if a man i… | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 03:17 AM |
| -10 | I’m so tired of immature women’s bullshit. Someone please give me advice or a mind set change.How is this going to help me literally at all with women. If I rep in the gym for my own health, make money for my own benefits. This is going to what? They’re going to say oh he’s passive but he lives for himself so its not unmasculine? Oh he’s leading, initiating convo’s and trying to build but he lives for himself so its not needy and unmasculine? What do you mean as I come off as desperate you think I tell girls “baby look at all these reps I did just so I could rail you right, its red panty… | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 02:43 AM |
| 0 | I’m so tired of immature women’s bullshit. Someone please give me advice or a mind set change.Fuck off, I am entitled to respect. I’m entitled to not be toyed with, I’m entitled to not get games played with me, lead on, gaslight and mind fucked. And if you don’t agree with that then you’d also agree that no one is entitled to not get shot on the streets. We’re all entitled to respect and to be treated with dignity and not played with and fucked around. Stop it. | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 02:24 AM |
| 8 | I’m so tired of immature women’s bullshit. Someone please give me advice or a mind set change.Yea, majority of you are all bullshit artists who just like to toy around with men. Have no respect for the efforts they have to put in, then ridicule them, laugh at them and say “hurr not good enough, boy mad” when ya’ll never had to do shit in your life. Never had to approach, never had to risk rejection, plan a date, or take initiative. Yea I’m mad. You get all the power in the dating market just by virtue of being born with a vagina and you use it to toy with everyone. Fuck ya’ll, its like a… | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 02:23 AM |
| 6 | I’m so tired of immature women’s bullshit. Someone please give me advice or a mind set change.How very immature of me to be confused why I put in all this effort, be the absolute best person I can be, have all this shit going for me and get shot down by women who think walking up stairs is an exercise. No I should be humble you say. Sure. I’m simply not good enough. spending hours in the gym, spending overtime grinding for money, taking the initiative to make something happen, risking rejection while they just sit on their ass, curating nice clothes and colognes colognes, having a degree… | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 02:20 AM |
| 1 | I’m so tired of immature women’s bullshit. Someone please give me advice or a mind set change.What show? Leading doesn’t work, being passive doesn’t work. Is there a true authentic “non act” in the middle? Calling out bullshit doesn’t work, being a docile let it slide doesn’t work. Is there an authentic “non act” in the middle? What are you talking about please elaborate. | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 02:13 AM |
| -2 | I’m so tired of immature women’s bullshit. Someone please give me advice or a mind set change.That literally makes fuck all sense, you’re telling me if I rep 10 for myself my body will somehow be better than if I rep it to get women? | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 02:10 AM |
| -4 | I’m so tired of immature women’s bullshit. Someone please give me advice or a mind set change.What are you talking about when did I say I’m entitled to anybodies time? This whole post talks about me feeling disrespected. I’m entitled to respect. To not have women feign interest to waste my time for free validation and attention. To not be a provider and then be gaslight that I’m too nice and cheated on, but then be a “tough no bullshit guy” and then be gaslight that I’m an asshole and left. You’re exactly proving my point. You a woman come in here, don’t even really read my post and your… | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 02:02 AM |
| -6 | I’m so tired of immature women’s bullshit. Someone please give me advice or a mind set change.Yea exactly, the grindset. It hasn’t been working. No matter how much money I made, reps in the gym, what fancy clothes I wear, nothing. | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 01:54 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Yea, fair. | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 05:43 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Romanian, which is weird for a born and raised Chinese Canadian to know. His explanation was that some “Romanian shawtys” taught him but I’m pretty sure he was just googling shit on translator. | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 12:43 AM |
| 21 | [deleted by user]Brotha I'm doing 16 hour shifts on the weekend, taking 6 engineering courses a semester, and then working out like 2 hours a day. I don't have time to date you're right, I just want to fuck, I'm willing to compromise studies a bit if I could just fuck. | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 02:36 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]I’d appreciate if you left it… I’m not allowed to post in relationshipadvice for some reason and this topic has really been bothering me. Besides basically my whole topic here is how do you distinguish between her needing comfort or if she is shit testing. Thats totally seduction related. And seduction continues into relationships, its not like once its official all that is over…… if you don’t continue seducing thats how dead bedrooms happen…. Shit tests and need for comfort don’t stop as soon a… | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 05:20 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]No hair, Idk I guess normal eye contact, she stepped in closer at one point of the conversation but not too too close, but close. Not really asking questions, I just let her talk about herself. I mean it was a pretty short convo. She asked what I studied after telling me what she studied. | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 02:27 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Thanks, I read like 60% of it already, still got to finish! Maybe I'm bullshitting but like. When I got work, gym, and have to study so I stop getting fucked in the ass by school. Its like, I feel like I have to go out of my way and spend too much time "finding" interactions to have with girls. I've cold approached before, and done so successfully. But it took me 2 weeks to find a girl who was down to date and fuck me. I'd spend at least an hour and a half a day just walking around looking for g… | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 01:05 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]You can't get better at chess without analyzing your games ya'know. Fuck what happens with her and me, but I'm interested in learning. I want people to point out to me what clues and hints there are that in the future I can easily and in the moment differentiate interest as opposed to friendly. It will give me confidence to make more ballsy moves if in the future I'm certain there is interest as opposed to being in my mind not sure. | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 12:39 AM |
| 2 | How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is realWhy do young women want commitment? Young women who aren’t thinking about family yet, who are at their peak, and probably freshly in college ready to get a train ran | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 06:14 PM |
| 4 | How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is realNo, not according to TRP and what I’ve seen in my own experiences. I don’t know any men that have cheated. I know plenty of women who have cheated. Plenty who have cheated on me and for me. It seems to me like women have a lot less love and care for their partners I think men love and care much more. I just haven’t seen women have morality when it comes to relationships, I’ve always been the one trying to fix things when they get hard, always been the one putting more effort and care and love in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 05:35 PM |
| 2 | How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is realNo, I couldn’t live with myself. I’d feel too horrible and guilty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 04:03 PM |
| 3 | How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is realhttps://www.girlsaskguys.com/health-fitness/a10807-zyzz-an-inspiration-to-guys-out-there-all-over-the-world How do you explain shit like this then regarding that women aren’t as horny as men or sexual like men? This guy had taken women and single women alike throwing themselves at him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 06:41 AM |
| 1 | How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is realHow are humans biologically monogamist where did you get that from? Humans grew in tribes where the alphas fucked all the women free reign. There wasn’t monogamy. Cave pussy wasn’t monogamist pussy. I don’t see where you got that from | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 03:24 AM |
| 6 | How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is realThats literally impossible there is always someone hotter wanting to fuck her and if she can get away with it without the boyfriend knowing why wouldnt she fuck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 01:25 AM |
| 4 | How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is realWeird cuz twice now I’ve had women with very amazing loving boyfriends proposition me for sex even though I couldn’t give a fuck about them and treated them rather poorly. And all too often you here about the rich mans wife fucking the gardener. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 01:23 AM |
| 5 | How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is realYes but the girl can cheat without you ever knowing…. So she can have the love and compassion while also getting to fuck the much hotter guy. She can have the cake and eat it too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 01:08 AM |
| 2 | How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is realSo you’re at the bar and a guy much much hotter than your boyfriend wants to fuck. Boyfriend would never ever find out. You’d still rather call your much less attractive boyfriend over and fuck him? Assuming you’re desperately horny? Yea I guess I never thought that women might still not enjoy sex with a hotter person. I guess thinking as a man its always that the hotter the girl the better the sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 01:07 AM |
| 1 | How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is realhttps://m.youtube.com/watch?v=RE6xHbrwbpM Maybe I’m wrong then. Maybe I’ve been influenced too much by media. Maybe women don’t value just getting fucked by the hottest guy they can find as much as I thought they did. But from my understanding women just want the hottest cock they can find and will quickly cheat on their boyfriend if the risk is low and the guy is very attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 01:03 AM |
| 2 | How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is realOk explain this to me because I’m still kind of confused. You have a boyfriend right, the best you could actually get to commit to you. He looks decent but not a model. He works out sometimes but isn’t super fit because he is always busy with work. He is just the best you could SECURE. Not amazing personality but you have things in common…. Etc just ok. Average height… Best you could secure. Now this boyfriend is out of town, you go to a bar, and college athlete Dick Johnson, the 6 ft 3 muscular… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 12:50 AM |
| 0 | How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is realI don’t know about that…. You’re saying women don’t ever want to just get fucked by a hot muscular gorilla? That they have to have some kind of emotional connection? Women are just as horny as men and often they want to get fucked. I don’t think its a projection of mens sexuality. I don’t think out sexualities are that different. Otherwise one night stands wouldn’t exist. Girl gets upset by argument with boyfriend, relationship is going hard, hot chad at bar wants to fuck and he is attractive. S… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 12:30 AM |
| 2 | How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is realI only read the first paragraph or so I’m at work I’ll read the rest later I’m not supposed to be on my phone. Anyway, that whole notion in the first bit only applies if they believe the would get caught. You have a really low risk of getting caught if you just fuck the hotter dick once or twice…. You don’t have to leave your boyfriend either. You can have your cake and eat it too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 11:43 PM |
| 0 | How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is realI can see and totally understand your thinking as an older more mature woman at marriage level…. But I’m 22 and I’m talking about girls my age who have all the options, time, and no cares about starting a family or getting married in the world. Is it worth LTRing them? At this age they seem to act like exactly like men, and have more power to act like men then even men do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 10:55 PM |
| 1 | How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is realYou make some great points but does it apply to younger women (22ish) at their prime who still have plenty of time to sample the buffet? I can see why a woman approaching 30 would want one quality guy and want to keep and invest hard, but why would a young woman with all the time, options, and flavours in the world to choose from want to pick one and stick to him then? When she isn’t yet thinking about starting a family and shit like that? It would only seem to me that she would want to act like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 10:50 PM |
| 1 | How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is realWell of course I’m insecure when there is always someone taller, fitter, richer ready to fuck my girl on the spot. Even if you’re an ultra chad there is always an ultra turbo chad ready to fuck her, why would she be loyal to even just regular ultra chad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 10:39 PM |
| -2 | How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is realOk so you don’t fully jump ship and break up with him for this new man…. But you do give this new man a couple turns at the slip and slide without anyone ever being the wiser. No? You have that moral fortitude to say, this would be amazing fun and no one would ever find out but I won’t do it because its wrong? But you do make a point about growing together ans building a life together, I guess sunken cost is quiet a strong contributing factor to not jumping ship. Still I find it hard to believe … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 10:37 PM |
| 1 | How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is realI agree with the last points regarding property and such but…. Are you still going to be in love with him after you have a fight and the relationship is stressful and tense, and you go to a bar and an absolutely smooth talking hunk of a man says hey…. And you share stories and laugh and he introduces you to his friends he is with and you all have a good time…. Are you going to still be in love when he says hey slide me your number lets go on a date later. Are your ethics and morals going to inte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 10:08 PM |
| 4 | How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is realYes but TRP makes it out to be that women have no control or constraints over their emotion. They make it seem like women are slaves to their emotion. And as a woman what would being loyal serve you when cheating seems to give benefits with no consequences. (Another RP concept that woman are entirely selfish to their own needs and cant love men) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 09:52 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when a shit test genuinely gets to youI did want her though, who wouldn’t want someone who was so sweet to them. I just needed more time to make sure she’d actually make a good partner and that I’m not letting my emotions take me down a bad path because someone can make me feel good. Ah fuck it, it was nice chatting with you. I should work on myself and get more options. I’m too invested in this girl and what happened. I need to move on and work on myself. | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 01:30 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when a shit test genuinely gets to youImagine this. You find an attractive guy right. He says all the most amazing things about you. You’re amazing, you’re special, sex with you is the best, you belong on a magazine. I want you, you’re perfect. Then he says you’re not dating anyone else are you. You say “I’m seeing this one other guy but I don’t like him I like you, just give me more time”. …. Next day you’re having a sweet time cuddling and he out of the blue says “I met this gorgeous Colombian model, she wants me to fuck her tomor… | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 01:20 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when a shit test genuinely gets to youOh bullshit, its like when a “nice guy” turns on you and tells you to to fuck yourself you slut because you refused him for sex when he asked for it after being such an amazing sweet person for so long. She was the nice guy, she asked for the “sex” (commitment), I said not yet, she told me to go fuck myself (blatantly telling me she is going on a date with another guy). You’re saying that I’m not entitled to be kept on the pedestal if I don’t give her what she wants as soon as she wants it. How … | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 12:59 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when a shit test genuinely gets to youIts not really manipulative as fuck, I was just always a chill respectable guy to her, yea we cuddled a lot and showered together, yea when she got to drunk I went to the store to get her water and walker her to her door but I was always keeping it just chill “investigating” so to speak. She was the one who was telling me how perfect I am in every way gushing for like an hour straight. She is the one who put her own self in the “chaser” frame not me. She made me feel like I’m a super special pri… | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 12:22 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when a shit test genuinely gets to youHow am I supposed to say yes when we dated for 2 weeks. How am I supposed to judge loyalty, cleanliness, how she is with money, how she deals with things when she doesn’t get what she wants in 2 weeks. I’d be taking a blind shot if I said yes. I said I’ll think about it and not to worry about the other girl because I’m not into her. I tried to comfort her and tell her essentially she has no competition and I just need more time to see more out of her. She outright blatantly tried to make me jeal… | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 12:06 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when a shit test genuinely gets to youBecause the sudden shift in attitude. I was treating her like a girlfriend she was treating me like a boyfriend. I told her I’m seeing another girl but I’m not that into her, implying I want to be with this girl I’m writing about. The problem isn’t she wanted to date someone else the problem is how I was a “perfect everything” and then bam. I was expecting her to try harder to “win” me since I was so “perfect” for her as she said. Not do a 360 and date others and tell me out right out of the blu… | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 11:58 PM |
| -9 | What do you do when a shit test genuinely gets to youI think it was a shit test because previously she was telling me about all the guys hitting on her at the bar which was obviously a shit test. And after she told me she is dating someone else she kept asking why I’m upset, am I upset, on and on trying to get a reaction. Besides even if it wasn’t a shit test. If I told her “I’ll see” and then 3 days later right after she tells me she is going on a date with someone else I’m like “lets be exclusive now”…. Its going to send a bad message, like I’m … | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 07:35 AM |
| 0 | What do you do when a shit test genuinely gets to youShe wants me to chase her yet somehow when I kept trying to contact her afterwards she’d brush me off and be busy and “need space”? I don’t understand am I supposed to go over to her house with flowers or something? Anyway one thing I did end up getting out of her through messages, because I was totally confused by the behaviour. She said she wanted a relationship but then thought about it and got scared because her ex was toxic and she didn’t know if she was ready for another one. Still doesn’t… | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 07:31 AM |
| 0 | What do you do when a shit test genuinely gets to youOne other girl I was seeing. She was prying on the night she was being very sweet about other girls. I was honest and said there is another girl I’m seeing but I’m not attracted to her. She “pushed” for exclusivity saying I should only just see her, I said I’ll see… I mean we only dated a few weeks was too quick to commit. But I was honest and say I’m not attracted to the other girl its like I didn’t start a jealousy war. | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 07:30 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Emotional investing is ruining my relationships because I start caring about people far too much and then it makes me jealous and needy and supplicating and I stop being a man. | /r/seduction | 30/10/21 03:17 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]That was a really good point, it is uncertain to me whether I've been violated or triggered. And now that I really think about it I think I was triggered. How can I correctly center myself as a man? When she said she is going to go on a date with another guy all I could imagine was a guy taller than me, more handsome, dressed super sharp at the bar. I'm not a slouch in life, I look pretty damn good, I work really hard, am clean always smell good, have made it pretty far in life but I think you'r… | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 11:52 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Do you think telling me blatantly out of the blue she was going to go on a date with another guy was just a little test? I think little test is like a comment about me balding in a playful tone, something about my car being too slow etc, even showing me she has other options by showing me how many texts she has from desperate guys. You don't think this situation would warrant putting your foot done in a loving way? Am I in the wrong here? | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 11:34 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Thats not how I see it, please change my view. My current thought process is, saying knock your bullshit off or I’m done (calm but firm) is a high SMV move. It shows I have the balls and confidence to call her out when she is obviously trying to fuck with me, and it says I have standards the women I sleep with have to uphold. Laughing it off just says you can walk all over me as long as I keep getting pussy thats all that matters. I have no real standards for the women I’m putting my dick in, yo… | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 11:16 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Okay presume I really did believe those things and I was 0% jealous she was going on a date with another guy…. What option is better? Laugh it off and “hope he doesn’t disappoint I’d hate having to wake up late night as a booty call” Or something like “We aren’t exclusive so you’re free to date as you wish but so overtly telling me about another guy and trying to make me jealous is disrespectful, manipulative and toxic, don’t do it again or I’ll have to end this between us.” I mean if I just lau… | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 10:50 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yea but see, the thing is…. Even if you don’t care about the other guy and you just laugh it off…. You’re saying to her that she is allowed to be toxic and manipulative and try and make you jealous…. You’re saying go ahead and shoot me I’m wearing a bulletproof vest. You wouldn’t feel disrespected if a girl so overtly tried to play mind games like that with you and do that to you when the previous date she was gassing you up on how you’re the perfect man and super sexy and this shit that shit fo… | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 10:46 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]How am I supposed to hold a masculine frame when I want her more? I as the guy obviously want the sex more than she does, and if she acts a dick and I’m like hurr durr no attention for you she is just going to go get it from one of the other hundreds of guys who want her time. How am I supposed to win she has all the power. | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 07:59 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]How can you have sex with someone and not catch feelings? I don’t understand that, even if the woman is not good for me the sex gets me too emotionally invested | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 06:44 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]How am I supposed to not get jealous to her saying she is going to go on a date with another dude when I’m emotionally invested in her and we’ve been fucking for a while. | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 05:19 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]How is this a humble brag this situation is genuinely distressing me | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 06:00 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Yea she is so deep in my head. I don’t understand why. We don’t even have good chemistry almost no conversation. Everything about the other girl is just smoother, easier, better. Except for looks and sex. I don’t know why I’m so damn hooked its like I literally can’t stop thinking about her. Its not healthy there is something really wrong with this situation. | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 03:34 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]If its a shit test I should ignore and do my own thing, if its a comfort test I should do the opposite and comfort. Thats a total flip flop a comfort test is the opposite of a shit test. | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 08:24 PM |
| 17 | [deleted by user]When I asked her about it then later why didn’t she tell me she wants a full relationship instead of saying she doesn’t know and going cold | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 07:33 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]What should I do? I don’t mind being exclusive with her or just fucking her and thats all, but I don’t want to entirely lose her. If I don’t make it more “serious” you think she will leave? | /r/seduction | 24/10/21 07:31 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Well if I'm approaching a random girl walking on campus that I never met before I have to give her a reason for approaching her... that is why I tell them I think they're attractive. Can you explain body language better? I just stand there relaxed and I use my hands when I talk.... how can you make panties wet by just standing comfortably I don't understand. | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 05:46 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I bet you he did too | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 05:41 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Kay well I just talked to her for like 2 minutes about basics, hey you’re cute what do you study etc and then I had to bounce I had a class. There wasn’t any stories and shit it was just short | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 03:43 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]How do I engage her emotions more? | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 03:20 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Its not personal at all, I know that there are plenty of amazing women out there that are right for me. Its not about the girl rejecting me per-say, the thing that bothers me is I feel like in order to get better with women I have to find out how I fucked up here, and I'm not able to find a reason. I could chalk it up and just say "Oh that girl is crazy, she just wanted some attention", but that feels like such a cop out, it doesn't help me get better in any way. I want to understand WHY she did… | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 12:23 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Because pool is fun | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 07:56 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]But how do you have fun on a coffee date and make her want a second date? What do you even do on a coffee date just talk lmao | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Help me stop being pussy with talking to girlsThats the thing, even if I had the stock response I’d be too afraid to say it.... I’m not that bold yet, I guess I’m still afraid of rejection or being weird | /r/askTRP | 22/06/21 12:52 AM |
| 1 | How do you get better at passing shit testsYea actually, very well written.... So what do you do then, refuse to LTR? Or LTR but stay as detached as possible and keep vigilant for signs of disinterest and then really ham up the lack of attention, no neediness, pulling back, extra gym reps, donkey fucking when the signs of disinterest come.... I’m still a little beta I guess, personally I prefer LTR’s and knowing one person I can fuck raw well, if it makes the game a bit harder I’m willing to get a bit better but if it makes the game impo… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 01:18 AM |
| 1 | How do you get better at passing shit testsIts the LTR part that fucks me, I can keep plates well but once I enter LTR territory shit starts going awry every time.... They start pulling back at some point for some reason when I’m already invested and then it just turns into a chase which turns into a vicious cycle of me losing frame and getting pissed then investing even more by “apologizing”’ with being nice This just turns into a big cycle of pizdets | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 10:41 PM |
| 2 | At what point is holding frame delusionalMaybe I’m dumb as fuck then because if a woman was wearing a good fragrance I liked that my ex had I literally might just say exactly that and not even think twice about it being backhanded. Does everyone assume anything to do with ex’s is a bad thing? What if it was a nice ex lol. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 04:06 AM |
| 1 | At what point is holding frame delusionalThey both sound like compliments to me man, I’ve genuinely no idea which one of those is supposed to emotionally disturb me. I’d be thrilled hearing either of them. I could see myself even saying those same exact things myself. Is being compared to an ex supposed to be the “bad thing”, is that really a negative connotation. What if it was a nice ex. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/21 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Girls at work dont like joking aroundWell honestly he makes a decent point. Women I suppose are hard wired to be turned on by hard work and off by laziness. Trying to argue that its a case where hard work doesn’t pay off still doesn’t short circuit their reptilian brain. Kind of how like men get aroused to porn, even though its not real sex. Maybe women get aroused by hard work even though its pointless work. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Girls at work dont like joking aroundSo even though I’m not going to get paid more, or get any type of raise at all, not even praise from my manager. I should try and show ambition by working harder for the man so to speak. I’m ambitious as fuck outside of work, but for things that have a pay off. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Girls at work dont like joking aroundDefine masculine frame, what makes a frame masculine or feminine. Every 5 minute breather we get from customers I’m supposed to go do all the extras and do it even harder and faster and better than them to assert dominance? Whats the point fuck, no one here is getting a raise or promotion, its a dead end grocery store position for students to make some side money before they dip. Nothing extra you do gives anything extra and no slacking you do gets you in any shit I’ve totally disregarded the ru… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 03:43 AM |
| 1 | How to not be toxic but still not give a fuckYa no shit man I know I’m fucked up but I’m trying to fix it. Thats what happens when you grow up listening to slim shady | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 07:42 AM |
| 0 | Don’t know how to interact with girlsHow is that going to help | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 04:00 AM |
| 1 | I don’t actually know how to talk to girlsThanks, I’ll look into it! | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 03:57 AM |
| 1 | How is my tinder profilehttps://imgur.com/a/EZF8Xgh Any of these acceptable enough? | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 08:50 PM |
| 1 | How is my tinder profileFair enough, I agree with the second picture. I didn’t even notice the paleness, you’re right about that. I’ll take a new one. I’m not sure I agree with the first picture though. Are you saying I shouldn’t have a more “masculine” serious, dominant type picture. Or are you saying just not that much. | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 06:49 AM |
| -4 | How is my tinder profileNot looking for a relationship lol, just some fun. | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 06:43 AM |
| 2 | Would you fuck a strange girlI mean, I haven’t diagnosed her but... | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Would you fuck a strange girlYes | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 02:29 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with social rejectionLol I was just making a hypothetical situation and exaggerated a little. But the point remains. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 08:31 PM |
| 3 | Does RP mean men can’t have empathy?The book Models by Mark Manson has helped me far more than possibly any other literature I read. I HIGHLY recommend it. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Where to cold approach?You’re in the convenience store? Ask the girl in the candy isle whats the best snack for a movie night. Book store, ask her if there is anything she’d recommend. You’re in walmart looking for steaks? Tell her you don’t know shit about steaks and ask her whats the tastiest one. Womens bathroom? Ask her kindly to stop screaming. You’re overthinking, you don’t have to go to specific “women meeting places”. You meet them anywhere, the real advice is to learn how to be more social and start conversat… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 02:59 AM |
| 15 | How do you stay emotionally detached without having plates?I'll answer your question when you can make me understand how tf you got a plate to begin with. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 08:11 PM |
| 21 | How do you stay emotionally detached without having plates?This is the real and only advice. You can be emotionally detached without having plates only if you’ve had plates before. If right now you are planning to baby step TRP, you want to be detached, you wan’t to not be invested, but in the back of your mind you want to just be with that one girl because you’re still a bit blue.... it won’t work. You have to have had many a plates and realized you can do it, and realized women come easy and realize that no particular woman is special. And ONCE you’ve… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 07:53 PM |
| 0 | Do girls need connection / warming up before you fuck.Holy shit don’t get me thinking. I’m pretty insecure about my N-count tbh. I know its not very redpill and I’m working on it but I still let the amount of women I can fuck determine my value. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 04:39 PM |
| 0 | Do girls need connection / warming up before you fuck.7, I’m 22. But when I was starting I was literally a whithering away runescape/call of duty nerd who easily put actual years worth of play time into these games.... Not played for years but actual years worth of time. And to be fair I just got out of a 2.5 year LTR. So honestly I haven’t got to practice my game very much. I’ve used redpill mostly for theory learning, learning sroicism, lifting etc. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 02:04 PM |
| 55 | Do LTR's get turned on from commitment / is my LTR using sex to reward me for commitment?Her agenda is to earn the commitment of the highest value man she can. Yours is to fuck hot girls. You essentially said to her, “further my agenda and I’ll further yours”. Of course it made her horny. The problem is, once her agenda is furthered, and you become more committed, naturally you will get more attached and betafied. She will then lose attraction. So its kind of a biological trick. The key is to enjoy the sex, dangle the carrot. And sure you can even commit. But on some conditions. PLA… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 06:11 AM |
| 3 | Do girls need connection / warming up before you fuck.Is it not worth gaming the maybe girls and trying to get them to yes camp? Its only worth going for easy pickings? I mean, don’t break your nuts over it.... but why next so quick. It takes maybe 2 minutes to send a text every now and then for a few extra days, its not a big investment really. And you know if you eventually are gonna LTR, wouldn’t you want to LTR the girl that was hardest challenge and maybe dragged you on a bit. Those are the smarter girls, and obviously she won’t be so quick to… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 05:30 AM |
| 3 | Do girls need connection / warming up before you fuck.Man honestly, I’ve been on TRP maybe 4 years now reading and implementing. I started as a total 1000% ultra sperg. There are so many really small nuances, especially to women. It really does take practice. You wouldn’t think about it, but imagine an overly aggressive guy who has never learned about game. He will read TRP and naturally think he is failing because he is not assertive and shit enough he might make things even worse.... Or an ultra beta may become what he thinks to be super assertiv… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 05:25 AM |
| 0 | Do girls need connection / warming up before you fuck.How can you read a woman’s intentions. How do you know when they really need more trust and comfort versus playing you for attention... Its pretty easy to know when they’re ready to fuck, but its not easy to tell whether they are playing you or just not ready to fuck yet | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 04:52 AM |
| 2 | Do girls need connection / warming up before you fuck.All women will fuck you within an hour if they are attracted enough. The question is, how attractive are we. And how slutty are the girls we are willing to bang. If I'm not ultra-attractive, and I'm not willing to fuck super slutty. Wouldn't the only option be to work slower. She isn't going to be down to insta-fuck because I'm not gigachad and she wants to be gamed for a bit and need more time to get to know I'm the real deal. and I'm going to want to quickly move on if I'm the redpill guy. So … | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 03:56 AM |
| -2 | Do girls need connection / warming up before you fuck.How do you look? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UJ8kj_Nd62U Skip to 2:00, tell me why this guy is saying to chill and do basically what I'm saying. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 03:48 AM |
| 2 | Eye contactHow | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 05:41 AM |
| 4 | What do you guys think of this guy / video specificallyWhen I listened to my natural instincts I was a beta because my natural instincts where spawned from societies/my familys beta conditions | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Why do I EXCEL with women when I feel like I have an 'excuse' to talk to them, but struggle otherwise?I noticed the same thing too sir, when I get put in women with group projects they always end up wanting me. But I can’t get myself to go and pursue someone without that condition either. The problem with having to approach is you force them into a split second decision and girls that would totally love you end up rejecting you. In group projects and shit you have time to work | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Why do we lose frame over the time of an LTRI never understood that. A 40 year old guy will almost always be more “masculine” than a dumb ass 22 year old who can’t even sum up the balls to approach. But almost always have less testosterone. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Would anybody be willing to give me a brutally honest assessment of my looks?Sure send me I’ll rate you | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 06:52 AM |
| 2 | Why do we lose frame over the time of an LTROkay, at least I’m starting to figure out my problem. Can you elaborate and lead me in the right direction of what I should read / implement in my life to be better. I don’t want to get hurt again this shit sucks I want to be stronger. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 12:25 AM |
| 3 | Why do we lose frame over the time of an LTRI never find it like that, I love to lead and be in charge. Its rather like. In the beginnings I’ll smash and if I don’t get what I want I fuck off home and basically give them the indirect middle finger. It feels natural like we barely know each other, fuck your feelings you know. I don’t care about you. But after knowing them for a year or two and caring about them more, its like. Ok you don’t want to fuck today you’re tired, you know what actually I’m kind of tired too lets just watch a movie… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 12:22 AM |
| 2 | I finally get it but I hate itI don’t like that. I don’t mind having to be perfect, I can do that. But I fucking HATE having to be perfect and still being able to eat shit. It is as it is though, my last relationship was 6 months and I was traumatized for months after. At least I could end this one, beat my dick and call it a night. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/21 09:11 AM |
| -5 | I finally get it but I hate itThe point of life is to reproduce and women own reproduction. Thus they have more value in life. The point of life isn’t how many good deeds you’ve done. Ask Attila the Hun, Genghis Khan or some Ancient Romans that shit. The point of life is reproduction, and we have no power over that, so we are worthless. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/21 09:08 AM |
| -2 | I finally get it but I don’t like it.The point of life is to reproduce and women own reproduction. They control life. They have more value. The point of life isn’t how many good deeds you’ve done. Ask Attila the Hun, Genghis Khan or some Ancient Romans that shit. The point of life is reproduction, and we have no power over that, so we are worthless. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 09:06 AM |
| 3 | I finally get it but I hate itI just ended a 3 year relationship because I fell. That is why its so negative. And I’ve been ruminating on how the fuck its possible. I’ve been thinking over and over. My body got better and better while she was slowly slipping. I fought to be great while she couldn’t be fucked to do anything. I worked hard to build a great future for us, I lead, I set an example of how I wanted us to live and I put my foot forward first. So I couldn’t grasp how the fuck I lost attraction, how the fuck I, a suc… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/21 08:47 AM |
| 4 | How can i get over the fact my ex is fucking other guys?Don’t waste perfectly good suffering. Embrace it, breathe it, cherish it. The next time something shit happens in your life you will be desensitized and have an easier time. Everyone is giving you advice on avoiding the pain but I recommend relishing it. The fact is, its JUST an ex fucking other people. It will happen a lot more, eventually you’re going to have to become comfortable with the feeling so do it now.... There are a lot more painful things in life. Ruminate on it and let it absorb yo… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 08:35 AM |
| -4 | I finally get it but I don’t like it.What part of what I wrote is not true? | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 08:27 AM |
| 2 | I finally get it but I hate itYes, you're right. Men and women both compete, and there are women who are also absolutely fucked. but that is real reality, and this post is about my reality. I've written this based on the lessons I've learned playing the game I play. This game never involved ugly women. This game was always about me, playing with the hotter women, the ones who could crush my heart and soul, the ones who could play their game better than I could play mine. That is what this post is about. And I wrote it becaus… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/21 08:22 AM |
| 0 | Finally broke up, what now?I broke up with her lol wdym oneitis. I did it for the sake of love not for need 😁 I guess stupid losing business move for me but it made me feel like a good person when I’m a piece of shit in like 99% of all other facets of life | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Finally broke up, what now?To be honest I’m not sure what I did wrong in this relationship to get to the fucked up point it got to. Perhaps you can help me understand. When I met her she was a kind of strange and alternative type girl. She said the only other guys she’s ever been with where 2 guys she fucked a few times over a month before meeting me and that she never had a real relationship.... I didn’t believe it at first but knowing her for 2.5 years I do because she is like anti-social. By the way I met her when she … | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 06:50 AM |
| 0 | I’m so done with my relationship. Need advice.Two years is the longest relationship I’ve ever had and up until recently the healthiest one too. I’m emotionally invested sir I can’t cut it that easy. Every time I reach wits end the next day something in my head says not to give up because things can get better. I’m hopeful, optimistic, that things can get better. I want to fight for things to get better. I don’t like to give up on nothing no matter how hard it gets as long as I can see some tunnel. I guess that is what this post is all about… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 05:45 AM |
| 1 | I’m so done with my relationship. Need advice.Lots of time, effort, allowing her into my life, to know my parents, friends. Etc... Yea, I guess these are beta behaviours. But after being in a relationship over 2 years it seems like fitting appropriate things to do. Its not a plate anymore. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 05:21 AM |
| 1 | I’m so done with my relationship. Need advice.We went through that before. Birth control failed. We ended the pregnancy as planned though, scary time. I’ve been thinking its time to end it but I don’t have the balls to cut my losses and call it a fight. I’m too hard headed and stubborn to let things die without giving it my all. I get too absorbed in my fights even if they aren’t worth fighting, too tunnel focused. My question is why did she lose respect for me. I mean I understand why women lose respect for men in general, but in my mind I… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 05:19 AM |
| 2 | I’m so done with my relationship. Need advice.I think so too I just am too pussy to call it. Whats that fallacy called where you invested too much and you are scared to cut losses. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 05:12 AM |
| 2 | I’m so done with my relationship. Need advice.Yea | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 05:06 AM |
| 1 | I’m so done with my relationship. Need advice.How do I change it? I want her, I just want who she used to be. Idk how to get back to that. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 05:01 AM |
| 2 | I’m so done with my relationship. Need advice.She used to have a 7 face and 8 body. Now its like 6 and 6. She definitely does not turn me on as much as before. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 05:01 AM |
| 49 | Need a reality check. Im about to get cheated on right?Find yourself a new girl. Even if she doesn’t cheat on you she doesn’t sound like great LTR material. Plus she’s totally winning. Do you think she posts on reddit asking advice whether you’re about to fuck her over or not? She’s totally beating you with dread, you’re in her frame. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/21 04:54 PM |
| 1 | What are the basic IOIs?If you have your cock in her mouth you know for sure she is interested | /r/askTRP | 27/03/21 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Want advice.lift | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Why the fuck can't I get/keep it up?800 ng/dl when I was tested but it was only one time and apperantely it can fluctuate a bit | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 02:16 AM |
| 3 | Why the fuck can't I get/keep it up?Ok its a bit hyperbole I guess. It wasn’t a good enough boner to fuck properly with, and the semi boner I might sometimes get felt pretty numb like not very pleasureful. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Why the fuck can't I get/keep it up?I could if I watched porn, and maybe a weak one that sporadically worked/did not work however it wanted during real sex. but yea it was fucked. Now my shits working all the time to perfection. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 01:27 AM |
| 32 | Why the fuck can't I get/keep it up?Its because you're on day 1 of quitting porn and because you smoke. I watched porn daily from 15-19ish... when I tried to fuck my girlfriend sometimes I'd get hard, sometimes I wouldn't, sometimes I'd get hard and lose it, sometimes I couldn't finish and sometimes I finished super late. I quit watching porn and I basically couldn't get a boner for nearly 7 months. I had absolutely no libido and I was basically just eating my gf out so she didn't have to go without sex during this period. Finally… | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Did I lose frame in this moment/fail shit test?You're entirely over invested. You probably spent at least half an hour writing out this essay on a SINGLE conversation with a LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP. Not mentioning the other hour you probably let this occurrence run through your head rent free. There is a plethora of history already between you two, and ample time to write more. Why are you so invested in this tiny sliver of time of what could be ages between two people. This ONE conversation isn't going to change anything in the entire produc… | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 10:43 PM |
| 3 | How to accept that I’ve been alpha widowed?Attract a new and better one by becoming a new and better you. Do some squats. Lose some weight. Dress sexy elegant not sexy slutty. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 10:17 PM |
| 6 | Plate got cancer and is going to struggle financially. I want to help but keep having trp inner-voice say bro wtf no way don't do it.I think you should help her. TRP is about realizing your options, not necessarily about you always "Winning". TRP is just about realizing what powers, abilities, and options you have, its about finding your freedom. Maybe this decision will make you seem like a provider, maybe it will make her rely on you, maybe it will make you lose money and you will gain nothing "substantial" out of it... but it will give your own inner mind a sense of peace that you did what you found to be morally right. TR… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 08:49 PM |
| 7 | What advice would you give your 21 year old self?Wtf | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 07:36 PM |
| 2 | First time BDSM, wants me to tie her up tomorrow night. how do u bdsm lolI like to use paraffin wax as a little foreplay. The wax melts really warm but not burn warm, my girl loves it. There is a youtube channel called “watts the safeword” that have instructions on all sorts of ties you can make using rope for BDSM. A blindfold over the eyes can intensify things but nothing over the mouth you’ll catch a rape charge. Don’t tie shit too tight, leave a little wiggle room you don’t want to fuck their limbs. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/21 05:04 PM |
| 1 | What path should I take in life?Whats wrong with environmental, and would this also mean chemical since the curriculum is so similar? | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Help / Roast my tinder accountWord, thanks. I’ll look into it | /r/askTRP | 25/02/21 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Help / Roast my tinder accountWord, thanks! | /r/askTRP | 25/02/21 04:20 AM |
| 3 | Help / Roast my tinder accountFair, I did start off ultra-skinny, and I did spin my wheels lifting for a long time by not eating nearly enough protein. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/21 04:19 AM |
| 2 | Help / Roast my tinder accountI’m 5’11 | /r/askTRP | 25/02/21 02:25 AM |
| 2 | Help / Roast my tinder accountThanks, I deleted all but 1 and 3. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/21 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Help / Roast my tinder accountThanks, I’ll take some more awesome ass photos and delete the nasty ones. I’m 5’11 going to 6’1 is a reach. I know I need to lean out but I also need to get some muscles and get stronger. I’ve put on a bit of fat for this process. Do you think I should drop my bulk and lean out right now? I still don’t feel strong and muscular enough. Going on a cut is going to make me feel thin as shit. Also shouldn’t first pic be best pic to grab attention otherwise you gonna get insta noped. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/21 01:14 AM |
| 93 | How do I resist the urge to compliment my hot LTR?Reward her by being a man worth having. Instead of complimenting her do a few extra reps. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/21 01:01 AM |
| -4 | Help / Roast my tinder accountHello, 4th person is a porn star, just a joke. Most of my friends found it really funny I kind of look alike. Thanks man. I had a lot of people say the shirt fits perfect, my mother said its too small if anything. Could it be an angle thing or is it definite too big? Its kind of almost hard getting into I can’t really wrap my arm back enough to get it into the second hole. And also about the cap, I’m 22, I see a fuck ton of guys do that at school. I understand its not a very mature thing but it … | /r/askTRP | 25/02/21 12:51 AM |
| 2 | What is my mental game missing.Engineering, 6 courses plus labs and homework. Easily 60 hour weeks. And thats just to scrape by and be a bottom of barrel student like I am. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/21 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Mentioning you have a good careerThats kind of strange, because something like Engineer would show lots of qualities that alphas would have. Weird how that works out. I don’t brag, I don’t even like to say really. I hate when people ask me what I do because they give me that “oh you must be so smart” shit and its annoying. I was just asking if by the chance my date asked me what I do or study if I should better to be honest or just say some cryptic mysterious shit. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Mentioning you have a good careerWord, didn't mean to be weird, doxxing didn't cross my mind. Take care boss man | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Mentioning you have a good careerLink a song, I'm curious what kind of music the grand daddy of redpill himself makes. Thanks bro, been reading your shit for years. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Need books on angerI’ve been listening to Alan Watts a while now, I’ve been into the whole meditation/philosophy stuff for a while. Good stuff man! | /r/askTRP | 20/01/21 03:57 AM |
| 2 | Need books on angerI try, I’ve been doing yoga almost daily for like an hour now and meditating in that time. It helps and I feel mentally untouchable in that time. But it seems as soon as its over I end up slipping into old ways | /r/askTRP | 19/01/21 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Question regarding alpha...Ya the Corey guy. I read it in Rollos book | /r/askTRP | 12/01/21 06:01 PM |
| 1 | I got burned after 2 years, how do I grow now?I don’t think so, I’ve met BPD before. There are some things that happened between us that I’m not willing to admit but they definitely point to some type of mental illness. If I was smart I would have dipped | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 06:08 PM |
| -2 | I got burned after 2 years, how do I grow now?LOL the first post on your profile I see is how you long for a long ooblong shlong after a bong | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 08:51 AM |
| -5 | I got burned after 2 years, how do I grow now?Yea, you’re right, was definitely goofy moron through most that relationship. Now that I think about it when I went into the relationship it was just humour. I just said funny things, I had humour. “I’ll turn your ass into Arby’s meat” “blow my d like superman” The soup line She’d say I’m lame and I’d say “I got more drip than aquaman” Just simple stuff. Word play, things you don’t hear often. But I totally picked up the goofy shit from her and subconsciously copied it. She’d always do this litt… | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 08:28 AM |
| -2 | I got burned after 2 years, how do I grow now?Definately I’ve done beta shit for sure | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 08:10 AM |
| -17 | I got burned after 2 years, how do I grow now?Bro when we matched online my first opener was “If you where a soup what kind of soup would you be” She seemed to like that shit then because the other 60 people in her inbox didn’t get fuck replies so. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 07:54 AM |
| 0 | I got burned after 2 years, how do I grow now?Man no I don’t I really put all my stats into tanking bullshit I’ve got 0 in brains or anything of that sort I’m like a full speed ahead get the fuck out of my way car crash type | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 07:50 AM |
| 1 | I got burned after 2 years, how do I grow now?What the fuck are you talking about lol. Did I say I’m the only one who struggles or something? I was just describing my experience. And yea exactly you’re right. The world doesn’t care about me. Thats why I feel like its trying to kill me. Because it doesn’t soften blows. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 07:46 AM |
| -8 | I got burned after 2 years, how do I grow now?You don’t understand man. I was never supposed to be anybody. I was the Runescape kid. I was the one always excluded and told I’m not allowed to play. I was the one that had random ass girls for no reason approach me in highschool and tell me no girl will ever love me. I was the one my teachers said won’t be shit because I’m not smart enough. The phys ed teachers say I’m clumsier than dogshit.The girls say that I’m ugly and I should be ashamed that I’m balding. I was the one who people would van… | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 07:41 AM |
| 1 | I got burned after 2 years, how do I grow now?I’ve had the full McDonalds arches since 16, at 20 I decided to just Vin Diesel that shit. I actually think I look pretty badass tbh, I’m a big fan of the shaved look.... But yea I didn’t think to include it like, I didn’t even think it was something include worthy. Like she is likely about to be celiac and I cough a lot. Didn’t think it was worth writing about. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 07:13 AM |
| -15 | I got burned after 2 years, how do I grow now?What decent point? Are you saying you can’t be a strong guy without making a mistake in a relationship? Are you saying all my slave-esque efforts in every facet of my life to be someone is negated because I did something beta? What point did he make exactly, and what was it supposed to teach. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 07:10 AM |
| -10 | I got burned after 2 years, how do I grow now?Bro on the plus side I’m matching with some pretty hot hoes on tinder so I think that will help forget | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 06:33 AM |
| -10 | I got burned after 2 years, how do I grow now?I honestly don’t know how the fuck I keep going in this world, I feel like I’m the terminator or some shit. I’m only 22 but I have so much stress from this world that I’m already getting health problems. I’m bald by now. I’m developing random shit like shingles that I have no business developing at this age. I have psychosomatic symptoms, random coughs and shit. I feel like the world wants me to crumble, I feel like its trying so hard to just murder me but I won’t fucking stop moving forward. I … | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 06:28 AM |
| -38 | I got burned after 2 years, how do I grow now?Okay Pokémon boy | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 06:04 AM |
| 1 | I got burned after 2 years, how do I grow now?Man its like scary in these situations too because if she happened to have an “epiphany” and went to the cops and claim abuse they would take her side. She got bruised several times from us just play wrestling or rough fucking. If she decided all of a sudden that I was physically abusive or that it was rape because she actually wasn’t into it, I’d be fucked in the ass. Or she could say shit to her family and have her brothers jump me or something. It feels threatening to be honest. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 05:59 AM |
| 2 | Why do I have to give a fuck to be an alpha when being an alpha means not giving a fuck. Paradoxical questionHalf of it is about improving yourself sure. But the other half is about getting women. And thats the part I don’t get. These things should be natural. Putting any effort into getting a woman by learning these tactics is the no different than trying to get a woman by appeasing her and buying her flowers. Thats the paradox | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 09:08 AM |
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