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What I've read isn't that specific. And I'm no expert.
/r/RedPillWives15/07/18 01:33 AM
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However, I can agree with the following: "And when immorality prevails, O Krishna, the women of the family become corrupted when women are corrupted, social problems arise." (Bhagavad-Gita)
/r/RedPillWives13/07/18 02:30 PM
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In pretty much every way. There are two major things I disagree with Hinduism on. One of them is its overwhelmingly negative view of women. I'd have to say that even Islam has a much more positive view of women than Hinduism does. And India has one of the highest rates of gang rape and male on female violence in the world, so I don't think that's a coincidence. ALL of my friends from India are like, "Yeah, it's a big problem there. It sucks." From what I can see in the Hindu scriptures. Women ar…
/r/RedPillWives13/07/18 02:18 PM
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I was Catholic until I was 13, when I realized that (for me) this theology didn't make any sense. Why do we have a heavenly father but no earthly mother? Are all the other religions in the world wrong? Does my God (Christ) exist, but none of the other gods. Why did Christ only go to Jerusalem to spread the good news, and no where else? So after that, I went through a bunch of different religions trying to find what I really believed. I experimented with Paganism, read about Islam, Buddhism and H…
/r/RedPillWives12/07/18 04:20 PM
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It is ironic. The left hates on people like Jordan Peterson so much. But he's not even right-wing and has nothing to do with the Alt-Right. He's just a guy arguing to maintain the freedom of speech, and they hate him for it.
/r/RedPillWives12/07/18 02:23 AM
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I think there are also a few logical inconsistencies in the show. Women and girls are expected to be able to quote and know key bible verses, but they aren't allowed to read??? Wives and marthas raise the children, but once again, they're not allowed to read, so...how are they going to teach their sons to read? I guess Gilead just wants all their people to be stupid, which is likely, because they are the stupidest patriarchy ever. Even the most patriarchal cultures currently on the globe, Saudi …
/r/RedPillWives12/07/18 02:21 AM
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Yeah. That's my blog. Glad you like it.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 08:09 PM
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they're supporting a system that destroys people and only destroys people. I can agree with most of this. I wasn't trying to say we should forgive SJW. I was trying to explain why they do the things they do. That they think what they're doing is good, even if it may not be. I think everyone is the good guy in their own social narrative. But the best way to counteract any movement is to understand it and its motivations. If we reduce SJW to one dimensional caricatures we will not really understan…
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/16 05:22 PM
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Uh...that's a real fuzzy line.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/16 06:37 PM
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And there's a lot of guys who don't even care about getting the sex. So they just go their own way and watch society crash and burn from the sidelines.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/16 06:34 PM
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I think historically sexual rules for women weren't just enforced by men, but by other women afraid of younger ladies taking their husbands. It's as Dave Chappelle said, we've depreciated the value of pussy.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/16 06:30 PM
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I wouldn't call myself an avid gamer, but in the times that I have done LANS or MMOs I didn't really encounter any blatant sexism against myself either. Just a lot of 12 year old boys slinging insults at each other.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/16 06:25 PM
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I don't think patriarchy necessarily means that women can't get the most they want out of life. Patriarchies can change and evolve over time, as we gain more understanding of human nature and sexuality. If anything, patriarchy has a lot to offer women. The stability of a functional society. Egypt was one of the longest lasting civilizations in history, and women in Ancient Egypt had many rights along with high fertility rates -- but Egypt still a patriarchal civilization. I think people need to …
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/16 07:44 AM
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I wouldn't say a woman's decline after 26 is rapid. If they take care of themselves they can look pretty sexy for another 15 years. Obviously they're never going to look as good as they did in their prime, but it's not like they go from 25 to 60 in like five years.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/16 02:42 PM
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For one I'm okay with driving down the birth rate. There are too many damn people on the planet and we are bad for the planet. But I agree with the fact that men these days are really struggling with relationships. I'd say most of the men I know are either single or were in relationships where it was a lot of drama. There are a LOT of lonely people out there these days. I remember one of my professors at college who was like a million years old said, "I don't understand what is wrong with people…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/16 02:21 PM
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I think feminists haven't really thought it through. The concept of MGTOW doesn't bother them too much because they think, "Oh, that's fine, as long as it's not any men I'm interested in." And typically guys who have game don't go their own way. In the short term, it doesn't really affect women that much. But it does in the long term. Because that is more guys not committing to society. More guys not innovating, not paying a big chunk of taxes (to feed the nanny state that will pay for all the t…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/16 04:03 AM
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I can agree with a lot of this. I don't think Islam alone is the problem. Because remember, Russia has a much higher population of muslims than most Western countries. The problem is that when a culture stops protecting its own values, it falls prey to the more dominant culture. I.e. Russia can have population that is 15% muslim and survive, because the majority of Russians have pride in their culture and traditions. But the people in Western Europe who have swallowed the feminist coolaid and no…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/16 08:12 PM
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I get my boyfriend to kill bugs for me sometimes, even though I'm actually better at it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/16 07:56 PM
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Yeah, I'm a hypocrite too. I'll admit it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/16 07:56 PM
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I think that's why Traditionalism is on the rise in Russia today. They've already been through the vision of Feminists of an "egalitarian" society, and they know that it is a nightmare.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/16 07:55 PM
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Exactly. It's having your cake and eating it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/16 04:08 PM
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You are welcome!
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/16 04:07 PM
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You're probably right. Feminism probably won't go away until society collapses, or some other major thing happens. And you are right, feminism probably won't go away until women start fighting it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/16 04:07 PM
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Yeah I heard about this. The police let this go on for 10 years because they were "afraid of being racist." Can you believe this shit? They'd rather let gangs of men brutalize young girls than get accused of being a racist. That is stupid and evil. I'm not against immigrants, but I think if countries let people do whatever they want without enforcing the law, (and I'm talking about any group of people), they will become brutes. That is the problem with many liberals. With quotes like "love wins"…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/16 04:01 PM
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I also agree with you that the whole stay-at-home mom practice was a good thing. I'd love it if my boyfriend could support me with his salary and I didn't have to work. Hell I wouldn't mind cleaning the place for that. I'm a very independent person, and I'd find lots of things to do to fill up my time. Volunteer, write, play music (and it would be all that much better because today we have the internet and video games).
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/16 03:54 PM
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I don't really think RPW is about with-holding sex, I think it's more about not giving it away for free. When RPW talk about sex in the context of marriage or a relationship, they're totally sex positive. In fact, they promote women having sex with their boyfriends and husbands. But when a woman has sex with every dude she meets, or just gives it away like on the first date, that does bring her closer to plate-hood. Because she's not taking the time to actually get to know the guy, and letting t…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/16 03:53 PM
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It's a real shame because there are things I really like about Sweden, despite their Feminist crazy.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 05:15 PM
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Someone on YouTube summarized Sweden well by saying "Sweden is tumblr, the country." I think this video is a good summary of Feminism in action. Feminism does not care about men, it despises beta men. That's why feminists are so quick to mock "nice guys" or "creepy guys," who are just dorky guys who don't know how to talk to women (not necessarily bad people). You'll notice that Swedish feminists are not saying much about the Middle Eastern and North African men who are coming to their country, …
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 05:09 PM
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I agree. Rights must be proportional to responsibilities.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 04:51 PM
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As a millennial woman I can agree with this. Gen X guys seem a lot more masculine than my generation. Maybe it's the fact that we have chemicals mimicking estrogen contaminating our food and water supply, maybe it's feminism, maybe it's the vast number of guys being raised without dads. It's probably a lot of things. But a lot of guys in my age group really are goony beta weenies. Many of them even seem gay (who are not gay) and walk and talk in an effeminate manner. And this whole stupid hipste…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 03:13 PM
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Yeah these are all valid issues to discuss. I don't think men should be blamed, because fatherhood is a pretty crappy deal these days. There's a good chance your wife will divorce you and you'll be forced to pay for children that you don't even get to see 80% of the time. Also, there's the chance that the children might not even be yours. And even if the woman does stay with you, and have your kids, being a father can still mean no sex ever again, and growing up in a family where you're repeated…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 07:31 PM
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I agree with you here sendmepicsofyourbutt. Also, I've already gotten my genetic seed into the world via having nieces and nephews. If I'm ever getting a maternal instinct I can go hang out with them. And if I'm really desperate, I can just go adopt one of the 400,000 children with no home.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 04:07 PM
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Yeah, that might happen. But I think it's worse to have a kid when you're not ready,then to not have a kid even when you want one. You can't undo a person (well...okay there is abortion, but no after birth abortions...unless you resort to murder). But anyways, I'd rather regret not having children, then have kids I don't want and then be resentful towards them for their entire lives.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 04:05 PM
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I didn't really ride the CC. Part of why I'm not having children is because of the future. I don't see a positive future for humanity this century, and I don't want to create human beings who will have to suffer the horrors to come. I also don't really like humanity in general- so I wouldn't want to participate in creating more humans. Who knows, maybe I'll change my mind later. I'm 27 right now and I have until I'm 35 until the factory starts to shut down - so to speak. If I did want a kid, I m…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 04:01 PM
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Mostly sure that I don't want kids for the rest of it either. I have nieces and nephews to supplant the need for wanting to be around little people. But I'm extremely introverted and misanthropic. There are too many people in the world - the last thing I want to do is make more. I think my best gift I can give to the planet is the gift of less people.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 03:55 PM
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As a woman nearing the wall without kids, I can say waking up late on a weekend morning without having to deal with a screaming, crying, pooping thing is pretty sweet. Instead I get to focus on my boyfriend, friend and hobbies.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 03:12 PM
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The sad thing is that changing his genitals and taking hormones will not make him a woman. He'll still be taller and more masculine than most women. Now there are some people in life who truly feel like they were always meant to be the other gender. But if he's doing this just to make his life easier, then he has another thing coming. Trans folk experience the worst discrimination out of any group - even worse than what gay people get. They experience the highest percentage of suicide, harassmen…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 03:15 PM
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The difference however is that companies won't put up with this shit, whereas men will. If men stop putting up with BS, women will change their attitudes. Hence MGTOW. With the way many relationships are these days, it really is much more worth it for a guy to just substitute sex with porn, and substitute romance with meaningful friendships, and all the time and work put into marriage, into hobbies. Because many marriages these days are no guarantee of sex or romance anyways. But porn...porn is …
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/15 07:12 PM
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"The fact that companies are hiring employees who will do more for less, in places like Russia and East Asia, just means that these companies are desperate and creepy."
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/15 07:09 PM
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I think you're absolutely right. I think this is why the opinion of women can often be pretty negative on TRP. The whole seduction lifestyle puts them more in contact with the stereotypical, vapid party girl than a girl with brains and interests. The trouble is that brainy girls aren't out getting noticed, or aren't as attractive as the hot party girls. People in general with very time consuming hobbies aren't very social. I've written about 200 pages, but wouldn't be able to do that if I had a …
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/15 08:28 PM
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It's nice to take pride in a hobby and be able to entertain yourself without a digital screen. I need to do more of that. Too much of my work and hobbies are both on a digital screen. I need to get more into hands on stuff before I kill my eyesight.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/15 08:23 PM
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Eh, this woman sounds lame. I love nature stuff.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 06:18 PM
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I am a lot more mellow than I was 10 years ago, and my Resting Bitch Face disappeared. I think there is something about a relaxed aura that draws people in. I'm pretty mellow, so guys come up and talk to me casually a lot, even when I have no make up on, messy hair, sweat pants, etc. I have a really attractive friend (stereotypical hot, skinny blonde with blue eyes) who says that guys never come up to her. Maybe it's that she's so hot that she scares men away. Or maybe she just has a very closed…
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/15 05:54 PM
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I think the wall is mostly a concern for women who are interested in having children. It will be harder to have children and settle down with a guy willing to raise your children after 30. That's just a fact of biology. But everything else can be maintained with hard work and confidence. Sometimes I see 50+ women who are way hotter than their 20 year old counterparts, just because a lot of girls in their 20's let themselves go horribly these days. If you're looking for companionship and sex, you…
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/15 05:51 PM
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Glad everyone liked my article. Just know that I'm not perfect, and should probably follow more of my own advice more often. I hope what I wrote can make a positive difference in people's lives. That's what matters most.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/15 05:47 PM
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Having a feminine demeanor is something I struggle sooo much with. Hey there. I wrote the article and I actually struggle with this aspect the most. While I'm petite and feminine looking, I don't really have a feminine demeanor. I'm more of a guy's lady kind of like Elaine in Seinfeld. I have mostly male interests and used to have more male friends than female. I guess with some effort I've made it to the middle side of the gender binary (I can be both feminine and masculine and at a party I flo…
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/15 05:43 PM
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From what I've seen, RP men aren't traditionalists. Traditionalists want to return to some Patriarchal time where women were controlled in almost every aspect of society. That's not what I see advocated in TRP. TRP, IMO, is more like a guide for how to survive in the crazy sexual jungle that is today's world. As the wheels come off the car - so to speak - in today's world, TRP is more like, "shit is fucked up, here's how you can adapt." Then again, women have always been a certain way. Society a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 07:11 PM
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This girl screwed herself over so close to the wall. She was trying to have her cake and eat it (have a secure beta bucks in her pocket while banging the hot alpha at work), but her boyfriend was more of a man that she realized. At her age it's probably going to be hard for her to get into a relationship with anyone better, and she knows that. Which is why she's going crazy. Meanwhile this guy isn't worried because he's in his prime. He could totally end up with a hotter, younger and more faithf…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 02:15 PM
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I alternate between being an INTJ or an INTP, I think I'm definitely more of an INTJ though.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/15 02:39 PM
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Agreed. A relationship without the sex is basically just a friendship.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/15 09:50 PM
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Sex reduces stress. For women, sometimes sex is like going to the gym. Initially you don't feel like it, but after you start doing it - you start to really enjoy yourself. I say this because for women, it usually takes a while for us to get warmed up and turned on, while for men the arousal is instant. A man can be horny and fuck in the middle of a meteor shower. For a woman, she wants all the conditions to be perfect. Also, sex usually takes like only 10 minutes of your day. I spend more time w…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/15 09:48 PM
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Agreed. If anything, this will put you in a position to meet some more masculine, red neck types. Real men like the outdoors. When I go to the shooting range (which is obviously a very masculine hobby), I get like 4-5 fairly masculine guys flirting at me. If I were single, I'd definitely go to the range to mingle given that the odds for me are pretty good.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/15 09:41 PM
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I think the key is to not take things to personally. And when he says something insulting, instead of taking it as an emotional attack, take it as a sign that he is suffering, and that you need to help him in his suffering. A few weeks ago my boyfriend started yelling at me for not going to the dentist (I have a lot of dental issues, but don't like doctors). The old me would have been yelling back, slamming doors, telling him where he can shove it and so on. But the new, more calm me realized th…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/15 09:37 PM
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I guess there are different approaches to each situation. My concern is that OP's boyfriend sounds pretty feminist, while OP is not. It's clear that OP really likes this guy, but just disagrees about this one issue. If she immediately starts talking about TRP to someone who is a Feminist, this could potentially make things rockier than they need to be. Perhaps she could ease him into it without using words that evoke an immediate and negative connotation. She could mention some of the principles…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/15 09:32 PM
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Getting closer to God has helped me a LOT with my anger, but of course not everyone here is going to agree with that. In fact, the bf and I used to have a big emotional fight every week, but now we just have arguments that are more intellectual in nature. I used to think he was to blame for all the arguments, but once I truly humbled myself and began letting go of my ego, it became easier to solve issues in a rational manner. Emotions can be controlled, you just gotta find a system that works fo…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/15 04:39 AM
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Be married in spirit, but not legally. Have the ceremony, don't sign the paper. I don't see what's so hard about that.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/15 04:37 AM
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Ditto with what people said about not talking about it. Certain words have powerful emotional connotations, and when you say those words, peoples brains turn off or make an immediate opinion. For instance, if I said the word "Nazi" - your mind would have an immediate and predetermined reaction to what I was going to say. Things like "Feminist" and "Antifeminist" are also power words to a less controversial extent. So I wouldn't talk about TRP or anything like that. If you oppose modern feminism,…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/15 04:34 AM
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I don't think it's bad when a guy says sorry for doing something seriously wrong. Like, he broke your laptop, that seriously deserves a "sorry." What irks me is the guys who compulsively say it at the drop of a hat for silly things. There are guys who say it all the time, like 10 times a day. It makes them look submissive and weak.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/15 04:27 AM
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Truth. People talk crap about the U.S., but we are actually far more traditional than most in Europe.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/15 02:58 PM
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Yup. My college was a testament to the fact that only 20% of the guys were getting laid. It's not because these guys were amazing, it's just that the other 80% were fat, socially awkward or metrosexual straight guys drinking the Feminist CoolAid. Someone seriously needs to have an intervention for these guys.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/15 02:56 PM
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Having been to Florida I can confirm, lots of Rednecks are there, but most of the traditional ones live up north near Alabama.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/15 02:54 PM
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Yeah, I've noticed that the guys on my campus are too feminine Ditto. When I went to college, one of the great surprises for me was just how feminine a majority of the guys were. In high school there was a mix of both masculine and feminine guys. But I think all the masculine guys either joined the military or got blue collar jobs after high school, leaving all the feminine guys to go to college. At first I thought a lot of these guys were gay, but then I just realized they were really feminine …
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/15 02:52 PM
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I think the style in America in general (for both genders) is just a lot more casual. Since most people just wear sweats, jeans or yoga pants and a t-shirt, dressing up makes you stand out - and makes it look like you're trying too hard. Most people only dress up if they are going out to a fancy dinner, and sometimes fancy for church (many people even dress casual for church now). It's not out of the ordinary for someone to wear their gym pants to church these days. (Whereas 40 years ago someone…
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/15 02:46 PM
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I've noticed this post is a lot about American Women, but I'd like to hear more about your perspective on American men. (I'm guessing you're European or Latin American?)
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/15 02:41 PM
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http://www.vagabondish.com/female-foreign-japan/ Basically this woman talks about how she is invisible in Japan.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/15 03:08 AM
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Congrats man. Glad you're happy.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 06:16 AM
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Definitely. I feel like all this gamer hate feminists claim to receive is also targeted at guys too. Guys just don't complain about it. Playing online games, I get cussed at and harassed no matter what people think my gender is. That's just how online gaming is. (I don't do the headset thing, and sometimes I play a female avatar and other times I play a male one, so people don't always know my gender.)
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 05:52 AM
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Glad you're enjoying life in the USA.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 05:50 AM
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*Slightly balding man accidentally makes eye contract with a woman. Lady:"Officer! Officer! That creepy guy over there eye raped me! He looked at me for a total of 3 seconds." Officer: No man has the right to make you feel socially awkward, mam. This isn't some kind of rape culture. Don't worry mam, we'll have him arrested, slice out his eyeballs, and castrate him immediately. Carts man off screaming 5 minutes later, a tall, dark and handsome stranger walks up to the woman and grabs her ass. Wom…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 08:17 PM
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Yup. Feminism is a world where fat, squishy, annoying women past their prime get attention from hot male studs, while 80% of the other men are killed off - because giving women attention, while not being alpha becomes a crime comparable to rape by the definitions of the new Feminist Government.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 08:05 PM
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Very good points. In the 1960's, when second wave feminism began, it was a part of the counter culture. Now Feminism is THE culture. Counter culture is actually speaking out against feminism. Counter culture is very powerful, because it works on the basis of legitimate grievances.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 07:59 PM
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No sexism basically means women getting treated like dudes. And I don't think most women want to be treated like dudes. There was a 32 year old white woman living in Japan who was actually complaining about this very thing. No guy ever hit on her or went out of his way to help her, even construction workers didn't holler at her or look at her twice, she received zero benefits of beneficial sexism, because as a slightly overweight foreigner past her prime, the guys just weren't interested. Funny …
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 07:46 PM
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Women are safer from random acts of brutal violence, but they are more vulnerable to rape. I'm not saying that we live in a "rape culture." I don't think we do. I think Afghanistan is a "rape culture," not the U.S. But with that said, women should still be aware of their surroundings, walking around like nothing bad will happen is naive.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 05:06 PM
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To me being afraid that someone might rape you is a little like being afraid of being hit by lightning. Yeah, it might happen, but the fact that we walk around scared of it all the time is unreasonable given it's likelihood. I don't think that's true...There have been 2 different where people have attempted to rape me and I guess I just got lucky and got out of the situation. Men are more likely to be a victim of violence. But women are more likely to be a victim of rape. I think we can address …
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 05:03 PM
3

I agree, it seems unlikely, but I am an idealist. I think humanity has achieved positive things. We've ended human sacrifice, cannibalism, slavery, religious and racial tolerance, and now people are beginning to talk about practicing more compassion to animals and the environment. (Not everywhere, but in many places). A lot of bad has happened in the 20th century, but we've also achieved a lot of good. I think as long as you are willing to try, you can achieve a lot of good. I saw some Nordic qu…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 04:59 PM
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I agree that we probably shouldn't interfere with the problems of people in other countries - because then we verge on repeating the Christian Imperialism of the 19th century, where it was the "white man's burden" to interfere and change people's cultures. However, I disagree with the notion that you shouldn't have compassion for people you aren't directly related to. I think you should try to practice compassion for all people and things, because if everyone thought this way - the world would b…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 04:14 PM
0

Yup. That's true. Only worked at one place where there was no drama, and that's because in a staff of like 20 people, there were only 3 women - and one of them didn't speak English. LOL. Then I worked at a place where there was constant drama. Everyone was female. They hired a guy once and the guy made the mistake of talking to one of the women while they were on the same shift. She complained to the boss that said guy was hitting on her, and he got fired after working there for 3 days. The craz…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 04:09 PM
3

You got lucky. You found out about her SJW before it was too late.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 04:04 PM
3

I imagine in a society where everyone becomes some angrogynous, sexually ambivalent creature, we'll all be like the contestants in Rue Paul's Drag Race.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 03:55 PM
5

Yup. I was the only woman in my computer science class because my male teacher begged me not to leave. In all my experience in STEM classes, the male teachers basically rolled out the fucking red carpet for the women. Having to deal with hard subject matter or guys who ignore you isn't sexual oppression - it's just the nature of the field. I think what Feminists don't understand about STEM is that it isn't a field like Liberal Arts where you can fake competency. If a company hires a woman who su…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 03:52 PM
5

Yup. I think it's a lot of microaggresions. Not being invited to play golf with the guys isn't some kind of moral outrage - it's just a social situation. I think a lot of the women who complain about these things have weak character too. They want some kind of blanket social movement to take care of the microaggressions that they could simply solve for themselves if they had skin a fraction thicker than tissue paper. Problem: Guys give you crap for sucking at a video game Solution: Get better at…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 03:45 PM
1

Well, I guess that's a good point.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 03:39 PM
5

Men and women were never meant to be equal. So therefore men and women are unequal. Now the real debate is not whether inequality exists - because the truth is that inequality is everywhere, and is a product of nature. The debate is about whether inequality is a bad thing or not. The modern social imperative to make all things equal all the time is unnatural. It's like steam rolling the diverse topography of the Earth and turning the world into a barren wasteland (so everything can be the same).…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 03:36 PM
3

The comment "my woman cooks for me" is such a status marker among guys. Ditto! It's sad how far standards have fallen, but even a woman who makes her man burned black husks of meat, is still actually better than 80% of women today because she at least tried.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 03:27 PM
2

I actually have a different opinion than what is stated here. This is the FOURTH date people! Talking about making the relationship exclusive is a little premature at this point. I would just have fun and see where things go. Maybe talk more about the direction of the relationship after a month of dating.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 03:26 PM
2

SEX: if you are stressed out about the whole sex thing, one option is that you could give him a blow job without going to intercourse. That way you capture his sexual interest, but leave him wanting more. COOKING: Try not to stress out too much. Just don't overcook/undercook the meat. Get one of those meat thermometers . I remember I went on a date where a guy actually cooked for me and burnt the hell out of the meal - lol! But I was flattered that he made the effort. Men don't get women offerin…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 03:23 PM
9

I know a large amount of people from India and other South Asian countries because of my past career field. One of the things they remarked on was how incredibly safe America was for women. Like they would point out a girl walking around in short shorts and be like, "it's great that women can walk around like that in your country. In my country she would most likely be raped." - and even with the short shorts aside, she would very possibly be raped for simply going outside alone. And the real ki…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 03:17 PM
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It's misused fairly often as a scapegoat for personal shortcomings I agree. Imagine there's some woman out there who guys don't want to be around because she's obnoxious, or ugly, or just plain boring. Maybe they don't want to let her into their World of Warcraft Guild because she sucks at the game. Instead of practicing any kind if introspection, she decides "The system is oppressing me!" Social justice is no longer about justice. It's about everyone wanting to feel special.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 03:12 PM
5

I've always said I never realized I was oppressed until feminism told me I was and I stand by that. I agree.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 03:09 PM
5

Yup. Some nerdy guy not letting you in his World of Warcraft Guild is not oppression.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 03:08 PM
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I think there are inequalities that both men and women face now. I think Scott Adams (the creator of Dilbert comics) said it best. The old sexism was a comprehensive system of oppression. The new "sexism" is more like a few pockets of awkwardness that exist in society that may make a woman feel uncomfortable - but is nothing glaringly obvious. I'd say the only real form of inequality I can think of that women face is that they are less safe alone. Like if I want to go for a walk at night, I alwa…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 03:05 PM
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I can name many a time when I recieved preferential treatment but not negative descrimination because my gender. That's been the case with me too. I have about 11 years of job experience now in over 10 different fields (I had to work many jobs at the same time to put myself through college). I have NEVER received bad treatment because of my gender. I talk openly about my income with colleagues and I never made less for simply being a woman. My pay was always based on my experience, ability and a…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 02:59 PM
2

I'm not really sure when it started, but now that you mention it, my boyfriend has been asking me less to make decisions for him. He's always been protective (I guess because I'm a small weak thing). But I feel like he has really stepped up in taking responsibility for things - much more than he used to. Power and responsibility go hand in hand, someone can't act responsible until you give them power. Women who treat their men like children complain that these men don't take initiative or do any…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 04:21 AM
2

Yeah, that's true. She definitely needs to lose the weight if she wants to improve her situation. Making herself either more desirable to her boyfriend (and secure his commitment) or desirable to other men who may be better at giving her what she wants. To be fair, she didn't ever ride the CC.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/15 10:17 PM
1

I'm using American standards here. I agree, everywhere else that wouldn't just be "some."
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/15 10:00 PM
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I don't think gender dynamics can be so static. My boyfriend is much more intuitive, creative and empathetic than I am. I have a much more ruthless pragmatism. I don't think it's bad to give people room to be a more complex individual (which was the goal of Feminism 1.0). But by the time we got to Feminism 3.0, it became a war on natural gender inclinations. Now women are encouraged to be masculine and men are encouraged to be feminine. To me, Masculine means - aggression, competition and exerti…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/15 03:58 AM
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I'd be careful. I think the best kind of dread game is one where you work on yourself, look good, get out and do exciting things. Naturally guys will start gravitating towards you and showing interest. Going out of your way to flirt with another guy, in front of your current guy would only work on a beta chump like you said. But demonstrating value is different. Simply working on yourself and showing that you're awesome, whether he's with you or not is a demonstration of your value. With that sa…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/15 03:48 AM
2

Well then. I guess I was making some big assumptions there. Yeah, I guess the pot is part of his laziness, but the laziness isn't a part of his pot.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/15 01:53 AM
1

Wait. Is he going on the trip alone with this chick, or are there going to be other people there? It does seem weird that he didn't invite you. Even if you're not part of this friend group and he knew you had work, it would at least be considerate to ask.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/15 09:41 PM
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Honestly I wouldn't mention it until he asks. If he asks, then be honest and succinct. Also, be clear that you understand that you made mistakes too. If you try to paint it as this situation where the guys were awful and you were perfect, he's going to think you are too arrogant.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/15 09:37 PM
1

This year was actually the first year in their relationship where she really started being honest and blunt with him about all this stuff (major mistake in my opinion, but what can you do?) According to her, she says that he also wants all the same things that she does, but doesn't think that he can be financially supportive of her goals, and thinks that he can't be the guy that she needs him to be. So...from what he's saying, sounds like there are major self esteem and motivation issues involve…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/15 09:27 PM
2

Eh...my sister and her hubbie got married after like 4 years. Sometimes you wanna know the person pretty well. I'd say it's more like 3 years is the expiration date. Lucky for me I don't give a damn about marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/15 08:55 PM
2

Is there a way to make a YouTube channel without someone doxxing you? I.E. make an anonymous account, don't have images of yourself, have a changing IP address?
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/15 07:39 PM
1

This is why I haven't come out and said much about the gamergate issue when I blog. I don't want to get in the middle of a doxxing war.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/15 07:38 PM
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Agreed. It's not like a man in a happy, loving supportive marriage just suddenly goes "My marriage is a sham!" for no reason, doesn't matter what he reads. OP is blaming TRP. The real problem is their marriage. TRP just gave him the glasses to see the truth.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/15 07:33 PM
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I think your giving people too much credit. No one thinks this shit out. The reason why many women hate male only spaces is because they want attention, and such a space denies them attention. End of story.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 07:18 PM
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Don't worry. Western society will collapse before your predictions come true and things will go full circle.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 07:13 PM
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Yup. She raised her son to be the kind of guy who marries a woman with three kids from a previous marriage/s, and this guy will be expected to raise the kids and deal with all her baggage, lest he be called a "shitlord."
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 09:25 PM
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Yup. My boyfriend is like this. Doesn't understand the biological clock or the wall at all. He's mentioned that he'd be okay with kids once he's 35, but by then I would be 36 (I'm a lil older). Umm...I don't think he understands how these things work.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/15 09:19 PM
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Looks like the fraternity is going to take legal action against Rolling Stone: http://www.msnbc.com/msnbc/uva-frat-says-it-will-sue-rolling-stone-magazine-columbia-report
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 07:37 PM
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It's sad that even the most elementary level of investigative journalism would have revealed this story to be a fraud, but instead Rolling Stone decides to trust the word of one woman so much that any form of real journalism in the matter is deemed unnecessary. I think the phi psi frat should sue Rolling Stone for all they can. Libel and defamation is a crime.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 02:26 PM
1

Psychology Today is a terrible magazine and has very little insight about actual psychology. I'd stay away from that magazine.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 01:33 AM
3

Ditto. My first kiss was terrible. I bit the guy by accident, he started bleeding a little, and to top it off - his tongue tasted like cold fish sticks. First sex is usually disappointing too.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 01:25 AM
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Some people say you shouldn't pursue too hard. I disagree with some of that. In today's modern culture, a woman asking a guy out isn't as unusual as it used to be. You can escalate things in a small way, tell him he looked good when working out, maybe ask him some questions about his work out and things that you should work on better. Then start asking him about himself. Most guys love it when the women come on to them. It's like being a person who needs a job, and an employer calls you out of n…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/15 04:28 AM
18

Yeah, you should have signed a 5 page contract with a waiver.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 05:30 AM
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Sounds like the kind of women who used to get bought drinks and food all the time in their prime. It hasn't quite registered to them that they are not in their prime anymore.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 05:21 AM
2

I actually used to have some feminist points of view. But then after seeing some of the articles on the manosphere (posted by a Feminst friend ironically) I changed my mind. People can change their minds all the time. If you present the situation like an argument, they will close their minds. But it you make it an open ended discussion, people may be more likely to question their assumptions. Not everyone will, but some will. After all, just remember that Feminist ideas are very new. So new that…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 04:59 AM
1

Stop asking so many questions. Just enjoy your time with him. If it works it works, if it doesn't...then it doesn't. When you ask guys stuff like this, it makes them feel like you're playing mind games. They don't like that. Ask about his day, figure out what conversation topics interest him by gauging his response to things, and don't overthink things.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/15 09:44 PM
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I learned this the hard way. I wasted my time with men that I would not consider long term partners just because I was insecure and didn't want to be alone. The best thing a RPW can do for herself is gain some confidence, good friends and good hobbies so she doesn't feel the need to commit to the first guy who just so happens to come along. With my current SO, I felt deep inside my bones the feeling of "he is the one." It wasn't a logical process, it was a deep knowing. I didn't even know what t…
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/15 09:42 PM
3

Get naked. The end.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/15 03:15 PM
2

Nice april fools joke.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/15 03:15 PM
3

This society is full of pussies, soft easily offended people who haven't had to deal with any real problems. So of course they make some big social campaign out of issues like "fat acceptance," or discussing a world without men. These are people who are so pampered that they are basically inventing causes because they don't have any real problems. If all the men in the world suddenly disappeared these women would be begging to have them back. Let's see...a majority of the people who build our sh…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 04:52 AM
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Sounds like you're smart for not getting married. But if the only role that women play in your life is for sex, that sounds kind of lonely to me. Hopefully you can meet a woman one day who at least provides good conversation.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/15 04:41 AM
1

Lucky, I'm in my late 20's and it still hasn't completely fallen off.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 04:32 AM
3

I agree with the 1st and the 4th one, but I think the rest are generalizations that get thrown around too easily.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/15 04:09 AM
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As one comedian said (I forget who) dating gets harder with age because you start lacking the stupid. If you realize why you hooked up with a person in your 20's and dealt with all the bullshit you did, you'll realize it was because you were stupid. After 30, certain things become a dealbreaker that weren't so in the past: you live more than 30 minutes away, her politics don't coincide with yours, she reminds you of an ex, etc. As you get older you get less stupid and your tolerance for bullshit…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 03:52 AM
2

I honestly don't agree with that mindset, that men can spin plates while women should be super chaste. Honestly, I think people should only have sex with people they have a very intimate relationship with, and the idea of spinning all those plates seems exhausting to me (but I'm a woman, so I got a bias). However, I think the difference in standards is reflected by biological realities. A man who can sleep with as many women as possible is more genetically successful than a man who only sleeps w…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/15 03:37 AM
1

I wouldn't like it. If the guy was cool I might stick around, but I'd definitely make him get screened for STIs.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/15 01:50 PM
1

Ah I see. I guess I assumed that you were ok with a high partner count for males since this is a post on TRP, but I guess my assumption was in error. What I cannot stand is feel-good PC'ness causing people to make dumb decisions and justifying risky behaviour. I agree!
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 09:18 PM
2

Very true. But by the logic you just stated, shouldn't men try to have a low partner count too, since they are just as vulnerable to STIs as women are?
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 09:40 PM
3

Truth. I had one of those relationships that "didn't matter" and it was a huge waste of time. Everything you do in this life matters.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 09:48 PM
2

Virgins can cheat too.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 09:43 PM
2

Wow, my count is a 3. Looks like I barely made the cut. I feel like age is important in this scenario as well. 3 partners at 15 is a much different thing than 3 partners at 35.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 09:38 PM
1

I think this is why the women on the bottom of most social hierarchies engage in slutty behavior while the men on the top of the social hierarchy are the ones being slutty. A quality woman is able to keep a somewhat quality man to herself. The women who slut around can't get a guy to stick around.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 04:39 PM
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I think she also wanted him to get angry because anger is a sign of passion. Sometimes people get the most jealous or angry at the people they love because of all the passion they feel. But this marriage is basically a deflated balloon. There is no passion, no feeling left. This guy has emotionally detached himself and is ready to move on, that is why she is angry. To flip the genders here, we should imagine that a man lied to a woman and told her he had millions in the bank before marriage. The…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 04:23 PM
3

This is so true. I have a pretty, skinny blonde friend who thinks that she's ugly. But that's because she's only focused on what the top 20% of dudes think about her. If she even noticed the other 80%, she would see that even perfectly average guys are willing to date total fatties or total bitches. Why? Because even the average (or even above average!) guy is desperate these days.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/15 07:27 PM
1

Do this at your own risk. There is a reddit called amiugly. If you really want to know whether your face is objectively ugly or not, you may want to check it out. They will also honestly tell you what you can do to fix your appearance. You can also upload an image of your face on igmur and send me the link if you want an honest opinion on how you look and what you could do to look better. I know several people who genuinely think that they are ugly, when the reality of the matter is that this is…
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/15 07:22 PM
6

I think to a certain extent anyone with kids has to understand that the house will never be clean. It doesn't mean you are lazy, but that's just what happens when kids come into the picture. Maybe if you can prioritize which chores are the most important, rather than doing everything, things might get better. Also, are your kids old enough to help out? Do you mind giving a ball park for their ages. Parents often drastically underestimate what their kids are capable of. In my opinion, any kid who…
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/15 06:05 PM
0

What you miss is that this article says this was the case when agriculture first started. My guess is that there were a small number of elite societies/farmers, and everyone else was still a hunter/gatherer. These elite farmers with a majority of the food slept with a majority of the women, either by winning them as slaves in conquest by killing their enemies, or by simply being the ones with food when everyone else was starving. However, the article makes the point that once things "equalized,"…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 05:46 PM
1

Def more than half, I was being a bit facecious.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/15 03:42 AM
0

I don't think there is anything wrong with having bi-racial kids, and I actually know a few guys who grew up in the hood who are pretty decent. Problem isn't black ppl, but black culture. Black women were sold that whole "you don't need a man," junk. So they just fuck some alpha hoping that being pregnant with his kid will be enough to keep him around, usually isn't, and then all the decent beta black dudes get ignored or used as orbiters.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 01:13 AM
1

No worries. Yeah, I would feel bad about taking someone's seat unless I knew I was going to be a pro at the subject. I was just mediocre, so I stopped after high school.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 05:08 AM
1

As a 27 year old, I'm pretty interested in this topic.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/15 05:00 AM
2

Sounds accurate. These kinds of societies degenerate into ghettos.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 04:50 AM
1

It was a high school class that was open to anyone who wanted to join, no one was working day and night to get in. The work was going to the counselor for 5 minutes and saying, "sign me up."
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 04:47 AM
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Men these days really aren't being taught to lead. Most men don't propose to their girlfriends anymore until they (the beta ones) let their girlfriend nag them into doing so. So many men these days just drift along in life like a hollow log in a river, doing what their parents and women want them to do. So many women are surprised that men these days are living with parents in their 30's, not pursuing any real career path or purpose. Or dating a woman for several years, showing no intention of s…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 04:37 PM
2

Feminism was once about something real, but now it's just a giant shit test for entitled women. Most of the radical feminists I know love getting fucked by hyper masculine males. These women are addicted to alpha males, but want to blame the evil patriarchy as an excuse for their own innate desires.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 04:26 PM
6

Go to the gym with him.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/15 04:19 PM
2

Talk about your sexual feelings with him. If you don't, the relationship will fail. Also tell him you would like it if he worked out, and perhaps even offer to go to the gym with him.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/15 04:19 PM
1

I guess what's good for guys seeking sex, isn't necessarily what's good for me. I understand why what I said was confusing. I guess maybe what I'm trying to say is that it is good that there is a such thing as TRP, especially for these guys who get overlooked and don't know why. I feel like TRP has also helped me, as a woman, understand why this kind of stuff happens. Without understanding TRP perspective, I'd probably be really confused about why things were the way they were in my college year…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/15 04:15 PM
2

It's not beneficial for me. I'm just glad though when it helps guys having a hard time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 04:44 AM
1

Agree with this. I actually prefer less promiscuous guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 04:37 AM
2

Sports is also a good idea so he can have a male role model. Coaches make some of the best role models.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/15 03:48 AM
2

My thoughts on what happened, the three months of you being angry at him killed the flames of romance. He found this other woman. She started to become his backup plan when things with you became less certain. You blew up at him again, pushing him further into here arms. The reason why he hasn't dumped you completely yet is that he's unsure if things will work out with new girl or not. So he's basically sampling what she has to offer while you float around in the background as a backup plan. If …
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/15 03:44 AM
2

"Anti-Feminism" is a label created in response to what is perceived as mainstream feminism. But even the anti-feminist label is a very big umbrella, and most people have to define their beliefs as an anti-feminist, because that umbrella is so big. There are anti-feminists who support a woman's right to vote, get a job, own property, and all the other civil rights - but simply disagree with the third wave entitlement feminism of our time. Then there are more conservative anti-feminists who don't …
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/15 06:28 PM
8

It's men like this who start going to the bar, or hanging out with their buddies after work, in stead of going home.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/15 05:49 PM
6

I've learned the hard way not to bring up any heavy topics or criticisms right when he gets home from work. I usually cook dinner and we have a light conversation about something simple. Then we watch tv or play a game. And maybe after like 2 hours if I have something important I need to say, I tell him then.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/15 05:48 PM
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Feminism is a word that doesn't mean anything anymore. It might as well be "flubergabblegoop", because it can mean whatever people want it to mean. Traditional, right wing religious women use this word just as much to defend their ideals of what is good for women, as socialists, capitalists, anarchists and so on. At a minimum that word is supposed to be about women's rights - but a woman's right to what? That part is very vague. Initially it was just a woman's right to vote and have civil rights…
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/15 05:44 PM
1

I was in the reverse of this situation. At 20 my boyfriend of 1 year asked if I could see myself married to him. My honest answer was no. Ends up I wasn't that in love with him and was with him more out of convenience than love. Relationship ended 2 years later. If he doesn't see a future with you in it, his reasons for being in the relationship are probably dubious. At 23 I started dating the love of my life and I knew that I couldn't imagine a future without him.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/15 05:30 PM
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Ah, good point. However, in reading that book "A Hero of Our Time," the character Pechorin had a lot of very RP and Alpha traits if memory serves me right.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 10:40 PM
1

Do you have a chart of suicide rates I could look at? I'm just curious. I think the last chart I looked at had the middle east at the lowest suicide rates, and Russia and India among the highest. Of course, this isn't always accurate because many things can go under reported depending on the region's culture and values.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 10:38 PM
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I agree with this. Feminism is dangerous because it's not just some ideology that some people somewhere like to talk about in a cafe. It's a way of life that the Feminists are trying to enforce on every sector of society. That is why the response of gamergate was so visceral, because the world of video games is one of the few spaces in society where men feel free, and they want to protect that freedom. Gamergate isn't anti-woman, it's anti-feminist.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/15 10:34 PM
2

I find that most of the women in here are very intelligent and strong in spirit. So the feminists are definitely wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/15 10:28 PM
2

27, female, white, spiritual, US. I began to define myself as a Feminist when I realized the Feminism wasn't about men's rights. I realized that it's about maximizing the benefits to women, while not considering male needs. I think this is a destructive ideology, because men are half the population. The ideal is to create a society that works for both genders. I'm also not a Feminist because I do not believe in equality. Equality is not seen anywhere in the natural world and has never truly exis…
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/15 10:26 PM
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Agreed. I think our numbers are low because more people on reddit are male, and because in the world of dating - men are screwed over waaaay more than women. As someone else said on TRP, if we lived in a halfway decent society, TRP wouldn't even exist.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/15 10:22 PM
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People say that to me too. The trick is that I actually listen to my boyfriend half of the time. Considering a person's feelings who you are dating works wonders.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/15 10:21 PM
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I don't think talking about the wall is bad for women. It's actually very good for women. Knowing reality helps you ...well...adapt to reality. For all these guys who claim that older ladies can be hot too, I know they are full of shit. Because if they were allowed the choice between a 20 something year old and a 30 something year old, they would go for the former. Understanding the wall doesn't mean women should try to spend forever living in their youth, and then be bitter and sad once they lo…
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/15 10:16 PM
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I agree with your points about Sweden and suicide. However, to play devil's advocate, I could also say that the suicide rates in India (a very patriarchal society) are also very high. But of course a good part of that is poverty and social pressure.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 10:08 PM
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I think balance is the best approach in any situation. Extremes in any direction create their own issues. Honestly, the reason I like reading TRP is not because I agree with all of it, but it is the only counter balance I see to the wide and pervasive reach of Feminism in our culture.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 08:47 PM
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I didn't mean to say that my anecdote represented every situation. I don't believe that at all. But I was just wondering if TRP wisdom applied to this situation or not. There is definitely a strong history of depression in my family - so mental illness definitely is a factor. And I agree with what many people have said here. The importance of men having male friends they can connect with and share their feelings with. There are certain things I can tell my girlfriends that I could never tell my …
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 08:44 PM
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Unfortunately I am no expert in apps. I merely know this from observing which apps are popular and which are not. Most of the popular apps are free things that have secret built in fees.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 08:37 PM
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You can't revert to extremes. I guess somethings are better to talk to your LTR about and others are better to talk to your bros about. I think the point is that if your girlfriend is the only person you talk with about your emotions, that's really not a suitable solution.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 08:35 PM
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I think this explains a lot of the problems between men and women. They speak a different language. Women comfort and support one another with compliments they don't mean. Men rib each other with insults they don't mean. Since my boyfriend is actually a masculine male, many of our problems arise when he says something blunt or insulting to me - the kind of thing his friends would accept or laugh at, but sometimes cuts deep for me and hurts my feelings. So this used to cause a lot of fights betwe…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 08:31 PM
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I actually would like it if my boyfriend shared more of his emotional problems with his male friends. But I think they would look at him like a giraffe with five heads. They never talk about their emotions or personal lives. It's all hobbies and funny anecdotes. What's funny is that the idea of the hardbroiled, stoic male is newer than we think. If you read 19th century literature, you will find men who had a complex ocean of emotions, and they shared these emotions with intimate male friends. T…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 08:24 PM
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I have lost three men in my family to suicide, but I don't know if TRP factors are the reason why. My uncle who killed himself had a very attractive girlfriend who looked as young as her daughter. He was well loved by his girlfriend and his family. But I think he had done some bad things in his life that he wasn't proud of. I think he also felt like there was no one he could reach out to and share his feelings with. So as soon as his son left for college, he killed himself. I think the reason wh…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 08:21 PM
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What you could do is make it free for a certain amount of articles, and then start charging if the user wants to read over the limit. "Freemium" apps are what is making money these days. When you put a price on the app, you eliminate like 90% of the people who would get it. But if you charge for small aspects of a mostly free app, they will actually end up paying more over time.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 08:16 PM
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I agree with this. TRP is just one aspect of the manosphere.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 08:15 PM
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I think this is the same reason why Gays have been oppressed for so long. There wasn't any real logical or moral reason. It's just that heterosexuals are the majority, and their reaction to gay sex was an instinctual "Ewww that's gross!" So instinct was merged into religion, and religion was enshrined into law. The reason why gay men face a much harsher time with their sexuality than gay women, is that many straight men find the idea of girl on girl action to be much more appealing. So the same …
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 08:11 PM
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This. Lately it seems that a lot of people are loading the word "alpha" with all the traits that they see as admirable. But that's not the meaning of the word. Alpha is about dominance. Both nice guys and jerks can be alpha's, it's an amoral word. People need to stop loading their fantasies into the word. Even feminists have started doing this, where they refer to Alpha's as guys who have all the traits that are admirable...using this as a cover story to explain that....oh that Beta chump I dump…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 10:56 PM
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I disagree with what the other people said. Having a certain amount of Betas around makes you look better (as long as they aren't complete losers). An alpha is more likely to steal your girlfriend. I have a guy friend who is fairly good at dating, I'd call him a high level Beta, but he has an Alpha friend that constantly steals his girlfriends. On the contrary I have another male friend who hangs out with a bunch of Beta losers, when he invites his girlfriend over, he looks like the manliest man…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 10:51 PM
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I don't think it's bad for a guy to have female friends. In certain ways it can even be advantageous or educational. One of my guy friends (an ex) is now going out with a girl he met through me...he's actually met a lot of his girlfriend's through me lol. The key is just not to have a woman who is like your best friend (unless she's your girlfriend). It's better to have some women who are on the periphery of your orbit of friends. Having a platonic female best friend is a total cock block, becau…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 10:38 PM
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The single ones are automatically into IOI mode as soon as they start speaking to me. It becomes a chore to just fend off their advances (especially if you are at a work environment and you definitely don't want to just fool around with them). Eventually they get as you are unattainable and either give up, or start resenting you. This is pretty much what most women deal with in terms of the guys who are sexually interested in them. If the woman doesn't reciprocate interest, she is an "entitled b…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 10:27 PM
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I think you're on to something. There has been some criticism of the sexism in Hip Hop, but for the most part, it's not very widespread. I know several women who can listen to a song such as Rihanna and Eminem's song about tying a woman to the bed and lighting it on fire (along with several other song about smacking a hoe) without really much of a reaction. But then if some nerd is looking at a picture of a women with big boobs in a leather thong on his magic cards it's all, "ewww that's sexiiis…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 10:23 PM
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True dat. The other day I read some article by a psychologist who was a single mother raising her son. She said that she was alarmed by how violent his play time activities were, that he always wanted to kill the bad guy. So she was trying to think of ways to make him more sensitive and less violent. Poor boy.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 10:10 PM
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It's true. A lot of the sluttiest chicks at my school were actually some of the ugliest women. I know a woman who is fat, has bad acne, a bitchy personality and she's got a partner count over 30. All she had to do was open her legs to anyone who was desperate or lonely. And surprise, surprise. None of the guys who fucked her were very interested in dating her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/15 10:19 PM
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What do they dress like? What do they talk about? Are they only interested in drama or do they have any worth while interests. I only have like one female friend I still keep in contact with from college. Good friends are hard to find. I've noticed that girls who aren't white are a little less into that whole SJW thing. My asian and middle eastern friends tend to be more open minded about gender issues. Whereas my white friends are pretty single mindedly feminist. For this reason, I think if I w…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/15 08:11 PM
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As an American I'd love to hear more about what the dating culture and all that is like in Europe. I think it also varies country to country. I've heard that in America we're a bit more traditional than Europe, but the girls are uglier, fatter and more manly. I don't know if any of that is true. I guess it also depends highly on what part of America you are in, and what part of Europe you are in.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/15 08:10 PM
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I remember in high school I went to a movie with this guy I just met. In the middle of the movie he asked me if I wanted to go find a closet to have sex in. I was mortified and never went on another date with him again. When he asked me why I wouldn't go on another date with him (over IM) I was honest, I said, "If you think I'm going to have sex with you on the first date, obviously you don't think very highly of me." He replied that he just really needed to have some sex before he went off to c…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/15 08:07 PM
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I'm not saying you have to disclose how much money you have. But if you're starting up your own business that's a pretty big part of your life, seems like you would share that with your SO. Imagine if she was making a lot of money with a book she sold, but didn't even tell you about the book or its success. Wouldn't you feel a bit left out? I understand feeling like you don't want to attract a gold digger (by being a guy who advertises his wealth), and that you want a woman who loves you for you…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 08:01 PM
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And then when the woman finds out that none of what you said is true....how does that play out? Once again, not a bad strategy for quick pick ups, but I don't see how this results in a relationship of several years.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 07:11 PM
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I think I was that subscriber and I realize that I was wrong. There is no hard and fast rule. Just at least feel like you know the person before you fuck. I.e. do you know his full name, do you know at least one of his friends, do you know what his hobbies are. Also, don't fuck on the first date.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/15 07:04 PM
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You set up your expectations with your actions. If you fuck him on the first date, he's going to think you're cheap. I wrote the "A Plate is the equivalent of a Female Beta Orbiter" btw and realize that I was wrong with my advice, because it really depends on the circumstances and no truely alpha guy these days would wait that long. I guess instead you should just AT LEAST not fuck the first two dates and get to know him first as a person before you fuck. Do you know his first name? Do you know …
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/15 07:00 PM
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Sometimes the worst thing for a depressed and miserable person is to be around an unrelentingly cheerful person. They say misery loves company for a reason. People want to be around other people who share their pain, or know what they are going through. I was reading a Hindu proverb the other day about a woman who knew that she was going to marry a blind man, so she made herself blind to know what he was going through. Obviously I wouldn't really suggest doing that. But there is a moral there. T…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/15 06:52 PM
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If being an alpha fux is your main goal, than this kind of game is fine. I'm just talking about the people who are looking for a LTR.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 06:43 PM
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Seems like attractive women complain about this the most. In fact, when I went to the thread "amiugly," where people submit pictures of themselves to see if they are ugly, like 90% of the posters were smokin hot, some hot dudes, but mostly hot chicks. The reality is that women who are actually ugly don't complain about this kind of stuff because they feel embarrassed by their looks, and their lack of attention. Attractive women complain to get attention and validation. So I think when people com…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 06:35 PM
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It depends on what the people in question are looking for. I think that's why people have the whole alpha fux, beta bux discussion. Women are more attracted to alpha fux, but they end up settling with a beta bux in their late 20's/30's because they eventually want that whole dream of kids and the house in the suburbs and all that other stuff. So the woman in OP's story, being late 20's, was probably looking for more of a provider (beta bux). If OP doesn't want to be beta bux, that's fine. But to…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 06:27 PM
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Honestly I think people should talk about this kind of stuff up front so they can end up with someone who meets their expectations, better to find out about it earlier than later.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 06:20 PM
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I see people didn't like my comment, but I'm really just reiterating RP logic here. Men like young, attractive women and women like men who are natural leaders and providers. We can do a lot of hand-wringing or complaining about this fact, or we can swallow the pill and accept the unpleasant reality. That's what much of the earlier RP was about. Woman leaves a guy for not being what most women want (a good provider). Isn't this like saying a zebra has stripes and grass is green? There was a thre…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 04:13 PM
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Christianity used to be patriarchal, but now it's become mostly a Beta religion. In most churches a vast majority of the congregants are female, and women even run most of the day to day church stuff, even if the priest is male - and very commonly a gay male. So basically a lot of Christian churches are run by women and gay dudes. The only masculine churches are extremely right wing and hateful, so they drive people away. The message in a lot of these Christian churches is treat your wife like a…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 03:52 PM
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Sounds like it's time to start examining the issues in your marriage. Is there anything else wrong. If your wife was willing to give you BJ's once, but has now stopped, there is probably something wrong. Are you also getting her off during sex?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 03:47 PM
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Reminds me of a joke I heard once. A husband goes into his bedroom to see his wife packing her suitcase. He asks her where she's going. She says, "I'm tired of having sex with you for free. Did you know that women in Nevada get paid 1,000 dollars a night to do what I do for you for free?" Then the husband starts packing his bags too. Wife asks where he's going. He replies, "I'm coming too. I wanna see if you can actually manage to live on only $2,000 a year."
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 03:28 PM
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Um...Why didn't you just tell her how much you were making? I mean sure, yeah, you could say she was being shallow. But I guess in her late 20's she was looking for someone who would be a provider. Having no idea that you were doing this baking business and putting money aside, she decided to look for a provider elsewhere. In the same way that women want providers, men want young and attractive women. What if you were dating a woman who was somewhat overweight and said she was 30 years old. But …
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 03:10 PM
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Wisdom from the actual vikings (Icelandic text) "The speech of a maiden should no man trust nor the words which a woman says; for their hearts were shaped on a whirling wheel and falsehood fixed in their breasts." Looks like they understood the hamster wheel back in the day.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 04:58 AM
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While the husband may be okay with his wife having a male best friend, his reaction speaks volumes. I agree with this. The fact that he wasn't flipping out at his mom or vehemently defending his wife shows that he does feel like something is wrong. Also, in the text the woman says "We were playing cards (sort of)." Off the bat that seems kind of fishy. Also there is the fact that MIL doesn't like her and never has liked her. Many times when a parent doesn't like a partner, their not always wrong…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 04:38 AM
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Agreed. What he said sounds like bullshit. It certainly is a lot nicer than "Sorry babe, but I wanna sleep around with other women, but would like to keep you around as a back up plan." If he's really as Alpha as you say, then there are probably a lot of young, attractive women throwing themselves in his general direction. Since he's young, he's probably more interested in playing the field and having fun then committing to a serious relationship. He probably does value your friendship, and mayb…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/15 07:05 PM
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I hope I can get my boyfriend to realize this eventually. He relies too much on other people to motivate him in the right direction. He needs to be the captain of his own life.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 07:00 PM
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Also my boyfriend just blamed me the other day for him not working out, so I can kind of sympathize a little with your situation. I work out at least once or twice a week and he doesn't go at all. But he finds reasons to blame me for this...which is really annoying.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 06:43 PM
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Sticking around in a marriage with someone who makes you miserable is not good for your child. That's what my parents did and my childhood was miserable. They were always fighting, I grew up never seeing my parents be intimate with each other and didn't really understand intimacy. My parents were both miserable and too drained to do anything with me because they hated their marriage. It was only when my parents divorced when I was 14 that things got better. In some ways they got worse before the…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 06:41 PM
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He thinks if a short skinny guy takes time to work hard and learn how to fight, then the short skinny guy can beat the big guy. He thinks the same is true for women.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/15 06:31 PM
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I feel like this article applies to my situation. http://www.radixjournal.com/journal/2014/7/29/beauties-in-beast-mode Don't agree with everything this guy says, just this particular article. These days, since guys have less of a masculine space to call their own, they're turning their girlfriends into little bros - to the point where they are bragging about their girlfriend's abs and how much they can bench press. Do guys really find girls like this attractive?
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/15 06:14 PM
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I mean, I'm also a foot shorter than he is and about 40 pounds lighter. But I guess he's trying to encourage me to do my best - just needs to understand that I'm not going to turn into a 6 foot tall 140 pound dude any time soon.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/15 06:11 PM
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Agreed. She did that kid a favor.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 05:30 PM
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Talking about rape and how to avoid rape is important. But shaming all males is idiotic and only serves to make people not take the situation seriously. God forbid college campuses said things to both men and women like: avoid getting black out drunk, go to a party with a trusted friend, don't go home with strangers. But of course there would be some lawsuit against said professor for spreading "sexist propoganda" and blaming the victim.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 05:27 PM
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And this is the kind of pseudo science crap that gets people angry at TRP. The weight of the brain proves nothing. It's the amount of synaptic connections that are key.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 05:22 PM
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Sign me up for collecting fruits. Wud love to get away from the desk.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/15 05:38 AM
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My friend got married at 22. Everyone else (including me, ill admit it) talked about how she was too young. Yet knowing what I know now, she married at the perfect age and time. She picked a good alpha provider. She married as soon as she got out of college to a guy she met in college - so much harder to meet ppl after college. After getting tge wedding, honeymoon, job situation, house situation out of the way just now at 27 she has some room to start thinking about kids. Meanwhile my other frie…
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/15 05:28 AM
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I guess its like if u had a female friend who bought u stuff all the time and constantly told u how great u were. It wud seem weird and desperate. U want to love someone for their personality, not the shiny things they give u.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/15 05:39 AM
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I thinks its because ppl have a warped idea of what it means to be "nice." A nice person isn't necessarily a good person. A "nice" person by the very definition of the word is a submissive person. They are easy to be around, they say yes to everything, they never question anything, they let ppl walk all over them. Not very attractive. However there are good ppl who can lead, start charities, bring attention to and fight injustice. Now that is attractive.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/15 05:22 AM
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I don't think the two are necessarily polar opposites. TRP is a sexual strategy for guys living in a Feminist society. With no feminism, TRP wouldn't exist.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/15 05:12 AM
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Guys who go along with the whole "fat women are beautiful too" bs are just as bad as women who go with the whole "girls ultimately want a nice guy who treats them like a queen!" At the same time, these girls who are saying such things have only dated bad boys and just can't seem to find a nice guy...hrmmm....
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/15 05:34 AM
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These days people think "curvy" can mean 300lbs. No and just no. Curvy is like being maybe 150lb, when 130lb is your BMI average. Not fucking 300lbs.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/15 05:32 AM
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Do not put on to us(straight Guys), what Fashion industry run by women and feminize gays, tell you what we want. Definitely. Men talk about actresses and pop stars, not models. Why? Because models aren't attractive to straight men. Many models, being so tall, lacking any curves and having hard faces with bold features look almost like men themselves.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/15 05:30 AM
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Obesity is just one way a person's"lack of control" can manifest. They cannot control their caloric intake to match their caloric use. Definitely. Losing weight is all about counting the calories. In fact, someone recently proved that it doesn't matter what you eat, all that matters is the calories. This guy basically ate nothing but crappy convenience store food for a month and still lost weight because he was counting calories. One time I made it a goal to lose 5 lbs. I calculated how many cal…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/15 05:27 AM
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The non fat people that support it are just looking for social justice points. so much of our world has become about making every person that has any hardship in their life feel like it inst their fault and that they are super special for being a failure at whatever facet of life is related to the SJW campaign. Definitely. It's all about the SJW points. Many of the people I know who say things like "black women are so hot," have dated and slept with only white people. Sure, there are black women…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/15 05:24 AM
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I don't think it's so much that they prefer skinny women, I think it's that they prefer healthy women. Today, since we live in a society where most of the people are fat and dying of heart disease, skinny by definition is healthy in comparison. Yet throughout most of history when people were starving, and most people were skin and bone, women who were a little on the plump side were prefered. (historically plump women would still be skinny by modern day standards.) For instance, if you took a "s…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/15 05:19 AM
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Yeah, the true hypocrisy of the FA movement is that none of the fat people I know are attracted to fat people themselves. It's really just about trying to change what is considered attractive so they have to do less work. But you can't change human biology. An hour glass is sexy, a stick is okay, being a human circle is disgusting. You can't change human biology with a social movement.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/15 08:15 PM
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I actually don't think models are conventionally attractive, but maybe that's just my opinion. Before the 1960's, models were basically what was considered a good looking woman. Someone who was curvy and sexy. But after the "Twiggy" ideal of the 1960's, a model became more of a coat hanger for the clothing, rather than someone who was just supposed to be good looking on their own. So the typical runway model is supposed to be tall, skinny and pale because this is what brings out the clothing mos…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/15 08:11 PM
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Could be ED
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/15 03:15 AM
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Here's my advice for everyone. Don't get married...ever.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/15 02:57 AM
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It's okay! You gotta learn somewhere. It's good that you know now, right? Some guys never learn.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/15 05:11 PM
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Flattery can be gross when over done. I think the proper art of flattery is to compliment a girl on something that she doesn't get complimented on very often, or find something that she finds important that others may not have noticed. For example, telling a hot chick that she is interesting to talk to goes a long way. Telling her how hot she is won't get you anywhere, because she's heard that a million times. However, if you tell an ugly chick that's she's pretty, that probably will win you som…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/15 05:10 PM
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That's true. I've never felt threatened around him. Maybe being a small guy has its advantages.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/15 03:49 AM
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Exactly.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/15 03:49 AM
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Thanks! Yeah, I guess my problem with TRP is that it might cause guys to over think things. Like, what do I say if she says this? Having a contingency plan for every minute social interaction seems overwhelming and almost fake. Instead of having a step by step strategy I think it's probably better to just strut into a situation with an "I don't give a fuck" attitude. I guess this can be done by pretending a hot chick is just another dude, or that you could really care less if you get with a cert…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/15 06:32 PM
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Nope. I'm a chick. I just hang out with too many dudes. If I was a dude I would have posted this in TRP instead of RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/15 06:28 PM
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the biggest lie that we are told is that women are attracted to virtue Yup. This sounds like a carrot. It's used to get men to work hard, but men are beginning to wise up. Japan is a view of the future, since they are somewhat more of a hyper-capitalist society than we are. In a society where hardwork and virtue does not win affection, many men are giving up on working hard and trading in the life of the hardworking businessman for a more simple, carefree life revolved around their hobbies.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/15 06:26 PM
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Wow. Words of truth right here. You are basically describing my two biggest relationships in life. First guy was the one who was good at life, but bad with women. He was rigid, emotionally closed off, liked what he liked and wasn't really willing to compromise, obsessed with work, keeping a clean house, money. He was a great relationship partner in terms of the fact that he made me feel stable, he always had a job and some money saved up. Yet I feel like we didn't really have a "relationship." W…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/15 08:22 AM
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No one has mentioned this yet (as far as I can see), but what about the fact that you dodged her question about your age? I think that's something that turned her off. When you outright don't answer someone, they automatically know that something is fishy about the situation.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 08:07 AM
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Most disappointing sexual relationship was with a guy who made me do all the work. He was too lazy to even thrust more than like 10 times. It was pathetic really.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 07:56 AM
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Thank you! Yeah, it's so sad to see the entitlement of women who were beautiful their whole lives, and now are old. My mom is one such woman. She was drop dead gorgeous from teens-40's. Now in her 60's she still is in that mindset. She complains constantly about wanting a man and companionship, while auto rejecting almost every man who comes her way (which surprises me she's getting suitors at all, given her lacking looks and personality). She expects to get the best of the best without giving a…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/15 09:59 PM
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I'd say about half of my male friends are single, and these are males over 25. It's true, relationships these days are too much of a headache. With all the other stressors in life, something has to give. If relationships were more simple, I'm sure every guy would want to be in a relationship, but that's simply not the case.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/15 09:03 PM
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Is this a bad thing? There are too many people in the world anyways.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 09:00 PM
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Actually, I know a few unattractive women who have attained this level of stability while some of the hot women I know struggle. Unattractive women don't have the opportunity to ride the cc or swing branch to branch, so they take what they can get and try to be happy with it. As a result, it may take them a while, but when they do get someone, they really appreciate them. For many guys, being appreciated by an ugly woman who will stay by their side is sometimes more important than having a hot w…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/15 09:35 AM
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I'm just glad that I was an ugly duckling, so that I had time to develop a personality and interests before my looks kicked in. I was a late bloomer. I was ugly between 9-15, average at 16, and then became good looking between 17-25. Now that's starting to slide little by little each day, but I'm not that worried about it.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/15 09:32 AM
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I agree with most of this except for the stuff about kids. You don't need to have kids to have a meaningful life.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/15 09:29 AM
1

I agree. Honestly this post seems filled with trolls, and I'm even doubting the authenticity of the OP.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 09:21 AM
13

Hopefully a male birth control pill will put an end to that. It's better to have less people than a shitty, undisciplined generation of people. As a teacher one of the main problems was trying to teach kids that have no discipline at home. People can blame the schools and class sizes all they want, but Japan and Korea have much more kids in their classrooms with much better results.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 03:24 AM
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If it could ever become prominent in this society, I think it would be a good thing for men. A lot of "whoopsie" pregnancies happen when women are trying to anchor a quality male who would not commit to them under normal circumstances. Almost all the guys I know who are accidental fathers are definitely either alpha or way better looking than the mother. I also know a few situations where Beta guy friends knocked up a chick, and the chicks definitely aborted out of that situation. I know this on…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 09:14 PM
2

This is the best answer. Dating someone you don't really like is worse for that person than it is for you. I dated a guy for almost four years that I wasn't really in love with. It was more like he was a good friend and we just happened to live together. I was too much of a pussy to end the relationship because of our deep friendship, but once he realized that I didn't like him in the same way he liked me, he had the guts to end it. It really was the best thing for both of us that it ended.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 09:00 PM
5

I feel bad for people who get married, just because they want the whole "get married and have kids experience," rather than taking the time to be with someone they are truly crazy about. I know a guy who decided that he didn't want to be that 35 year old single guy at family get togethers, so within a year of dating this one chick he settled down with her and got married. The very next year they had a kid. He loves his kid and has constant pictures of her on facebook, but I see almost next to no…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 08:57 PM
1

Yeah, this parenting style is going to put her sons on the fast track to being great Beta Providers.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/14 03:27 PM
20

Yes, this is what the developer of Portal did. She created a game with a female protagonist and female antagonist (since the computer technically has a female voice). Even the idea of creating portals, instead of blowing things up, has feminine implications if you think about it in a Freudian way.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 02:56 PM
1

That can be fixed too: hair extensions.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/14 07:13 PM
1

As someone who used to have impossibly bad acne, even that can be brought under control for a moderate price. You just have to experiment with what skin products are right for your skin, the right diet, and perhaps even get an antibiotic from your doctor (which isn't that expensive, compared to other healthcare costs). If all else fails, makeup can work wonders.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/14 07:12 PM
1

One of the great things about being female is that we have much more control over our looks than the men do. Have an ugly complexion? There are hundreds of make up products for that. Have small squinty eyes? The right eyeshadow can make your eyes appear bigger and deeper. Have thin, pale lips? The right lip gloss can make them appear pouty and full. Have grey hairs? Dye that shit for like 7 bucks out of the bottle. Any average looking female can be "hot" or at least "cute" if she tries. The only…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/14 07:10 PM
1

lol, don't upset the hive mind.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/14 08:35 PM
2

I used to think that staying at home = feminine, while being the breadwinner was more manly. Yet now I'm realizing that much of this is an artificial construct. I don't love my boyfriend for his "earning potential," I'm not going to fall in love with an ATM, I love my boyfriend for his creativity, his spirit, his bold manliness and his passion. And when I think about it, most of the truly manly men in this day and age don't really fit into the current economic model. The blue collar construction…
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/14 03:23 PM
1

Very true. If shit were to hit the fan, many of these wealthy husbands without survival skills wouldn't be good for much.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/14 03:17 PM
0

Seriously.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/14 03:14 PM
9

I don't think every article is bad. Sometimes there is a good one. But aside from the occasional diamond in the rough, most of the posts reek of the whole "waaah being a female sucks, we're so oppressed waaaaah. I need validation." Being a female in a first world country is hard? A country with easily accessible birth control, abortion rights, a legal system that tends to defer to the female's testimony in cases of abuse and rape, a social system where men are the ones who do favors for us in th…
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/14 05:06 AM
5

They're probably just jealous. You know what they say, misery loves company. When I was a teenager I had a few slutty friends who tried to pull me down that road. They said things like, "you just gotta get sex out of your system and have sex with a bunch of ppl" or "why are you acting like such a catholic school girl, you're not even religious?" Now ten years later they tell me that they participated in such behavior because they had low self esteem, and wished they never went down that road. At…
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/14 10:47 PM
1

Yes, if she's being rude to you about this whole thing then that definitely is not fair. Sometimes anger and passion are just two sides of the same coin. If her feelings for you were more neutral, chances are that she'd have more ambivalent behavior in this case.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 10:37 PM
1

Exactly, she'll find a female roommate to replace you. It'll be okay.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 03:47 PM
1

To be fair, I wouldn't really want to sleep in the living room either. Perhaps she wants a more normal living situation. Also, chances are that she probably has feelings of attraction for you, and having you around (and knowing that you won't reciprocate the feelings) makes it very hard for her to move on with her life. Imagine if you were living with a hot chick that you also felt really attracted to as a person, but knew that she would never be with you, wouldn't you want to also get away from…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 03:45 PM
3

It gets really bad when there is a mostly female work environment with a minority of males. I was working with preschoolers before and a majority of the people in charge and teaching were female. The few men around got treated like crap. Like...how dare you be a man in OUR space! If the genders were reversed you'd see some big Feminist campaign about it on the internets or something.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/14 09:23 PM
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I agree with this. If every woman had sex with all of the boyfriends she had after just two weeks or a month of knowing him, than their partner counts would be a A LOT higher. As a female in my late 20's, my sex count is 3, but I've had way more than three boyfriends in my life.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/14 07:40 PM
1

Ah, okay.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/14 07:37 PM
3

I was in a few situations in my life where a guy tried to make me a plate, and it was very awkward. I met this one guy in college, who was super flirty, and we ended up making out at a party. Anyways, we started to hang out more, but the weird thing is that he never invited his friends over to hang out with us. He also still seemed to like this other girl more, and would blow me off for her. It didn't take long for me to realize I was just his back up plan, so I bailed on that shit.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/14 02:54 PM
1

That's a good point. The commitment happens when it happens. There is no exact date.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/14 02:52 PM
3

I like that. Don't put all your cards on the table at once. I think the same goes emotionally. Don't tell a man your life story all at once, keeping part of yourself somewhat mysterious makes you more interesting.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/14 02:51 PM
7

It's more that when a woman gives it out free and easily to anyone who wants it, that makes her less desirable in the eyes of a quality man.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/14 02:48 PM
2

But you can certainly have a rule: don't sleep with a guy unless you've met a few of his friends. That's pretty good advice.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/14 02:45 PM
3

I would extend this to don't talk to your ex ever again. He will only get in the way of you moving on with your life.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/14 11:46 PM
3

I agree with some aspects of the video. Sure it did feel disingenuous to me to compress 10 hours into 2 minutes and make it look like the entire 10 hours were like this. I also agree that most of the "harassment" wasn't really harassment, it was just guys saying "have a nice day." And yes, there were a few creepers. I think the point of the video is somewhat relevant. As a woman, you are going to get more sexual attention than men, you are going to get more people who invade your space in public…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/14 11:42 PM
2

Sweden is already there. Part of it is just because the culture is very cold (like the weather, lol). A man can like a woman for months and not even show the slightest glimmer of interest. But the other reason is that their culture is so insanely feminist - much more than the U.S. So now it's basically up to the women to hit on the men, because the men aren't doing it anymore - from what I hear.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/14 11:34 PM
1

Wow, sounds like you got a keeper!
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/14 11:29 PM
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Alright, fair enough. You guys made your point. I changed what I wrote on my blog. I said even though I previously advocated 6 months, you should not have an arbitrary number. Instead you should take a couple of weeks or months until you feel like you know the guy as a person before you get to fucking. Because I guess when I think about it, that process of getting to know the person varies depending on the people involved and the circumstances.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/14 11:16 PM
2

Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/14 10:47 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/14 10:46 PM
3

What if blow jobs and hand jobs were on the table, but sexual intercourse was not? Also the 6 months can include the friendship - getting to know each other prior to dating phase, because that's technically a flirtation phase.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/14 10:46 PM
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I've admitted I'm not looking for anything serious at this point And that's exactly why my 6 month rule works. If you're ready to peace out after 3 months no sex, than this shows that you're not ready to have a serious relationship with the person in question. I guess I should have elaborated though. I'm saying the 6 months where there is romantic chemistry between the people involved. Even if you weren't technically dating at a certain point, if you were sending flirty text messages or whatever…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/14 10:45 PM
3

The Beta guy would go get the girl a pillow. The alpha guy would make fun of the girl and instigate an epic pillow fight.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 09:31 PM
2

Lol, yup. I'm kind of a sleepy person by default. But I certainly happen to get more sleepy during activities I don't like than the ones I do like.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 09:30 PM
2

Ah, I didn't realize this. But I'm still glad I didn't give them my SSN. Definitely don't want that personal information floating around.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 07:00 PM
3

Worked with a bunch of Indian dudes. They were obsessed with love and sex, but crazy repressed. The funny thing is that the only guy getting any action was the ugly, dorky chubby guy, and this is why. Most of the guys I worked with only hung out with other Indian guys, they wouldn't dare get outside of their comfort zone. Yet chubby guy was more adventurous. He'd go to bars, strip clubs, movies, just go places by himself and not care. Be friendly, laugh, talk to random people. He ended up making…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 04:27 PM
2

Bitchy women (that's like 99% of them) That's kind of a big assumption my friend. I'd say it's that the bitchy ones stand out more, and the rest don't get noticed. What bleeds it what reads.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 04:11 PM
5

Men give each other insults they don't really mean, women give each other compliments they don't really mean.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 04:09 PM
1

Women suck at cutting men's hair. Men suck at cutting women's hair. I hate having a guy cut my hair or wax my eyebrows.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 04:05 PM
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Honestly, I mention the boyfriend to establish boundaries. When I sense that a guy is interested in me, I bring it up. I just don't like giving guys the wrong idea.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 04:04 PM
2

That's when they hate/love you.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 04:03 PM
7

Something I love about my boyfriend, he calls me out on my shit. The other day we're playing a video game I'm not particularly fond of. Me: Hmm, I'm starting to feel tired, I might do something else. Him: Hmm...I'm noticing a pattern here, you're only tired when you're doing things you don't like.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 04:02 PM
2

As a female with male interests, I had to learn this the hard way. In middle school I had a circle of female friends, but to be honest, it really was a lot of drama, and most of these girls didn't share my interests. I like to play video games, I like playing music, I enjoy talking about politics and world events. I didn't like talking about who was dating who, random male celebrity, gag reflex please. So I began to drift away from this group of female friends, and acquired a group of guy friend…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 03:56 PM
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I think a harem of platonic female friends is a sign of a guy's unfuckability. It's like if P = platonic female friend. 1/P = your fuckability percentage. The only exception is if these female friends are friends with benefits, or ex girlfriends, than that is a little different. I used to take offense when guys didn't want to be my friend, upon hearing that I wasn't interested in sex. But after reading TRP, I understand. A platonic female friend is a big negative in the sense that you are still …
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 03:39 PM
10

As a woman, some of my Indian co-workers tried this shit on me. First, one of them asked me for my social security number so they could buy a phone. Who the hell needs a social security number to buy a phone? I knew this was bullshit right away and told them a big fat NO! Then they asked me if I would marry one of the guys who worked there for a green card. I actually thought about it for a little bit, but did some research and realized that doing such a thing is no simple task. Apparently you h…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 03:29 PM
2

Why buy a cow when milk is free?
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 01:39 PM
6

The point he made about Feminism needing to use a scalpel rather than a sledge hammer, right on the money man! Sometimes Feminism has valid points, sometimes it doesn't. But the problem is that it treats minor issues as if they are this big social emergency that everyone in the society must spend millions of dollars to solve. Such an over the top reaction to things like the right to walk around topless, or the right to walk around without getting complements, or the right to be a female geek (no…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 03:17 AM
3

Sluts don't need any quality. All they need is a vagina.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 02:59 AM
1

“It’s kind of like a spiral,” she said. “The girls adapt a little bit, because they stop expecting that they’re going to get a boyfriend — because if that’s all you’re trying to do, you’re going to be miserable. But at the same time, they want to, like, have contact with guys.” So they hook up and “try not to get attached.” Sounds like she's just rationalizing the fact that she can't get any guy to settle down with her in a quality relationship, so she's just going out there and fucking a bunch …
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 02:56 AM
1

Your comment on Islamic Slavery got me curious, so I started doing some internet research. Apparently there are rules in the Quran against the "emasculation" of males, so it was actually Christian Coptics who would perform the circumcision, and then sell the eunuchs to the Ottomans after the deed was done.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 02:45 AM
1

Yes that's true. Only men with land could vote, so that certainly restricted things a lot. I'm for whatever government gets the job done. I think people should have rights, but I don't think these rights are entitlements that you deserve merely for existing. I think these rights should have to be earned through performing some kind of civic duty, and that both men and women should be required to do these things.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 02:35 AM
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I think that's why many of the prominent Atheist voices are actually Anti-Feminists. Since they believe in logic and debate, they are not going to buy into some bullshit that does not stand up against basic logic and science.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 02:20 AM
2

As a percent of the population, Roman slavery was worse, but in terms of total numbers, America had (and has) more slaves in terms of numbers. Illegal slaves are still pedaled into the country today. Also, there are many things we're not willing to count as slavery, like having girls in Bangladesh and Taiwan work 19 hours a day making our textiles, but that's basically wage slavery at the end of the day. I'm proud to be an American, and there are many good things about America, but the fact that…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 01:55 AM
2

Then again, there is the point that not all men are treated equally, but all free men in America (ideally) should be allowed to vote. Then again, since I'm more of a fascist than most, I would actually be okay with a national program that requires people at 18 to serve their country for 1-2 years in some way: i.e. military service, teaching the less fortunate, volunteering in a way that helps the community, etc. I think no one should have rights without responsibilities, not men or women.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 01:39 AM
3

I'm not an atheist, but I dislike ideologies that one is not allowed to question. If an ideology can not stand up to scrutiny or criticism, then it probably is not a very good ideology. I don't care whether it is Islam or Feminism, if you create an ideology that isn't allowed to be questioned, then that ideology is probably flawed once it is subjected to further scrutiny. I don't really mind when people debate my beliefs and ideologies with me, as long as they are polite.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 01:33 AM
3

Personally I'm for removal of gender and ethnicity on all federal and state applications. A person either meets or doesn't meet the requirements, which are gender neutral. It's the only way to actually have a fair system without either side tainting it. I agree with that. I think it's bullshit that certain agencies (like the military) lower their standards so that women can get in. Would you want a bunch of small, underweight men in the military? No. So why can't women be assessed by the same st…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 01:30 AM
2

Society has swung back and forth between the pendulum of conservative and liberal ideology, but it mostly seems to be doing so with economic ideologies. Socially we are progressively becoming more and more liberal, which is not entirely a bad thing. I support rights for gays and racial minorities. I also think some of the rights introduced for women were a good thing, like the right to get an abortion or use functional birth control. I think if there is a cultural backlash, hopefully some of the…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 09:12 PM
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I'm surprised that a backlash hasn't happened sooner. Yet I believe the reason why there has been no substantial backlash on the part of men until now is that they lacked the social cohesion to do so. Religion was the initial party to lash back against Feminism, because Religion provides people with social cohesion. Yet as Feminist thought began to infiltrate religions on a social level, religion became less of an antifeminist force over time. Now the world of gaming and online camaraderie gives…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 09:08 PM
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My guess is it means treating the genders equal before the law. Feminism claims to support such an ideal, but does not in practice. If Feminism supported equality before the law, they would be arguing that women should have prison sentences just as long as men do (which they don't), that women who commit domestic violence should receive the same punishment for the same crime (to which they don't), that women who commit rape and sexual violence should be held accountable (to which they don't), an…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 09:04 PM
1

So, perhaps a big part of this woman's (unsuccess) with Japanese men may be cultural perceptions. Maybe it's that Japanese men want a woman from inside their culture, someone who they assume will share their values. Whereas maybe the Japanese women who date white men are like, "fuck that noise," because they are tired of their culture's expectations for women. That also might be part of their insanely low birth rate.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 02:54 PM
1

Yeah, every Asian housewife I've met is a beast. Don't get me wrong, they take care of their families, but I don't know where guys get this idea of the "submissive Asian princess." The guy in the relationship may go to work and make the money, but at home the Asian housewives make it clear that they are the ones in charge.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 08:08 PM
1

I've gotten the whole "Hey bitch, come over here!" stuff before. Luckily that doesn't happen too often. Really sucked when it did though.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 05:39 PM
2

Maybe white culture is just more private, and black/hispanic culture is more public. My theory is that is part of why minorities get into more legal trouble than white guys (aside from institutional racism). People do drugs and illegal shit at the same rates across racial barriers, but black people do more illegal things in public and white people do them in private where they won't get in trouble.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 05:35 PM
3

I don't think there was anything wrong with the guys saying "hello," "how are you," "would you like my number?" But I think shouting "you should smile!" or "Damn Mami, you sexy" is definitely annoying to deal with.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 05:12 PM
3

Has anyone here seen that independent movie, "Seeking Asian Female"? It's a real life documentary about a 60 year old white guy in America who decides to find love in China. He ends up marrying a 30 year old Chinese woman (since she's over the hill in her own country, she sought out dating prospects elsewhere). Anyways, they have their ups and downs, it's kind of a crazy relationship because they don't speak the same language. However the surprising thing about this movie is that this is a guy w…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 05:07 PM
5

I've heard that women in America are characteristically more masculine than in other cultures, which sometimes is good and sometimes is bad. There was a British guy on Reddit talking about how he liked to date American women over British women because they had more of a sense of adventure and were more willing to try new things. An Irish guy on Reddit said he liked dating American women because they were kind of like one of your bros. So maybe some guys like the adventurous, independent girl. Bu…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 04:31 PM
3

In some ways Vietnamese culture is pretty Matriarchal. Women are the ones who decide who their sons marry and how the inheritance is divided. I think people don't realize being a housewife doesn't mean being powerless. There are plenty of Asian Tiger Mom housewives who might do all the traditional stuff, but they will straight up break your balls if you fuck with them.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 04:24 PM
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I used to teach Korean adults. One example of the equality in their culture is that they have a Valentines Day for women, and then a different Valentines Day for the men. On February 14th, women are given romantic gifts. On White Day, which is like March 14th I think, women give men romantic gifts. Yet women are on such a pedestal in the west that the idea of having a special romantic day for the men is laughable. The closest thing guys have is Father's Day, and even then they only get a crappy …
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 04:20 PM
2

It's the typical hamster of post wall, unattractive women with unattractive personalities. "Oh, men don't date me because they're intimidated by my beauty and fiercely independent ways." Oh sure....you keep telling yourself that honey.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 04:18 PM
3

Yeah, even though many cultures like to have pictures of attractive, white, blonde super models in their magazines, I don't think white women realize that a lot of men around the world prefer women of their own race and culture. I used to work with Indian men. If they saw my white friends, they might say "oh, she's cute." But if they saw one of my south asian friends, they'd say "What's her number? Is she single?" It's not a racist thing, I just think people like the familiar. I think for a lot …
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 04:14 PM
8

Okay, after looking at 2013 I now see why Japanese men are reacting they way they do. She looks more like the high school art teacher or your friend's mom - not really a hot date you'd go out of your way to impress.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 04:11 PM
6

I'm sure many nerds are miserable about this. And their misery turns into bitterness. But even so, in terms of gaming, they're not going to pull any punches just because you're a woman.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 04:08 PM
10

So true. I read a post once by this fat American woman who used to go to swingers clubs and sleep with other men (aside from her husband). Then once she moved to Germany no man would touch her and this was quite a nasty shock. Then she magically decided "out of nowhere" I'm sure to stop sleeping around and dedicate herself more to her husband. The fat American woman in sweats really is the equivalent to these balding nerds, but Feminists cry rage if you even dare to criticize these women while t…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 03:48 PM
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I think some Feminists don't like nerds because a good deal of nerds are MGTOW. These are men who don't put them at the center of the universe for having a vagina. They don't care if you're a woman. They don't care if you're attractive. Many of these men have already resolved themselves to a life of loneliness, so they really just don't give a shit anymore and are not going to censor themselves around women so they can feel coddled and safe (like feminists demand in every other corner of society…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 03:45 PM
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Pretty true. I used to teach Korean adults. There were some very good looking 27 year old Korean women in the class who told me they couldn't get a date to save their life (even though they'd be like a 7/10 in the eyes of many Western men). I guess the traditional expectation is to date and marry young, and once that ship sails, it's gone.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 03:41 PM
2

I wouldn't say she was a 4 in looks (since there was a picture of the author). I'd say she was at least a 6/10 in America who turned into a 2/10 once she went to Japan.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 03:39 PM
1

Like I said, I have food allergies, so that's why I'm picky, not for the sake of being difficult. But with that said, I usually have a suggestion in mind. I don't just make him guess every restaurant in town until he guesses the right one.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/14 06:09 PM
1

Yeah, this is definitely a satire.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/14 02:29 PM
5

We are deluding ourselves if we say that money is not important. In this society money is necessary for all the things we need - health, food, and security for one. Love is a nice sentiment, but in reality, a woman's not going to live in a dumpster with you if you are dead broke.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/14 02:27 PM
4

It's like the woman who makes her boyfriend choose what restaurant they're going to eat at. But vetos all his decisions until he says the restaurant that she likes. At the end of the day, I just tell my boyfriend what restaurant I want to eat at, because being a person with a lot of weird food allergies, I'm picky as fuck. But yeah, you can't have your cake and eat it too. You have to determine, what areas are you okay being in control, what areas are you willing to give up control to have a mor…
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/14 02:34 PM
2

So basically, it's not gamers angry at women for invading their video games, but it's gamer anger about Journalistic Collusion that morphed into anger about SJW trying to police the world of gaming?
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 02:21 PM
1

I agree that the wedding thing was bullshit. That woman probably did make it up. I'm just saying there are other situations where women may have experienced sexual abuse, and decided not to do anything about it. Sometimes when women report their rapists, and the rapist doesn't go to jail, he comes after her for revenge. Some women are even in more danger after they report what happened, which is why they are too scared to go through the justice process. There was a guy who attempted to date rape…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 02:16 PM
6

TL:DR; For those who don't want to read this 27 paragraph diatribe, I'll try to summarize. Basically a woman who was threatened by men, got into a relationship with a more gentle guy. This guy is one of those great nice guys who is good with her kid and tries to make her happy, but of course, she is bored with him. She wants someone more dominating in bed, someone who will be more of a decision maker. Yet when she gently tells her husband these problems, he replies that when he does make the dec…
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/14 02:11 PM
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Sometimes women are too scared to bring their rapist to justice. The fact that he didn't serve time doesn't mean the rape didn't happen.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 04:28 AM
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I'm so confused about Gamer Gate. I wish someone would explain it to me more. Some say it's gamer's who are angry about women invading their world of video games. Other's say it's gamers not wanting the social justice warriors bringing politics into their medium. I'm not sure what it is anymore. I thought this all started about journalistic ethics. Now it's morphed into something else. But if these SJW wanted to make the gaming world more female friendly, they should give money to female game de…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 04:24 AM
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I think this 4chan guy has a point. Most of the most Beta, white knight guys I know are not manly and get made fun of by manlier men. So these Blue Pill guys decide, "fuck men," and embrace feminism. Meanwhile the guys they hate are pounding the women they love, which makes the Betas hate these guys even more, and flock to Feminism even harder.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 06:39 PM
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I agree that men overall faced more danger. But the fact that society by default (Pre-Feminism) was constructed more to fit men can't be ignored. An example of this is that most crash dummy dolls were the size of the average adult male, so air bags in cars were designed more for the safety of males than females. http://www.bloombergview.com/articles/2012-08-22/why-carmakers-always-insisted-on-male-crash-test-dummies Many companies that made medicines also made their dosages to fit the male adult…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/14 09:10 PM
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I agree with your points on Feminism. It was needed once, but now it is time for the movement to change and evolve. There are still horrible things happening to women in this society and the world at large. But there are now horrible things that happen to both genders. We used to live in a society where women were openly regarded as, and treated as second class citizens with less rights than men. Feminism emerged as a movement to correct that, and it is good they did. However, now the movement i…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/14 08:53 PM
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Haha, Hitchens handled that interview like a true boss.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/14 06:19 PM
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Very true. This is part of what made my boyfriend seem very alpha to me. He's not a willing slave to any beautiful woman. In fact, most women annoy him if they're not willing to talk about something creative or intelligent.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/14 06:16 PM
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I have two aunts. One is bossy and one is effeminate and nurturing. Everyone in the family treats the latter as the default Matriarch.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/14 05:56 PM
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Women are very powerful, but not because of Feminism. A woman can make or break her man. Even the most pathetic man can rise above his pitfulls when he has a strong and supportive woman at his side. But even the strongest man will get dragged down into the dirt when his woman is a parasite.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/14 05:54 PM
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Wait, explain the irony to me.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/14 05:07 PM
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The other interesting thing I've observed is that many members of Nerdy communities are actually some of the most cut throat logical, anti-feminist men you will ever meet. Many of them are MGTOW men who don't give a shit about women. I experienced this being one of the few women studying computer science and being interested in RPGs and table top gaming. When I first started heavily hanging around nerds, I thought many of these nerds would be Beta Orbiters who bend over backwards with their ball…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/14 04:21 PM
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I think that there are many atheist Feminists, but most of the hard hitters of the Atheist community are anti-feminist men. A square is a rectangle, but not every rectangle is a square.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/14 04:16 PM
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I agree. That's why Feminists are so angry, because Feminism itself is like a religion that the atheists are refuting. Much like religion, Feminism is based on absolutely no scientific evidence. It's all about the feelz rather than what's real. Since many outspoken atheists are already used to being lambasted by the popular media for speaking out against things that most people believe in, Feminism is not excluded from their criticism. If anything, Feminists better hope that Atheism doesn't repl…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/14 04:12 PM
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That's true. Guys know what they like in a matter of weeks if not days. If the guy really likes you, he's going to "wife you up," or make you his main girlfriend. I knew a somewhat alpha guy who stopped sleeping around as soon as he met the girl of his dreams. If you are that girl he makes into a plate, he has no intention of committing to you, you're just a fun toy he's keeping around for his amusement. It's like what Archer said to the Secretary Cheryl in one episode, "Oh I just invite you ove…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/14 02:37 PM
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commitment is often tenuously and eventually bestowed on the plate that stuck it out, was the least trouble and the most fun. If a man is high value enough and you're a gambler, that's usually the only way to get him WRONG! DEAD WRONG! I disagree. This is like the attitude of Beta Orbiters. They think if they stay in the friendzone longest with the girl they desire, she will eventually reward him with affection. A female plate is the equivalent of a male beta orbiter. A male beta orbiter gives a…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/14 02:21 PM
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So true. There is nothing that emasculates a man more than a shrew wife who embarrasses him in public. I remember I had this teacher who I really respected and saw as an Alpha male type 100%. But then he invited me over to his house for dinner, and once I was there his wife was criticizing and talking openly about his faults constantly as he just sat there. Completely changed my opinion of him, in a sad way.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/14 02:08 PM
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Hey there. I submitted this article to see what people thought about the attitude of male leaders in the Atheist movement about females. This is interesting to me. Due to the fact that most religions are patriarchal in nature, there is an assumption by many that Atheism will provide a non-patriarchal atmosphere of secular humanism. However, instead, what we're seeing is that Atheism, as a movement, is becoming somewhat of a patriarchy itself where prominent members state that women's main desire…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/14 02:02 PM
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Not necessarily. China is not innovative, because their government is oppressive against ideas that don't fit the norm. India and Japan however, are very innovative countries. There is also the fact that almost all of the technology that comes into America is produced elsewhere. If all these Asian countries suddenly decided to stop selling us technology, we would be pretty screwed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 01:52 PM
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THE WEALTH IN THE WEST IS A RESULT OF RP POLICIES The wealth of the Western World is actually a result of the fact that we were more Red Pill than the other culture's around. Much of the wealth we have today is a legacy of the last few centuries. History is a long term game that takes a while to play out. For the last few centuries our ancestors had been pillaging and conquering all other cultures in the world. This is the fact why so many former European Colonies, like India and Africa are so p…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/14 04:31 PM
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That makes sense. Few men are motivated to be some woman's "baby daddy". That's why it's much harder for women with children to date rather than single women. A woman with children trying to score a quality mate is like playing most video games on hard mode.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/14 04:40 AM
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I'm not sure if this post belongs here or not. Let me know if it doesn't. I agree with homo_homini, the term "patriarchy" itself is a bit misleading. But basically, what the "patriarchy" is, is a system of civilization where most of the power is concentrated in the hands of males and males are the key decision makers in society. There are many good reasons for why such a system is or is not fair for women. However, the argument I was making in this post is that ALL civilizations were patriarchie…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/14 05:30 PM
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Okay! I'll do that! Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/14 05:22 PM
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Lost Boys http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lost_boys_(Mormon_fundamentalism) "Some teenagers kicked out of the FLDS communities have found themselves on the streets, crashing at "party houses," becoming addicted to drugs and getting involved in crimes. Many don't have anything beyond an eighth-grade education. " http://www.childbrides.org/boys.html I'm guessing that a large number of "lost boys" with few life skills, and no where to go, are probably contributing to the crime statistics in Utah. Here…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 06:16 PM
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Polygamy is practiced in Utah, it's one of the safest states to live in in the US. While there's clearly a problem with Islam, Mormonism shows that polygamy isn't it. Occam's razor points to Muslims being violent because Mohammed was a violent warlord, not because he fucked a 9 year old. I would disagree with this reasoning. Yes, Utah has a lot of Mormons, but you overlook the fact that most Mormons - like more than 90% - are monogamous these days. Only a small sect of fringe, fundamentalist Mor…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 04:54 PM
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While polygamy is the natural human inclination I strongly advice against it. Monogamy is an institution that benefits men more, this is why the most powerful and stable empires in history enforced monogamy. If you have multiple women married to one man, there are going to be lots of young men out there without mates. This creates bitterness, violence and anger. Why do you think there are so many terrorists in the Middle East and Africa? These are regions of the world where Polygamy is still pra…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 02:39 PM
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Love to hear stuff like this!
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/14 02:28 PM
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Me personally? It makes me pretty cynical. But I think human beings have a dual nature. People are capable of incredible cruelty and kindness. Being the cut throat bully isn't the only way to survive. A society must have the ability to cooperate and share with each other in order to survive. That's why in most known human religions, greed is a bad thing. But I do think tribal human beings were a lot more barbaric and violent that modern people give them credit.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 01:25 PM
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Human beings will always push the envelope if you allow them to do so, men and women both. The only reason that men and women behave themselves is because we live in a strict society that enforces consequences for bad behavior. The social consequences on women have been lifted via Feminism, so now they can get away with a lot more than they could in the past. 50 years ago, an unmarried mother would be shunned from society. Now this is the norm. 50 years ago no decent man would date or even talk …
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 03:12 PM
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ISIS is already working on this in Syria and Iraq. Kill everyone except the young women, take them to abandoned schools and have sex with them. Sounds like they are turning Iraq and Syria into a rape factory to me.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 03:04 PM
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I see everyone here is throwing their rocks at OP, but what happened to AWALT? Most people don't trade up because they don't have the opportunity to. If most men were given the opportunity to leave their current spouse for one who is younger, sexier, nicer, more feminine and more interesting - I bet at least half of them would do so. If most women were given the chance to leave their current SO's for a more ambitious, more alpha, better looking male, I bet half of them would do so - in fact, if …
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/14 07:27 PM
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I agree. Marriage can be a beautiful thing when society actually enforces the traditional expectations of marriage. (Except I'm okay with Gay Marraige because that only effects <5% of the population). But anyways, yeah, there are no expectations for marriage these days, and too many rewards for bailing out (alimony and what not). So I don't blame TRP guys for crapping on it. Not cuz marriage itself is bad, but because the way society regards it is bad. With that said, some RP advice I'd give to …
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/14 08:58 PM
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I can relate. My parents didn't really give me much guidance on love or life or things like that. Then again, their own marriage was such a nightmare the less I listened to them, the better.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/14 08:53 PM
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Right now I'm the weird one in my group of friends who doesn't do those things. You would think I'm a Muslim or Conservative Christian by the way I live, but I'm neither one of those things. I just realized that life is too short for bad habits. I've actually cut alcohol out of my diet completely.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 09:01 PM
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The way my boyfriend washes the dishes used to really irritate me, so now I just wash them and he puts them away. I think when we have separate chores it just works best for everyone so that way we can't get in each other's business about how its done.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 02:52 PM
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I do sometimes, but he's the man I chose and I love him, so I live with it. Sometimes I'm pretty embarrassing too, so I guess it all balances out.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 02:45 PM
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Very true. I bet if even a woman 35+ internalized these qualities, she could still find a man pretty quickly. Not necessarily a man who would have kids with her, but a man nonetheless.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 02:42 PM
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Just put this page in my favorites. I think I need to repeat these steps to myself everyday. I'm very stubborn and independent, so internalizing these values will be good for me. The point about submission is interesting. Let's say that you have a boss at work, and let your boss be in charge. This doesn't mean that you are being submissive and letting your boss walk all over you and treat you like a doormat. It just means that you acknowledge that they are the boss. Now, if your boss started to …
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 02:36 PM
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I guess that's why they eat up all that "you're perfect just the way you are!" shit.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/14 02:03 PM
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Sometimes extreme beauty can be a curse for a woman, because her life becomes an endless series of boyfriends who treat her like shit, while some of the nicer guys are too scared to even talk to her. My step mom has been drop dead gorgeous her whole life. Even approaching 50 she's still hotter than most women 20 years younger than her. And guess what. Hew whole life has been an endless series of relationships with abusive jerks. You know that phrase, be careful what you wish for? Well, she alway…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 05:09 AM
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What really sucked as a bartender was witnessing all the women in their 40's and 50's acting like teenaged brats. Totally ridiculous. I think since people are living longer, we do automatically get a longer youth period. But at the same time, growing up at some point is a good thing. A world without grown ups is one of total anarchy.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 05:01 AM
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That's true. There was a wiki-how guide telling women how to get a boyfriend that basically just told women to dress well and be nice, and this produced a feminist shit storm. What do they expect these articles to say? Be rude and ugly...yeah...that will totally work!
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/14 04:53 AM
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LOL...
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/14 04:51 AM
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Exactly! We feel sorry for the guys on this thread who get duped. She was duped too.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 05:54 PM
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This is why, as a woman, I eventually stopped going there. It was just really damned depressing. A few times I tried to make some positive posts, but most of it is just "I was raped, I was dumped, I am old, blah blah blah." I mean, sure, people need to find a place to vent about their problems. That's what much of TRP is, TBH. But after venting, people need a plan of action, and 2XC doesn't really have a guide to life or anything that can help women succeed.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 05:50 PM
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Yeah, a lot of people on 2XC are trying to comfort her by saying things like, "don't worry, my parents had me a 40 years old!" But I'm sure these parents were probably together for a while, and may have even had several children before that happened. My mom had a baby at 42, but she met my dad at 24. So....people still need time to establish relationships before children happen. People get really mad when TRP talks about "the wall," but I think people need to understand reality in order to have …
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 05:47 PM
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She could find someone. The trouble is, this someone will probably be just as desperate, if not more desperate than she is. Or she may have to settle for a divorced dad with kids, which isn't so bad, but they won't be her kids.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 05:44 PM
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She also says she started dating the guy 3 years previously, so she was trying to establish a serious relationship at 32. We shouldn't judge her too much, because we don't know her past. Also, I think her emotional despair is justified, since this guy more or less took her along for a ride, when he wasn't really that serious about her. While I don't think we should extend anger and judgement upon this woman, I think this tale is a good example about reality itself. As a woman, if you're interest…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 05:41 PM
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You're welcome!
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 04:05 PM
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Here is the key word. It's ONLINE dating. Most people who are dating online - especially with sites like OkCupid or Tindr, are just looking for sex. I ran into the same thing when I tried online dating. It's probably better to try and meet someone not on the internet. Try to meet people who are friends of your friends. Maybe try taking a class or getting into a hobby and meet someone from your class. And if you are insistent on doing online dating, then you should probably try to do a better fil…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 03:18 PM
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I'm in my late 20's, and am totally shocked by the number of other women I know that have no idea how to cook even the most basic meals. Like I made scrambled eggs for one of my female friends, and she was so impressed...I mean it's just EGGS, COME ON! I actually know more men who know how to cook these days than women. Women act like its too much time and effort, but cooking isn't really that hard. I grew up with a mom who never taught me how to cook, and actually had to teach myself, but once …
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 02:26 PM
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I think it also depends on how many people you are cooking for though. If you are cooking for 2 or more people, than it is less expensive. Yet sometimes, take out and cooking can be around the same expense for just one person, depending on the complexity of the meal. For example, I love eating Indian, Thai and Vietnamese food. Yet you need to buy so many ingredients for these meals - and spend so much time cooking it - that it would have actually been almost the same cost to get take out. For ex…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 02:22 PM
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don't cheat, don't be a bitch, respect your SO. Amen to that. Yet women who do this are considered the best girlfriends ever because so many women have fallen below this standard. I look at many of my female family members and are horrified that for them, it's so hard to not cheat on their boyfriends, to actually be nice to their boyfriends and treat them like a person. It's not that hard to not cheat. If you have an overwhelming desire to cheat on your SO, that means your relationship is over a…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 02:17 PM
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So true. All my boyfriends are always very surprised about the things that I'm willing to do for them - cook, blow jobs, listen to them, give them a ride if they need it and not cheat. You know the basics. I'm not even the housewife of the year, not by a long shot. I don't always take care of my appearance the way that many RPW do, since I work at home and end up wearing tshirts and pajamas most of the time. I'm pretty messy. My cooking isn't the best, I'm getting better but my meats usually tur…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 02:13 PM
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True that. I have a female friend who is friendzoned in the worst kind of way. Her longterm crush finally asked her out after he was dumped by the girl he actually loved. So my friend was basically just a rebound for this guy. They end up living together and he loses his job. She works extra hard to financially support him while he cheats on her. He ends up dumping her, saying shes more like a sister or friend, but she continues to be his roommate because she is helplessly in love with him. He g…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 02:21 PM
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Divorce isn't always bad. I think its the best thing that ever happened to my family. My dad was an abusive, cheating lying piece of shit. Eventually he left my mom to go chase some tail. My mom was devastated at the time, but shes much better off than my dad now.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/14 05:00 AM
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She makes a good point that in reality, most super left leaning literature is antagonistic towards the family and children, because such "burdens" prevent the freedom that those on the radical left want women to have. (As a self identified liberal, I'm not harping on all liberals, I'm talking about the super left wing, social justice warrior crowd.) This is why in their attempted destruction of the nuclear family, Feminists don't really have a viable replacement plan. If marriage is a patriarcha…
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/14 08:58 PM
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I make a few thousand more than my SO, but neither one of us really cares, because we're not keeping score.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/14 08:49 PM
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Well you know what they say, misery loves company.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/14 12:36 PM
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I think the whole 80/20 thing is somewhat exaggerated because most guys will get at least a few sexual encounters in their lives, the numbers are just a lot more skewed now towards the alphas now.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/14 12:31 PM
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True that.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/14 12:26 PM
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You may just have to sit down, talk to him, and explain that 35 is too old for you. You may also have to find a compromise in the middle of your two desires. Like maybe you can start trying at 32, and only have two kids - or something like that.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/14 12:25 PM
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I think that there are many more blue pill men who doubt the wall than women, because most of these men won't experience the wall in the same way. I find that women are actually more open to talking about "the wall" than most men are.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/14 08:19 PM
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The thing is that most women in their 40's today are either married or divorced with kids. There are few women in their 40's who entered into spinsterhood because they waited around too long to find the right guy. This is because most of the women in their 40's grew up in a time where women got married younger and thought more seriously about that kind of stuff. I'm willing to bet that there will be a lot more 40 year old spinsters in 20 years because today's young people have a completely diffe…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/14 08:17 PM
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One thing we argue over is the dishes. I like them to be done before we go to bed, but he doesn't really care. The reason I feel this way is because I don't want the dishes to attract bugs, so yeah...it might just be easier if I do it and find some other way he can balance things out.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/14 08:15 PM
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I feel bad for your sister. I'm starting to realize that if I never had kids, I would be okay with that. In fact, there are many reasons why the thought of having kids actually stresses me out. I feel like they are cute shackles. So that realization makes me feel a lot more free and relieved.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/14 08:13 PM
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It was really nice to hear that things still worked out for you. While my friend's boyfriend isn't a cheater (as far as I know) I have to wonder myself how serious he is about the life goals she values. I wonder if he's just talking the talk to keep her around, but has no intention of marriage and kids. I mean, if he was interested in marriage they would probably have already been married right now. I understand that money is an issue for them, they are both barely a level above broke, so perhap…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/14 08:10 PM
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Yeah, I think if they aren't married after 4 years of living together, and not even on the same page, then something is wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/14 08:49 PM
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Yeah, I think its good to talk about the wall despite what the blue pill says. Women should really start looking for their future mate in their early 20's, because it takes a certain amount of time to date, live with, marry and then have kids with a person. If you find the right guy in your early 20's, you probably still won't have kids until your late 20's or early 30's.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/14 08:45 PM
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I think she doesn't really spend a lot of time thinking about what she wants out of life since she's a pretty selfless person. I think she was afraid that asserting her life goals would drive her boyfriend away and maybe part of her was just hoping that some of these goals would magically happen over time. I think since she has a low self esteem she doesn't really seek out quality guys. But yeah, I think if she encouraged her bf to take more of a leadership role he'd stop acting like a teenage m…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/14 08:43 PM
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I do most of the cooking because I like to cook. I think it's a shame when people think of cooking as some form of drudgery or slave labor. I think of it as an art that you eat. So I probably cook 4 days out of the week. With the chores however I'm interested in splitting them so that we both have more free time to spend with each other, and on other creative activities. If I did all the chores, I would basically only get like 1 or 2 hours of free time each day after work, which would probably m…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/14 08:35 PM
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The whole "casual sex is empowering" is the biggest load of BS. I've noticed that the least desirable women are often the ones who have the most sex. This might seem odd at first, but makes sense when you think about it. Desirable, pretty and feminine women quickly find themselves in the arms of a desirable, masculine male who will protect and provide for them in a LTR. Many of these women are taken off the market before they turn 25. Such a woman has no reason to go on sex sprees for attention …
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 03:27 AM
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Thats also how I feel. If a guy is being alpha because he read about it on the internet and not because of his natural personality, it doesn't feel very real.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/14 03:42 AM
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When women give their husbands a "honey do list" it makes me think they are giving him a list of things that they could just do themselves, but don't feel like for whatever reason.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 11:23 PM
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Even though I disagree with Judeo-Christian ideology, I know there is a reason I get along much better with conservative religious women. They understand the fundamentals of real human behavior while my more liberal friends live in never never land.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 11:21 PM
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Many of my family members admire my relationship stability as well, even though the women also tell me that I'm dorky when I try to give them advice. Yes, I just magicked into the perfect relationship while the rest of my family magicked into bad relationships. I feel like that's how a lot of people see it. Ugh.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 11:17 PM
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My boyfriend also doesn't know about TRP. I wonder if and how I should tell him about it. He is more of a purple piller in his world view. Yet he has a natural RP behavior that has attracted women to him, without even trying to be RP; he's very blunt and acts like himself without giving a fuck, which has made a lot of women interested in him. (I'm glad that he chose me!) He also acts RP because he fundamentally believes that men and women are equals. He's one of the few guys I know who refuses t…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 11:14 PM
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As a teacher I also ran into a lot of single post-wall women who engaged in a lot of very non-RP behavior. Many of these women spent a lot of their time being plates and then hating men. The only good female role models I had as co-workers were the ones from foreign countries. As a result I made a lot of Muslim and Hispanic friends.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 11:04 PM
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The reality is that you can't make anyone do anything. All you can do is work on yourself. Believe me, the more desirable you make yourself, the more likely she will be to start automatically doing these things (dressing nice and enjoying blow jobs). If you treat yourself like you are worthy of respect, others will do the same. Also, ask the guys on TRP about this. Not many women on RPW have experience pleasing their wives (unless they are lesbians) so we can't really help you.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 11:00 PM
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Swallowing TRP has really opened my eyes to human behavior. Things that were previously "weird and unexplainable" now make a lot of sense. What really helped open my eyes is when one of my family members started to cheat on her wonderful husband that is "such a great guy," while women were lining up to play housewife for my dad who is a huge asshole. It just didn't make any sense to me to live in a world where the nice guys who try hard get treated like crap by their wives, while the douche bags…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 10:50 PM
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She acts like she's fine with drunken sexcapades, but I have a feeling that part of that leaves her feeling empty and unsatisfied. She complains to me that no guy in her school will date her seriously. The closest thing was her recent "friends with benefits" guy who slept with other girls and treated her like crap. She seems to only form relationships with guys in different schools, probably because they don't know her history. I think as a teenager she is probably too young to truly figure out …
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 05:28 PM
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Your right. I have tried to tell her somethings, that she just rolled her eyes and scoffed at, but I shouldn't let that deter me. I can't really fault her, because she is just a young kid practicing the values that society places upon her. I think that she thinks being pretty is enough to make guys want to date/do anything for her. But as she's beginning to see now, there are certain behaviors that can make a woman undatable: being slutty, cheating, and being all around unfeminine (rude and aggr…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 05:21 PM
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Wearing a dress does make people treat you different in subtle ways. When I wear a dress, men treat me like a damsel that needs to be taken care of: they pump my gas for me, carry my things, open doors (i.e. they act more traditional). When I wear jeans, t-shirt and no makeup, I become one of the guys. You can dress for the way you want people to treat you. It's an interesting social experiment.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 04:25 AM
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Isn't Feminism worse in certain parts of Europe? I've heard that Feminism in Sweden trumps America a million times. Also, many people imagine America as this Feminist wasteland, but when you factor in our large number of conservative christian folk, we're actually a lot more traditional and unfeminist than other places.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 04:14 AM
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I will admit, compared to me this woman is a Goddess. But I'm glad to have a challenge, just makes me aspire to do all that much better.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 02:55 AM
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And she got gold for it too. Figures. I guess misery loves company.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 02:54 AM
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Did they just give you a rape threat? That's the ultimate irony of this situation.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 04:30 PM
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Reminds me of my feminist friends in college. They said they felt GUILTY about doing normal cis gendered female things like shaving their legs, wearing makeup or being girly. How does this evoke any guilt? You're doing what is normal for your gender, not killing a kitten for heavens sake! And the funny thing is that if one of their gender queer male friends wanted to wear a dress, shave his legs or put on makeup, they'd be his greatest champions. It's not about equality, it's about nitpicking ev…
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 04:27 PM
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Most reddit relationship advice is bad, except for RPW. 99% of the advice on reddit is, "get a divorce, dump the mofo, NEXT the person." But here's the thing, life is complicated and messy. No one is prefect. Sometimes people royally fuck up. Marriages work not because you magically found the perfect person, but because you found someone you love enough to tolerate their mistakes. The best thing people can do is learn how to work on themselves and to step up their game, if they want the relation…
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/14 03:42 AM
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Mom has a friend who is the wife of a wealthy surgeon. I imagined that this woman was going to be a hot trophy wife, but was completely shocked to find that she was probably a 3/10. It's not always the hot chick who gets the great guy, sometimes it's the chick who is willing to be there for him when he needs it the most.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/14 03:35 AM
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I hate her writing style, but Stephanie Myers does write manly men and womanly women. In both Twilight and The Host, I was struck by how seemingly manly most of the men were, and how the heroines could feel delicate and feminine around all these manly men. Myers has a lot of RP values written in the subtext of her stories. In these movies there weren't many instances of beta buffoons being bossed around by their alpha girlfriends, like in so many movies. And even if there is a hyper masculine fe…
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/14 10:22 PM
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If I could have any sexual orientation, I would wish for bi-sexuality. Unfortunately, people can be rather judgemental towards bisexuals. I've heard all kinds of stupid comments like, bisexuals are just sluttier than everyone else, they want attention, etc. But I would pick bi-sexual because then I could have the most options.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/14 10:16 PM
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I think to some degree AWALT, just not to that degree. Obviously this video is exaggerating a clishe, but RPW are just as prone to do the things that other women do, we're just more self aware about it.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 07:10 PM
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Oh, here it is! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hbeEuYAZFL4
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 05:40 PM
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Yup, they are pretty much rapey creeps unless they are hot. There was a really funny youtube video about this a while ago, I can't for the life of me remember what it was called. But basically in the video, an average looking guy goes up to a woman in the bar and says, "hi, I just wanted to say that you're really pretty and I'd like to buy you a drink." The girl screams at him and calls him a creep, so he leaves. Then a few seconds later, a much better looking and confident guy with a suit on go…
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 05:38 PM
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I've met many beta guys who state openly that they wish they were gay. It's sad when getting into a halfway okay relationship with an average woman is that hard.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 05:31 PM
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Great advice! Love everything. The only other thing I'd say is that sex won't make a guy be in a relationship with you. I've known many girls who jump into a sexual relationship with a guy early on, thinking that it will make him stick around, but this actually has the exact opposite effect.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 06:05 PM
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The thing that makes it difficult for older women is not a lack of men, but the fact that they won't lower their standards. There are actually plenty of men out there willing to date Post-Wall women. Albeit, these may not be the top 5% of studs, and these guys probably aren't looking to have kids with a post-wall woman. But there are plenty of guys with kids, post divorce who are okay with dating a woman around their age. The problem is that many of the post-wall women still have the same standa…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 02:22 AM
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That sounds rough. I bet she could find a man if she lowered her standards, but she probably won't. Many women would rather grow old and lonely than settle for Beta.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 02:12 AM
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I would not dye my hair every week - that is too often. I'd say wait a minimum of 3 weeks.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 07:51 PM
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In terms of the hair dying, dying your hair doesn't always make the texture of your hair like straw. That is for the people who bleach their whole head. Highlights are a better approach, because you don't have to have it done as often, and its only on a small part of your hair. You can highlight streaks of your hair along with the gray - maybe dye these parts blonde or some other color slightly lighter than your hair color? It would be a nice way to mask the gray without dying too much of your h…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 07:50 PM
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The two kids and owning her own business are a death sentence to her romance life.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 03:34 AM
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Make different foods for your husband than you make for yourself. I am allergic to gluten, wheat and some dairies - so I certainly don't expect my SO to eat like I do. I'm not going to punish him just because I have weird health issues. So I usually make one thing for him and another for myself with some overlap of shared side dishes. Willpower my friend! Willpower!
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 03:32 AM
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Very true. I've heard that in Russia and Latin America even very respectable family women will dress like total sluts because that is just the style. They love looking good and showing it off. Here in America we're definitely more prude.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 05:51 PM
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I agree with this, sounds more like she's looking for the excitement of drama. If she really did want this to be kept a secret, she wouldn't have texted you about it and she certainly wouldn't have done it in front of a bunch of people.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 05:28 PM
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Agree with this article: Accept the things you can't change, but strive to improve everything else. You can't change your height, but you can lose weight or strive to have a more attractive personality.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 05:25 PM
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Agh, I hate how people are putting "Trigger Warning" on everything these days. Are people so soft that they need warnings about everything that might upset their delicate PC sensibilities? I can understand a Trigger Warning for some article about brutal rape or violence, that might trigger the PTSD of someone who was a victim of such a thing, but Trigger Warning's on just about anything and everything defeat the purpose.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 05:24 PM
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A good girlfriend always fucks her man. Well, careful about that. A girl who fucks her man to early won't get much of a commitment out of him.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 05:06 PM
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Exactly. In a previous relationship that wasn't working out, I didn't really like the idea of cooking for my boyfriend or doing his laundry. I did it anyways, because I thought it was the right thing to do - but I found no joy in it. In my current relationship, that is much more healthy, I actually really like cooking for my boyfriend and giving him blow jobs. I don't see these things as a chore at all - but it's probably because I love him.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 03:45 PM
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She still might like having him around for practical reasons, but is not turned on by him anymore. There are plenty of women who keep Beta Guys around for convenience, even if they are not sexually turned on by the guy anymore. Sounds like the guy became pretty Beta over the course of the relationship (doing all the cooking and cleaning for her) and she got turned off by it. Sometimes when a guy is Beta too long it takes a while to undo the damage, a woman isn't going to gain all her respect bac…
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 03:41 PM
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Some might argue that this is more about her just being a selfish person, than about Feminism. Yet Feminism in itself is a selfish ideology that prioritizes women over men. Look at the word itself, it starts with "Fem," it's about women. Second Wave Feminists were pretty blunt about their intentions. But Third Wave Feminists try to gloss over this fact with mealy mouthed language. They often say things like, "Oh Feminism is good for women and men!" But do you ever hear Feminists discussing Men's…
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 03:29 PM
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To summarize this guy's post, he's starting to get turned off by the fact that his girlfriend refuses to cook, clean or do anything helpful. He's also turned off by the fact that she thinks blow jobs are degrading. Then he acts like he's surprised at being turned off by this. Most men deep inside want a woman who loves the idea of taking care of them, but most men don't have a high enough SMV to achieve this goal, so they stick around with whatever harpy comes their way out of desperation.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 02:10 PM
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When people start using alcohol to excuse their bad behavior, that's when they need to stop drinking. Alcohol is never an excuse to treat your SO badly. Try talking to her when she's sober about terrible she makes you feel - and how she says terrible things to you when she's drunk. Also ask her if she's willing to stop drinking because of this. If she acts like this again, I'd next her.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/14 04:03 PM
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I know now how to spot the difference in a true 'Captain' type (I don't like to call them alphas because as you alluded to, a good captain probably has a mix of alpha and beta traits) and someone who is just covering for insecurities by acting tough/strong/manly/etc. Good points. As teenagers, many of us females think that the flashiest most extreme guy is a good captain, but later on it takes a bit of wisdom for us to realize that the subtle guy who leads with a quiet but stern hand can often b…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 08:59 PM
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Hey all, I don't know how "new" I am, been here for maybe more than a month of two, but I guess I'll introduce myself if I'm still technically new. I'm a 26 F in a LTR that has gone on for 3.5 years and is going very well. I first found out about the general "Manosphere" before TRP was a thing because I'm always lurking on the internet. I found out about this section of the internet because one of my extremely Feminist friends was complaining about it. She had posted a link to Roissy's blog on h…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 06:37 PM
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I guess this brings up the question, how can a woman avoid marrying a man who will end up turning into an Omega. Something slightly similar, but not as bad happened to me. At 19 I started dating this guy who seemed very Alpha and confident in personality. But then when we moved in together I started to realize he was actually very Beta in a lot of very very unappealing ways. He left all the dangerous and dirty work to me because he was a huge coward. One time a little black beetle flew into my c…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 06:16 PM
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I think having your sons have a healthy exposure to other boys and masculine activities is good as well. When boys have a bunch of sisters, a doting mother and an absent father sometimes this can make them kind of a sissy. I think boys need to be in masculine environments where they can be challenged in order to develop their potential.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 05:31 PM
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Source: any high school girl.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 05:01 PM
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Women are like this in Patriarchal Cultures that demand such things. In a society with no rules, women stab each other in the back for the privilege of the most Alpha Cock.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 04:21 PM
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Wow, you're right. I'll fix that mistake. I wrote this kinda late at night before going to sleep. But yeah...that kind of puts in perspective the brutality of tribal life. I'm not saying it was all bad, but many people who think of the movie "Avatar" when imagining tribal life would be in for a rude surprise if they were teleported to the real deal.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 03:38 PM
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Very true. The invention of monogamous marriage and civilization pretty much happened at the same time. If you want to have a society where paternity is no guarantee, we'll end up going back to the tribal days - which were actually a pretty brutal and grotesque period in human history despite ideas of "the romantic savage." Think more of human sacrifice, cannibalism, head hunting, ritual torture, prevalent rape, high mortality rates, and high numbers of people involved in some kind of tribal con…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 01:27 AM
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Yeah, I think keeping a house clean isn't difficult...unless you have children that is. Once you have kids, you kind of have to give up on the idea of having a clean house until they're old enough to pick up after themselves.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 01:15 AM
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If all women strived to be like this, divorce attorneys would lose their jobs. I don't know...she was married to Marilyn Manson and he cheated on her with an 18 year old. Then they got divorced.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 12:56 AM
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Working with Koreans made me realize how much more egalitarian their society is towards the sexes. They have a Valentines Day and a White Day. Valentines Day is where the guys buy gifts for their girlfriends. White day, a month later, is the day girls buy gifts for their men. They also have realistic expectations of both men and women. They talk very openly about women hitting the wall at 30. If any woman is still single at 30, she's basically considered undatable. Women are expected to be good …
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 12:54 AM
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Many of these men are unhappy and end up cheating on them. Either that or they become Betas that their women fall out of love with, and then complain "where are all the good men?"
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 12:34 AM
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Can we have walls with spikes on them?
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 12:30 AM
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Maybe there needs to be a purple pill woman, for those who want to debate...or just leave these questions to the general purple pill.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 12:16 AM
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As this becomes more popular I hope it will lead to a sizable decline in the human population.
/r/TRPOffTopic13/06/14 07:46 PM
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I mean, that part isn't necessarily embarrassing. I guess I just feel a little weird playing the host and housewife after so many years of Feminism drilled into my brain. Yeah...it's weird.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 04:40 AM
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I don't think AWALT, but I think the majority are. I know there are a handful of women out there who naturally desire dominance, I've even met a few, but they are definitely rare and few between. As a dating and life strategy it probably is better to treat women as if AWALT because it will reap better chances for success.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 04:12 PM
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I'm not sure if this article belongs here, but I agree with it. Discrimination against women in the work environment was amped up at the end of WWII when the men came home from war and needed jobs. Many of the women in the job market were encouraged to go back home and take care of their husbands. After this, the economy saw a huge burst in productivity and success. If all the women in the workforce with young children and husbands were asked to leave, a huge number of jobs would open for men wh…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 06:05 PM
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I don't really get cheating. If you don't respect your boyfriend enough to be faithful to him, it's time to break up. I used to have a boyfriend who basically was just a good friend, and I was tempted to cheat on him constantly. I broke it off because I realized if I couldn't stay faithful to him mentally, than the relationship wasn't working.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 05:55 PM
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I shouldn't need to wear goggles and a lab coat in the chemistry lab, the chemicals should be taught not to burn me.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 05:49 PM
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It's when you piss people off that you know something is working. Change the social order, and you will unleash a swarm of wasps no matter how good your intentions are.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 05:47 PM
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The ironic thing is that the Feminists who criticize TRP on their tumblrs are probably the source of TRP's publicity. I found TRP through a Feminist friend who was complaining about it. From what many other people have said, they did the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 05:46 PM
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Good point. The red pill wouldn't exist if men were happy. It also wouldn't be so popular - I mean, there are 55,000 subscribers and climbing.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 05:43 PM
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In the study I read, it said that 28 was a good marriage age for women and 30 for men. I think this is probably for a couple that started dating at 24/26 respectively, which makes sense. While I agree with my RP ideas, the one major thing I disagree with is the idea of women marrying super young. I've heard all the arguments from an evolutionary standpoint, but the reality is that life is different today and people are having less kids than they used to. If a woman plans on having 3 kids than ye…
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/14 03:35 AM
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LOL! I need to do this to my boyfriend. He would love that.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 11:04 PM
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I think the reason why marriages last longer for people getting married late is a lack of options, or a lack of competition. For example, let's say a woman near the wall gets married, at age 27. Even if she realizes that her husband is boring and she's not attracted to him after a few years, by the time she realizes this her SMV will be lowered. A divorced woman at 33 doesn't have much game. The woman knows this and will try to make things work with her husband, even if things are boring. Conver…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 11:00 PM
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After 2nd wave feminism, Feminism broke off into two different tracks. One was the "all sex is rape and porn is objectification" Feminism that most people are familiar with. Yet the second Feminism, "Sex Positive" Feminism became more prevalent in the 90's. Many called this "Raunch Feminism." Feminists held parties where only the most attractive women were allowed, and had events like poll dancing and what not. There have been several articles written by Sex Positive Feminists about how sleeping…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 10:25 PM
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While I agree with many of your points, it's been shown that people who get married later have more stable and longer marriages.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 10:12 PM
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I agree with this, Westerners will interfere with the lives of people in the 3rd world claiming good intentions like bringing Christianity or Democracy, but in reality they are just using an excuse to steal resources from these people. If Feminism was unleashed upon the 3rd world, it would be the same thing. To some extent America is already doing that: "The Middle East is so barbaric to women, we need to interfere to stop that!" Of course, there are many women who are treated like total crap in…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 10:06 PM
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On Easter my boyfriend took a bunch of Easter Eggs and hid them all over my apartment. He told me that this was Easter on Nightmare Mode. It took me about two months to find all the Easter Eggs, but it was fun finding random eggs in weird places over the last few weeks - like in my shoes or in a role of toilet paper. (These were plastic eggs by the way, so nothing was rotting) We also have a lot of tickle fights and we try to jump out and scare each other in various situations. (He usually scare…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 10:00 PM
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Some women can be good leaders. I've had many great female bosses. But as another commenter stated, when it comes to relationship and family, men are the better leaders, because they will prioritize everyone involved, while women will leave out the man and only prioritize themselves and the children. With most of the woman headed families I've seen, all the decisions about vacations, dining and purchases are things that benefit the wife and have little consideration for what the husband wants. W…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 09:47 PM
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I'm not saying that men are the only ones who like these things, men are just the majority in these genres. Sure, there are plenty of women who like these things too - I'm one of them. But I'm saying that men are the majority in these fields.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 09:42 PM
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Agreed, I would take a bullet for my 1 year old niece. But I'm not sure I would take a bullet for my boyfriend, probably because my instinct is that he is stronger than me and can take care of himself. If anything, I'd probably get in the way and get us both killed. I also agree that the hierarchy of protection naturally flows downwards. Men at the top, then women, then children and the elderly. This is why there are many more support networks for women than men, because those in power (men) hav…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 04:11 PM
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rather than the beauty of the human spirit being ripped from a tattered corpse and eaten by a demon. Ah, that sounds like Dark Souls.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 04:01 PM
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Ah, I know what you mean with the passive aggressiveness. My boyfriend used to be like this (and sometimes still is). I.e. he would expect me to make the decisions and then get mad at me for the decision I made. I guess it's because in the beginning of the relationship I was really over eager about helping him, so I helped him make all kinds of decisions that he really should have been making by himself. One example is he asked me if he should take medication for a certain problem he had, I said…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 02:59 PM
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I think you might be taking the male dominated relationship a little too far. What we're talking about is letting a guy lead with many of the important decisions. You're talking about really small, almost petty things. You expect him to choose where you're going to sit in a car trip? Do you also expect him to choose your sandwich toppings at a restaurant or what shoes you are going to wear that day? For little things like this, you need to choose your own seat. He probably wasn't as bothered by …
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 02:16 PM
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I can agree with this. The reason that society was polygamous for a majority of existence is because all the war and dangerous activities of life killed off large numbers of men. Therefore, there was a surplus of women available for a small male population - this naturally led to polygamy. I think many men have a desire to live a bold, adventurous and meaningful life while women want stability and safety. You can see this in video games, men get a chance to act out this fantasy. Most women go fo…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 02:09 PM
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I used to work at an Indian restaurant and admired the values of my Indian co-workers. They were very family oriented. They didn't understand why America had such a high divorce rate. They told me that marriage is just something you deal with and make work, you don't give up on it. They also cared deeply about their parents, grandparents and other family members in a way that I don't see in most Americans. If India could get past a lot of their government corruption, I could see them becoming a …
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 06:17 PM
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Many guys I know who have gotten a lot of pussy get tired of it and wish for a real relationship.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 06:06 PM
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Disorder is something out of the ordinary. Since females are more than half of the population, they can't be a disorder.
/r/TRPOffTopic06/06/14 05:42 PM
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I think "traditional values" is one of those words that can get really confused. There are a lot of conservative christian marriages where the women run all over their men.
/r/TRPOffTopic06/06/14 05:36 PM
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Sounds like your focus then is on finding a good captain then. Try to find someone who is secure in themselves. I.e. if every little thing you do makes him insanely jealous, he's probably got a case of insecure asshole. I guess I'm lucky that my dad was a huge abusive asshole, because it taught me what to avoid in men. I can say that I've never been in an abusive relationship. The red flags of abusive men are they are insanely jealous, quick to get angry at you for no reason, seem to have a hard…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/14 03:02 PM
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People on RP talk about the wall a lot, and I won't sugar coat the fact that it's real. But think about how terrible most women are these days (entitlement through the roof and the fact that most offer their boyfriends nothing). If you take care of your appearance, act feminine and cook and clean for your boyfriend - you'll be a way better catch than the large number of younger women who have let themselves go in terms of appearance, and do little for the relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/14 04:25 AM
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I always assumed young attractive 20 something year old girls were the ones who were picky about men. Yet I've noticed a lot of 40-50 some year old women have the same picky attitude and it's absurd. My 60 something year old, (God forgive me) fat, mentally kooky mother frequently complains about being alone. But simultaneously turns down every man who comes her way (so and so is too boring, too ugly, etc.) Even if the man is way above her league, she still acts like a 17 year old prom queen with…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/14 04:18 AM
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Making him food BJs Listening to his feelings and ideas Proof reading his stuff Buying his favorite foods when I go to the farmer's market. Wow...my list is pretty lame. I'm gonna take notes from you guys.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/14 03:57 AM
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The towel thing is awesome, never thought of that! Totally using it now.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/14 03:55 AM
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Am I the only one who has a problem with her sending her bf links that say "be like this" ? That's not really him being alpha, that's her making him follow a series of rules that he may or may not be comfortable with - which isn't a very alpha thing at all. I think you should support and encourage your man to be his best self, not the ideal that you want to "shape him into." Human beings aren't putty that we shape into our ideal spouse, they are complex individuals with their own quirks and stre…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/14 03:44 AM
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This is assuming that all men like taking control. I have a theory, that more women want to be controlled than the number of men who actually like to do the controlling. Something along the lines that 70% of women like to be submissive, but only 40% of men are really into domination (my random guess, not an actual stat). I'm also talking about control over life situations, not just sex. Part of this is because men are taught from a young age that commanding women is evil, but the other part is b…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/14 05:47 PM
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Maybe he's waiting for you to initiate because he is insecure about himself. Maybe he's depressed. Depression can completely take away a person's sexually appetite. We live in a culture where we're so used to seeing men as sexual creatures, that we don't see them as humans. The moment a guy doesn't have a sexual appetite, all of a sudden people are like "HE'S GAY!" But maybe you should ask him if he has issues with depression.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/14 01:58 PM
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Men are the backbone of society. When you break the men by turning them into oafish women, and turning the women into little men, society is much easier to rule over. Notice how feminism has not affected the men in the top 1%? The culture of politicians and corporate executives who rule over us is still chalk full of machismo and masculinity. Only 2 out of the Fortune 500 CEO's are female.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/14 11:28 PM
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As long as its good for u and ur family that's what matters. Creating a functional family is what is good for society, not necessarily having a higher and higher GDP with lots of diligent worker slaves.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/14 03:14 AM
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That's amazing that u cud support a family of 5 on that salary though. Major props to u guys.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/14 03:09 AM
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I also have student loans and my health insurance bill. That probably changes things as well.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/14 03:08 AM
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I enjoy having time to hang out with just my girlfriends. It's definitely a different kind of vibe when the dudes aren't around. We like to eat out at a nice restaurant or go for a walk in the park. Maybe you could go and take pictures of your husband skydiving without actually doing it. That way you could be there for moral support, but not actually have to participate.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/14 05:39 PM
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I don't know, both me and my boyfriend only make about 30,000 each a year. We also live in a very expensive area. I don't know how we could have a kid unless we kept the kid in a drawer and fed it ramen. I don't even think he could support me alone on his salary of 30,000 unless we ate nothing but ramen and sardines all day.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/14 05:24 PM
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It's not as much of a choice as people think. For some people, it's economically impossible.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/14 02:26 PM
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The Feminist movement actually has profoundly changed society between when the "Feminist Mystique" came out to now. So we can't underestimate the Feminist movement. Yet I also know that Feminism had many more legitimate grievances back in the day than Feminists do now - so maybe people will realize this and ignore them.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/14 02:21 PM
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While women's issues in non-western countries are much more relevant, I actually do have a problem with the idea of Western Feminists "helping" women in other countries by telling them how to lead their lives. It would just be another form of colonialism. As sick as Female Genital Mutilation is, many of the women in those cultures actually promote the practice. Why? I have no idea. But that's their culture and it's not our business to interfere as Western Folk have done for far too long.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/14 02:19 PM
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Even if he has to give her a big chunk of his money in a divorce settlement, it would be worth it to get away from that.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/14 02:12 PM
3

Best YouTube Comment: "Yea this woman needs to be dropped off at the lake...maybe even in the middle of it."
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/14 02:10 PM
3

OMG, I could not even finish this. This is really awful. I feel like I'm watching a 3 year old having a tantrum. I'm sure around other people she's completely different. People really underestimate the verbal abuse that some women can put their men through. I used to live below an Iranian couple and EVERY DAY without fail, I heard the woman yelling at her husband at the top of her lungs and chewing him out over this and that.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/14 02:08 PM
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While these are interesting points to consider, I think this article made a lot of assumptions. Men are attracted to blonde women because blonde hair signifies youth. This is kind of a silly theory to me. A majority of people in the world are not blonde, and from an evolutionary perspective, did not evolve to find blondes attractive. Yet now, men all over the world find blondes attractive. I think it's more because blonde hair is rare, therefore it becomes more attractive, same thing with blue e…
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/14 02:02 PM
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I like this thread better than TRP as well because it contains many Red Pill truths without the bitterness or anger. I don't blame the guys for being bitter or angry - due to what they've had to go through. Just saying that it's nice to have the theory without the anger. As far as where you meet a RP woman, pretty much anywhere else you'd meet a chick that isn't Da Club or some trashy bar. What you need to do is pay attention to the woman's actions. Does she ever offer to cook for you. Does she …
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/14 05:20 AM
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Umm...your man was thinking about doing COKE! I think you are right for being upset about that - as any sane person should be. Drugs can put a whole relationship in doubt.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/14 12:52 AM
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I think we're coming to a tipping point in history. I can almost feel it - can anyone else? Back in the 60's and 70's Feminism grew in power because it addressed legitimate grievances in society. Yet now many people are beginning to see through the facade of Feminism - aside from the colleges and Liberal activists, many people are beginning to realize that Feminism doesn't have any legitimate grievances to fight over in the Western World anymore. Movies and books with Red Pill ideas are beginnin…
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/14 12:15 AM
1

I think if Alimony lasted for a maximum of 7 years that would be good. Enough time to get a degree and then look for a job. Having a time limit also better motivates them to get their butts into gear.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/14 11:47 PM
1

I can't go to sleep when I'm angry. It's impossible for me. I've stayed up till 4 AM being angry.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/14 04:18 PM
1

Your chief issue. You equate having a strong masculine frame with "being an asshole". First and foremost, you must disassociate the two. I agree with this, choosing not to put someone on a pedestal doesn't make you an asshole - it means you are treating the person like an equal. In this way, TRP is actually much more egalitarian than the blue pill ideology. Our society is so knee deep in female entitlement, that we now equate not worshiping a woman to being mean to her. If a woman asks you to go…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 04:12 PM
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Was a bartender and used to hear black women complain about this at the bar all the time, "Them professional black dudes get gobbled up quick."
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 03:44 PM
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I think you're lucky that you figured this out on the second date. If she had waited until 6 months in the relationship to pull this shit - things would be much more complicated.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 03:15 PM
2

Best way to deal with a gaslighter - don't. They have no interest in hearing your side of the story. They just want to use your words against you in a linguistic jungle gym of their own making. Don't play the game, if they don't want to listen, cut off communication.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 03:13 PM
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Yeah...I don't blame her for losing her attraction to him, but hating him for his weakness and wanting to destroy him is just so psychopathic. What she needs to do is get a divorce or counseling. Not find some soap opera way to ruin his life. The sad thing is that she'll have plenty of guys replying to her and willing to get involved in this mess.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 03:03 PM
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My narcissistic asshole dad used to do this gaslighting shit to me all the time. He'd do something completely assholeish and then pretend he had no idea why you were so mad at him. Then if you were stupid enough to take the bait, and try to explain it to him, he would start trying to get you to remember every detail and just try to ebb away at your confidence about the series of events. I had record low confidence my entire childhood and felt like shit. It was only recently that I learned what g…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 02:57 PM
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Wow, I didn't think about that but it makes sense. I have a guy friend who says his ex was always trying to get him to fight random dudes. Running to white knights and making claims that he did this - or said that to her. It was only a way for her to get off on dominant men willing to fight over her pussy - unfortunately for her, my friend decided not to play that game. Homey don't play that! It's manly to step in and try to defend your girlfriend if some random asshole starts trying to grab her…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 02:54 PM
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Good thing you dodged that bullet though, sounds like she was still interested in ex-boyfriend and was using you as a free hotel service. Glad you stuck to your self respect.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 02:46 PM
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Why didn't you just tell her that you were actually leaving when you did, instead of making something up? Were you afraid she would make a scene? If that's the case, I guess I can kind of understand that.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 02:45 PM
1

I think most women get the temptation. Some decide to act on it, some don't, but for most women, the temptation is there. If things are lacking in her current relationship, there is a large chance that she will either cheat, or break things off first and then sleep with the new guy. Not all women handle things the same way, but most of them have similar temptations and little motivation to stay faithful to a guy they don't innately respect.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 02:39 PM
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Definitely. People keep talking about how the gays are ruining marriage, but they ignore the real problem - heterosexual women. Nobody wants to talk about this because it would be sexist! Oh Mer Gerds we can't be sexist! Yet all this PC crap is causing us to watch society slide down the tubes without raising a finger to stop this. I don't think AWALT, but there's enough women willing to game the system to do a sizable amount of damage. In China there is no Alimony, in the event of a divorce, the…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/14 02:31 PM
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As a woman, it makes me sad that some men now have to go with the AWALT frame of mind, but I totally understand. There are men who have married women that seemed so nice, only to be surprised when this women turns around, and imposes a brutal divorce that robs them of everything they own. Because of this, dating can be a huge risk - and for many of the men who have been divorce raped, they just don't want to take the risk again. As someone who one day hopes to get married (and has a bf who wants…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/14 04:31 AM
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As a woman, hitting on men is a lot easier than the other way around. In a few situations I've simply made eye contact with the guy I like, and then he comes over and talks to me. So maybe you could try making eye contact and gauge his reaction. Go over and say "Hi, I'm interested in meeting new and interesting people. " Something like that.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/14 04:22 AM
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I remember in college I had two Feminist Friends. They were both talking about how GUILTY they felt that they liked wearing dresses and shaving their legs. In any sane society having such desires should not inspire guilt! Of course if a guy wanted to do these things, they'd be like "You go dude! Yeah, break that gender binary!" But apparently when a girl wants to do these things she's just submitting to the Evil Patriarchy... No wonder I wasn't very good friends with these girls for long.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/14 11:05 PM
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I agree. It's hard to objectively study pre-written history, but the prevailing theory is that women and men had complementary roles in society - rather than a hierarchy. The book "Sex at Dawn" details this more - it's a very biased book in my opinion, but brings up some valid points. For a majority of human history, men used their speed and short bouts of aggression to hunt while women used their patience and attention to detail as foragers of small game, fruit and vegetables. Even the wiring o…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 07:53 PM
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"Magneto/mystique!" I love that! Yeah, I guess that makes sense - doing what seems natural. I have a better sense of direction than him and can tell him how to drive to certain places (which may seem atypical for our genders), but I used to have a job where I drove around the entire area...so it makes sense. He doesn't mind getting directions from his gf either, he finds it helpful and calls me for directions a lot. However, when it comes to where things should go in the house, he's the one in c…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 03:07 PM
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So yes, I believe in equality. In an ideal world rape, sexual assault and abuse wouldn't happen; for either sex. In an ideal world no one would have to worry about getting to drunk at a party an get taken advantage of. We don't live in that world. Thus, I also believe in personal responsibility. ME TOO! This is the frustrating thing that is missing from Feminism: "Personal Responsibility." There is this idea that women should be able to drink and fuck like the boys, with the same amount of stami…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 02:51 PM
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The problem with today's world order is the goal of making everything equal for everyone. This is not a reality in nature, or in any organism. Nature is a variety of peaks and valleys, equality is flattening it all and turning it into a flat plain (which would be boring). Part of what attracted me to TRP is the knowledge that men and women are different. This is a knowledge that I've had deep inside of me for my whole life, but was brainwashed (by the school systems and society) that men and wom…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 02:41 PM
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Eh, with some people you just can't change their minds. I feel like AWALT is a self fulfilling prophesy, many of the dudes I know who have particularly negative views on women end up with negative women themselves. I mean what is the point in getting out there and finding a good woman when you intrinsically believe that they are all bad? I know not all of TRP believes that women are bad, simply controlled by underlying tendencies. However, there are some guys on TRP who believe that women don't …
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 02:24 PM
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Good point. However, when I describe some of the things about my bf on TRP, people say "Oh he's a beta, you'll leave him for the first Alpha that comes along (or wish you did)." Or some stuff like that. Yet it seems TRP has more of a problem with some of my bf's Beta traits than I do. I know TRP espouses a certain kind of marriage/LTR (I made a pun, see), and I feel like my relationship doesn't really fall into that dynamic. I'm talking about the Captain/First Mate dynamic. With me and my bf, it…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 02:17 PM
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I never cheated, but had an ex cheat on me. Apparently he was telling his ex that he loved her on MySpace, while also telling me that he loved me. He would get random text messages, I would say "oh who's that?" and then he'd say "nobody!" Not only did he cheat, but he was really sloppy at hiding it. facepalm Then he wanted to move across the country to be with me when I moved away for college. I was like, "are you kidding me? "
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 12:24 AM
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Anchor baby!
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 12:20 AM
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I'm a purple pill woman, but I identify with about 75% of the stuff here. Some of it makes me feel bad about myself or my partner, but I understand that people aren't perfect. We both just try to be the best people we can. The typical media was ruined for me long before I even really understood what Feminism was, but now I really see the entitlement in full - it's just really uncomfortable. My way of dealing with TRP is not swallowing it completely. I recognize that we live in a society where wo…
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 10:28 PM
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I used to get mocked constantly for being really thin. I'm just moderately thin now, but I don't do anything special. I simply don't drink soda and try to avoid crap.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 10:24 PM
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Me and my boyfriend alternate. One weekend he buys things for me. One weekend I buy things for him. With all the dinners I cook him - I've probably bought more food for him if anything. But alternating is nice. It takes the focus off of "who owes who shit" so people can just be their romantic selves. Life is too short to worry about how someone owes you because you bought them that $1 dollar donut that one time!
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 09:12 PM
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You haven't really responded to my points in this counter argument. Answer me this: Why do the 90% of men holding the power allow women to get away with these things? Do the abusive actions of men in societies that prioritize males (Middle East and Africa) mean that men as a whole deserve less respect - or does this point to broader social issues?
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 09:04 PM
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The link isn't working. Is it a VICE documentary? If so, I've probably already seen it. The weird thing in the documentary I saw is that it seemed like the Hosts weren't even that great of company, they just get the girl plastered drunk and then pretend to be interested in her - some of the hosts are just downright mean to the girls. One of the hosts on the documentary I saw said to the girl, "tonight is the only night I've actually enjoyed being around you." And she STILL pays for his company, …
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 07:01 PM
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Japan may be the only country on Earth where a large number of young attractive women in their 20's are willing to pay an astronomical amount of money for male company. Check out "Host Clubs." I think MGTOW is definitely having an effect in Japan.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 05:36 PM
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I will offer some counter-arguments to your claim: Almost all the people making today's laws, creating today's media and enforcing the authority over society are male. 90% of the people in charge are male. 80% of the people creating television and media are male. A majority of police officers and court judges are male. So you are stating we have this system where women perpetuate inequality. But who ultimately makes the decisions about what is fair and what is not fair? It is the males at the to…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 03:17 PM
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I feel bad for women who repeatedly get into abusive relationships. Yet at the same time, I think if this is a pattern for this woman, she should still be held somewhat accountable for her actions and her taste in men. She should be encouraged to go to therapy so she can find out why she continues getting into these kinds of relationship. Instead, we hear the whole "it's NEVER the victim's fault....you evil victim blamer you!"
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 08:31 PM
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Pretty much every social interaction is a subtle manipulation. If a young woman uses her looks to get free drinks, she is in effect manipulating the men around her - but no one is claiming that this behavior should be banished - or should be illegal. If a man is using his nice sports car to pick up chicks, all of a sudden he is a shallow perv.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 08:28 PM
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This also extends to the recent movement of shaming men for not being attracted to fat women. Women aren't allowed to be shamed for simply not being interested in a guy. But if a man expresses that he isn't attracted to over weight women, all of a sudden he is a shallow, sexist pig. Only women are allowed to have standards, men should just be happy for whatever they can get and treat any woman in their life like a princess for simply having a vagina/sarcasm.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 08:26 PM
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There was some study that actually said that young white women in this generation were experiencing more illnesses, more stress, and dying earlier than women in the previous generation. This is because many women are now struggling to perform BOTH the duties of working AND being a mother. Whereas before, women were just mothers. Feminism has only benefited the elite women who can now become Humanities Professors and over paid magazine editors. Aside from this bourgeoisie group of women, most wom…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 08:23 PM
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In Sweden (The Saudi Arabia of Feminism) I've heard that men don't hit on women at all. They simply wait for the woman to ask them out. Maybe they believe that any kind of flirtation/seduction is some kind of rapey coercion, so they don't even try to initiate sex anymore. It sounds like this is what Feminists want for every country.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 08:16 PM
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Then I found a quote by LBJ where he says that "He'll get those damned niggers voting Democrat". You see, they still hate them. Very true. As much as Liberals claim to love diversity and have "so many black friends" the most Liberal states in the country are also the most white states. Vermont - a very Liberal state - is like 97% white. They claim to want humane treatment for Illegal Immigrants. Okay, why don't these liberals have more illegal immigrants moving to places like Vermont then? Most …
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 07:49 PM
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Hmm, that's a pretty good argument. That's the thing about Feminism that confuses me - it claims to support a woman's agency and empowerment, but then when women start making decisions that are against their own best interest - all of a sudden "the woman was manipulated, she didn't know what she was doing!" Yet what about all those times a guy chooses to date a woman who is totally psycho - a woman who cheats on him, beats him, steals his money, does drugs or uses him for sex? Plenty of these si…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 07:39 PM
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I lost my virginity to a hook up who was just a friend. I remember regretting my actions. I felt absolutely nothing, like I was getting an examination at the doctor's or something like that. It was only when I had sex with a guy I loved that the sex was actually enjoyable.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/14 07:00 PM
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I hate how loosely the word "privilege" gets thrown around these days. Once on facebook I said that fat acceptance wasn't healthy, because being overweight causes health problems. I was told that I only felt this way because of my "skinny privilege." Right, nevermind the fact that I'm trying really hard to go to the gym and keep a strict diet every day to fend off the 20 pounds I gained after taking a desk job. I think it's ignorant to tell people that they have some special privilege if you don…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/14 06:56 PM
1

I agree with this! These days adults treat their young as babies until they are in their mid twenties, and then somehow expect them to switch into adult mode. It baffles me how many people in their mid twenties don't know how to do a simple thing like their laundry, cooking a basic meal, (I've met many people who can't even microwave a cup of tea - lol), or basic car maintenance. Luckily my parents expected me to clean up after myself when I was younger. They treated me like a sort of "mini-adul…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/14 06:23 PM
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Reminds me of a friend I know who started out her relationship with this guy as an "open relationship." For some strange reason, she was surprised that a year into the relationship he didn't honor her wish to switch to monogamy. If you start out with an open relationship, don't expect to trick someone into monogamy somehow.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/14 06:17 PM
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It depends, a lot of times when I get cat called its a creepy situation. The guy is shouting cuss words at me, calling me b*&$%, or trying to follow me. I don't think of this kind of behavior to be flattering at all.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/14 06:09 PM
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Wow, I'm surprised how popular this has became. I'm a subscribed purple pill lady, but still check out this reddit for interesting tidbits and advice. Good job.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/14 05:10 PM
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My bf is much stronger than me and very alpha in bed, maybe that makes up for it.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 02:55 AM
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I mean, I understand that men aren't robots, but don't women want us to be? Whenever I get really sad, I just tell my gf that I have to pull an all-nighter at work, and then I go to a hotel and cry by myself. I'm sorry man, but if you can't open up to your gf, what's the point of even having one? That sounds really awful. I can't speak for all women, but personally I don't want to date a robot. If money and sex was all I cared for then I would just date a rich old guy on his death bed and buy a …
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 02:54 AM
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I agree with most of your post, except for the last part, how the hell can you still respect him after he dumps his emotions on you. Men should NEVER show weakness in front of their women, how are you not disgusted by that? Because he is a human being. Men aren't robots. In fact, I like shades of vulnerability. I don't want a man of steel who never lets me close, but I don't want a cry baby either. Something in between is good.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 05:28 AM
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I don't really think of my boyfriend's status by how much money he makes, I think about how much I value him as a person. I see a lot of male Betas who make tons of money for their wives, but are still treated like crap. Their wives treat them like a human ATM or a credit card. I also see women dating thugs who have no job and do lots of drugs all day, and yet these women treat these guys like a king. Maybe marriages don't work out when a man loses his job because he loses confidence in himself.…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 10:45 PM
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My boyfriend helps me out around the house from time to time. I wouldn't say he's doting, but I don't think making a sandwich makes him less of a man. Then again, maybe our relationship just isn't Red Pill.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 10:36 PM
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Apparently in super religious Saudi Arabia, a lot of girls are starting to have anal sex to get around the whole virginity until marriage thing.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 10:20 PM
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With religious girls you can find loopholes. And yes, I mean loop HOLES. If they don't wanna do vagina to cock, some are willing to do oral or anal sex, which can work out quite nicely for you.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 10:19 PM
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To be fair, more Feminism is starting to become sex positive these days. There's even feminists out there saying things like "being a stripper is empowering." There aren't as many anti-sex feminists these days as their used to be. Yet much of the dialogue is still about what a woman enjoys sexually, not enough of a focus on equality between male and female desire.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 10:16 PM
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Change it to "vaginanary"
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 10:14 PM
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Lastly, I am not saying that you can force someone to respect you. You can't. Great point! Anyone who directly asks for respect by saying "You don't respect me," is not going to get respect. You have to demand respect through your actions. This involves learning when to say "no." If you think letting her pick your clothes and reading your text messages is too controlling, you need to put your foot down and say "no!" I'm not completely red pill, I have to admit, but I do like it because it's the …
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 10:12 PM
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Reminds me of Creationism. Unhappy that science doesn't support your point of view? Create your own science! Goodbye objectivity!
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 02:12 PM
8

No one sees a Neck Beard Acceptance movement.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 08:52 PM
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I think this is what turns women off to most guys. Most guys are too easy. They will grovel on their knees to appease even the worst woman. Women also like a guy that they have to work for, that is attractive. That is alpha.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 10:03 PM
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I'm a woman and I definitely can acknowledge this truth. I know butt ugly women who have slept with more dudes than they can count on their fingers and toes. Yet the ugly men I know are lucky if they've had one sexual encounter. An average women can walk into a bar and get sex with at least one of the guys there if she's horny. Even a good looking man can walk into a bar and get turned down by a majority of the women present. Getting laid is much harder for men. This is a reality. This is why TR…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 09:58 PM
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It's not good to adopt a reactive philosophy, or to identity yourself by what you are not. I think "Femininity Movement" is better because it has a positive connotation, and speaks volumes about what we ARE, not what we are NOT.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/14 04:11 PM
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Definitely not. "Feminism" has too much baggage. I say leave out the word all-together. Maybe call it a "Femininity Movement" instead.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/14 04:10 PM
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This is the problem with attractive young women flooding industries that were once mostly male. In a previous era, there were some women who did work in these industries, but they had to prove themselves and work hard. In today's world though, bosses will choose attractive women to work under them, rather than a male - even if the male is more competent. I've heard of several cases where a boss promotes an attractive woman in the office to a position of power, even if she doesn't do anything. Th…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 03:13 PM
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PM?
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 09:39 PM
5

Worst how? Is it looks or personality? White women can be pretty bad too in terms of entitlement (I say this as a white woman myself).
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 09:24 PM
2

"Rape" is typically the result of our strong alcohol culture. Girl and guy get drinks, go back to his/her place and have sex. Even if they were both out of their minds drunk, the guy gets blamed for rape. Word to the wise, don't have sex with a drunk chick.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 02:05 PM
1

It's all good, we just got to find a way to balance the power.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 04:51 AM
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What happened to TRP idea of understanding women without hating them? I used to see things in here like "fuck all women," and that was dismissed as a MGTOW attitude. TRP is supposed to be about guys finding ways to improve themselves instead of sitting around and bitching about how much they hate women. Has it really degenerated so much so quickly? Not all women are sociopaths. The reality is that we live in a society that promotes female irresponsibility while making men responsible for all the…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 04:26 AM
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Very nice analysis of the bifurcation of the middle class (particularly white society). It used to be that most people in the middle class could enjoy the traditional joys of marriage, family and being to provide by getting a job. Unemployment and single mother hood were something that only the poor dealt with. Yet now growing numbers of the "middle class" are experiencing the same thing. It's interesting how the greatest advocates of Feminism are the upper class white folk, the people least eff…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 05:47 PM
4

From what I'm reading, I feel like this post actually goes against TRP logic. Much of TRP usually says that women are better off it they marry young (like late teens and early 20's). Yet this study is clearly stating that women experience better marriages if they get an education and marry (close to the wall). Isn't this what TRP is always speaking out against?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 05:44 PM
1

No, I'm laughing at the idea that there are actually Disney movies out there these days that support good morals for children.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 05:39 PM
2

Simple answer: Feminism happened.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/14 06:10 PM
0

Why Pixar's "Brave" movie should be called "Pride" and all the terrible values it teaches young women: don't follow tradition, don't do what is best for your tribe or family, do you girlfrand! http://metal-gaia.com/2013/08/19/why-pixars-brave-movie-should-be-called-pride/
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 06:08 PM
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Hahahaha, hahahaha ahahaa Oh man, you gotta be kidding, right?
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 06:03 PM
2

It was only when I worked with a Muslim woman that I actually got to talk to a woman who openly said good things about males as a whole.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 06:01 PM
3

It's crazy that parents are actually chastised these days for telling their kids NOT to sleep around. It's not even like these parents are telling their kids to wait until marriage, they're just telling their kids not to sleep with someone until they are in a committed long term relationship. It's like you get punished for being responsible these days. Sleeping around leads to STI's, rape, false rape accusations, unwanted pregnancy and dropping out of school, but hey, YOLO!
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 05:59 PM
3

I think the generation that grew up during the 1930's and 40's was one of the best generations in America. It's because of them that this country became strong in the 50's, 60's, and 70's. Yet the children who came next were a bunch of entitled shits who rejected their parents' wisdom with flower power and feminism. I think there are some good things that came out of the 1960's, but I think the baby boomer generation is also largely to blame for a lot of the problems in our world today. I rememb…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 05:56 PM
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I think this is definitely the heart of the matter for the narcissistic guys who beat their wives. They feel insecure and wimpy inside, so they beat up their wife to try and show her that he's a "big man." A real Alpha would not do this.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 05:51 PM
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Yeah, I think men in their 30's persue women in their young 20's for sex, and women only a few years younger for meaningful relationships. When I was 19 I had a friends with benefits thing going on with a guy in his 30's, but I had no idea how to relate to this guy, nor could he relate to me. We ended up breaking it off after a few weeks and we both decided to go for people within our age group. In my opinion, I think the wall is actually at 35. In terms of childbirth, women's egg count only mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/14 05:37 PM
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Male attorneys are also more aggressive and willing to fight IMO. It was funny when my Feminist Professor Step-Mother and Dad got their divorce. My Step Mother at first started bragging about how she specifically sought out a female lawyer, because a female lawyer would understand her situation better. The female lawyer ended up bailing on her when the situation got too sticky, she also never ended up giving my step-mom a refund. My step-mom ended up having to get a male lawyer, because he was m…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 05:30 PM
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That's true. I should not have used that word.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/14 05:41 PM
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A bit of a deeper analysis than you were able to achieve in the few hours (or whatever) you spent browsing. Men try to avoid post-wall women, whereas older women are not at all averse to older men. I'm including the full paragraph, and some other tidbits that I think demonstrate some of the differences a man must bear in mind if he takes these sorts of analyses seriously. I think the results you posted are actually in line with what I'm saying that I found. I'm not saying that people wanted to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/14 05:39 PM
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Well, if he takes care of himself that's a very reasonable assumption. I'm in my mid forties and am healthy and can get hard. What am I, a unicorn? No. Just a guy who takes care of himself. That's the thing though. There are inevitable laws of age, but people who take care of themselves can buy a bit more time. This applies to both men and women. However, I'm trying to make the point that TRP acts like the laws of age magically don't apply to men while women are inevitably bound to these laws. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/14 04:34 PM
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Personally, I'm not arguing that women have biological limitations. I'm saying that both men and women do. Men might experience their limitations later, but they are there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/14 01:53 PM
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This is assuming that the man can still get hard and is healthy at a later age. Also, having kids late limits how much quality time he can spend with the kids when they are adults. Women know this. They don't want their child's father to be dead before the kid gets married or graduates from college. Women would prefer a healthy father in his 30's, than a man in his 50's if they have the choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/14 01:51 PM
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Many of the super old guys marrying young women have already gotten past the point in their lives where they made families and had companionship. When a guy over 50 marries a girl in her 20's, I think he's just looking for a live in playmate for his 2nd/3rd marriage, not necessarily a life partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/14 01:48 PM
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The Wall applies mostly to hot girls who rely on looks to take down high quality guys in their twenties and can't attract those guys in their thirties. They can still get laid and married, just not with the guys they're used to fucking in their twenties. I think this is probably the best summary of the wall. If a woman has other qualities going for her, such as intelligence and personality, she may be able to still get a decent mate in her 30's. But if sex appeal is the only trick up her sleeve,…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/14 01:46 PM
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TRP does address age, but I think it over estimates how quickly age ravages women, while playing down the same effects that will happen to men just a few years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/14 01:44 PM
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Yeah, I wouldn't advise a guy waiting until his 40's to start a family unless he's either got an extreme amount of charisma, wealth or good looks. However, I think because of what society prioritizes, men in their 30's do have a better chance of creating a lasting marriage and family than guys in their 20's. Our society still values men for their ability to provide and make money, while women are valued more for their beauty. However, things aren't as one sided as that today. We do live in a soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/14 01:42 PM
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How is it exploitative, creepy, and doesn't show he cares about having a family if he chooses to wait till he's ready? I'm not saying that you are red pill...because your tag says that you are purple pill, but part of this idea displays the double standards of TRP view. There is a view that women need to hurry up and have children as young as possible, instead of waiting for the right time. But that men have the luxury of waiting until they're ready. I'm not saying that this was your argument, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/14 06:08 AM
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Yeah, I think TRP exaggerates the benefits men receive in the field while also over-hyping a woman's losses. Sure, society might prioritize men more for their money and work ethic than their looks, but men will still have their own sort of "wall" to reckon with as well. They don't have a carte blanch to do whatever they want, for as long as they want. I've seen TRP argument that a man with really good game can date a super attractive young woman even if he's not that good looking himself. I can …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/14 05:55 AM
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Purple Pill woman here. Personally I think there are differences between the sexes mentally. Men and women have different bodies and different hormones. Wouldn't this affect their brains at some degree? I think in the past these differences have been oversimplified and over-hyped. Even pop-psychology articles today misinterpret the original scientific findings and white wash them with things that grab headlines like, "Brain Wiring Proves That Men Read Maps Better!" Or some garbage like that. I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/14 05:36 AM
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There's also the story of Einstein's first wife. He met her in college and apparently she helped him come up with a lot of theories, but because of the times she lived in, she didn't get any of the credit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/14 05:30 AM
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Yeah, that makes sense. I think it also depends on how many kids you intend to have. If you only want one or two, starting in your early 30's is not a big deal. But if you want something larger than that, you should probably start in your 20's. I think that's why traditional relationships used to emphasize girls getting married so early, because a larger number of children were expected than today. (I myself would ideally just like to have 1 kid)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/14 05:15 AM
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I never did the whole cock carousel thing anyways. I'm more like a serial monogamist. I have a really hard time getting out of long term relationships. My first long term relationship was when I was between 19-23. Both me and the guy worked a lot, so it just kind of fell apart. Now I'm in my second LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/14 03:27 PM
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I can say that if the genders were reversed the advice people are giving you would be much different. You're exactly right. If I was a woman struggling to get a job while my boyfriend supported me, everyone would be like "awww how cute!" But when it's vice versa, the man is automatically a worthless sponge. Also if I were you I'd keep in mind that there are no guarantees, if you did break up with him, who's to say you'll find someone ? let alone find someone better? You're right about that. I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/14 03:26 PM
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Many good points here. As an early 20 something year old, I would definitely not date a man in his 30's. However, now that I'm a bit more mature and in my late 20's, I would be willing to date a man as old as 37.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/14 11:14 PM
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I think this is actually some of the best advice I've gotten so far, so thank you. Many people here are telling me to dump him, rinse and wash, or whatever. But the truth is that no one is perfect, and at 20-something, he's not going to have his life in order.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/14 11:11 PM
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I don't mind waiting a few years for marriage and kids to happen. I just hope I don't lose the opportunity altogether by staying with someone who is irresponsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/14 07:16 PM
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Oh wow, how long did it last? What age were you two when it fell apart?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/14 07:03 PM
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You're absolutely right, you're kind of speaking my thoughts here. I'm incredibly conflicted because I really do love my SO, but I don't respect him unfortunately. He does have a few virtues that are respectable, such as fidelity, empathy, highly creative, funny, interesting, romantic, passionate, an open mind, he's a good conversationalist, he's punctual and he's good at reading emotions. But on the downside, he's incredibly dependent, has a tendency to blame people and events for his problems …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/14 07:01 PM
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Haha no, I'm not a single mom. I do look very young for my age though. At a recent party I went to, many people asked me how I liked my high school classes. They were shocked to find out that I had a college degree and lived on my own. I think part of it is good genetics and the other part is just exercise and healthy eating. I also don't smoke or drink too much. But yeah, these are good arguments. If I did snag a man in my 30's, I guess it would be because of my personality. But it would be har…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/14 06:54 PM
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You're right, I don't respect him. He's been filling out applications and going to interviews, he just keeps failing at everything he tries. I've been trying my hardest to be supportive, understanding and optimistic, but it's so damn hard I feel like I'm on the verge of falling apart at the seams. Part of me wonders if maybe I could just wait a bit longer if he'll eventually get a job and become more responsible. He actually has become more responsible over time, it's just been a slow motion pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/14 06:15 PM
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This is a TRP truth I can agree with. There are many women who assume that they're hot stuff because guys who are a 10 are giving them attention. However, what they don't realize is that (many) guys are more willing to compromise their standards in the looks department in order to get sex. That whole, "doesn't matter, got laid" meme is very true. This is why some of the ugliest hookers and strippers can still make a living. (Have you seen some of the women who get busted on cops? Or some of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/14 04:46 PM
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That's true. However, there are a lot of other people who chime in who tell the guy to try and "maintain frame" or stick up for himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/14 04:37 PM
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That's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/14 04:37 PM
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Also, 90% of the people on /r/relationships suggest "break up" as the solution and nothing else. That's why I like some parts of The Red Pill, even though I don't like a lot of it. At least TRP is trying to think of solutions, rather than always looking for an escape plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/14 06:04 AM
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I agree with a lot of what your saying. People also call the police for all sorts of non-police related shit these days. I've heard stories of parents calling police to deal with out of control children or the fact that someone was yelling at them. Also as a former teacher, I completely agree with you on the bullying thing. Teachers can't do as much as people think in regards to bullying. You can try to talk to the bully about their actions, give them a punishment and move them to a different pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/14 06:02 AM
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Also, I like the Bi-Polar analogy. My boyfriend is Bi-Polar and he is frequently more emotional than me and exhibits a lot of behavior that could be attributed to a female: not saying what he wants and kind of waiting for me to guess what he wants...I hate that game! Saying he wants one thing, but changing his mind at the last minute and being really inconvenient. Alternating between being super grouchy, mopey and then happy in one day. But the difference is that if he were female he'd probably …
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/14 03:23 PM
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women can do the same thing. They just need to be held accountable enough to do it. I completely agree, part of the reason that women get away with so much crap these days is because they aren't held accountable for their actions like men are. You see it everywhere, even in the movies. If a man cheats, he's the scum of the Earth and promptly dumped, but if a woman cheats, she's just "working through some emotional issues." I'm becoming appalled by how in more and more movies, the woman cheating …
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/14 03:20 PM
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I liked some of this book and then didn't like other parts. I don't think a woman should totally opt out of doing things like giving directions and helping with the bills. I think there is a difference between being a helpful partner and an overbearing nag. Some women are better with finances than their SO's. Some people like to use the whole Captain and First Mate analogy for male and female relationships. Yet what this book is saying, is that the First Mate should be like "Yeah Captain, you go…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/14 09:19 PM
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My boyfriend and I are in our mid-twenties. We couldn't have kids right now even if we wanted to because of economic difficulties. Realistically, if I do have kids, I don't see it happening until my 30's because I don't think we'll have the money or resources until then. But I agree with the fact that 40 is way too late. My parents both had my youngest sister in their 40's, and now they are both way too old to actually responsibly take care of the girl. She basically does whatever she wants. The…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/14 06:59 PM
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I think TRP makes heavy generalizations and exaggerations of human nature in order to make a point. If a woman gets turned off by a complete Beta Chump, this must mean that she's only capable of loving the most twisted, psychopathic serial killer. Life is more nuanced than that, and there tends to be more of a spectrum of attraction than a Binary Law. That's why I think the assignment of "Alpha" and "Beta" titles is misleading. Most people are a mixture of various Alpha and Beta traits. But I th…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/14 06:49 PM
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Here are some other things to remember *males are more likely to join the military after high school than their female counterparts. *males are more likely to partake in a risk oriented or technical field that doesn't require the conventional college education. *There are more males in prison than females. *There are more females in the population than males. *Schools are more like information factories these days, rather than facilities designed to inspire creativity and competition - thus bein…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/14 05:46 AM
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Brilliant post! I think more people need to be open to the idea that homosexuality is BOTH inherited and acquired through life experience. Some people are born gay. Others become gay through a traumatic life experience, maybe they were raped and now find sex with the opposite gender too traumatic to partake in. I think we need to understand gender as something with a spiritual nature. Most women have a female nature and men a male nature, but sometimes a male can inherit the female nature and vi…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 04:55 PM
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As a woman I kind of like it when a strong guy can reveal his tender side after getting close to him. But I guess it's a balance. Too much weakness, whining, moping and complaining is a turn off. But tenderness tempered with strength can be powerful.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 04:42 PM
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I'm a woman who purposely dresses dumpy in order to not get attention when I go out. I wear sweat pants, a baggy shirt, no make up and pony tail. I do this because I'm pretty introverted and generally don't like talking to people when I'm out at a restaurant or bookstore. It doesn't always work, but I feel like I've learned how to dress to get the kind of reaction I want out of people.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 04:40 PM
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Yeah, I think that's true. Most societies enforced marriage because reproduction of the population was crucial. Gays could have their fun outside of the marriage - but they still had a duty to produce children. I think that duty is no longer as necessary, which is why I don't think homosexual marriage is a bad thing.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 03:35 PM
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I think the first two sentences you mentioned can actually work within the framework of TRP: being chased and conquered, having a woman work towards you as the prize. However, the weak and being taken care of by a woman part may be more difficult. The only possible thing I can think of is being so alpha, so desirable, that the woman will work harder towards pleasing you (which means her taking care of you). But I don't think she would see it as taking care of a man who is weak - I think she woul…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 03:09 PM
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Really? I did not realize that. I guess what I've seen is the beating up of gays by Neo-Nazis in Greece. But maybe they are an extreme case.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 03:07 PM
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I think most of this was pretty good. Although I don't think all women dress for physical attention - they're just the ones that get noticed. Plenty of women wear dumpy clothes too like sweat pants and a t-shirt.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 03:04 PM
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That's very interesting, do you feel like TRP is helping you to attain that goal? Or giving you some ideas?
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 10:11 PM
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I agree with this quote on gender. I don't agree with the rest of Markus Willinger's book with regards to his point of views on race and immigration. I think the ideal society is one that supports the gender norm (manly men and womanly women) while also supplying a small modicum of breathing room for those who don't fit into the norm. This is what most healthy societies did prior to Judeo-Christian religions: Ancient Egypt, India, Native Americans, The Norse - and so on. Men had their roles and …
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 05:09 PM
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That part probably wasn't a "game," it was probably how he felt. Maybe he was just a person with internal TRP values who wasn't actually consciously playing a game. He had confidence and self worth, wasn't afraid to call this woman out on her bullshit, and got himself a girlfriend who was actually more considerate. That's why this woman is still attracted to him too. Self worth is sexy. I don't think delaying sex until you're ready is Beta at all, I think it's an example of guy determining what …
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 05:22 PM
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Feminism is the "Creationism" of the people on the left.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 04:34 PM
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Stats on BDSM preferences. http://antifeministatheist.wordpress.com/2012/01/29/stats-on-bdsm-kinks-still-dont-believe-in-female-submission/ There is no evidence that the genders have an equal preference for submissive/dominant sexual behavior. From the poll mentioned above, it is very clear that most women are sexually submissive in their preference and JUST 3% of women are Dommes. I'm willing to bet that some of that 3% is also Gay Women. In online BDSM communities, it is a frequent complaint t…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 04:15 PM
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Yes, but they are ruling over a small state, not a vast world empire. Large empires cannot be ruled by Democracy without falling apart within. There is no historical precedent for it.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 06:56 PM
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People also don't realize that Democracy has not existed for the majority of civilized history. Any civilization that mattered was formed and ruled by an authoritarian leader. Democracy failed in Greece. The Republic lead to endless civil war and blood shed in Rome. People actually welcomed Augustus Caesar as a God when he assumed dictatorial control over Rome, and ushered in a 100 year period of peace called the Pax Romana. Whenever people imagine a non-democracy, they immediately think of Hitl…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 06:14 PM
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Well said.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 06:43 PM
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True. We shouldn't only focus on one gender, that's unhealthy. That's why Feminism is unhealthy. That's why I think it is good that there is a RPW community as well as dating advice for women. However, I was just answering the question that was asking why there wasn't as much of this material available online for women, as there is for men.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/13 01:45 AM
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My feelings exactly.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/13 07:42 PM
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I can't take this article that seriously since the author doesn't explain why the divorce happened or what her husband was like. Was she contributing to the marriage in any way? It usually takes two to Tango. Becoming a "Stay at Home" mom means that your job is to take care of your children and please your husband. Perhaps she wasn't taking all the right steps to please her husband and keep him interested. This is like if she got a job at a News Paper and then stopped trying to impress her co-wo…
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/13 07:38 PM
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LOL! It's also telling how the wife refused to comment after day 7. It's probably because she was pissed as hell by day 12. As interesting an experiment as this is, it's dangerous to gamble with people's marriages and lives.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/13 07:29 PM
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So you wanna treat women as equals? You can do that and not be Beta. Don't do anything for a woman that you wouldn't do for one of your guyfriends. Don't give her more than what she gives in return. Don't act desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/13 04:20 AM
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Yup, laws of supply and demand. Don't give stuff away too easily if you want value in return.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 10:21 PM
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Oh, I just realized you were talking about the woman in the OP. I feel dumb. Yeah, it does seem kinda like a troll post. But ya never know.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 08:15 PM
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The only poly situation I've seen where this works is if there is a couple that is dating another couple - so I guess it's a quad.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 07:13 PM
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you're a lot dirtier than most men are. Hehehe, you're right about that. I'm kinkier than any guy I've ever dated. I'm glad that I've finally found a guy who can handle me.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/13 05:44 PM
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I think the reason why there isn't much "Game" tips aimed at women is because we don't really need game as much as the men do. Any woman with an average appearance and personality can attract and obtain a boyfriend as long as she isn't ridiculously picky. Whereas there are guys out there with a 8-10 body, a good job and a smart brain who can't land dates. That's because they don't know how to play the game. The women who can't get dates are either super ugly, over 40, super fat, have some kind o…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/13 05:40 PM
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At least she's honest. If more women were this honest, guys would be more encouraged to take TRP and understand reality. A lot of Beta guys/Nice guys who get dumped don't even know what they did wrong because the girl just does a lot of rationalization/hamster shit: "It's not you, it was me! I love you, I'm just not IN love with you! You're a wonderful guy who will make some woman very happy one day, I just feel like we're better as friends." All this feel good shit doesn't help the guy out. If …
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 05:13 PM
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Polyamory is the perfect Feminist ideal for relationships. Women still get to fuck alphas, but have their Beta boys around for emotional support. I really doubt everything works out equally. Sounds like this guy is becoming an emotional punching bag for his wife's sexual frustration. Most of the poly relationships I've seen are multiple women with one dude. It's basically a bullshit setup that lets women have their cake and eat it. If everyone was treated fairly in the poly group it wouldn't be …
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 04:27 PM
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Haha thanks! I wish I was a fountain of Thai Iced Coffee...mmm now that would delicious.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 04:04 PM
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Yeah, in the sexzone you get laid, but you miss out on a lot of deep emotional benefits. The guy in the friendzone gets to connect to women on an emotional level. Sometimes your FWBs can be good friends too, but it rarely works out that way.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 02:31 PM
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I think there is somewhat of a parallel between being in the friendzone and the sexzone. Guys get friendzoned because they give away all the deep and meaningful parts of an intimate, emotional bond without pairing that bond with sexual intimacy. Women get sexzoned because they give sex away before they took the time to form an intimate emotional bond - that builds the sex up into something meaningful and profound.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 06:50 AM
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You may also experience something I call getting "sex zoned." It's kinda like the "friendzone" for women. Let me explain. Getting "sex-zoned" is when a man only wants to hang out with you for sex. But he doesn't invite you to do anything meaningful with him, doesn't develop a deep relationship with you and maybe even hides you from women he's actually interested in developing a long term relationship with. I was sex-zoned in my early college days. I gave sex away too easily to a few guys I met. …
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 06:43 AM
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Use recursion. It'll be an endless rinse cycle of eternal laundry!
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 06:36 AM
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Pretty much everyone who knows me jokes that I'm a dude. I look feminine and act like it sometimes. But I'm also like a dude in the sense that I like dark beer, I drive stick, rock out to heavy metal, hide my emotions, try to be stoic, don't like asking for directions, don't like to take too long shopping - I get what I want and get out, I don't like gossip or drama, I like shooting guns, playing RPGs, pretty much all my hobbies are male, I relate to guys better than women, I defer to logic inst…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/13 06:33 AM
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Eh it's a work in progress. At the beginning of my relationship I didn't let my boyfriend do anything for me. I felt like it was being weak to let someone else take over. Yet eventually my boyfriend started feeling resentful about himself and lost confidence. I've never really had to rely on a man before, so I don't what that's like. That's why I like reading TRP, so I can find my femininity. So I've stopped doing many things for my boyfriend. I'm now letting him do more things for me. He's actu…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/13 06:26 AM
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You're not going to like hearing this, but I gotta tell you, being a slut is not good for you in the long term. You're 20 years old. You're very young and in your physical prime. Sure, it must be fun having different kinds of sex with all kinds of folk and maybe even getting all this attention. Yet there are dangers to having sex with so any partners. STI's - even if you use condoms, herpes can be caught from contact with the thighs. While girls in their early 20's enjoy sleeping around, most of…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 06:19 AM
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We're trying to erase the rules of reality, because it makes 5% of the population uncomfortable or some stupid shit like that. I can respect people who want to bend the norms of their own personal lives, but for the most part, things work out more smoothly when men are raised to be men, and women raised to be women.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 06:07 AM
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Wow...I mean, most women throw bitch fits at one point or another when they realize they are losing control. But when she starts throwing shit at you, that's when you GTFO. Glad you did. She sounds mental.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 06:05 AM
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It's always hot for a woman when the relationship has "something to lose." Knowing that you could lose the guy just makes him that much harder, and makes the woman work that much harder. I think one thing that makes my boyfriend a good alpha/beta(whatever the inbetween is) is that he will acknowledge when he has done something wrong and he will apologize. He will also notice when I'm upset and ask me about my feelings. But he never engages in begging, or profuse apologies, blowing up my phone or…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 06:03 AM
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Sorry, no laundry for you.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 05:56 AM
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Exactly, if one of your male buddies asked you to open a door for them you'd just be like...WTF dude...it's a foot away!?
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 05:55 AM
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Also, I forgot to add, don't get bummed out if a woman gets mad at you for refusing to pay for all her drinks/ dinner expenses. If she's going to treat you like a meal ticket, she's probably looking more for a sucker than a lover. Just talking to people casually with no real expectations of where things will go is a good idea. Here you can just practice feeling at ease, not being nervous, having some self respect, and perhaps even saying a few crazy or funny things to stand out. Glad you liked m…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 05:46 AM
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Step 1: Ditch all the female friends who treat you like their emotional tampon/errand boy. If you have a female friend who brings something to the table in terms of friendship or reliability, keep her. But having too many female friends is a liability because they take away your time - time that you could be using to pursue meaningful relationships. This isn't misogynistic, this is you respecting yourself enough to give yourself the time and energy to be in a relationship. Step 2: Work on yourse…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 05:30 AM
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I definitely agree with you about some parents raising their daughters this way. It's not healthy. I know parents who don't expect their daughter to do anything - and definitely not any hard labor which might give their lil princess a booboo! This is the kind of behavior that breeds entitled women. I didn't have a dad around or brothers, so if there was any hard labor to be done my mom and I would get it done. I've carried logs, cleaned shit and maggots out of animal cages, helped carry furnitur…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/13 05:16 AM
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I think society has always had a more rigorous set of expectations for men. The Chinese character for "male" is even a figure hard at work in a field. However, even though men were expected to go through more pain, hardwork and challenges - there was a parallel set of expectations for women. Even a bitchy wife who hated her husband would still stay married to him (through social expectations), take care of the children to some degree, and do some form of chores and cooking - even if she was goin…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/13 10:25 PM
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I'm also definitely much more mature now at 25 than I was at 18. I don't take stupid risks, I have more patience, more realistic expectations and I drive the speed limit.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/13 07:57 PM
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Yeah, it sounds like you enabled bad behavior from the start, which was difficult to correct later into the relationship. But I guess you live and learn. I think both parties need to be responsible for a relationship to work. Because as responsible as a man tries to be, he's eventually going to fall on his face one point or another. At that point, he needs a mature and responsible wife who can step into the breach and help him back onto his feet. Men should be more mature and more responsible, b…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/13 07:53 PM
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This person makes good points, but they still don't explain this illusive number 18. 18 is an arbitrary number here. There is nothing biologically significant about it. Sure, it's the age when men and women are LEGALLY considered adults - but is that how the author picked this magic number? Maturity has two components: biology and wisdom. From a biological standpoint, women's brains stop developing at 22 and men's brains stop developing at 30. I'm using the following article as my source: http:/…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/13 07:49 PM
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Yes, the pedestal is such an ingrained part of our social consciousness that we don't even see it anymore. Humans have great potential in normalizing oppressive conditions - which is why slavery has existed in every culture in every time. We are so used to the pedestal, that when someone even brings it up - the idea of talking about it is taboo. This is why when Americans learn about the fact that alimony is not a thing in China, the first thing people do is whine and moan about the "poor women"…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 07:22 PM
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I agree with others here who say that she needs therapy - and perhaps even medication. I also agree with those who say that she can't change, until she wants to change. Most attractive women can obtain a man without even trying. The fact that she faces so much anxiety over this shows that she has some deep psychological issues that can't be solved by TRP. Suggest therapy and be supportive. But don't be surprised if she doesn't reciprocate.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/13 07:14 PM
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That's a great point! There's many resources that just assume that all Alphas are badboys. But there are many Alphas out there who are family men, stable and good leaders in the community. I guess these men just get taken really quick by women who are young, attractive and have good personalities. "Bad Boys" become the left overs because high quality Alphas don't stay on the market for very long.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 06:39 PM
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Here are some of my own theories: They are attractive (The women I know who continuously get in and out of relationships with bad boys - even if the women are past their prime - are women who have managed to keep their looks as they age. The uglier women are more likely to just settle down with a Beta) They have been sexually/physically abused (so bad boy behavior is a norm to them, rather than an aberration) They lack common sense.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 06:31 PM
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The problem is that you don't see girls as equals. You are putting them on a pedestal. This is the fallacy of most guys I know who are Feminists and TBP mentality. They claim that they think women are equals,that they are human and that they respect women. But then through their words and actions, they show that they actually value women more than men - and more than themselves. These are the guys who will pay for all a woman's meals and drinks. They'll drive her anywhere she wants at anytime of…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 06:25 PM
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Why are we taking marriage advice from a woman who has been divorced 3 times?
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 06:01 PM
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This is why I like TRP. It's not a bunch of endless whining and ranting like some places on the internet. It offers solutions and accepts women as they are, rather than hating them for it. I almost never see anything seriously misogynistic on this subreddit, except for something said by the occasional troll. The only thing I don't like is I feel that TRP can make too many generalizations sometimes. These are ideas that apply to a large number of women, but not necessarily all women. I think ther…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 10:40 PM
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/beatingwomen and /spacedicks easily win the title for the worst.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 10:35 PM
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Which has pretty much been the agenda of every fanatical religion and totalitarian rule since the beginning of time.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 10:10 PM
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Yup. This is why in Asia and Eastern Europe, you have societies where the majority of women are employed and aspire to get an education, and yet they can still maintain a feminine personality at home.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 09:13 PM
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That's the thing that annoys me about Feminism. It's a movement that argues that it is in favor of women pursuing any kind of identity they please. But the moment that identity turns submissive, all a sudden the Feminists get angry. I mean...the book was written by a woman. It was bought by other women. This is clearly a path that some women are choosing for themselves. Are the Feminists denying women's rights to choose?
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 09:10 PM
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I don't wanna provide a screen capture in case they find my reddit ID. But basically, in the comments section, one of my friends stated that the lack of a male birth control pill is a form of misandry. The Feminist friend responded to this comment and said that there was no misandry, because men control the abortion laws. I told her that this didn't relate to the pill, and that the "men" she was talking about were a small apex of powerful men. I clarified that the average man has less options in…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 05:01 AM
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Definitely. One of my co-workers had a crush on one of the supervisors at my job. Conveniently for her, she just HAPPENED to get preggers with his kid and now they're more or less stuck together.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 04:54 AM
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Do you think a male birth control pill would shift the sexual dynamic of society?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 06:21 PM
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Yeah, when I posted a link to an article about male birth control on my facebook, there was a bit of Feminist rage. I agree with you that this would make life better for the rich alphas. However, I think this situation would give Betas some leverage. When women can no longer get knocked up with some alpha's kid, they will be more open to conception with a lower status male. Also, I don't agree with the 80%/20% status often cited on the red pill. I've never seen any statistical proof for this num…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 06:14 PM
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This is added to the fact that in a majority of families where the parents are under 30, women are the main breadwinners. This is the case because a lot of the families under 30 are made up of single moms. Perhaps many of these young women who earn more are mothers, so they negotiated a larger salary than their child free, young male counterparts. Either way, I think this shows that Feminism is becoming more irrelevant.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 04:08 PM
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You say reddit wants to shut this subreddit down? I'm not sure if that's true or not. There are definitely much more misogynistic subreddits like /beatingwomen that remains up....now that's something that should be taken down. But yeah, I don't really find TRP that sexist. Every now and then I do see the occasional sexist remark, but I definitely wouldn't say that this reddit overall is hateful towards women. Also, I notice whenever one person posts something about how they're mad at all women, …
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 04:03 PM
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I take issue with your points about rape. You're right, most women are raped by people they know. Yet the occurrence of men using date rape drugs in a social situation to have sex with women is another cause of rape. I'm not saying women shouldn't have the right to go out to parties and bars. I'm saying that Feminism hasn't really done much to discuss how women can protect themselves from getting used in the club culture. Most of the dialogue from Feminists in this sphere is telling men not to r…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/13 03:23 PM
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I was talking about the lack of sex that nice guys get.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 02:56 PM
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Sure, it's definitely possible and maybe it's common. But I loathe the use of the word "all" because the use of absolutes makes any ideology inaccurate. What if the woman in question was a Lesbian or a Nun?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 02:52 PM
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You're probably right, I probably should pay less attention to the internet in general. However, my concern is that these opinions shape policy in real life. When I went to college, the ideology of the Femisphere was actual law in my day to day college existence. So, it did have a real life effect on me to an extent. That's why I think it is important for TRP's to go to Feminist websites and combat these ideologies, so that they don't grow and pervert the rest of society by proxy.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 06:40 AM
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It's weird that the Feminist movement can embrace and understand transexuals, while completely denying the natural differences of cis gendered heterosexual people. Saying men and women are naturally different because of hormones = bad. But saying it's okay for a trans person to be different because of their natural hormones is good. COGNITIVE DISSONANCE FOR THE WIN!!!! I think what this really shows is that Feminists are just against natural heterosexual identities - they're not a group open to …
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 06:36 AM
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Yeah, it's not as bad as soymilk. Stay the fuck away from soymilk if you are a dude. It's offered to women going through menopause by most natural health books in order to raise their estrogen levels.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 06:34 AM
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True that. Most of the posts on the Femisphere blame nice guys for their lack of sex. It's never the woman's fault! The stuff on the Femisphere blames nice guys for not initiating a sexual situation. But then if one of these nice guys DOES initiate a sexual situation and the girl finds it creepy, then the Femisphere turns around and calls him a creepy rapist. Basically, their solution = if you are not naturally attractive to women, shut up and accept your slavery. Don't you dare try to do anythi…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 06:24 AM
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I think you rephrased what I said incorrectly. This is what I actually said: I used to have a job where I was the only white person, and all of my co-workers were black. Also I think to some extent, this is the fallout from feminism. Look up "blacks and feminism", it's like they went through what whites are currently going through several decades ago. I totally agree. Many young white "families" are now looking like the typical black, single mother set up. If things keep going this rate, most of…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 06:12 AM
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Please don't be angry at women. Women in this society have been lied to just as much as the men, they're not part of some conspiracy against you. Many women in this society are told from a young age that they (want) a nice guy who will be sweet to them and treat them well. They also have the idea shoved down their throats that they should never be submissive to any man, and should always strive to be better than men, or at least be their equals. I've had teachers yell at me or subject me to humi…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 05:30 AM
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I'm not a dude, but if I were a white guy, I'd probably date bi-racial women rather than white women. I think bi-racial women are still really pretty, but put you through less bullshit than white women because they have a lower socio-economic status. I used to have a job where I was the only white person, and all of my co-workers were black. Damn, black dudes treat their girlfriends like total shit. Maybe it's just that these girls were only dating the alphas, but I had never heard about any wom…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 05:07 AM
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This is true. There's not necessarily a shortage of men. There is a short of men who women and their families consider "marriage material." Being marriage material means having a good job and a good amount of money - which can be difficult for the typical man in Saudi Arabia. Many women and their families would rather have wives share a man who is "marriage material," then have a woman in a monogamous relationship that is beneath her. I've heard that there is ironically a lot of gay sex between …
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 04:59 AM
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Also notice on the Blue Pill post they didn't really give him any advice on how to improve himself - not even any Feminist oriented advice. They simply told him to suck it up and deal with it. Also, all of his responses on the thread were down-voted. Despite what these BP's are telling this guy, it's not normal to be in your mid twenties and have a bunch of female friends who see you as unfuckable. It might be normal for a teenager still learning the ropes, but definitely not at his age. Most of…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 04:50 AM
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"All women, for instance, will have sex on the first date" I agree with a lot of this stuff, but I feel like this was definitely a huge generalization. There are certainly a lot of women who would have sex on the first date, even though they don't admit it. But saying that ALL women would is definitely a false assumption.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 04:40 AM
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Yeah, that's a good point.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/13 08:37 PM
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Most of it's going well. We've been together for almost 3 years now. We get along fairly well and he's got a good balance of Alpha and Beta elements to his personality. The only problem is he is kind of struggling to figure out his career path. He majored in something in college that didn't yield a lot of job possibilities in the area. He manages to get temporary jobs that last for a little bit, but has a hard time really finding a "career" so I've been paying for a majority of stuff for most of…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/13 08:35 PM
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My ex step-mom was a Feminist Professor. She talked about Feminism all day long. Her actions were completely different. She did all the cooking and cleaning, and had had history of marrying abusive, dominating men.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/13 06:30 PM
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Young mormon mommies have all the fun. I want an astronaut birthday party!
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/13 06:28 PM
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With regards to my situation, do you think I should stay with my guy or try to find someone more responsible since I'm edging closer to the wall?
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/13 03:25 PM
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I wanna be the sensei! That would be so cool. But you are right, people do like listening to advice that is more natural.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/13 03:24 PM
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You're definitely right. It's because the younger generation has actually had to live with the effects of Feminism, while the older generation merely created it.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/13 03:21 PM
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I think you're right about men having a harder time with TRP. Some of the most adamant feminists I know are men.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/13 03:19 PM
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Good point. Most of my friends are not ready to swallow, but will take little bits and pieces. I think a lot of guys I know want to believe that women are these innocent and perfect princesses that can't possibly do anything wrong. And when their little princess starts acting up, the guy blames it on himself and tries to be eeeven nicer, which drives her further away.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/13 03:11 PM
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Yeah, I know a lot of guys who end up being some girl's "plan b." That's a great way to put it. I have a hard time talking them out of being "plan b" though. Usually what happens is that the girls treat them like shit, stop having sex with them, but have the occasional sex with that random thug guy they know. But when Mr. Plan B gets fed up and decides to leave, the girl starts crying and claiming that "I can chaaaange!!!"
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/13 03:09 PM
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I'm glad 25 is considered young. From some of the stuff I read, 19 is young and at 25 you're a used up old hag lol! I'm 25 right now and my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years. Sometimes I wonder if I should get a better provider before I hit the wall so to speak. Most of our relationship is going well, it's just my bf has a hard time being responsible because his parents did everything for him growing up. So I have an inner debate with myself over whether I should stick with him…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/13 03:01 PM
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That's the funny thing, if you describe a lot of these ideologies without using mental trigger worlds like "feminism, pua, mra, red pill, game" people actually agree a good deal of the time. It's once you use a trigger word that the PC programming kicks in and people shoot you down. Thanks for the idea of introducing these ideas slowly. That's a good idea. I should also use more personal examples instead of just saying, "this is the way it works for everyone else."
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/13 02:58 PM
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Article Rephrased: I deserve to squander a decade of my youth away clubbing, getting drunk and having random fucks while you sit around for ten years getting jack shit. Then, once I've hit the wall, gained weight, have wrinkles, am worn out and broken down from my decade of fucking and decadence - you can be the one there to clean up the mess! Oh you lucky guy you! facepalm
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/13 03:22 PM
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"She's over 19 years old." Is this a joke? How many women here got married when they were younger than 19? I agree with most of this stuff, but that one was just stupid.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/13 08:27 PM
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When is divorce okay? That's a subjective question. I think the more important question is, "What should people do before they get married?" In our culture, there is little preparation for marriage aside from a big expensive wedding and lots of false hope. It should be the norm for people to sign prenups and get some kind of premarital counseling before they get married. People should date around a bit, as our grandparents did, before they chose THE ONE. Don't make a hasty decision. Live with th…
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/13 08:22 PM
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The vast majority of divorces are initiated by women. This seems sort of odd to me, since women's value decreases as they age and men's value increases. What women don't realize is that their sexual market value is not the same as their dating market value. There are lots of guys around who would be willing to fuck a woman in her 40's if there were no strings attached, but few of those men would actually be willing to get in a committed relationship with her unless she was above average in looks…
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/13 08:14 PM
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Working together from home? That sounds ideal! I work from home myself, but working with by BF would be amazing. I think all the cuddling would get in the way of our productivity though.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/13 08:04 PM
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I suck at dancing and massages. I'm about as good at massages as a prickly cactus and I'm probably the whitest person who ever tried to dance. LOL.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/13 08:02 PM
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Cooking, blow jobs, asking him about his day...ah shit you guys got me beat. Both of us share the chores, I pay for most of the stuff we do together and help him with any writing he may have to do, since I'm a pretty good writer. I think Dave Chappelle commented on this very thing. He asked why are there so many magazine articles...written by other women...with "100 ways to please your man." He said that you only need to do four things to please your man. Suck his dick, play with his balls, make…
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/13 08:00 PM
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We should find a way for this to fit into PUA theory somehow, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/13 07:50 PM
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To be perfectly honest, I think that's what I'm doing right now.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/13 07:48 PM
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I think it depends on the context of how you are using the word, not the word itself. I understand what you did there with that math equation. For some people equal means "the same," for others it means "equal in worth," "equal in value," "equal rights. " I'd say nothing in life is equal, because nature is a hierarchy and a struggle for power. However, I think the idea of emphasizing the word "complementary" is to suggest that men and women are interlocking pieces that fit together, rather than …
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/13 05:54 AM
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Nah, you should give yourself credit. You're definitely eloquent. But yeah, I have learned some self defense stuff. I own a firearm, am a card carrying member of a gun range and practice using it from time to time. I think home defense is important for both genders. It's funny, for how often you see Feminists talk about rape, they almost never mention learning self defense or encouraging women to get guns so that they can put a few holes into their rapist. It's always to complain about being a v…
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/13 05:43 AM
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:-D
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/13 12:48 AM
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Some call it sexist. I call it sexy. I love it! I too cannot be attracted to a man unless he is stronger and slightly more intelligent than me. I can't handle someone who is too smart though, because then I'll feel like an idiot all the time. I tried dating someone who was going to MIT once, but it failed because I actually felt like the guy was waaay too smart for me. In my current relationship I make more money than my boyfriend, but he's very alpha in a lot of other ways. He's strong, competi…
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/13 12:23 AM
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The Pagans I practice with right now are druids. They are definitely less drama and more chill than a lot of groups. I feel like the representation of men and women is also more balanced in the druid community. There's a slight preference for The Goddess and female power, but most of the worship is focused on one's own experience with nature, so nothing is really shoved in your face. I'd say druidry is definitely very much a do it yourself kinda path, but the people I've met so far are nice and …
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/13 12:13 AM
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I just friended you btw!
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/13 11:04 PM
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Thanks! I guess Wicca is most notorious for having The God and Goddess aspect, but it's pretty obvious that the Wiccan community honors The Goddess more than The God, they even refer to The God as a Consort...which I think is a little insulting. Not all Wiccans are like that of course, I'm just referring to most of the Wiccan literature and the Wiccan community at large. Here's an interesting article about the ignored male in modern day paganism: http://metal-gaia.com/2012/09/13/does-the-male-de…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/13 11:04 PM
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Not to hate on Christianity or anything, just to provide an alternate perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/13 10:44 PM
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Reading these replies makes me realize that we all need to write a book, from a non-christian...probably secular perspective, on how to be a good wife.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/13 10:44 PM
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What book is it, if you don't mind me asking?
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/13 10:44 PM
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I also worship the God and the Goddess. I worship them as father sky and mother earth. The father nourishes the fertile field with rain, sunshine and healthy air. Mother Earth in return births life from these primordial ingredients. For me, Mother Earth is our chthonic nature, while Father Sky represents humanity's struggle to better itself and reach new horizons. Both are necessary to hold existence in balance, just as we need a balance of female and male energy to keep society in check. Too mu…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/13 10:42 PM
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That's very beautiful Katyara! It's also nice to see another Pagan here on RPW, I was honestly not expecting that, but am happy that I was wrong. How do you relate to the Pagan Community at large? Do you practice with any folks in your local area?
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/13 10:35 PM
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Yeah the two spirits thing is very fascinating, I've heard about that before. Thanks for clarifying that for me and pointing it out. It's interesting to look at cultures that had women warriors. Shield Maidens among Vikings are an obvious example. Yet many Feminists point at the existence of Shield Maidens and try to pretend that every Norse Female was wielding a sword and fighting in battles. The historical truth is that a majority of women were at home working the farm and taking care of child…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/13 10:27 PM
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I agree with the idea that the bible is a series of parables, rather than literal truths. I think you begin to run into trouble when you start demanding that everything in the bible has to be a literal truth. Parents tell their children metaphors about life, when they are too young to understand life's complexity. I think many religious books are the same way, they are the metaphors we used to understand life at a more primitive stage in our existence. Now we have science to explain some of the …
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/13 07:59 PM
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I think divorce is a good thing for someone who wants to a way out of an abusive relationship. However, I think if people returned to traditional gender roles, it would probably be a lot less common and people would be happier overall in their marriages.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/13 06:14 PM
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That pretty much matches what I've read as well. Having a homosexual relationship or sex buddy wasn't a bad thing in day to day life, but the institution of hetero marriage was important for continuing the existence of the Roman state via babies.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/13 06:11 PM
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How do you get around the evolution issue? That would be hard for me to deal with as well.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/13 05:12 PM
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Beautiful answer! Even though I'm not a Christian myself, I have a lot of respect for the love and non-judgemental way that your community has chosen to handle this issue. There isn't any hatred towards homosexuals generally displayed by the Catholic church, it's more of a hatred towards the gay sex act rather than the person. But yes, you are right about the birth control thing. They expect you to use the "rhythm method." My grandmother did that and ended up having five kids before she gave up …
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/13 05:11 PM
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Do you have a source for that? I will concede that there was no such thing as Gay Marriage. Men and women were both expected to fulfill their roles. Yet there was a bit more leeway for what men did outside of their marriages, in terms of having sex with slaves, prostitutes or other people they may have known. While expectations for female sexuality were more rigid, we don't really know as much about what happened regularly with women behind closed doors or in secretive all female religious ritua…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/13 04:43 PM
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I feel ya sister! I'd say like 90% of these blogs are for conservative christian women. I learn some good stuff from them, but wish the red pill for women was available if different cultural contexts.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/13 04:35 PM
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The other thing is that if you try to suppress someone's nature too strongly, it manifests itself in a very ugly way. For example, trans-sexual people and homosexuals make up a huge percentage of suicides. Conversion therapy also doesn't work. I don't think there is anything that supports the idea that Gay men interfere with intramale relationships. I think hetero women interfere with that more than Gay Men do.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/13 04:30 PM
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A RPW meetup would be awesome! The nice thing about Catholics is that they support the theory of evolution. The thing I don't like about Catholicism however, is that it is more of a religion about the church than about God. 90% of the time my priest gave sermons about the importance of coming to church and I was like..."okay, I'm here at church, now what?" Yeah, I had the same sensation of feeling like I was a fraud when I went to church, because I didn't really believe in a lot of the stuff the…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/13 04:11 PM
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What about Ancient Rome? They were one of the most long lasting and powerful civilizations in history and they were pretty open about homosexuality. India was also tolerant towards gender queers at the height of their power. In their current phase right now, they are actually much more homophobic than they used to be.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/13 04:00 PM
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While I think the acceptance of homosexuality can change our previous conceptions of gender, I don't think it is impossible to have a traditional/balanced society where gays can find a place for themselves. However, I guess this is a value that precedes Christianity. In many ancient societies, cis gendered hetero people still had to adhere to the conventions of their gender, but there was a separate role for gender queer folk. Among Native American tribes, there were special men who dressed and …
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/13 03:30 PM
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My guess is that she's either fugly or socially awkward as fuck. It's really easy for a woman to get a boyfriend if she's not picky, even women who aren't that great looking.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/13 08:33 PM
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I'm actually a woman, I guess the "lady" in ladylumen didn't give it away. But yeah, all good points.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/13 05:17 AM
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Men who are extreme Alphas or extreme Betas are not good at maintaining LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/13 07:08 PM
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Well Actually, let me clarify that. More alpha is good for one night stands. A mix of a balanced Beta/Alpha approach is better for LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/13 07:08 PM
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Sorry, my response was kind of a ramble. Yes. That's what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/13 07:07 PM
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I think television gives the impression that people have a high sexual partner average, because people on sitcoms are always in and out of different relationships and sleeping with various folks. I think each character on Seinfeld has slept with an average of 80-100 people, and George has slept with the most! For the average person, I think any number below 10 is good, because all things are good in moderation. Sleeping too much, eating too much, drinking too much are all bad things. In addition…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/13 06:47 PM
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I think on RP there is a difference between what men act like to get laid, and what they act like in a LTR. Most RPers I've seen advocate a mixed approach with relationships. A man should still be alpha enough to lead and take charge, but Beta enough to have emotional sensitivity for the situation and respect for his partner. I think most men who are extreme alphas have the confidence and charisma to get laid a lot and end up in a long string of relationships, but they have a hard time maintaini…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/13 06:31 PM
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I guess the man still has to end up taking care of a kid who isn't his.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/13 06:08 PM
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When you mean "Alpha," there are two things we could be talking about here: a dominant woman or an ideal woman. In terms of dominant women, they obviously do exist in various avenues of life. From what I understand, TRP belief is that a majority of women desire to end up in a relationship with a man who is somehow more powerful than they are, and that this fact doesn't change with women who are dominant and powerful. Many of these dominant and powerful women are looking for a man who is either e…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/13 05:25 PM
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What if she is a widow?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/13 04:48 PM
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I think one thing that needs to be established by these "pill" ideologies is the difference between being "nice" and being "too nice." We only think of behavior in terms of being nice versus being a jerk. We need to actually talk about the difference between a reasonable amount of niceness, and then the unbalanced approach of being "too nice." Nice is buying your girlfriend a present on her birthday and holidays. Too nice is buying her things all the god damned time. Nice is giving her a ride on…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/13 03:59 PM
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You're assuming that all Blue Pillers are female. There are plenty of male white knights taking the blue pill.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 03:36 PM
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Yeah, what we need to realize is that the change in gender dynamics has made life harder for women instead of easier. I read a report the other day that said working class women are now dying much younger than they used to. This is because working class women are now playing the role of mom and dad, are single moms, are working 2/3 jobs to put food on the table and are hella stressed out. The feminist response to this is often, "you go gurl!" When people try to talk about how stressful or danger…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/13 04:01 PM
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I think it's definitely real to an extent. Women would rather fight one another over an alpha male, than have a beta all to themselves. Or they keep beta around to do their dirty work while sleeping with an alpha on the side. I think human nature in general is hierarchical, that's just who we are and we need to accept it. Much of Feminism and the intellectuals in general are hung up on this ideal of egalitarianism. Yet no society in the history of the world has been completely egalitarian. Even …
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/13 03:39 PM
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I don't know why this comment was downvoted, but I gave you an upvote.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/13 03:25 PM
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I think there are hot feminists out there. I've met a few. It's just that they are highly neurotic individuals.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/13 03:24 PM
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Captain Malcom Reynolds from Firefly
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/13 03:02 PM
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Dexter Morgan
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/13 03:02 PM
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I like this approach better. Some ppl suggest to just stop doing things and that he'll magically start being more pro-active. I think your suggestion is more realistic.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/13 02:59 PM
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I'm 25, but am no where close to being able to have a child in my current life situation. I probably won't end up having a kid until I'm in my 30's...or maybe never at all. I don't really care that much either way though. I don't think having kids is as great as people make it out to be. My sister has a kid, and I see that it's a huge responsibility. All your free time is gone. There are also way too many people on this planet, so I don't feel like we have a God Given responsibility to procreate…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/13 10:05 PM
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No worries. Thanks for the clarification! I hope your friend figures things out.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/13 10:01 PM
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That's probably what I should do. Keep doing the critical things like bills, but step aside for the little things so he can take some of the power.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/13 08:07 PM
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I don't think I'd end the relationship over this. My SO is still a wonderful guy. I also don't feel like I need a super Alpha to make me happy. I'm fine with a guy who's a little of both. I just think if I stop taking charge all the time, he may find the courage to step up to the plate more often.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/13 08:06 PM
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Um, this pretty much sounds like the exact thing that happens when guys go to a strip club. It's mostly a lot of unsightly, overweight, middle aged, balding men paying money to watch barbie dolls jiggle their lady parts and dance on their laps.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/13 07:58 PM
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I've been swallowing the red pill bit by bit. I used to believe in a lot of the Feminist doctrine that the public schooling system imprinted upon me. Yet once I was college aged, I started to examine human behavior and realized that something wasn't right with my perception of the world. Anyways, I finally arrived at the red pill and discovered the truth.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/13 07:17 PM
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I think this shows that plastic surgery can't do much to improve an already ugly face. It's helpful for women who are mostly pretty, but have one weird quirk like a big nose... but yeah... it can't fix ugly. I think exercise, healthy food, getting enough sleep and avoiding too much smoking and alcohol is better than any plastic surgery operation.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/13 06:18 PM
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This article is so ridiculous that it reads like a parody from The Onion. I don't think this girl could sound more self-absorbed if she tried. She just names a bunch of the things he did for her, and then complains that he's not willing to stick around and be her compliment machine, when he's not getting anything in return. I think this article provides a good lesson to guys though on what not to do. College is when I gave up on trying to have straight male friends. When I indicated I wasn't int…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/13 04:18 PM
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Wow, sounds like your wife is being unnecessarily bitchy, (my apologies if this is not the case). But yeah, child care definitely puts a huge strain on any marriage and frequently kills your sex life. It sounds like your wife is giving you a lot of shit tests though and using the kid to do it. No matter how much you do, it'll never be enough. This reminds me of the dynamic between my boyfriends parents. His dad works 50 hours a week, and when dad gets home, mom expects him to do the dishes, vacu…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/13 03:28 PM
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I remember someone also argued that a UBI would prevent people from working crappy jobs like McDonalds and what not. Yet this is a good thing, because it would encourage places like McDonalds to treat their employees better and offer a salary larger than the UBI.
/r/MensRights18/11/13 02:36 PM
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I agree with both of these. It's also been demonstrated that a UBI would actually be cheaper than paying welfare and foodstamps. Some might complain that this would prevent people from working. Yet the problem is that there aren't enough jobs around to need so many people working anyways.
/r/MensRights18/11/13 02:34 PM
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I guess the question is, can the economy survive long enough to get to that period? While the automation of cars and basic labor jobs seems inevitable with technological trends, I think that kind of world is still 5 - 15 years away. The economy may fall apart before we get there. My solution would be to create an economy where more people benefit from economic growth. Wages have not gone up to match GDP growth in 40 years. The ideal would be to find a way for as many people as possible to enjoy …
/r/MensRights18/11/13 02:20 PM
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http://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/news/20050928/married-with-kids-is-libido-lower-for-women According to Web MD, women with children under the age of 5 are the most likely to have low sex drives. This makes sense from a hormonal and evolutionary point of view. I'm not saying that OP shouldn't improve his game, but I'm pointing out that it is worth it to consider outside biological factors in addition to game and TRP ideas and all that.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/13 05:43 AM
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Without the backing and support of most men, the current powers that be will fall apart. Despite what people think, an entire society cannot run that only benefits 1% of the population. Right now we are in a period of history where the people in power are trying to perpetuate the illusion of prosperity. The fed keeps printing funny money to keep the lights on and pumping this into the stock market. The government keeps telling us that there is a "recovery" it is just slow and anemic. This is not…
/r/MensRights18/11/13 05:27 AM
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She might also be less interested in sex because you guys have a two year old. Typically when women have very young children their sex drive goes into the gutter. Part of it is just that so much energy goes into the kid that there is none left over for sex. The other, from an evolutionary point of view, is that it is bad for women to procreate when they already have very young children to protect. I would say definitely keep working on yourself. Relationship dynamics are hard to change, but they…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/13 04:30 AM
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Wow, that's a good point. I didn't think of it this way. It's a shame that we're not allowed to talk about more of this stuff openly without people freaking out about it.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/13 04:04 PM
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I agree with a few TRP ideas, but this is one of those ideas I don't completely agree with. I had a super slutty friend in high school, and she would pretty much sleep with anyone and everyone. Hot guys, ugly guys, dorky low social status guys, etc. Personally, I think being promiscuous is bad for both sexes. So I'm not saying that slutting around is a good thing. But I still think it would result in low status guys having more sexual options. I agree there is a negative trade off though. Monoga…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/13 03:41 PM
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However, maybe one good thing about women being more slutty is that men will get more sex. No?
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 07:14 PM
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I think this makes sense. Atheists marry later in life when they are ready and also don't have kids unless they are both ready and willing. While religious people tend to feel more pressure to marry young and have many children, not necessarily because they want to, but because that is the desire that their community has for them. Many people who marry too young are more likely to get divorced than people who marry in their early 30's. I think Heartiste also pointed out that people who get marri…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 02:59 PM
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Wow, these are all very good points I never even thought of, but so true. One thing that's always been a problem with the Feminist movement is the failure to recruit women of color - along with most women in the lower classes. The Feminists pretend to be so on board with all this progressive stuff, telling white dudes to check their privilege and so on. But they really don't do much to help with racial issues in America. If anything, Feminists have probably made life worse for lower class black …
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 02:39 PM
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Do you think there is a traditional alternative people should embrace, since organized religion is losing its power? What's interesting is that in China, Confucianism helped bring people together and establish China as a civilization, even though it was just a philosophy and not a religion. It even enforced a lot of traditional ideals that helped China become a productive power in world history. I don't agree with all of Confucianism, but there is some good stuff there.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 09:22 PM
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Yeah, the Turkish people I've talked to in America are utterly shocked by how few people associate with their fathers in this country. In Turkey, the mom and dad are like a central part of life...as I guess most traditional cultures have it.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 09:00 PM
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I guess that's true. My problem is that I can't get into the ideas of Christianity without feeling like I'm lying to myself. I'm still a spiritual person, and I think a traditional religion would help lots of people. I just wish Christianity was based more around nature than it is. Of course that's my picky, elitist western bias shining through.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 08:56 PM
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I guess the South is more traditional and religious, which might have something to do with it. However, the divorce rate in the south is much higher from what I hear . Not sure how true that is.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 08:16 PM
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Oh yeah, I've read about this kind of thing before. It's very interesting. Some people believe this was more common in "primitive" (and I'm not using that word pejoratively) societies. Men would help raise their sister's kids, rather than the woman they had sex with. What this meant is that sex and sexual attraction was one thing, and family and parenting were another. Today many women are conflicted, because they want to have sex with the dangerous, mysterious alpha types, but they want to rais…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 07:58 PM
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I think this is a good point. Feminism is most present in wealthy countries simply because we can afford it. I think, however, sometimes women can be cold or brush men off in a rude way because of negative past experiences. I remember I used to be the nice girl who would talk to guys or give them my number, even if I was already in a relationship. Yet this resulted in actual creepy things happening to me. Drunk guys calling me at 2 in the morning for a booty call or talking to a drunk guy who en…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 07:37 PM
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Here's what I do. I go to an area that is quiet, where I can be calm. I play some calm music that I've listened to before, so I know that there isn't going to be anything crazy or disruptive in the background. I sit in a comfortable position and close my eyes. I flex and unflex every muscle starting from my toes, up my legs, to my thighs, my stomach, my neck, my arms and then my head. Then my body feels completely relaxed. Next I focus on my breathing. All breathing I do with the nose. I breathe…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 07:23 PM
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So would you say that gender is irrelevant completely?
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 07:14 PM
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Yeah, same here. I tried dating guys who society told me I'm supposed to date and it didn't really work out. My fault, yes, I know. Now I date a guy who is probably a mix between an Alpha and Beta and things are going pretty well. He's still sensitive, nice and vulnerable at times, but he also knows when to stick up for himself and assert his opinion.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 05:46 PM
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I only mentioned it because it might change my point of view. I understand being a male who has experience dating women would be a different point of view. I've never dated any women, so my POV will obviously be different. On a forum that recognizes the gender differences between men and women, I feel that it is okay to point out that my gender might cause me to have a biased perspective.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 05:43 PM
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What is also annoying is the sheer number of Feminist women who go around claiming that they are "bi-sexual," even if they've never had a long term relationship with another woman. The full extent of their bi-sexuality is having the occasional kiss or one night stand with a woman and...that's about it. This kind of behavior is very frustrating for Lesbians who are trying to get into legitimate relationships. Feminists like to say that they are Bi so they can be more "progressive" and seem quirky…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 05:40 PM
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I actually know some pretty hot feminists, so I think the whole stereotype that they are ugly is not necessarily true. Even most of the FEMEN chicks are pretty hot. I think hot feminists just end up in relationship train wrecks and less attractive feminists are the ones who hate men for not giving them attention.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 05:15 PM
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Yeah, this is just a theory, nothing factual.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 05:13 PM
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You're right. My step mom told me all kinds of crazy lies about my dad. My dad's not a nice guy, I know for a fact that he is physically abusive and a jerk. Yet she also told me he was into child pornography and was ogling preteen girls - which was an out and out lie. My dad got married to this woman when I was in my 20's, so I've known my dad for 20 years before this lady got to him. He often did leave his porn out in plain site. But it was never young children, maybe a 17 year old girl at the …
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 05:11 PM
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I think you're right. I also had a similar experience with one of my female friends who I grew up with that I'll call "Kat". She used to be a super girly girl and definitely seemed like she was into guys. Over time she became obsessed with feminist doctrine and ideas. None of the guys she dated ever seemed good enough for her anymore, and I think her behavior made it impossible for a natural male/female relationship to happen. If her boyfriend ever asked her to do a favor she'd just yell at him …
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 05:07 PM
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One argument I will make here is that people are living longer, therefore people are doing things later in life. When people had a shorter lifespan, having children in your late teens/early 20's made more sense. Yet now that life can be stretched out longer, people are also stretching out the phases of their life longer. I agree that there is a certain biological reality to child-bearing. However, most women these days have one or two children, not five. Therefore, popping out your one or two ki…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 04:59 PM
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What's really sad is that most of them won't be, or won't realize it. They'll marry an average girl, she'll shit all over them, they'll live pathetic, henpecked, disrespected lives... Very true. I've seen this primarily with married couples over 40. I think the couple got married at a time where Feminism was just starting to grow, but women were still economically dependent on men. Therefore, many women would stay married to a guy they didn't really like for the support, but still shit all over …
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 04:50 PM
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Aren't love and Dopamine connected? Let's say you fall in love with a beautiful young woman who is nice to you, and that makes you feel pretty awesome. Does this mean that the excitement she gives you isn't really love, it's just neural action in the brain? To some level, everything is just a neurological reaction. Love is a matrix, a complex web tied together by many things and hard to simplify. Maybe instead of saying "she doesn't love you," you should say, "don't assume anything will last for…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 04:12 PM
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Yeah, I think a lot of Feminists also talk frequently about rape, abuse and misogyny because they keep getting into relationships with men who do these things. I'm not trying to blame the victim here. I know there are several women who have been in horrible situations through no blame of their own. But rather than blaming all men, it is better to have a balanced approach. I.e. avoiding dudes with serious red flags on their faces.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 04:00 PM
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I don't mind the late reply. Thank you for your response. I suppose as a woman, my view on these matters is going to be fundamentally biased from a male view. I have not experienced what the male has in the dating pool. The closest I can get to that experience is simply talking to males about it - which I suppose isn't 100% sufficient. My worry is that the PUA corner of the internet has become a hotbed of pop psychology and anecdotal wisdom. I think there is truth to what these guys have to say.…
/r/MensRights18/09/12 04:34 AM
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It's funny that you advocate Islam as the solution to Hypergamy, when I cannot think of a more hypergamous ideology and society than those that follow radical Islam. Polygamy is advocated by the Koran you know. A man may marry up to four wives, as long as he can provide for each one of them. It is true that many modern Muslims around the world don't practice Polygamy anymore...(not officially anyways,) but in some of the more radical Islamic states like Saudi Arabia - Polygamy is still in full e…
/r/MensRights13/09/12 01:44 PM
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Where are you getting these numbers? Cite your source.
/r/MensRights12/09/12 12:57 PM
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The problem is that you're assuming the current dating situation in our society is natural. It is not. This is not the result of natural Hypergamy. In the United States, the leverage is unnaturally placed in women's favor by Liberal Government programs and Liberal Academia. (I have observed this as a woman myself). On one hand men mostly abide by the traditional Western ideals of chivalry (Lady's first and what not). They pay for the meals, give women the children in case of divorce, the house a…
/r/MensRights11/09/12 03:15 PM
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Also Mauna is right, I'm not saying that women can't be good at STEM. There are certainly brilliant scientific/mathematical female minds out there. But there are not as many of these women as there are males. The numbers of men in these fields far outpaces women - even when tons of scholarships and a reformed school system are thrown at these women. As a society, it is okay to state the things that women are psychologically/anatomically good at. I've read several articles in psychology and scien…
/r/MensRights06/07/12 05:05 PM
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I'm the author of this article. I'll go ahead and change the language to make this point more clear as I can see it confused people.
/r/MensRights06/07/12 04:44 PM
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Yeah, I agree with what Exaliftin said. If one parent is extremely dysfunctional to the appoint of damaging the child's health - then that parent should have less custody. Yet it seems these days that the default assumption is that mom gets full time custody while dad gets every other weekend. This is starting to change. More fathers are getting custody now than they did in previous decades, yet the fathers with custody are still the minority. My belief is that 50/50 custody should be the defaul…
/r/MensRights11/06/12 09:25 PM
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My contribution to this thread is that I also believe there are natural aptitudes based on biological development within each gender. It's not black and white though. It's a gray area. Therefore, it is kind of dangerous to say: All ____ do this, and all _____ do that. Generalizations are for those who have small minds. Yet by the same token, Demonspawn makes a good point that gender divisions are noticible to those who observe animals in nature. Part of my Gender Naturist ideology began to devel…
/r/MensRights11/06/12 07:54 PM
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I actually said that the past had artificial gender roles that weren't natural either. I'm not trying to enforce leave it to beaver social roles on people. I'm advocating getting rid of laws that entitle one gender over the other so that people can find their own natural way to interact. People can't interact naturally because daddy government is stepping in to provide the roles that men once did.
/r/MensRights11/06/12 02:07 PM
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But they should try for it more. If two people live in the same town I don't see why it isn't possible.
/r/MensRights11/06/12 02:05 PM
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I am a woman and some women like me are Libertarians.
/r/MensRights11/06/12 02:05 PM
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